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Helpout12345:
From the little you have disclosed,

1. You married someone you dated for 2 months just because she got pregnant. Most likely both of you didn't know each other well enough before you married out of circumstance. Because of this, you might not even be compatible on many aspects of life.

On compatibility, it's not late to find out how compatible you people are. If you are both not and not willing to change lifestyle, beliefs, and life perspectives to become more compatible, you can as well end the marriage now because it will not work out.

2. Even if you are compatible, the moment you are struggling financially as the man of the house, you will see any woman in her true colors. This is why it's always good to have an idea of how a girlfriend will react to you when you are down financially before you marry.

Now that you are already in the marriage, you are financially down, all you have to do is continue to hussle hard and talk to your wife that everything will soon be okay. Sit her down. Talk to the soft side of her. Let her know that you need her peace, support and prayers to pull through and become the man she wants financially.

3. Even if compatibility and finance are not the issue, there's always the initial learning curve or stage in every marriage. This is usually immediately after marriage to a couple of years after, where both parties will relax, display their true self. This is stage where most marriages fight or quarrel the most because the parties have to re-learn the true characters of their partners. Most people hide their bad characters during dating, most especially when they want the dating to end in marriage.

To pass this stage, you both need alot of patience, tolerance, commitment and communication. If you both recognize this stage and apply all mentioned, the stage will surely pass and you will get your home back in order.

Good luck!

Thanks you said it all on point 2

JASONjnr:
Why judge from one sided story.....?

Op, if two or more people hates you, you should do well to tell us what you have done.

Are you hard working and providing? Or hard working and stingy?

Are you taking care of the bills or she's doing that for you?

Are you having time for her or your all about work? Or a stay at home husband?


Tell us more....

You lack reading and listening. If I can get the money to pay her pride price after 2 months of dating just because she's pregnant do you think I will ever hold back my pocket to spend on her? Secondly, I wrote that her father hates me for no just costs. You Dont know the meaning of that? Thirdly, if things was like this do you think I could have been able to raise money for the marriage, and wedding? I've never been greedy and I always give when I have not to my family only but to outsiders as well. But since I got married things hasn't been funny. The girl in Question is an Isoko/Edo I'm a full born uwvie man with less stress.

Redoil:
how old are you and your wife or how matured are you and your wife before venturing into marriage?

note that you are old enough does not mean you are matured

I'm 29 already

That's just what I'm going to work on

So I got married in November 2020 and since then things have been going down on me and things are very hard plus the girl I got married to doesn't give me peace of mind, we quarrel more than we play and we always have disagreements all the time, even though I got married to her because she was pregnant, she doesn't respect that. Since the married her father has automatically seen me as an enemy for no just cost. The worst part is that the girl always insults me and tells me that I will keep begging to eat anytime we have issues. Please I need your advice

Even for the house of God

I based on Season movies.

Lucifer*

Mid night Texas

Lost in space

Pablo Escobar

Into the badlands

The last kingdom

The Originals

Queen of the south

Vikings

Lemme light up my weed and scroll next post***

The real problem they should even complain about is who’s battery reduces while making whatsapp calls. Not cheap data �

Puskas:
She will end up loving and caring for her child more than you

fact!!!

He’s one of the best ever