₦airaland Forum

The very peak of every hardworking is to achieve what others have never achieved. Congratulations Ma.

ravensckar:
Pastor, you don make mistake. Na that other gender dey marry for money, not us. Even if money is involved, if enjoyment no follow, we won't reason the matter.

This lady fit no see any suitor. The way men dey reason different from that other gender.

Wetin I wan use house and financial support do? Make I come dey with woman wey fit bite me? Shuo!

Abeg, I'm trying not to laugh jare.

Best of luck to her!

She will have, but will the husband treat her well and not cheat on her after marriage is another thing.

immortalcrown:
Her father is or was in Iran enforcing Sharia dress code while she was in another country doing the opposite.

She also went to school while her father was probably stopping other girls from going to school in Iran.

Talk about double standard, this is also exactly what is happening in the northern part of this country.

Mrslarissa98:
Hello everyone, I need your advice please.
I am half Nigerian. I am married and currently living in another African country with my husband and our two children. Our first child is 4 years old and the youngest is 9 months old.

I was born and raised in Nigeria to a Nigerian father. When I was 13 years old, my parents divorced. My mother took me, my younger brother, and my elder sister from her previous relationship back to her country. Since we left, I have not seen or spoken to my father.

Unfortunately, my mother passed away two years later when I was only 15. Life was very difficult for us because my mother’s family treated us badly, but that is not really what I am looking for advice about, so I will keep the story short.

I got married 5 years ago, and 3 years ago my husband and I relocated to a different African country. We are both involved in business. I run a hair salon while also taking care of my duties as a wife and mother.

When I started my business, my daughter was already 2 years old and attending school, so it was easier to manage both my business and my responsibilities at home. But when I became pregnant with my son, I knew it would not be easy anymore because I would need someone to help take care of him while I worked. I stayed home for about 3 months after he was born, and when I was preparing to return to work, I asked my pastor’s wife to help me find someone to assist me. She had helped other people find help before, and she introduced us to a 19-year-old girl who came to live with us.

At first, everything was going well. She took very good care of my baby. My daughter’s school was close to my shop, so I was the one dropping her off and picking her up. We had planned that the following year we would move her to a school closer to the house so the girl could help with picking her up.

Let me also add that while I was on maternity leave, my husband used to come home around 1 p.m. to eat lunch. But when I returned to work, I asked him not to come home during the day anymore and to start taking food to work instead, which he did.

When my baby was about 5 months old, we left for work as usual. Around 10 a.m., my phone rang. It was my husband saying he was at the hospital with the maid and the baby. I panicked and asked what happened and if my baby was okay. He said the baby was fine, but the maid was the one who was not well.

He told me that he was at work, but he suddenly felt very uneasy, like something was telling him to go home and check on the baby. When he got home, he heard the baby crying inside the room where the maid shared with our daughter. At first, he ignored it, thinking maybe she was changing the baby. But the crying became worse, and he heard a loud bump. He called the maid’s name, but there was no response. When he entered the room, he found her lying on the floor naked, and the baby was next to her crying. He picked up the baby and called the neighbors, who helped cover her and put her in his car. One male neighbor followed them to help with the baby while they went to the hospital.

The girl was unconscious at first, but later she recovered. After she was discharged, I was wondering what could have happened. I asked her if she had any history of seizures or something similar, but she said no. She explained that she could not clearly remember what happened that day. She said that after putting the baby to sleep, she rushed to take a bath, and after coming out of the bathroom she could not remember anything else until she woke up in the hospital.

During the following days, I allowed her to rest as much as possible, and I started taking my baby with me to my shop. It was not easy, but I wanted her to recover.

One day, I came back home and found the house empty. She was nowhere to be found. I panicked and called her number, but it was switched off. I called our pastor’s wife, but she said she had not seen her. She was already aware of what had happened at the hospital. We were all worried and tried to reach her without success. Our pastor’s wife even sent someone to her aunt’s house to check if she was there, but she was not.
After a few days, we found out that she was staying with her elder sister in another town. We felt some relief knowing she was at least with family. We tried to contact her to ask why she left suddenly, but she would not pick up our calls


Now I feel like taking my children and going back to my home country. I cry every day and feel very depressed. I really need advice, please help me.

. I would have said leave but seeing that your mum was also divorced, it may be a generational thing, look at the rest of your family both immediate and others to see how they are fairing in their marriages. Pray about it, real fasting and prayer, create an alter in your home and go for counselling. Well after sometime if symptom persist leave and start afresh. Live is too short to be taking unnecessary burdens.

dawnomike:
What am interesting reason...

interesting indeed, I don't know what girls are feeling like, so she believes her kpe....kus is worth 800, 000 naira. Ha

LarryMurphy:
And where is the father? Why is the father not mentioned or also celebrated? Will you even be surprised that it was the father who always gave her the money to buy the boots?

Fear women o!!!

probably dead or very old na, no be everything them dey talk

Afolabimills:
F ...a ...k...e pastor causing problems in the society

He may not necessarily be fake the reason he may have survived the ordeal. He is just not enlightened.

ufotunang:
..he is just 36 years old

it's not by age only, he has a small frame than most contenders, the beating he has been receiving over the years has began showing.

Let him just retire. His time has passed. Body no be firewood.

Later they would say school na scam, this is part of the things you learn in school, how to compot and carry yourself for people to respect you.

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GanagiBitrus:
No wahala, provided they are not calling for the Trophy to be awarded to them.

that is first phase na, if they succeed they will call for the trophy to be awarded to them.

Rielbusinesses:
A man of God with out a single scandal... Just because he speaks bad English and good Igbo people say he is fake

exactly I respect him because he is as plain as a book enjoying what he does, people beat him because he is free spirited and happy and I thank God that he is blessing him.

richiemcgold:
I agree that Papa Ajasco is a copyrighted name which he can't use personally. But I disagree with the part of the agreement where he must seek official approval from WAP before accepting advert jobs. That's not a good agreement.

Modified:
Those quoting me don't understand my point. My opinion is based on what I would've done if I were in his shoes. I don't have to use the name for advert jobs, I will only maintain the same appearance of Papa Ajasco in every adverts I do. It is the name that is copyrighted, not my appearance.

they never said he cannot accept advert jobs but before accepting advert jobs in which he will use the brand Papa Ajasco he must seek approval

Cunha247:
There is something about this video that makes it look like a content
Why did u put mic on papa ajasco before the whole stuff started

I wish him the best though

you don't want her to make her money back, as she posted it at least it will continue to generate income for her.

DoctorAyukebot:
Wandas.. 😂
I have a PhD in Pharmacognosy. Mind you I wouldn't even consider Naira 3 million for a starting monthly salary.

maybe you are working outside the country, or running your personal business because no Nigerian institution will pay you more than 280000naira mountly lecturer II.

jaxxy:
Whst year was then?? And who what makes u think because that's what federal or state pays its ok? Do u know other perks and additions that come with federal and state jobs?

Do you also know what it takes to run a private university, running generator almost 24hours, paying of staff salaries, lab equipment and consumables. Paying of private security and also the police. They only have student school fees to take all this cost from. Running 24/7 Internet service for both staff and students. The guy is not even saying the full truth as covenant university also has accommodation for staffs. Let's say that accommodation saves you 700k a year. Like I said the school is trying and just because he has a better job now does not mean he should badmouth the place that gave him an opportunity in his career journey.

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jaxxy:
I hope this is false because a php lecturer shouldn't earn less then 500k for starters depending of years of experience.

2ndly cannan land is not oyedepo's personal property it is church property. A non profit enitity.

that was a professors salary in a federal institution as at then. The salary is not so different from federal and state, let's say 50k lower than federal, so it's OK. The fact that the guy has better things doing now does not mean he should mock his beginning.

bestman09:
He was probably attended to because he is a kind of celebrity.

if that is true then it's still unfortunate and hopeless. Fingerprinting would solve all this issue, it's just that Nigeria does not want to progress, if they take the fingerprint at point of entry then even if such people later escape before police come, you can match the fingerprint with NIN, but no Nigeria does not just want progress.

Thank God say Nigerian police and hospitals don dey get sense. You treat a gunshot victim while reporting to the police in the process, not you rejecting a gunshot victim. Hospitals should have a direct line to contact the closest police station to them in case of such or any incident.

Great service to the country.

PerfectStranger:
You were either swapped or adopted or one of them cheated. Run a DNA test asap.

which one is one of them, abi the mum cheated

Mikespecialone:
The police would come and say who taught him how to shoot

you understand Nigeria police wella. He may even be told he has no right to defend himself as the peaceful robbers only waved the gun around with no intention of shooting.

Rep9jaCom:
A young couple’s marriage has reportedly collapsed just three months after their wedding, following a deep disagreement over church attendance, Rep9ja reports.



https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/man-ends-months-marriage-wife/

That her pastor is not a true man of God, how can a pastor support a woman to rebel the husband under any guise. It has been a long standing rule that a lady's wedding should be in her church after which she will relocate to the husband's church. You know you don't like the man's church why would you marry him. Secondly the man should have exercised patience and focus on getting the woman pregnant since dem don marry. After which he can change the woman's heart.

Good for them, when they would have been serious with qualification, they were busy fighting their coach thinking they were doing him, not knowing they were doing themselves.

I traveled for a wedding I. the state no single gallop or pothole were I went to, the governor really tried in road construction. Even farms have good roads. Thumbs 👍

LordBiden:
Politics and sentiments aside,24/7 power in Nigeria is not possible.

It would cost Nigeria up to 5 trillion naira or more to generate and distribute stable power supply,of which Nigeria doesn't have the money.

These is not about APC or pdp,the maths doesn't add up.

This is not true, the main problem is corruption and lack of accountability

renderme:
But you can already print out the membership cards, you are only asked to come authenticate it. Isnt the online register what will be presented to INEC? It seems like theyre trying to fulfil all righteousness and not trying to do a real registration.

The way APC did theirs all new members had to go join at ward level physically, with their documents and even voters card and then they register them online and issue a membership card.
Only old members were able to do it online with their already issued membership cards and then they are added to the online register too.

This ADC method will have a lot of numbers and not much real people since there was no screening. What’s the point? Just to look good online? I just see it as fake life.

well they are learning, this is the only problem I have with the aspirants, they have no interest in building their platforms, If you cannot build your platform how then can you build the nation you want to govern.

Rebelutionary:
There is an issue...a serious one at that except you want to downplay this whole failure on the part of the ADC.

If anybody can wake up and fill anything with any junk image and get an e-id then how do we determine the integrity of the data they claim to have?. How is the data of genuine registrants safe?

Truth is that you cannot have assess to nin database to verify as they are not a government entity or financial institution. Their verification can only be manual.

After registration you still have to do physical verification before been given a membership card, so there is no issue here.

But funny enough the guy is trying as governor.

This can be the only reason why I may vote for tinubu for second tenure, if sharia is to be removed, it will take a president with nothing to loss to do that.

That was too emotional and radical of the Oga, he would have allowed the boy keep the full amount, work him through how he got the money, that is a potential revenue stream or something to block to stop him as a business man from hemorrhaging money in the future. Now that he has driven the boy, he will never know.