m@ jessica
mm.. true.. I don't think ur friend still in contact with his ex should be a problem to u dear if he really loves u and u trust him.. trust me.. ex do have influence on relationship but if he really loves u and surrounding ur romantic or relationship with him.. Bleep that ex..

Okay.. Those I offended now.. am sorry.. Those are typographic errors in my first post because am using a phone typad.. I said I wanted it to be secret because I knew she would probably find out about my previous girl friends.. So i thought keeping it low would solve the problem at least I will have the few time to make her trust me before her friends find out..

Those i offend.. Again am really sorry

Does it matter.. Am a Nigerian and 400level student

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Tell me.. There is this girl I met on a Saturday we talked and I escorted her to The hostel.. She gave me her number. Thought I did not call her but we saw again the next week.. I talked to her and I escorted her to the hostel again.. She came out and we talked for long.. I kissed her that day though she was reluctant like she wasn't kissing back but she allowed me.. Then after that day.. We were chatting one day.. And I kind of mention in to her that I want our relationship to be secret.. Like I don't want anyone to know we are friends.. And she said she understands.. We continue chatting but not vibrant.. Thou I haven't called her before.. The day I decided to call her.. She busied my call severally.. Then she told me on whatsapp that she is snubbing me that she don't want me to call again.. Thou we haven't seen physically and she denied such.. WHAT DO YOU THINK HAPPENED AND WHAT SHOULD I DO DEAR?

Note: in the hostel though different female hostels I have dated several girls.. And she is just new to the hostel(300level) girl