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Men always make the mistake of thinking that their ladies won’t leave them just because they take the entire ‘shits’ men do for a very long time. Men get used to their ladies bearing all manner of atrocities they commit till it makes the man feel invincible. But one truth is once a lady becomes tired, there is no going back; her mind becomes made up and she then gets tired of the relationship and an exit becomes the only option for her.

signs she’s tired of the relationship

1. SHE NO LONGER GETS AFFECTED BY YOUR ACTS

At this point, she no longer cares about what you do anymore; her feelings become dead to your acts; nothing moves her. Winning her back at this stage is as hard as watching the minutes hand on a clock all day long. Men should never allow their ladies feel this way about them. However, some men still don’t know that at this stage they have lost her; they are so short sighted.

2. SHE EASILY BECOMES IRRITATED TOWARDS YOU

This is even worse than the previous one; at this stage, she becomes irritated towards everything that you do. They feel better when they are alone than with you. They even feel a huge relief whenever you are out of sight. At this stage, they are just waiting for the perfect moment to leave that relationship; though in their minds, they have left already.

3. SHE EASILY GETS ANGRY

This is the product of sign number two. When you are irritated about someone, you easily get angry. At this stage, everything the man does will provoke her. Trust me when I say, you don’t want to know the insults that she’s pouring on you in her mind. Guys, don’t act surprised when your lady starts getting angry easily. That is an anger that’s been piling for a very long time and it just reached its climax, so she looks for every opportunity to vent the anger on you.

4. SHE DOESN’T DO THINGS SHE NORMALLY DOES

This is only normal when she’s tired of that relationship. She stops doing things she normally does or maybe she gradually reduces the things she does for you. That’s just a huge sign that she’s tired of the relationship; she doesn’t feel any vibe and doesn’t see the need to do stuffs for you anymore.

5. I LOVE YOU BECOMES HARD TO SAY

She no longer finds it easy to tell you she loves you; well that’s because she doesn’t. She even feels guilt when she says she loves you, because deep down, she doesn’t. Even the few times she says it, it would be quite obvious that it isn’t genuine. But on a general note, when she’s tired of you, she doesn’t deem it fit to tell you that she loves you.

6. SHE BECOMES ABSENT MINDED

This is also another huge sign that it’s all over to her. She barely listens to you, she doesn’t flow in conversations anymore, her mind is like a wood, she’s there but she isn’t there. She feels emotionally distant from you at this point; your deeds and talks sound so distant to her. So many ladies can testify of having this feeling with a guy they no longer care about.

7. SHE DOESN’T FIND YOU INTERESTING ANYMORE

I guess this is the worst thing that can happen to any man in a relationship; when his lady doesn’t find him interesting anymore. It’s easier to get a lady than regaining your lady when she feels this way about you. She prefers being with other people than with you; she doesn’t have any affection anymore and it becomes obvious


If you are having issues in your family or relationship,if you need a counseling and someone responsible to seek advice from, you can send a mail to Helpeedeck@gmail.com. be rest assured some matured minds will reply back to your mails in a loving and kind manner, without judging you.

Pls if you have contacted me before on my old line and we have been talking feely, pls send me message on this my new line on WhatsApp

We need to learn to recognize when it's time to jump!!!There's always a time to decide to leave some kinds of people and situations behind so you can forge ahead. Stop exposing yourself to harmful people and situations if you can.

These thoughts shared by a friend just brought home the wisdom in acting wisely and in good time to avoid grave danger. Enjoy.....

DEEP THOUGHTS!!!

Put a frog in a pot of water and start heating the water.

As the temperature of the water rises, the frog is able to adjust its body temperature accordingly.

The frog keeps on adjusting with increase in temperature...

Just when the water is about to reach boiling point, the frog is not able to adjust anymore...

At that point the frog decides to jump out...

The frog tries to jump but is unable to do so, because it has lost all its strength in adjusting with the rising water temperature...

Very soon the frog dies. What killed the frog?

Many of us would say the boiling water...

But the truth is what killed the frog was its own inability to decide when it had to jump out.

We all need to adjust with people and situations, but we need to be sure when we need to adjust and when we need to confront/face them.
There are times when we need to face the situation and take the appropriate action...If we allow people to exploit us physically, mentally, emotionally or financially, they will continue to do so...We have to decide when to jump!Let us jump while we still have the strength to do so.

Think on It!!!

helpeedeck@gmail.com

frozen70:
If men takes their wife as their sister, there won't be any quarell

They just want to Lord you, even if it means using forces

I understand, is vice versa

Your safety is the most important thing!

Do not, under any circumstances, alert the abuser that you are going to leave, that you want a divorce, or that you are taking the kids. Even if your partner has never laid a hand on you before, announcing that you are leaving is often the trigger to push a controlling, abusive person over the edge. More important than the other person’s feelings, or what other people will say or think about you, is your own personal safety. You must come first.

Your heart may tell you that you’re being mean, cold, or insensitive; but your gut is telling you that you need to get out. Follow your gut and deal with your heart another time.

Preparing To Leave:

* Keep any evidence of physical abuse, such as pictures of injuries.

* Keep a journal of all violent incidences, noting dates, events and threats made, if possible. Keep your journal in a safe place.

* Know where you can go to get help. Tell someone what is happening to you.

* If you are injured, go to a doctor or an emergency room and report what happened to you. Ask that they document your visit.

* Plan with your children and identify a safe place for them, like a room with a lock or a friend’s house where they can go for help. Reassure them that their job is to stay safe, not to protect you.

* Contact your local shelter and find out about laws and other resources available to you before you have to use them during a crisis.

*Try to set money aside or ask friends or family members to hold money for you.


If you are having issues in your family or relationship,if you need a counseling and someone responsible to seek advice from, you can send a mail to Helpeedeck@gmail.com . be rest assure some matured minds will reply back to your mails in a loving and kind manner, without judging you.

All those messages that was sent to my old line pls resend it here, am waiting

HelpeeDeck:
Pls try and resend all ur messages back to me, using a new line

Message me back

I was robbed yesterday, most of my valuables, including phones and LP was taken away from me, you can reach me on my new line on WhatsApp 09047264291.

I was robbed yesterday, most of my valuables, including phones and LP was taken away from me, you can reach me on my new line on WhatsApp 09047264291.

I was robbed yesterday, most of my valuables, including phones and LP was taken away from me, you can reach me on my new line on WhatsApp 09047264291.

Pls try and resend all ur messages back to me, using a new line

Send messages back to me pls..., Waiting

Send messages pls, lost all contacts

All messages pls resend, to all those have made friends with, pls resend your WhatsApp message

HelpeeDeck:
Attention, to all those who registered with me and to those who send messages to me for match make or one thing to another, pls resend your contact to me, I was robbed today of my valuables, including my phone, pls message me on this my new number I just got this line n phone today..My number now 09047264291.

Am on WhatsApp now

Attention, to all those who registered with me and to those who send messages to me for match make or one thing to another, pls resend your contact to me, I was robbed today of my valuables, including my phone, pls message me on this my new number I just got this line n phone today..My number now 09047264291.

Still waiting cash n phone

HelpeeDeck:
Still waiting, have some cash to add ontop of the phone

Still waiting... Cash n phone

Can I add cash with my Gionee m6 mini to get this..

What's the ram and rom of the phone

Still waiting, have some cash to add ontop of the phone

Dreyton36:
I have a Huawei y5 lite for swap, very neat with receipt of just 4 months
Browse the specs

What's ur ram and rom spec, also can u upload the phone pic

adex1300:
. I have huawei honor 6x. U can browse the specs.

How much on top of the mini6, new phone

Can I add my m6mini Gionee phone plus cash on this.. pls don't be pissed, just an enquiry

Op can I swap with my m6 mini Gionee phone and add cash on it

Still expecting and waiting

Still expecting and waiting

Waiting

Waiting

I have a clean 3months Gionee M6 Mini for swap and plus cash on it for any 3gram upward phone and 32gig rom upward clean and good phone..Want to get a higher phone spec for my Aunt. I base in Lagos. Am only free during weekends, because I work from Monday to Friday

WhatsApp number contact 08032059244..