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Apina:

Must u say something stupid just because u wanna comment. She signed a prenuptial agreement dimwit

aiyele200:
Hi Nlanders,

Good morning and happy weekend. I am posting this due to the fact that my patience and understanding is being taken for granted by my wife. 6 years already into this marriage, disobedience and unfaithfulness in terms of not being straightforward with me has been the order of the marriage, though a times, the woman changes for good, then later she starts again.

One sunday afternoon after returning back from church, she quickly rushed to me saying she wanted to go and drop her sister at the hospital since the first malaria treatment she had didnt work. I asked where the hospital is, said somewhere in gbagada, knowing fully well that my wife does not know gbagada well, and knowing well also that she was going with the kids, I volunteered to drop them off, but she kept mute, and her body language showed that she didnt want me to drop them off. So I said, plz be careful, gave her money to branch at the filling station to top up the fuel in the car.

On their way going, I got hungry cos lunch was not prepared b4 they left, I decided to rush down to the nearest eatery to get sumtin to eat, on entering my own car, figured out my fuel was low, so I decided to go to the filling station. On getting there, I was packed at my wife's car, she was actually standing beside the passenger side which is weird, cos she was the one that drove off, I looked at the drivers side, and I could see a man's head. So my wife came to meet me, said she just paid for fuel, they are leaving now, at that time, I was expecting her to at least explain who the person at the drivers seat was, with my kids in the car oooo!!! She just went straight to the passenger side and closed the door. I was really stunned and surprised.

I pressed the horn for her to come down, soon as she came down, she immediately said, oh i forgot to ask you if it was ok for Segun to drop us at the hospital, I was like why, she said because he seems to know the place. Funny thing is, this guy I have never met before, but she has told me about him b4 and I know him as the guy that loans she and her sister money when urgent funds are needed. So she called the dude down from the car, introduced him proper and I asked them to leave. A lot of people will sure blame me for allowing someone I dont really know to drive my family to a location, but at that moment I was still stunned because to me it was the highest level of mistrust and disappointment, so I could not take a drastic move @ that moment. They left, and the same guy dropped them off.

That night, I called my wife and sat her down, that I need an explanation on how the whole scene played out, cos I volunteered to go and drop you guys, u didnt answer me, and all of a sudden, I am seeing another man whether known or unknown person in the car with my kids without u telling me b4 u left the house that someone was going to drive u guys. She responded saying, to be sincere, they had plans seeing the guy at the bus stop to discuss loan, but she decided to have the guy drive them since he knows the hospital and since he is a man. I was like fine, but when u came to meet me, I thought u were supposed to tell me who was in the car, instead u walked off, she said actually I forgot, that it was the moment that u pressed the horn that I realized I was suppose to ask u if it was ok for segun to drive us. Oh well, they say communication is key in marriages, I will not say she was lying, thought I know something dont add up, so I moved on.

But the damn thing that really got me worried was that, few days to that very day, I noticed her being worried and soliloquizing, asked her what the problem is, claimed that its the money she lent last from the segun guy which she has not been able to pay is what is worrying her, that the dude has been askeing her for the money since it has elapsed the paying time. With that alone, it gave me a worrying thought that, it was the same guy that I ended up seeing on code @ d filling station driving my family off.

Nlanders, sorry for the long epistle, if I dont explain well, you guys wont understand in details, for the married guys and ladies, whats your take on this issue? Does something really isnt adding up?

Thanks!

GREGORIAN:
my bro it aint badluck oooo...wat u believe in life works 4u..if u believe u gah badluck then badluck will fall on u...cloud ur mind with positive thoughts...urs is small...i know of a guy that got his trv approved on the 6th time...5 failed attempts...even inventors b4 there inventions finally get approved...if you ask them they will tell u they tried countless times b4 there invention worked finally...so my bother if it fails on a third time...and it happens to fall this period.....just believe mayb God doesnt want you to experience intense cold temperature getting above -20 decrees Celsius in Canny....maybe he wants you to get in canada during winter 2018 because of a reason....Remember God is wiser than anything u can think of...u will understand later wen u get in canada...so order ur gcms file take your time to understand the reason 4 ur denial dont just rush n refire...if posible get all three gcms file and compare...isolate the problem...tackle n refire...in ur SOP...straight to the point since you got three denials....no long talk..just hit the nail at the point u gathered from ur gcms files...calm down wen doing all this...coz u urself matter in the whole process...wen u r desperate u tend to display it unknowingly even to the VO, ur subconscious does the work...finally believe in GOD...dont ignore God because u think ur application is d best....after u submit ur application do sumtin positive with ur time...engage in sumtin meaningful...b4 u know it it ll just happen...n u ll come share ur testimony...so my bro order ur gcms file ...take time to tackle the issue after gettin all gcms files...dont rush n refire coz uve been denied three times now..i suppose after ur 2nd denial u rushed the third application to meet fall....4get about dat...take ur time...above all...God first....i dont believe in such tin as badluck...itz ur mindset, ur thoughts that actract the so called talk called badluck...n b4 u know it...it starts manifesting in eritin u do...as ur believe about badluck increases so ur problem increases..b4 u know it 20 times sef ur application wont b approved...so first clear any negative thought...some got there trv approved after 4 times failure, some 5 times...God's grace will manifest in ur life as u apply this wise council..bless you

Stadiax:
I have just bin delayed for the third time.. Guess Canada is not for everyone..... Reasons are not satisfied I will return to my country based on purpose of visit, travel history and personal n financial status.... I paid some funds to the school and also got full funding ..i applied on July 14.....guess is time to move on. Painful... Thanks house

michael142:
For where? Yahoo and banking and finance na two different thing oh

hopefulLandlord:
This is simply a fallacy called Post ergo proper hoc" (Latin: "afterthis, therefore because of this" is a logical fallacy that states "Since event Y followed event X, event Y must have been caused by event X."

X occurred, then Y occurred.
Therefore, X caused Y.

that the madness happened (Y) after she had sex with a rich man (X) doesn't mean her having sex caused it

eg The rooster crows before sunrise, therefore the crowing rooster causes the sun to rise

a black cat crosses my path on the way to school. I then fail a test that day. It means the cat caused my failing the test not my lack of studying

Madness could've happened to anybody at any time, that it happened after sex doesn't mean the sex caused it

I hope I've done some justice to this

bayocanny:
How far?

rentAcock:
This 18yr old girl is a pedophile and child molester regardless of whatever customs her people observe. A 17 year old boy is undeage and should be dating his age mates or immediate junior.

The girl should be found and arrested immediately, and quite honestly should be sent to life imprisonment for endangering the welfare a child, aggravated rape and pedophilia.

These are the kind of issues the government should focus its attention, instead they are busying chasing after multi billion dollar looters. This issue affects the common man more so than all the efforts spent chasing after looters.