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badoi:
You wantu mine skul
Dont do ritual o
And besides lot of fake herbalist
Dont be duped

Not mining skull
Thanks, can a poor man be duped?

Pls I need the service of any babalawo or ifa priest, pls be real. This suffering is too much and I don't think my prayers are being answered.

I can't go on this way.

My location is ibadan

As I type this, I type with the heaviest heart and saddest sould u could ever think of.

Why is life so unfair? Why do some of us have to struggle to survive? Why must I have to suffer this way? Why can't I have the things I want? Why can't I have the things I need? Why do I have to borrow to feed? Why do I have to be in debts at all times?

I have no one to talk to, i have no diary, I have no real friends, I'm just pouring out my heart here, not to anyone in particular, but to the world.

Its not something new, it all started as soon as I gained admission into the university, at times I'll have to go and hustle in the always stressful city of Lagos, just to get little cash to survive in school, sometimes I go for about 5-7 days, by the time I return to school, id have missed lectures, tests or other important stuffs.

I struggled out of school, and the struggle continued, after nysc I couldn't get a job. No job. No money. Nothing.

After exhausting my nysc savings on job search (got scammed on some occassions) and maintenance, I started living in distress, started borrowing money to survive with no means of paying back.

I later had the opportunity of applying for MSc which I did and got admitted, yes I was happy at least I get to leave home for school daily.

My Msc days was a bit better because at times I get free ride to school, get money from older mates after I must have done something for them, like assignment, or notes etc

I began thinking of doing my business but no money to begin. So I started working informally under someone just to gain more experience and get small cash to survive.

My bills kept piling up.

I took up another business course(free) just to equip myself with the necessary skills to run a business, wrote a business plan...unfortunately, no bank will lend money to a poor guy Who has no collateral.

My mates will do their convocation this year, but I mighy not go with them, simply because I haven't paid my school fees which I don't even know how I'll pay it.

I've been receiving threatening Calls from the people I owe money which I have failed to pay back. One even said he gave me till weekend then he'll take action against me, at this point I don't really care what happens to me, if he can kill me, he should, maybe that will be the best for me.

I keep pushing for business loan but none is coming forth.

I read news everyday about how some people loot billions of dollars, how some people buy expensive stuffa and show off online, how people flaunt wealth online....people who have no known source of income.

I won't go into crime, and I won't go diabolical, but this life is so cruel and unfair. Its the reason many people have committed suicide.

I don't know it will get better but......it doesn't seem so. I only hope I pull out of this, I see myself as a strong person because of what I have and I am going through.

Sleepless nights, headaches, heavy thoughts, etc.

God, pls help me.

dammyluv911:
Please My Friend Needs Advice Urgently

A friend of mine got herself pregnant by a male friend of hers. Initially the guy wanted her to get rid of it and she has been warned about abortion. The guy later accepted the pregnancy and promised to take care of her and the baby.

He said it should better be a female child. The guy said he will collect the child but he won't marry her claiming he does not love her. My friend is now in love with this guy and she wants them to bring up the baby together cos she does not want the child to pass through what she passed through (she was brought up by a single parent).

This guy claims he does not love her and he doesn't want to see her with any other guy, he asks questions whenever any guy calls, he cares about her welfare and a times complains about her dressing or even dictate for her on the clothes to wear.

Pls it there any way she can make the guy love her?

let her give him time, he'll surely come around esp when he bholds d beauty of a new born baby. My cousin once had d same experience but now he loves d lady dearly

HungerBAD:
Thanks Madam.

pls help me too. Even ig its 5k. Hunger wan kill me for here. HungerBAD for real.

When Jesus was to be crucified, He prayed for hours in the garden of gestheman. I can't believe it was just the Lords Prayer He offered. At times you have to say more

Morning. Help still needed

Lavendra:
Getting a dog is not the main problem, the main problem is feeding... The amount of money spent on feeding a dog for a month can be used to buy a puppy depends on what you feed your dog sha ... So how is this gonna work?

Feeding won't be an issue. I have worked out a feeding plan for any dog I have that will cost me 7500/month for a dog.

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mcjude03:
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You don't have to show us that life has no meaning to u. A whole family was butchered and you are here advertising your scam. Use ur head sir

What kind if work is this guy doing?

Blue86:
Say Jesus help me from your heart. And wait for him to help you.
You can send me your line so that we can chat on whatsapp.
Jesus is the only way out.
For there is no name given to men except Jesus name for every human being to be saved. -acts of apostles 4:12
And whoever shall call upon the name of the Lord Jesus shall be saved.

i just sent you a mail

Wilgrea7:
please if you don't mind can you give us details of your problem?

I just don't know why things are not working the way they are supposed to. My life isn't going as planned, my situation seems to be getting worse by the day. No job, no money. The business I'm trying to do needs funding and none is forthcoming. I'm only left with my laptop which I got when I was still in school and my phone which im using to keep in touch with the world. I'm planning on selling the laptop, maybe I can raise a little find from there. I'm just confused and fed up with life.

DrWellbeing:
What is really the problem? You can let me know by chatting with me on zero eight one seven seven eighteighteight swvensevenfour and I will attends to you.

your number has been unavailable for days now

I don't like the turn of events in my life. I have prayed for forgiveness, asked God to break any generational or personal curse. But its like those prayers have not been answered. Please, is there anyway out for me? I'm getting tired of life already and I'm losing it. I need help

Please, can anyone here pray for me? It seems I'm losing my grip on life, in tired and fed up of my situation, I have sought help from God severally but it seems He is not there for me.

osita456:
How much.

35k, or I can sell a comprehensive format to u for 10k

osita456:
Please guys I urgently need help on how to write a business plan. The format and intricacies. I look forward to your contributions.

i can write a business plan for u at a little cost. I have certification on it.

Hello nairalanders,
Things are not as easy as I thought they will be, but Glory be to God and some people who are filled with encouragement, I now know better and I know I can achieve great things in life. I was giving up but God raised people who encouragex me, not with money or anything, but with words. Well, I did an entrepreneurship course, I have a business plan, please anyone here who can help with the loan for the business should please talk to me. My business plan includes my repayment plan and everything that needs to be addressed. Thanks and God bless. I strongly believe in this business and I am ready to drop my degree certificate and NYSC certificate as collateral till I pay up the loan
Please call, text or whatsapp on 07087810854

Merryglad:
I graduated 2011 (NCE) without assistance from my parents, I had to work in satche water company to see myself through school, 2015 I started a part time degree program even without a good job am hoping to graduate next year. The reason am telling you this short story is because I plan to start frying ''Akara'' this evening at a road side just to see myself through the remaining part of my program.....I have never gave up on my dreams to be a lecturer even though the part is rough, That suicide mission you are planing is the devil trying to cut you short knowing you are close to your break through don't give him the pleasure sir. I want you to know this (1) it is not in a man to help another man (2) God shows up when we are through with our options. As for your M.Sc, you can defer it, forget about the white collar job for now do any job that comes your way and watch God bless the works of your hands. your pain shall turnout for a testimony SHALOM

Thanks. Not that I'm not doing anything, I have something I'm doing, I hustle everyday, I have a business in mind, I'm hustling to raise enough funds for it. I need God to show up now, I have no other option again. I have exhausted all. I'm not even after a white collar job anymore. I used my laptop and my phone's internet to search for jobs before. At some point I sold the laptop. I just wonder why God hasn't shown up yet.

Evergreen4:
Op, calm down. It is well. I finished my nysc a year before you yet no job. But i don't think that's enough to start acting funny. I still believe that God is aware of our case. Pls cheer up. #onelove

Thank u. He is aware of our case, but why does He take so long to answer we ghat are struggling, I see d rich getting getting richer everyday, why must it be like this? I have so many questions for Him, I hope He's listening

The story of my life is turning out to be a sorry case. I graduated from school in 2011, after completing my service in 2013, it has been an undulating journey. The past four years of my life have been HECTIC, I even went further to pursue a masters degree, now I can't graduate because I can't afford to pay my fees. Last year I got a job in lagos, paying me 40k, I thought things will get better from there, unfortunately, our contract was terminated 2months after. Since April last year till now, I've been looking for solution to my problems. I had to leave home as staying at home wasn't going to help my situation, my parents were not giving me anything and I had no one to turn to. I am staying with a friend of mine but the kind of humiliation I suffer at times makes me cry. I took up a business course hoping I will get funds from there to start my business which I have a business plan for, but nothing is forthcoming..i wrote a business. plan on something I know Iam capable of handling, took it to people for assistance, even to commercial banks, but who will grant loan to a poor guy who has nothing to use as collateral. It's getting worse everyday. I have no body to help. I've prayed, fasted. I can't boast of 200naira in my account, because anything I hustle for will be used as transport fare and for feeding. I am giving up on life, in fact I have given up, I only consider my parents at times and that's the only thing holding me back from doing what I think will rid me of this pain. I know I might end up in hell for killing myself, but I don't think I deserve to continue suffering.

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I'll try that. Thanks

Sarassin:
I will try to help.

You should seek out the oldest living relative easily accessible to you, preferably a woman. To this person you should perform an act of kindness, it need not involve money. (for instance you could spend a day just helping out) do this without any expectations whatsoever.

When you are done, ask this person to pray for you as he/she SEES FIT. As they pray, so it will be.
Thank them for the prayer and leave, and then FORGET the entire episode completely and go about your normal routine.

Your life will be re-tuned.

makaanaki:
@op... Sorry for asking this, but how old are you

Your fears are unfounded.

25. Does it matter?

Hello, I've been a silent follower of nairaland for years but I had to register today to be able to write this. I graduated in 2011, completed my Nysc in 2013. I prayed and fasted to job but all to no avail. Then last year I by gan my masters. Its been a good experience for me at least I leave home in the morning and return in the evning. Now the programme is almost over and I'm finding it extremely difficult to pay my fees. I have less than 3weeks. I've prayed fasted, did charity. I even went as far as playing sports betting just to make sure I pay the fee but none worked. I think I need spiritual help and I need it now. I can't afford to lose another year. The main reason I wrote this in this section is because I know we have spiritual people around. Thanks. Sincerely I'm giving up on prayer.....and bad thought have started creeping in.