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Family / Re: My Dignity Is Crushed by himir42175: 10:51pm On May 15, 2022 |
Permit me to update this thread one last time. As suggested by others; i have inquired why this? And the ONLY response was "people can have bad luck and bad spirits in them; I don't want them to use "their own" to spoil your own. Not even because they will ask for money. Now this makes me more scared than the original problem. Meaning your own family has bad luck or bad spirits that can chase away good fortune. So now I'm caught between living the lie as a good-for-nothing fellow who begs to feed; or risk attracting "bad-luck" from in-laws and friends. You can see my dilemma. Thanks for your contribution thus far. |
Family / Re: My Dignity Is Crushed by himir42175: 4:35pm On May 15, 2022 |
Mariangeles: Without going into too much details, I am not stingy. You don't have to believe me though; but I'm not If I were, I wouldnt have created this thread in the first place. |
Family / Re: My Dignity Is Crushed by himir42175: 11:31am On May 15, 2022 |
Chasegb:I dont think this is luck. At this rate; nobody would want to do anything with me in the furture; because they will think i'm too poor to the extent that i'll elope with their money. they wil think i'm living on borrowed money and stuffs. that's the impression she is creating which i dont really fancy 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Dignity Is Crushed by himir42175: 11:29am On May 15, 2022 |
DontBullshitMe: Perhaps so; but I'm far more prudent than she is. |
Family / Re: My Dignity Is Crushed by himir42175: 8:47am On May 15, 2022 |
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Family / Re: My Dignity Is Crushed by himir42175: 8:42am On May 15, 2022 |
Candidlady: The story is legit; i assure you. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Dignity Is Crushed by himir42175: 8:41am On May 15, 2022 |
Bluntguy: Everybody knows Dangote is rich but can everybody access him for help? if you followed me you'll notice, I have no qualms with concealing your finances; but the method is what I frown at. It's one thing for her family to demand, it's another for me to give in. |
Family / My Dignity Is Crushed by himir42175: 2:46am On May 15, 2022 |
I'll try to summarize. I recently came across good fortune, after lots of hardwork. The type that upscales your standard of living by a huge percentage. Good right? But the problem now is my spouse. For reasons known best to her, she doesnt want her family to have any idea of this. I understand times are wicked and you gotta be careful. I understand this. but the approach is what mesmerizes me. When they ask after us, she sometimes tell them we've not eaten for days. That we had to go beg for food etc. That somebody lent us piecemeal amounts etc to eat. That i'm sick and we cant pay the hospital bill. She even goes as far as asking siblings to send her recharge vouchers like 100, 200, etc. And sometimes sends her account number to them and beg for 1k, 2k etc. Now this puts me off because, in so doing she has dragged my respect to the mud. Probably they all now see me as a church-rat, no do-good. If you want to hide your finances, must you tell them that we havent eaten for days, and beg them to send you 1k to eat. It hurts my reputation alot. Not only her siblings, her friends and all. Did she think about the image of me she is portraying by doing such? I'm really cnfused and it hurts me alot because you would think she's trying to be smart to save money. But the reverse is the case; cos she doesnt blows through money like hot knife through butter. The problem now is why she had to rubbish me inthe mud for this? I didnt ask for any of this. 1 Like |
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