Career › Re: Cost-reflective Monthly Salary For Nigerian Workers Stands At ₦372,000, Data Sho by Hier(m): 10:08pm On Sep 24 |
Omoyele Sowore proposed a 500,000 minimum wage and Nigerians are laughing at him
That will mean, a savings or excess of 128k which is a fair sum. I doubt if this estimate put into account people sending children to school 5 |
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Romance › Re: When She Doesn't Reply, Don't Fumble Yourself by Hier(m): 4:15am On Sep 11 |
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Romance › Re: Foul Smell May Be The Cause Of Some Sexless Marriage by Hier(m): 4:04am On Aug 28 |
Akalia: na dirty thick girls you don meet so far. My wife is chubby but I can boast to the high heavens about her impeccable hygiene. During sex both her anus and vagina don't smell. At times I even can't help but eat her up with my mouth. Lol. I have had flings with a couple of thick girls before I married that do take care of their private parts especially hook up babes but I must admit that I also have my fare share of meeting both thick and skin girls with stinky pussy. It all boils down to body awareness and personal hygiene. I haven't been on nairaland for some time now. I think like you said, it's all about personal hygiene |
Culture › Re: Why Do We Bury The Dead In Village Compounds? by Hier(m): 1:40pm On Aug 17 |
zinowealth: Muslims ideology in that regard may seem right. Jesus died and was buried same day as well I might be wrong though According to Jewish Customs |
Romance › Re: A Faithful Girlfriend Or Wife Isn't Doing Her Boyfriend/husband Any Favour by Hier(m): 9:49am On Aug 14 |
Goo0dHardDick: I Came across a thread which says men should respect their girlfriends because they decided to keep their bodies.
https://www.nairaland.com/8724226/why-men-should-respect-faithful
Understand this, a woman who decides to remain faithful isn't in anyway whatsoever doing her husband or boyfriend a favour. So why do you expect the society to reward her for that? Keeping herself means she respects her body enough not to mess around because women knows very well that their value is in their body. why do you think women lie about their body counts? Because they're ashamed of saying it out for fear of being called a prostitute knowing fully well that their bodies is their value.
Men don't really care how much money you have as a woman. If you like have 100 houses, 100 cars etc, as long as your body has lost its value, it's game over!
So therefore being faithful in a relationship as a woman simply means you respect yourself and your own body enough for multiple men not to have access to it. It instantly portrays you as a high value woman. Why then do you expect people to praise you for keeping your own body? How does that make sense to you?
CC seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44 How does one know a woman who's body have lost value |
Romance › Re: I Actually Don't Blame Men Who Refuse To Train Their Females In University by Hier(m): 9:20am On Aug 14 |
Tenrack: Ogbeni if you dare tell the parents, na God go punish you. Let her live her life and make costly mistakes. The parents sef go get sense las las What should the parent do in this instance |
Romance › Re: Foul Smell May Be The Cause Of Some Sexless Marriage by Hier(m): 10:29pm On Jul 28 |
3kay945: I seriously doubt this. Except if not the fish like or rotten odour.
Some girls dont have it sha...
I noticed it is more pronounced in thick ladies.
Apologies! Na why I no like thick girls be that. It's always smelling down there, sometimes, if they just left the rest room and walk pass ehnnnn, odor go nearly finish person 😂😂 |
Romance › Re: Foul Smell May Be The Cause Of Some Sexless Marriage by Hier(m): 10:23pm On Jul 28 |
Samantha125: What's stopping you from informing your partner about the foul smell so that they can do something about it? Some guys might fear that she will not like to hear it |
Business › Re: CPwinward Credited Me 3k – What Is This? by Hier(m): 1:41pm On Jul 06 |
BuhariCarryGo: Please, is there something I'm missing? What is CPWinward? I got a credit alert of 3,000 naira and saw "CPWinward" as the sender. Can anyone enlighten me on what this is all about?
Cc Lalasticlala seun nlfpmod fergie001 oam4j Were you asked to refund the money, mine was 33k |
Business › Re: CPwinward Credited Me 3k – What Is This? by Hier(m): 1:40pm On Jul 06 |
I got 33k for CPInware yesterday, the bank hasn't notified me of anything whatsoever |
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Politics › Re: 2027: Jonathan Is The Best Candidate - Youth Group At A Press Conference (Video) by Hier(m): 5:01pm On May 07 |
If Jonathan contest for president, he will win. That one sure me die |
Romance › Re: I Bought My Girlfriend A Phone And This Is What I Get In Return by Hier(m): 9:04pm On Apr 15 |
Ebawaters: My bro omo to collect that phone go hard me. I don already make up my mind before buying it. if it sup i no go collect the phone back. The receipt dey with am, and her name dey the receipt. I don pay for my foolishness. I learned the hard way. Oga, collect the phone, who go come meet you say make you tender the receipt of the phone wey dey your hand |
Romance › Re: There’s One Thing My Girlfriend Has Never Done, Yet We’re Planning Marriage by Hier(m): 5:23am On Apr 13 |
CYBERWEAVER: I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.
After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.
But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?
Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.
At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.
Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.
I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.
To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.
I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.
As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.
So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?
I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope. As a man, you have the responsibility of providing for the home. It shouldn't be something that should come off like that. Just work hard and provide for the family and try to make sure she's also earning for herself |
Celebrities › Re: “My Parents Refused To Live In The House I Bought For ₦70million" - Zlatan Ibile by Hier(m): 6:12am On Apr 03 |
mjblinks: Parents applaud their kids for going into prostitution in Edo State. We can't blame them though, when the system is not working, I use to ask, why do people marry when they know the man they are about to go into union with is not financially capable to take care of their kids. It's only a poor man that would encourage his child to go into prostitution |
Celebrities › Re: “My Parents Refused To Live In The House I Bought For ₦70million" - Zlatan Ibile by Hier(m): 6:09am On Apr 03 |
fyzaila: Good parenting doesn't stop at the child alone it goes a long way into the society. Only if all parents do their parenting well won't be having all this moral decadence nowadays Fact, prostitution and yahoo are just evidence of bad parenting. People can be wild, but I believe they can be tamed as well |
Celebrities › Re: “My Parents Refused To Live In The House I Bought For ₦70million" - Zlatan Ibile by Hier(m): 6:08am On Apr 03 |
We will forever have reasons to be grateful to parents. They shape our lives and influences us to be better person. Just imagine if his parents didn't enforce him from getting tattoos, alaye for don tattoo everywhere. |
Celebrities › Re: Portable Criticises Nigerian Pastors Over Silence On Terror Attacks by Hier(m): 9:46pm On Apr 01 |
What about the Islamic clerics, what stops you from shading them or are they above shading too  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israeli Soldiers Tortured Infant In Gaza (photos) by Hier(m): 10:46am On Mar 24 |
God1000: This breaks my heart but Nothing is strange here. That's Israel for you. No soul, no heart, nothing. Just pure wickedness Where were you when Hamas and his boys beheaded babies and what did you say |
Romance › Re: Leonid Radvinsky Dies At 43 by Hier(m): 8:55pm On Mar 23 |
onatisi: If there was no religion in this world ,would you have counted poen as a sin or something bad? If there are no religion, there is a conscience which tells us this thing is bad |
Health › Re: A Cameroonian Lady Named, Ethel Esima Is In Comma After A "Tongue Slice! by Hier(m): 8:48pm On Mar 23 |
If she does not die, God is partial |
Health › Re: WHO Fears Health System Collapse As Iran Death Toll Hits 1,800 by Hier(m): 10:14am On Mar 13 |
Darekiki: Ogagun, reason this... If you are in the new leader shoes..will you give up now that the new leader has lost Soo much? The only thing for threat now is we will killed more citizens. Which the citizen and the leader are all ready for fight. Even as Ukrainians been killed by Russia till date no surrender. Not to talk of a country that you humiliated them so much with 150+ children killed with leaders. So what to loose again? So u expect the parent of those children to keep quite and surrender? Mind you further killings may lead to world war. Bcus some nations are not ok with the operation. Oga, are you praying that the war continues, in a war, no body benefits, I believe that's why History was removed from Nigerians curriculum so peace can reign. If Iran continues with this war, they should remember Gaza |
Health › Re: WHO Fears Health System Collapse As Iran Death Toll Hits 1,800 by Hier(m): 10:12am On Mar 13 |
Plus1234: Iran is like a drowning man.he is trying to hold on to anything to survive. They have gone really offensive trying to attack Americans doing business in their shore just to make America back out. Their desperation right now is so so much |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iranian ‘Suicide Boat’ Hits US Owned Oil Tanker In Persian Gulf by Hier(m): 5:45am On Mar 13 |
prinsam30: This is not war na, Iran are just wasting their time, if US and Israel really mean these people Una think say Iran for still dey map by now. Make Una dey watch wetin go happen next , the silence of natayahu is very very dangerous, we are watching In retaliation, they can hit their oil infrastructure. War never ends by further aggression. I think Iran just ran out of missiles. I no longer hear talks about Iran shooting missiles anymore |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iranian ‘Suicide Boat’ Hits US Owned Oil Tanker In Persian Gulf by Hier(m): 5:42am On Mar 13 |
boxypane: Really, in my own candid opinion, the world should do anything possible to prevent Iran from having Nuclear weapons. Anything possible. Those people don't know how to control their emotions. That aggressiveness is always there |
TV/Movies › Re: A Movie Will Be Shot On Lagos Waterways Today, Do Not Panic by Hier(m): 8:58am On Mar 12 |
Damseldammie: Eléyìí dára púpò,ìkéde tó mú làákàyè dáni ni. Mo gbé fún èyin àlákòso tó wà ní aagbon ètò náà…👍👏
Tape rolling……
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Wón fé ya sinnimá ni oooo
E mábèrù Can you please interpret lol, never mind, good amin |
TV/Movies › Re: A Movie Will Be Shot On Lagos Waterways Today, Do Not Panic by Hier(m): 8:58am On Mar 12 |
Finally, I'm gonna see the face behind this moniker lol 😂 😂 😂 sonofthunder: Not me getting ready to go watch a free movie. |
Politics › Re: Senate Confirms Oyedele As Minister Of State For Finance by Hier(m): 5:27am On Mar 12 |
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Crime › Re: Borno Children Forced Into Terrorism With Guns And Uniform (video) by Hier(m): 7:35pm On Mar 10 |
ILoveNG: A major instigator of religion-related violence/war is politics (for all religions) so you don’t get to separate it only when it involves Christianity. You said a major instigator of religion related war is politics, do you know the number of verses in the quran that talks about harming disbelievers, something muhammed himself practiced. What are you telling me Should I remind you how you guys are programmed to hate us, hardly is there any sermon or wasi your alfas will preach without mocking the keferis as you guys call it. Should religion preach love or hatred |
Crime › Re: Borno Children Forced Into Terrorism With Guns And Uniform (video) by Hier(m): 7:32pm On Mar 10 |
ILoveNG: A major instigator of religion-related violence/war is politics (for all religions) so you don’t get to separate it only when it involves Christianity. Christianity is not political, but Islam is. Know the difference, you have heard about Sharia law, these are laws that Muslim enforce on themselves, but you will never hear such about Christianity. The Christian law is not enforced on people unlike Sharia. There are not courts where you can prosecute a Christian based on religious beliefs, but that's not true in Islam, we have beheading, stoning to death, chopping off the hands etc in Islam. This laws are to guide Muslims, no such laws in Christianity. Should I go on |
Romance › Re: Lady Rejects Proposal From Boyfriend Who Sponsored Her Through University (Video by Hier(m): 7:25pm On Mar 10 |
purples25: There are men that care about this your theory, and there are men that don't. The ones that don't agree show themselves when faced with this kind of situation. When they show themselves, it's very ugly.
Men don't have any right to hurt a woman under such circumstances but they do. The world does what it likes.
It's just not worth the risk she took letting a guy that she wasn't going to marry fund her. We all know how guys think so why collect his money when you won't marry or accept him. . Not just worth the risk jare. Well, probably you are different, I don't pray it happens to me and I have always beg God not to allow me make same mistake. Sometimes love can be so intoxicating that even the most obvious thing will be sidelined. The man would have heard gist of so so so and so but he will just assume it will never happen to him. Do you know the rate which guys are sponsoring girls to school. I saw a clip of university girls going to school pregnant. Most guys don't want to risk it. Cause the university environment is an illusion, imagine the girl met a big daddy who offered something better than what she will get from the man. Common sense will tell her, dump this man. Even though she climbed the man's shoulder to get to the point she is. Things are happening sis, you might be God fearing, but trust me, the way the God of this world has blinded the heart of this girl's ehnnnnnn. You know the funny thing, I can sense God's presence while writing this, like the Bible says, iron sharpeth iron. Do well to follow me |