₦airaland Forum

dechandel: U go wait tire

give him a try nah.

NifemiOlu: It’s deliberate that I’m posting this under family section and not education.

There are real life issues we really don’t discuss or we just pretend it doesn’t exist and this has impact on our school/family outlook. I’ve taught at different levels of Nigerian education cadre and as a young man, there are have been highs and lows. My first teaching experience was for a JSS3 class, very large class, of course it’s a mixed public school. I took 3 arms JSS3 A-C (having a combined number 284 students on an average of 94 students per class). I must confess I had beautiful girls in my class, very attractive indeed. As male teachers, do we find some female students attractive? The truthful answer is yes. Why? We are human. Simple as ABC.

My fiancée and I are about 5 years apart. It's not really such an unbelievable thing for people of different ages to fall in love, and there's nothing wrong with it. However, there are obvious limits to those age differences, and it just CAN'T HAPPEN WHILE THEY ARE IN A TEACHER-STUDENT RELATIONSHIP, as society doesn't accept that too well and the ethics of education forbids it.

Should a teacher make advances towards a female student? Obviously, they shouldn't, even though it's done. That kind of thing is being dealt with virtually on a daily basis in schools worldwide. It happens all the time, and seems to be happening with more and more frequency, lately. You may admire a student but any other move above admiration, you act on it in any way and get caught, you’d lose your job. If a female student makes advances to a teacher, the teacher should reject right away. Staring and checking out are unacceptable behaviours for a teacher.

WHAT ARE THE FACTS?

1.Male teachers make sexual advances towards female students.

2.Female students DELIBERATELY tempt male teachers they find attractive (I’ve been a victim twice)

3. Female students going through pressure from a male teacher don’t open up to their parents rather their friends.

4.Numbers of male teachers having sex with female students are increasing at an alarming rate to an extent where female students are seeing it as achievement dating their teachers.

WHAT CAN BE DONE?

Male teachers need to know it’s HIGHLY forbidden by the ethics of the educational profession to make advances towards students. As a male teacher, if you’re finding it hard to cope in a class, kindly speak to an elderly teacher about it or request a change of class from the admin. I believe that’s more honourable and dignifying. I’ve experienced a case where some parents stormed a school and started dragging a male teacher on the ground. What a shame!

As a female student if you aren't feeling comfortable in your class, because a teacher is passing the lines of what you would consider to be abnormal, unprofessional behaviour, speak to your school counsellor or school psychologist first before your parents. Why? Parents are passionate and will blow up upon hearing such but then, how many schools in Nigeria employ educational psychologists? Had it been a student isn’t reporting, an educational psychologist can spot it and deal with it. Also please be careful, though, about what you say or do, regarding a teacher, as rumours can easily turn into very harmful things that can damage a teacher's entire career, as well as his personal life.

I have seen cases of where students have falsely accused teachers of things, and even though, in one case, the teacher was shown to be innocent, he was never able to establish a normal life again, afterwards. He’s now a farmer in a village due to the shame. There is nothing wrong, of course, with going to the counsellors or administration, if you have clearly been dealt with in an unprofessional manner by a teacher, but just be sure you don't start false accusations or rumours, simply because you don't like a given teacher.

As parents, you need to be very observant. Has your daughter suddenly lost respect for a male teacher recently? Has she lost respect for ‘street bros’. Has she become aggressive towards male teachers? Suddenly lacks self-confidence or shows over confidence? These are the red flags.

My broda is not easy o dos gals wan kill me wit body language. Wat I normally do is to call whoeva she is and checkmate her intentn by talkin sense into her brain and put her unda a serius surveillance in case.

Donfamous: bros u Sabi ekuru sha? Are u from ekiti?
U know those kind stew rich with iru

U sabi gud food. Thumb up for u bro...

adeokunade: If you are to come to this life again, will you choose to be a black man?

Absolutely YES. I love myself, my skin, my height, my appearance, my inner man, my country and my God.

GoldenDr: .1.TRUE LOVE
2.A JOB
3.A VIRGIN
4.MONEY ..
5.SLEEP

D answer is PEACE OF MIND

[size=15pt]TEKINOLOJI has done us more good than harm in case u don't knw.[/size]

Best way is to sun-dry ur fish for some minutes b4 u fry it. I love fried fish.

Na only shillings I knw spend. I de use 50k and 1 naira both paper and coin buy biscuit, boiled rice and fruits dt time. God bless Nigeria

April

Avril

Vanity Vanity upon Vanity

fairest: Didn't really wanted to comment here but the percerption of guys about ladies ₰ MU baffles ♍e. I am one among lots of ladies that dont like MU especially when its heavy, i can never b comfortable, τ̣̣ђё best i can do is apply little lipstick ₰ gloss ₰ maybe darken ♍y lower eye lash (this is if i am going to church or an occasion); i am not forcing anyone to believe but that is τ̣̣ђё truth.

Wow! U are beautiful....
Source: ur profile.

Rutheby: It won't work. I cover my pix with the blood of Jesus....lol

Hahahah...d guy no fit joor.

Nike

saxywale: Ogun waterside.

Well done bro is dt whr u come frm?

Ayanfe

Jesus!!!

queenmorenikeji: Couldn't find any1 on my fone except dis

Wow!!! U ar beautiful

Ceasar1: I don't know why but I'm suspecting You.

Lolz

richommie: u still stand for queue? lol

Heheehehe

LaurelP: Before u open thread to profess love
Before u do wooing challenge
Before u do woman-wrappering

Verify if she's really a lady
You might just be wooing ur fellow guy!

I no go talk again
A word is enuf for d wise!

Dt wil be unfair... man to man

naijaboiy: You've spoken well sir LaurelP....

But will they Hear word

[size=50pt]NO! [/size]



They won't hear,,they'll keep woman-wrappering without trying to do a little background study of the person first

The few persons I know on this forum that are actually female are:

MizMyColi
Rozzay
Temigracie
Xtarxhyne
Marieolae
Mstik
Frankysnow
Cdamsel
Softsparkyy
Priscaoge
Kachisbarbie

There are others too but i'm sure of this ones...fellow guys please "Look Before You Leap"
In other words...
Be sure the moniker is a female and make sure you are at least acquainted before You Send That PM

You are right bro

dechandel: Lol.. no offline wooing.
Whatever happens on nl stays on nl

Heheheheh

richommie:
i neva wooo......any babe since...this is serious!!!

No be only u oo

Abolore

dechandel: Noborri
I am among the cheerios

Why nw?

marieolae: Nobody want to woo me again?

Am afraid if ur candidates neva pass JAMB candidates sef. Ur head is der Omotofi-iwa-se-EWA. Hope naijaboy no see am

Liability: una no dey see me? Who me na..........

I wil rather woo True-Ability instead of Lie-Ability. So u be guy... U ar playin wit ur balls

I hope she is back frm Sambisa forest!!! Make I de do rehearsal

Dygeasy: Suggested LADIES YOU CAN WOO


Will add more as I remember

Is better u add more cos, all of dem no reach only me.