http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kali-rogers/an-open-letter-from-introverts_b_6148550.html

there's a lot of info on the web. Just do some research.
There's nothing wrong with you. 33-50% of humans are like you, just that some pretend.

I picked up a new (expensive) Gibson guitar dumped in the junks. Unbelievable! my dream instrument...... probably someone was relocating and had "less need" for a brand new guitar (that's America for you sometimes) their waste, my gain.

As AVRS has stated, your husband is maladjusted & needs counselling.
Trust me even if this story is made up, it resonates with a typical (& very common) personality disorder.
He can't help it, & he doesn't even know he has it. He's not a mad man either.
I'm sure his mother forced & scolded him to do chores, without caring if he was a grown man, which may have tipped him off.
It's in your will to understand with, and support him, & stay away from unnecessary misunderstandings as much as possible.
also seek counselling for him.
I'm sure he's a good man, he just needs space. So stop bringing up actions that will chase him away like his mum did.
(Women sef, una too quarrel!)

Achebe, however, saved some criticisms for his kinsmen. He criticised them for what he described as “hubris, overweening pride and thoughtlessness, which invite envy and hatred or even worse that can obsess the mind with material success and dispose it to all kinds of crude showiness.”

Much of what he argued here is true, but he has forgotten the biggest problem of the Igbo tribe : they have no leading voice to protect their interests. People like him shouldn't be in Americca writing award winning articles on how Igbos are hated. He should be in Nigeria FIGHTING FOR A CAUSE!!

Hey guys I'm new to this forum. Info here has been Invaluable and very helpful so far.

I'd like to ask a question concerning my STUDENT VISA interview.

My appointment date is sometime later in July, My bank account has been operational for at least a year now. Even though the funds there are currently insufficient, I intend to get the required funds to meet my educational requirements before the date of my appointment. I've also had a stable job for at least a year and half now.

I want to know if any one is familiar with a scenario like this and the possible chances of obtaining a visa if all other documents are available and i have my questions answered properly. Thanks.