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Culture › Re: The Message A Man Received From A Nigerian And An Argentinian Lady Over Culture by helphelp: 3:15pm On Feb 28, 2018
Its cursed not coursed
Romance › Re: Hausa Couple Take Their Pre-Wedding Photoshoot Aboard A Private Jet by helphelp: 8:16am On Feb 28, 2018
The way Malo babes khack Ankara sometimes.

Besides, that's BUA's group private jet. They are prolly close some of the shareholders
Properties › Re: Land Use Charge Law Of 2018: Things You Need To Know by helphelp: 8:24pm On Feb 27, 2018
The way rent will skyrocket will not have part two
Celebrities › Re: Davido To Deal With Thugs That Beat Zlatan Ibile Over Segun Wire Family by helphelp: 8:18am On Feb 27, 2018
Awon ode...

Only in an insane country will you make such threats.

Dem born you make you threaten any artiste for the ATL wey you dey so
Travel › Re: Thousands Of Vehicles Stuck In Traffic In China (Photos) by helphelp: 9:33pm On Feb 26, 2018
Jeez
Health › Re: Doreen Moraa Moracha: Meet Kenyan Lady Born With HIV (Photos) by helphelp: 1:16pm On Feb 26, 2018
Ewww
Crime › Re: Woman Kills Her Husband After Sex In Kaduna For Impregnating Her Friend by helphelp: 12:44pm On Feb 26, 2018
Fear women
Family › Re: Girl Who Was Declared Missing In Ogun, Found After 9 Days by helphelp: 12:19pm On Feb 26, 2018
I swear e reach to run commot house with dis kain bomb wey dey commot your engreesh.

Na read I dey read wey I dey fear like dis, I wonder Wetin for happen to my ears if say I dey hear you talk am.

Na joke I dey ooo

Thank God for the safe return of your daughter.

Who die beta pass who lost wey person no see.

Although one day one day, who lost and who die go meet for yonda
Family › Re: "Why I Married My Sister" - 25-Year-Old Anambra Teacher by helphelp: 10:11am On Feb 26, 2018
Idiot
Politics › Re: Lere Olayinka Shares Photo Of Cow Painted With APC Symbol by helphelp: 8:47am On Feb 26, 2018
Smh
Politics › Re: Ateke Tom Attends The Silverbird Man Of The Year Award In Lagos (Photos) by helphelp: 8:46am On Feb 26, 2018
Celebrating mediocre
Family › Re: Edo Man Uses Juju To Search For N2K His Wife Stole From His Pocket.(Screenshots) by helphelp: 6:09pm On Feb 25, 2018
Stingy goat
Celebrities › Re: Genevieve Nnaji Celebrates Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde's 40th Birthday (Photo) by helphelp: 10:41pm On Feb 24, 2018
Smh...

I know we will get it right someday.

How can we be on someone's 40th birthday for over 2weeks
Family › Re: ‘you Are Not Good In Bed’. . . Hubby’s Mistress Tells Pregnant Woman by helphelp: 10:19pm On Feb 24, 2018
Unending fight ...
Education › Re: 2018 UTME: JAMB Bans Wristwatches, Pen, Spy Eyeglasses, USB, CD & More by helphelp: 8:40pm On Feb 23, 2018
Small pikin for China go carry chipset enter una no go know.

What do our youths know here ...

Say no to cheating
Properties › Re: Building Permit Is A Must, LASG Tells Developers by helphelp: 8:03am On Feb 23, 2018
Permits that aren't seamless to get.

They will frustrate you and drive you into bribing them
Phones › Re: Toughest Phone Ever:The Land Rover's Explore Comes With Swappable Battery Pack by helphelp: 7:10am On Feb 23, 2018
Quite cheap for all that panpanra.

Can anyone enlighten me on "Mediatek" maybe I recondense my above statement
Christianity Etc › Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by helphelp: 11:38pm On Feb 22, 2018
abrahambest:
Problem - I've been dating the same guy exclusively for close to a year. We both want to remain sexually pure until marriage, and we've talked very openly and honestly about our boundaries. We have a very strong relationship. We pray together, are studying a Christian book together, and are very careful not to go too far physically. The problem is, I find myself thinking about sex a lot. I know it's normal to think about sex sometimes, but I feel like I carry it to the extreme. I feel God telling me over and over to clean up my thought life, but I ignore him because I like the thoughts so much. How, in this sex-crazed society, can a person stay sexually pure? It will be several years before I get married and I don't know how I'll make it that long. Please help me keep my commitment to God and to my boyfriend.

Solution
A. The solution to your problem is simple, but it's not easy. I'm afraid there are no magic formulas. Certain mental tricks can help you some of the time, but no mind game will free you from all temptation. As you know, the only way you can hope to conquer temptation is to have God in your life. To say no to sin, day after day, time after time, you need God to be alive in your heart. Like I said, simple, but not easy.

You sound like you're doing a lot of great things to keep your faith strong. But it doesn't hurt to repeat the ways we get closer to God:

1. Prayer. We need prayer, not just at the moment of temptation, but as a steady conversation throughout the day, every day.

2. Bible. Bible study isn't about finding a few magic verses that will help us resist temptation. We need to seriously read and grow in understanding God's point of view.

3. Church. We go to church to be with God's people and to worship him together. Church is something you can't do alone. After all, the Bible doesn't call the church the body of Christ for nothing. God often reveals himself to us through our relationships with other Christians.

4. Accountability. The fellowship of other Christians is absolutely vital when you're going through a trying time. Anybody who's being tempted as you are needs a prayer partner, somebody who knows all about what's happening. You need a mature Christian friend who will support you and pray with you. You and your boyfriend may even want to get together with a married couple you trust who can help you with other aspects of your relationship as well.

You're right when you say it's normal to think about sex, especially when you're in a serious relationship. It's also normal to struggle to control sexual thoughts and urges until marriage. It's not easy, but neither is training for the Olympics or writing a great novel or raising children or making a good marriage. Good things are difficult. You're waiting for something very good—married sex. It's not easy to wait, but it is possible, with God's help.


Source: http://www.christianitytoday.com/iyf/advice/i-cant-stop-thinking-about-sex.html

cc lalasticlala
Y'all worry too much about sin.

Sin Na sin whether Na premarital sex or any other form of sin. As long as you are sinning in other matters, you still sinning...just sin the sex sin and get it over with.

Something as awesome as sex is what you are dulling on
Car Talk › Re: How Man Drives His Ferrari Out Of His House Everyday (Hilarious Video, Photos) by helphelp: 11:34pm On Feb 22, 2018
To not be able to buy it no be option for me sha
Business › Re: What's The Best Bank For Savings Of Business Income? by helphelp: 11:31pm On Feb 22, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

For me,
It's Ichida Microfinance Bank.

Their interest rates might not be so high but they allow me deposit counterfeits and their tellers overpay me from time to time.
Kolo cheesy
Crime › Re: Man Whom Armed Robbers Removed His Intestines Shares His Story. Graphic Photos by helphelp: 7:23pm On Feb 22, 2018
Wow
Education › Re: 12 Things You Should Know About The JAMB Mock Exam by helphelp: 7:14pm On Feb 22, 2018
pennywys:
we are mate then
Good to know
Sports › Re: Photos: Nigerian Footballers And Their Wives/girlfriends by helphelp: 9:07am On Feb 22, 2018
Meaning ?
Politics › Re: Herdsmen Spotted Around 2am In Awka This Morning- Pictures by helphelp: 8:57am On Feb 22, 2018
One tends to wonder why they have so much liver when bubu is the president
Politics › Re: Herdsmen Spotted Around 2am In Awka This Morning- Pictures by helphelp: 8:55am On Feb 22, 2018
Ghen ghen
Crime › Re: Soldier Shoots His Superior In Borno by helphelp: 8:53am On Feb 22, 2018
Na one week una talk ooo

Don't let it be like others
Phones › Re: Nigerian Man Recounts How A Strangers Rudely Ask For His Charger While Using It. by helphelp: 7:48am On Feb 22, 2018
Ahahah
Car Talk › Re: Driver Calls 911 While Going 100mph After His BMW X5's Throttle Gets Stuck by helphelp: 7:45am On Feb 22, 2018
Andrenaline rush
Education › Re: 12 Things You Should Know About The JAMB Mock Exam by helphelp: 7:42am On Feb 22, 2018
Lol.... My last jamb was written 20yrs ago. I don old sha
Crime › Re: Young Kidnappers Of A 4-Year-Old Child In Kano, Demanded N2M Ransom (Photos) by helphelp: 9:00pm On Feb 21, 2018
Boko boys in the making
Christianity Etc › Re: Evangelist Billy Graham Dies At 99 by helphelp: 8:34pm On Feb 21, 2018
G
Career › Re: The Government Is Now Regulating IT Professionals!! See Photo by helphelp: 8:15pm On Feb 21, 2018
Oga

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