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DOAweb:
Sweetie, don't flatter urself, what do u mean by delighted? In the circumstances, I think head is the least she should give, handjob/frech kiss would not cut it. 

Hmm!
It could be worse, she may decided to go away without offering anything and the guy will be left to make do with a soapy.

smooooooth:
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i think his intention was clear enuf, taking her to a hotel and getting a room when they aint married or taking a weekend off from the noise at home.

and u need not be scared of me, cos i know if its u, u will cooperate and there will be no need to forcefully break thru the back door,lol

Booking a hotel room insinuates but does not fully explain the guy's intention.  It may be understood that he just wanted to discuss with her privately in a serene environment void of all disturbances or he just wanted to give her a treat.
Guys should learn to be explicit in their desires.
I hope I never find myself in such situation, I always check my situation and options before I embark on any journey.

Ebonyeyes:
We have a couple or molre potential beasts male rapists in here.

Hahahahaha!
I doubt if these guys will go as far as they have made us to believe.
They will be delighted to get a head/handjob or even a french kiss sef.

smooooooth:
she knew she in the red, and she allowed him pay for a room and actually followed him in. what kinda of woman is that. come to think of the mental energy the dude must have burnt, thinking what he was gonna do to her, as they were going in, with his manliness throbing and jerking in his pants. all for nothing. wahala! if its me no alternatives i am digging a hole.

Hahahaha
I am really scared of you now!
Seriously it's wrong for a girl to do that to a guy, except there was a misunderstanding in the guy's real intent or the guy failed to make it known to the girl prior to the adventure in the hotel.

smooooooth:
did u actually see the red. me believe she played u, u just fell mugu. besides if she is in red, the back door is always dry. u shld have used that door.

Chei!  Na wa !
What if she does not allow visitors in through the back door?  Should he force his way coz of some money he spent?

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
- what was the intention when you told her to go to the hotel?
- was she down with you doing it on her bad days?
- what about if she gave you some head/hand job to relieve you of your desperation?

you were going to war and now you come her crying foul.
be a man, go back in there and finish the bloody job.

It is easier to try other ways like MRbrownJAY suggested.

sir t:
Sequel to the happenings in our environment and coupled with the fact that we all look up to a peaceful marital home in future. Where exactly is the best place to meet ones wife or husband. Is it the house of God or elsewhere? Why do u think God's house is the best place and otherwise?

Please, I need mature responses from mature minds.

Not everyone who goes to church is a saint and there is no guarantee that because you met in the church the relationship/marriage will be smooth sailing. You can meet your future partner anywhere and what builds a peaceful home is understanding and determination.
The church is flooded with bad guys who are just there to catch unsuspecting single sisters. I am sure there are bad girls too but I wouldn't know.

madlady:
agaba123, I thought you wanted to learn juju , "tying your person" is a old time obeah/juju spell. Do you want me to do it to you?

Go ahead, dear.

@Poster
Nothing like learning from experience

ebila:
My fav gurl has just spoken.But if u smile at me or wink,i just might use it against u u know.
U actually sound it!^{*no offence*}
Take d advice from a pro! N really,u'd throw most guys into confussion!

Hi Ebila, How bodi?  How would you feel if a girl you are staring at smiles/winks at you?

Ebonyeyes:
No offense taken I try to get to where im getting while walking and sometimes a smile might lead to something else

They usually use that que to come and talk unless its someone I want to talk to its usually difficult to shake them off after they start because im not the rude kind of girl

They stare in the churches, weddings, office meetings, restaurants etc not on the streets alone.  The bold ones use it as a cue to chat and the trick is in being extremely polite but very firm in your refusal.  I am good at that.  I smile sweetly while delivering the bullets and the poor guy goes away with a good mind thinking I am one very nice girl.
But I glare at agberos and wor wor & rough looking boys o.  I only smile/wink at the decent boys and I like to wink at the teenagers as I love to see young boys giggle.

Ebonyeyes:
Uhmmm good tip, I might have try those, especially the winking on but im abit shy so uhmmm we will see

Nothing to be shy about. The guys are staring because they like what they see, so just turn to them and wink and continue with your business. Most of the guys get shocked and don't know how to react but they definitely stop staring.