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BuhariCarryGo:
Please, is there something I'm missing? What is CPWinward? I got a credit alert of 3,000 naira and saw "CPWinward" as the sender. Can anyone enlighten me on what this is all about?

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Lalasticlala seun nlfpmod fergie001 oam4j

Were you asked to refund the money, mine was 33k

I got 33k for CPInware yesterday, the bank hasn't notified me of anything whatsoever

If Jonathan contest for president, he will win. That one sure me die

Ebawaters:
My bro omo to collect that phone go hard me. I don already make up my mind before buying it. if it sup i no go collect the phone back. The receipt dey with am, and her name dey the receipt. I don pay for my foolishness. I learned the hard way.

Oga, collect the phone, who go come meet you say make you tender the receipt of the phone wey dey your hand

CYBERWEAVER:
I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.

After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.

But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?


Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.


At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.

Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.

I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.

To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.

I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.

As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.

So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?

I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.

As a man, you have the responsibility of providing for the home. It shouldn't be something that should come off like that. Just work hard and provide for the family and try to make sure she's also earning for herself

mjblinks:
Parents applaud their kids for going into prostitution in Edo State.

We can't blame them though, when the system is not working, I use to ask, why do people marry when they know the man they are about to go into union with is not financially capable to take care of their kids. It's only a poor man that would encourage his child to go into prostitution

fyzaila:
Good parenting doesn't stop at the child alone it goes a long way into the society. Only if all parents do their parenting well won't be having all this moral decadence nowadays

Fact, prostitution and yahoo are just evidence of bad parenting.

People can be wild, but I believe they can be tamed as well

We will forever have reasons to be grateful to parents. They shape our lives and influences us to be better person. Just imagine if his parents didn't enforce him from getting tattoos, alaye for don tattoo everywhere.

What about the Islamic clerics, what stops you from shading them or are they above shading too

God1000:
This breaks my heart but Nothing is strange here. That's Israel for you. No soul, no heart, nothing. Just pure wickedness

Where were you when Hamas and his boys beheaded babies and what did you say

onatisi:
If there was no religion in this world ,would you have counted poen as a sin or something bad?

If there are no religion, there is a conscience which tells us this thing is bad

If she does not die, God is partial

Darekiki:
Ogagun, reason this...
If you are in the new leader shoes..will you give up now that the new leader has lost Soo much?
The only thing for threat now is we will killed more citizens. Which the citizen and the leader are all ready for fight. Even as Ukrainians been killed by Russia till date no surrender. Not to talk of a country that you humiliated them so much with 150+ children killed with leaders. So what to loose again?
So u expect the parent of those children to keep quite and surrender?
Mind you further killings may lead to world war. Bcus some nations are not ok with the operation.

Oga, are you praying that the war continues, in a war, no body benefits, I believe that's why History was removed from Nigerians curriculum so peace can reign. If Iran continues with this war, they should remember Gaza

Plus1234:
Iran is like a drowning man.he is trying to hold on to anything to survive.

They have gone really offensive trying to attack Americans doing business in their shore just to make America back out. Their desperation right now is so so much

prinsam30:
This is not war na, Iran are just wasting their time, if US and Israel really mean these people Una think say Iran for still dey map by now. Make Una dey watch wetin go happen next , the silence of natayahu is very very dangerous, we are watching

In retaliation, they can hit their oil infrastructure. War never ends by further aggression. I think Iran just ran out of missiles. I no longer hear talks about Iran shooting missiles anymore

boxypane:
Really, in my own candid opinion, the world should do anything possible to prevent Iran from having Nuclear weapons. Anything possible.

Those people don't know how to control their emotions. That aggressiveness is always there

Damseldammie:
Eléyìí dára púpò,ìkéde tó mú làákàyè dáni ni.
Mo gbé fún èyin àlákòso tó wà ní aagbon ètò náà…👍👏


Tape rolling……

Action

Wón fé ya sinnimá ni oooo

E mábèrù

Can you please interpret lol, never mind, good amin

Finally, I'm gonna see the face behind this moniker lol 😂 😂 😂

sonofthunder:
Not me getting ready to go watch a free movie.

Yoruba Nation at last .

ILoveNG:
A major instigator of religion-related violence/war is politics (for all religions) so you don’t get to separate it only when it involves Christianity.

You said a major instigator of religion related war is politics, do you know the number of verses in the quran that talks about harming disbelievers, something muhammed himself practiced. What are you telling me

Should I remind you how you guys are programmed to hate us, hardly is there any sermon or wasi your alfas will preach without mocking the keferis as you guys call it. Should religion preach love or hatred

ILoveNG:
A major instigator of religion-related violence/war is politics (for all religions) so you don’t get to separate it only when it involves Christianity.

Christianity is not political, but Islam is. Know the difference, you have heard about Sharia law, these are laws that Muslim enforce on themselves, but you will never hear such about Christianity. The Christian law is not enforced on people unlike Sharia. There are not courts where you can prosecute a Christian based on religious beliefs, but that's not true in Islam, we have beheading, stoning to death, chopping off the hands etc in Islam. This laws are to guide Muslims, no such laws in Christianity. Should I go on

purples25:
There are men that care about this your theory, and there are men that don't. The ones that don't agree show themselves when faced with this kind of situation. When they show themselves, it's very ugly.

Men don't have any right to hurt a woman under such circumstances but they do. The world does what it likes.

It's just not worth the risk she took letting a guy that she wasn't going to marry fund her. We all know how guys think so why collect his money when you won't marry or accept him.
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Not just worth the risk jare.

Well, probably you are different, I don't pray it happens to me and I have always beg God not to allow me make same mistake. Sometimes love can be so intoxicating that even the most obvious thing will be sidelined. The man would have heard gist of so so so and so but he will just assume it will never happen to him. Do you know the rate which guys are sponsoring girls to school. I saw a clip of university girls going to school pregnant. Most guys don't want to risk it.

Cause the university environment is an illusion, imagine the girl met a big daddy who offered something better than what she will get from the man. Common sense will tell her, dump this man. Even though she climbed the man's shoulder to get to the point she is. Things are happening sis, you might be God fearing, but trust me, the way the God of this world has blinded the heart of this girl's ehnnnnnn. You know the funny thing, I can sense God's presence while writing this, like the Bible says, iron sharpeth iron. Do well to follow me

ILoveNG:
If you’re being honest with yourself, you will know that the crusaders didn’t only fought and killed to reclaim territories, they also killed to expand into territories originally belonging to Muslims, they also attacked some other fellow Christians territories such as Constantinople.

The holy war didn’t even account for half of the atrocities committed by Christians. A lot of innocent young and old women were executed after labeling them witches. people were hanged, burnt alive, skinned for blasphemy under Christian rule. Do you know what Christian authority did to those that translated the bible into English.

At the end of it, the body count of your dear religion is far grander than those you condemn

You should learn to separate politics from Christianity. When you mention Crusaders, you are talking about the Roman Empires. Even though they are Christians, you must recognize that the Bible does not back up whatsoever fight they fought as you mentioned up there. We know how Muhammad funded his quest, started with robbing travelers, doesn't that ring a bell that the same method is being adopted by fulani herdsmen. They adopt and demand ransom, did Jesus do that, call a spade a spade and stop being an hypocrite

MrsAyomide:
Can’t these people reform their religion, by cropping out violent chapters in their so called holy book they get inspiration from ?

They will rather explain those verses away, rather than admit those verses are there

Nwaokunkpara:
Died because she was trying to impress men


Men we're the prize 🏆

Cheers to us

purples25:
I am afraid for her.

Afraid for her, how, she will live her life and get married. The man just needs to accept that life happens

Keep up the good work ma. More Grace

SmartPolician:
I cannot believe that it's the same Persian empire that Trump is dealing with like this.

The same empire whose evil prince abducted God's angel, delaying answers to Daniel's prayers for several days before Archangel Michael intervened.

America na super power...no be by chochocho

Trump is a general in warfare, both spiritually and physically. That president is everything in one.

TimiofAbuja:
Iwa werey.....wtf is wrong with this generation

Na police I blame, or the government. Like what's this

Win12345:
Same people that would have defected to APC before 2027 election if they had won. God is not man. What happened with LP election winners is a big discouragement to Nigerian voters. People fight for you end up sabotaging them.

Exactly my point, he shouldn't be calling out the opposition party, but state the way forward

He should talk more on what is left for Nigerians to do. Most of these interviewers are actors for Tinubu, they will intentionally push a question to fit into a narrative and the news would centre only on that narrative that favours the ruling party. There is heavy control especially in the media space. Whatever narrative that is pushed will become the opinion of the common man and most times, these things are done to intentionally demoralize people who might show interest in the future

Wickedfact:
The ADC by its very design is a structure of failure.

ADC failed in Anambra bye election.
Failed in Atiku's home state.
Failed in the Kaduna dwarf's state
Failed in Kano.

Even if they went to campaign in the forest, they would have lost.

Una go just dey bring up baseless arguments to justify what's bad. There are proofs on irev that some collation centres doctored numbers. Accrediting ADC votes to APC