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Divay22:
Moving on is a choice.
Are you ready?
She feels you're not rich? It's time to concentrate and PROVE HER WRONG.
Don't let this break you. but let it serves as a motivation that someone has spoken less of you. It's either your discard it or accept it and then cause more harm to yourself..

It's a choice!

this is what I'll be doing

Thanks

Divay22:
Giving us an Autobiography of yourself abi you're telling us about your cheating girlfriend and what led to it?

I got confuse while reading

just trying to understand what lead to her actions and advise from you guys

it's getting the better of me

I'm tired and I need to move on but I'm confused

fact is that this is the first girl I have ever had sex with

long story cut short

this is the girl that i trusted most after my mum
the girl that I love like i do to myself
the girl I'm ready to do any neccesary and a good sacrifice for her to reach her dreams
make no mistake she's not just a girlfriend to me she's my fiancée
though not yet engaged but i was planning it this year December as a suprise
have introduced her to my parents and siblings that she's the one for me.
I'm a graduate in engineering with good result though not yet working (not planning on getting one soon) because my skills is fetching me enough money that is more than what a 3 years on the job graduate earns monthly.
not rich but still trying to build with her since I have what it takes to give her a comfortable life.
I live a responsible life though sometimes I find my life boring to her (due to the nature of my job) so i often took her out on weekends
since I'm not a womaniser i hardly drink unless on a work free day or if i have less to do at night
even though i don't drink more than 2 bottles because that's what my body can contain (not a drinker before just started it because guys don dey yab me anyhow )
I'm not a smoker too
no clubbing nor late nights infact i don't feel comfortable staying outside around 10pm.
weird boring life isn't it? i guess yes because I don't think women will find my life entertaining at all
like i said I'm not rich but I can easily feed 3 people including myself comfortable 3 square meal and can take care of them too
have my own apartment though still self contain (planning on moving into flat next year after proposing)
i know that I'm not rich yet but I'm 100% confident that with my untapped ideas and my skills money won't be problem.
all i needed was someone that will keep me more focused a companion a friend and a lover which i found in this girl
i taught we can build together and be happy together
she was madly in love with me and can do anything for me
we've dated for more than 2 years though we started taking the relationship to the next level this year until the spirit of NYSC struck my fiancée
she's in her final months of service when i discovered that she's cheating on me and she was even living together with the guy in the same house.
i confronted her she didn't deny it rather she was full of regrets and sober
well after everything i decided to forgive her and accept her back but to my surprise she still in love or whatever with the guy and she's not ready to quit her relationship with him yet

well i confronted her to know the reasons for her actions but I recieved a shock of my life
she told me that she want to move on that I'm not rich
i tried to convince her that my present state (which is not poverty by the way) is not permanent
I'm trying working day and night strategizing to upgrade all i need from her was her support and love.
I've not cheated on my fiancée even when most girls do offer me a free ride because my personality always attract some girls sha but I always reject politely because I do love my girl.


now the relationship we built for a long time has fallen and I now see myself getting drunk and trying to cheer myself up so I can get back to work because the truth is that for the past few days I was down mentally emotionally physically and psychologically couldn't even do my laundries nor clean my kitchen did that today sha after so many days.

i now drink and get dizzy and drunk drank two black bullet plus small stout this night and my room is turning around on me

i fear for myself and work
really affecting my work because my work is clearly brain related so I'm just distracted

please friends advice me
I'm tired all these


Lalasticlala abeg help me