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Senior stateman said this is based on the information I have received since when I was president. You see ehnnnn, sometimes, we need to learn from the elders and continue from where they stopped

Psalms 24:3 Who shall ascend into the hill of the LORD? or who shall stand in his holy place? 24:4 He that hath clean hands, and a pure heart; who hath not lifted up his soul unto vanity, nor sworn deceitfully. 24:5 He shall receive the blessing from the LORD, and righteousness from the God of his salvation.

We must continually strive for mastery. It's possible if we are persistent

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OkpaNsukkaisBae:
they shld pay them. If they go back 2 terrorism na o ti lo

Abi they should kill them all

Jewessgratitud3:
2.7 million too small na .

I'm also joking oo

✌️🤣🤣

LagosFirstSon:
No be lie

Tinubu is worst than Buhari

Seconded

Jewessgratitud3:
The worst hit are people who are not working at all and full time teachers in mushroom private schools earning 10 to 25k monthly.
Even we wey be part-time teachers dey hear am small small.

Babe, I have already saved 2.7 million for our wedding, when am I going to see your parents

Just joking oooo

saladinnoir:
I didn't get your first sentence bro. Please rephrase

I was quoting the statement below, then I extracted the main quote itself and pasted it. The first paragraph is the same as the second paragraph

Jewessgratitud3:
She don vex na. Na to kuku scatter everything .

Don't pick on an angry woman's words. we are like that wen you want make we scatter am finish since you no wan hear abeg

Haaaaa, she vex, she is insensitive ooooo

A man that is grieving already, she is adding more salt to his injury, first of all, depression and thoughts, the guys just couldn't go back, omo, to be a wife means to be one with the husband, as in, partner, you go through everything together, anything that happens to A, you treat it as if it's happening to B likewise.

Everything was going well, but for her to have uttered that statement, lot of ladies are out there looking for who to look their direction and show interest in them and here is she saying this and that.

I believe marriage is about mutual understanding, probably the guy could not resist the feelings he had for the lady but likewise, the lady has her marriage to protect and dropping insensitive comments could not be it, she needs to apologize to the guy and help him work things out.

100k - expenses, then loan servings, I won't even advise an enemy to take loan just to make a point, but he did his thing, but the lady should understand the guy loves her so much to stick his neck out

Firstly the list, then the hall, then a cow, 😂😆🤣 its like an onion, you open one layer another layer opens lol, but because you have opened the first layer, you think, another try

saladinnoir:
The man is obviously in debt.

He also feels betrayed cos you didn't fight for him concerning the unnecessary expenses.

I support the man on this one. He has potentially entered serious debt for an event that barely lasts a day and you didn't do anything to convince your father that the investment is not worth the pay off in regards to the wedding.

Your husband doesn't feel he has someone he can rely on

Not to say she was saying she was the one who wanted

"He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice."

I really don't get why she would say this

mask3:
I personally blame him for still going ahead to marry her.

Sometimes, he might be the too loud type that going back might be so not an easy thing to do and the bond of love can be so strong and unbreakable, sometimes, the guy would be like, where do I go from here

Jewessgratitud3:
I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

Why would she say this

Jewessgratitud3:
*From a concerned lady*👇‼️

My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they asked for.

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

Advise this lady

The problem is, he left you since you guys started billing him, he loves you but sees your family as wicked

Almiron:
This is insightful. Absolutely, some dogs are actually smarter than some humans, that’s facto.

No matter how smart they are, they would still look up to man for survival

greggng:
Have nt you hear the saying that all dogs go to heaven ...

And all rats gat to die

Seunomobo:
So why did they deceive us that we'll go to heaven or hell after we die...

If Dogs have similar traits to human , why can't they go to eternity after they die as well?

We are higher animals for a reason

They are lower animals

Of whom much is entrusted, much is expected

Just take for instance, a block, used in building, it has holes, it can collectively form a shape. And be used in building, but it was all the product of a mind and the holes are for heat regulations.

Now to us, I can't even start there because do we talk about the eyes, it has a function to the body, the nose, the mouth, ear, skin, genitals, legs, all this things, they are even more complex than the block, phone, eyes see, nose smell, ear hears, mouth, heart, liver, testicles, hair, brain, stomach, on and on.

Then we talk about things that are disconnected from the body yet the body needs them, food, water, trees, they all support the body yet, they are not physically attached to the body, do we call this accident. We see what we call association, you bring this and this and it forms this.

So evidently, there must have been a knowledge, hence there was a mind. And that mind created all things.

Now to the creator, who is the creator, the creator has a mind that's all I can say here.

Now I believe I answered the creation or chance question

Now, on the side, I once sat down and asked myself, assuming there was no food on earth 🌍, would people do business. Just imagine we don't get hungry, evidently we would do things to get fun and away from boredom, but somehow, because of the desire for food and all that, we leave our homes and go out, and there we have activities and creativities.

People create things and give their best to make life more meaningful hence the reason for running around

Somehow, I must state that for every creation, there was a reason, phones were created for a purpose, everything has it's purpose, everything, the crude oil, even though it hasn't been discovered, it was there for a reason. But the mind would keep working until those things are discovered and used for what was intended. We would have genius, temperament, gifted minds, gifted hands, inquisitive adventurist who would dare the impossible and would discover something, law of phsyics, etc

So I think I addressed the question of purpose, now, the question of judgement, judgement has to do with destroy and recreate, for instance, we had seen the era of landlines, they used their existence and then the manufacturer decides, let's stop using wired communication, it's too expensive, let's go for wireless communication, we see a sort of reviewing process. Everything gets destroyed, but some get rewarded, some are held as antiques and kept it museum, history books are written for their remembrance, monument are erected to recognize their labour and effort, but everything revolves around obedience. What is obedience to A, might be disobedience to B. A captain at the war front might ask his soldiers not to shoot at a given time, probably because the gunshot might expose their hideout and put their lives at joapardy, if a soldier fails to obey order, and he survives the war, reports would be sent and judgement passed.

Everyone would be rewarded for their obedience to the one who made them. We have everything here on earth that would point us to the creator, but that reminds me, the destroyer won't stop his deception, peace

Were we created
Secondly, is there going to be judgement

On creation, we have to answer the question of did we just happen based on chances or there was a mind behind us

On chances, chances deals with probability, likelihood, possibility, trail and error

Before there can be perfection, there must be knowledge and without a mind, there was no knowledge

For instance, we go to school, and there we learn how to read and write, but without learning, how can we read and write

So let's assume you were given a sowing machine, we all know how to pedder the machine, but to sow, it is learnt, you can't sow a clothe by accident and it looks good from the first trial. It is learnt, so knowledge first, then creation. So there must be a knowledge (mind) before there is creation.

For instance, the phone we hold might be launched a few years back, before the day of launching, there was a mind, knowledge was there.

While being asleep, we still sees ourselves probably doing one thing or the other, usually in the form of dream.

Basically man has a soul, the soul is responsible for feelings. There are time when I have dreams and I just while dreaming wish it was a dream. Lot of instances, that's the best description I can give, there are those who dream and they see things chasing them and while still dreaming, they wish they were dreaming.

Firstly, their mind wishes they are dreaming and at the same time, they see themselves, so we have personality (the person they see in their dreams) and they feel fear and all that, which is the mind.

The person they see in their dream is themselves, but it is not their body, evidently the body is asleep and still at rest, but here is someone else, which I can best call the human spirit. The breath we breathe is because our body is still in union with our spirit. So when that spirit leaves, the body seize to have what keeps it working, so it stops living because the human spirit can not dwell there anymore, but can spirits die.

Firstly, if the body while still asleep, and at rest can see itself (the spirit) doing other things, evidently, when the body is disconnected, the spirit continues it own life with a mind of its own.

That would take us back to creation and judgement

ezejessica:
I have always been in state of confusion especially when I see people talk about life after death, when I see many people worried about life after death and I use to be like why are you worried about life after death since you don't even know where you come from. No one can tell where we came from, they just gv birth to us please tell me something about this life after death if you believe please.

Life after death is compared to when one is asleep, while being asleep, he still sees himself probably doing one thing or the other, usually in the form of dream.

On the other hand, man has a soul, the soul is responsible for feelings. There are time when I have dreams and I just while dreaming wish it was a dream. Lot of instances, that's the best description I can give, there are those who dream and they see things chasing them and while still dreaming, they wish they were dreaming.

Firstly, their mind wishes they are dreaming and at the same time, they see themselves, so we have personality (the person they see in their dreams) and they feel fear and all that, which is the mind.

The person they see in their dream is themselves, but it is not their body, evidently the body is asleep and still at rest, but here is someone else, which I can best call the human spirit. The breath we breathe is because our body is still in union with our spirit. So when that spirit leaves, the body seize to have what keeps it working, so it stops living because the human spirit can not dwell there anymore, but can spirits die.

Firstly, if the body while still asleep, and at rest can see itself (the spirit) doing other things, evidently, when the body is disconnected, the spirit continues it own life with a mind of its own.

That would take us back to creation and judgement(after life)

Were we created
Secondly, is there going to be judgement

On creation, we have to answer the question of did we just happen based on chances or there was a mind behind us

On chances, chances deals with probability, likelihood, possibility, trail and error

Before there can be perfection, there must be knowledge and without a mind, there was no knowledge

For instance, we go to school, and there we learn how to read and write, but without learning, how can we read and write

So let's assume you were given a sowing machine, we all know how to pedder the machine, but to sow, it is learnt, you can't sow a clothe by accident and it looks good from the first trial. It is learnt, so knowledge first, then creation. So there must be a knowledge (mind) before there is creation.

For instance, the phone we hold might be launched a few years back, before the day of launching, there was a mind, knowledge was there.

Just take for instance, a block, used in building, it has holes, it can collectively form a shape. And be used in building, but it was all the product of a mind and the holes are for heat regulations.

Now to us, I can't even start there because do we talk about the eyes, it has a function to the body, the nose, the mouth, ear, skin, genitals, legs, all this things, they are even more complex than the block, phone, eyes see, nose smell, ear hears, mouth, heart, liver, testicles, hair, brain, stomach, on and on.

Then we talk about things that are disconnected from the body yet the body needs them, food, water, trees, they all support the body yet, they are not physically attached to the body, do we call this accident. We see what we call association, you bring this and this and it forms this.

So evidently, there must have been a knowledge, hence there was a mind. And that mind created all things.

Now to the creator, who is the creator, the creator has a mind that's all I can say here.

Now I believe I answered the creation or chance question

Now, on the side, I once sat down and asked myself, assuming there was no food on earth 🌍, would people do business. Just imagine we don't get hungry, evidently we would do things to get fun and away from boredom, but somehow, because of the desire for food and all that, we leave our homes and go out, and there we have activities and creativities.

People create things and give their best to make life more meaningful hence the reason for running around

Somehow, I must state that for every creation, there was a reason, phones were created for a purpose, everything has it's purpose, everything, the crude oil, even though it hasn't been discovered, it was there for a reason. But the mind would keep working until those things are discovered and used for what was intended. We would have genius, temperament, gifted minds, gifted hands, inquisitive adventurist who would dare the impossible and would discover something, law of phsyics, etc

So I think I addressed the question of purpose, now, the question of judgement, judgement has to do with destroy and recreate, for instance, we had seen the era of landlines, they used their existence and then the manufacturer decides, let's stop using wired communication, it's too expensive, let's go for wireless communication, we see a sort of reviewing process. Everything gets destroyed, but some get rewarded, some are held as antiques and kept it museum, history books are written for their remembrance, monument are erected to recognize their labour and effort, but everything revolves around obedience. What is obedience to A, might be disobedience to B. A captain at the war front might ask his soldiers not to shoot at a given time, probably because the gunshot might expose their hideout and put their lives at joapardy, if a soldier fails to obey order, and he survives the war, reports would be sent and judgement passed.

Everyone would be rewarded for their obedience to the one who made them. We have everything here on earth that would point us to the creator, but that reminds me, the destroyer won't stop his deception, ✌️

BigYash:
If leaders were doing the right thing, things like this won't happen. Look at how Tinubu and his wicked government is treating Nigerians,as if they are not human beings currently.. They have all the resources to make Nigeria the best country in the world,but they will rather loot the resources for their personal use.. One idiot was blaming Buhari days ago ,for Tinubu's failure,as if its not the same APC . Fools!

Apc blamed PDP for their failure in 8years.. Now APC is blaming APC, for APC failure in Tinubu's "so called " government

Now ,Apc is not even concerned about how to make the country better for citizens, na war when no concern Tinubu he carry for head. I am not surprised.. What do you expect from an ex drug Baron and an election rigger ..

I have kept saying it, you don't keep doing the same thing (APC) and expect a different results. Secondly, APC can not do what APC could not do🤦

BigYash:
If leaders were doing the right thing, things like this won't happen. Look at how Tinubu and his wicked government is treating Nigerians,as if they are not human beings currently.. They have all the resources to make Nigeria the best country in the world,but they will rather loot the resources for their personal use.. One idiot was blaming Buhari days ago ,for Tinubu's failure,as if its not the same APC . Fools!

Apc blamed PDP for their failure in 8years.. Now APC is blaming APC, for APC failure in Tinubu's "so called " government

Now ,Apc is not even concerned about how to make the country better for citizens, na war when no concern Tinubu he carry for head. I am not surprised.. What do you expect from an ex drug Baron and an election rigger ..

Tinubu is a master strategist ,
He transformed Lagos into what it is currently
Let's be patient and see how true those are

Racoon:
All these are warning signs. Most northern Muslims are fanatics who shared ancenstral links and religious bonds with Niger Republic. Tinubu only obsession is that non-Buhari and anti-neocolonists friendly coupists are the ones in charge today.

I really saw something now, do you know if it were to be a Christian president, they would term is a religious cleansing or something

AllenSpencer:
It’s just for a little while!

We need to cripple Niger’s economy at all cost. Starve them before we start bombing them!

Biafrans can attest to that tactic. By the time we start bombing them, they won’t have strength to fight back.

Bombing your fellow African over what 🤷🤷🤷

iamoyindamola:
How does stupid nonsense topic always end up in front page
Nigerians are suffering but this is what we are seeing here
Radarada

Lol, oga, the thread was just for fun 🤣🤣🤣

1Sharon:
Well, why do you still have her number?

Lepashalon, longest time, how's the UK

Dreadlock69:
We know dey for 5 month . I just dey with my phone , scrolling through my contact list on what app the phone start to shake and called her number three times without me knowing.
She called back I don’t even know what to say.

The same phone that was on your hand, began to shake and called her number 3 times 😂😂 yet you didn't know, and she picked lol, fabu of the year 😂😂

Dreadlock69:
We know dey for 5 month . I just dey with my phone , scrolling through my contact list on what app the phone start to shake and called her number three times without me knowing.
She called back I don’t even know what to say.

Her prayers are answering, go back and receive more violence, I came in peace ✌️😂😂🤣🤣

jackmrandy:
if he is still into drugs, talk to him and let him know the dangers.. if you are scared of doing such, talk to an elderly in the hoouse aboout his predicament..

I really don't think he's into it anymore, but this afternoon he went out and took longer than expected, came back with a tooth pick on his mouth, seeing the tooth pick raised my suspicion the more, but who knows

Alright, thanks for everything sir

jackmrandy:
if you don't have food, don't do drugs. especially weed. it will empty his stomach and alll he will be craving for will be food and food

Is there anything that can be done to undo it

The reason I said it was because, this morning we went, alright, before I left home, it was 8 thereabout, he eat something, though not much but sizable meal, immediately we got to the shop, cooler stuff, I took my serving and he took his and a good sizable amount of rice was still remaining, rice, the stew was sliced tomatoes and fried egg, so somehow, just to test my curiosity about his feeding Appetite, I told him a little was remaining in the cooler, not up to an hour after eating the previous, not to talk about the one he eat by 8am, and the other around 9am, then this around 10am. I went to check the cooler, the food was cleared. Alright

I checked the stew, small tomatoes and egg was still remaining, not even a spoonful of rice was remaining. I took it as okay, it's alright. Afternoon, he eat, just around 3:50pm, I saw him reaching for pure water somewhere in the shop, I knew he was probably hungry or something, I pretended as if I didn't see him, he went for the cooler, I knew there was no food in the cooler, he opened the cooler as if there was food in the cooler and went to a corner to, I don't know, cause it was only the stew that was remaining in the cooler.

Now the funniest part is, I have placed him on a kinda savings whatsoever, that probably he could save something over time and probably start a business where he would be self reliant, but seeing all these narrative is kinda cold foot or something, I feel so discouraged, but I believe there is light at the end of the tunnel. I am a positivist but this one is somehow above me