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brain54:
She isn't far off the mark...

Why the outrage.


Very few jobs can... less than 10-15% of jobs (top company executives) which is abysmally low.( I believe I'm being generous)


Not entirely correct if she says no jobs... but not very far off the mark as only a very few jobs can!

for any body less than 40, I don't think there is any blue or white colar job we're you will be able to buy a brand new car in one or two years with just your salary.

SpencerForbes:
You’re 100% spot on. This wasn't just a 'pick me' move; it was a carefully orchestrated script.

There should be legal consequences for this. If you spend time in certain hotels, you'll realize the level of desperation is high once a foreigner is involved. They end up treating these women like cheap goods.

Imagine if a black man tried that same stunt in Russia... he wouldn't even live to tell the story. We really need to start valuing ourselves.

Even my small brother that came back to spend one month in two weeks, he f'cked more than 25girls. Many of them same day.

elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.

I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.


Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going

What ever you do, don't leave your wife oh, the day you do, the day you will see and know the true meaning of suffer. Sorry to break it to you but all the things you said point to one thing, your wife is likely what we usually call an Ogbanje. If they, love you dem done done love you, things will be going well for you. They will continue to support you spiritually and you will think all your success is yours, do you know how many people graduated with first class in Nigeria or how many software developer there are, guy if you think I am lying ask a spiritual man, they will tell you. How you go expect person wey done carry her lucky charm join your own make e serious for work again.

Another thing that made me say that is that abroad stuff, the source of her power is in Nigeria, that is why she is discouraging you from travelling bet it if you too push her she will ask you to go, even with the children but she will stay behind, this is because they cannot leave far away from their source.

You are lucky you brought this here if not Oyo would have been your future. You will leave her and she will still find another man and the man will be very successful while you will fall flat. You go wonder, except you want make another person train your children.

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elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.

I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.

She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.

Since I met her, I have overworked myself.

Story long..

Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.

If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.

I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.

Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going

Whatever you do

Originalsly:
I knew someone who made an uneducated and unskilled woman his wife. He was a Police ....had three children ... got promotions .. never sent his wife to school ... retired ...died. The wife? ..bona fide housewife ... his entire salary went to her ... she gave him his "spending allowance" ... she took care of all the expenses ... took care of the children. He was happy with the arrangement ... especially knowing he had a gambling problem . Uncle married a liability...a good looking liability.

At times life is grace, one lady I know did not go to school, trafficked abroad, met a white man, an engineer as olosho things, the man went for an interview one day in shell looking for expatriate in Nigeria, to edge out other applicant, he said he had a Nigerian wife, that is how he got the job and to keep up the rues married the girl, contract open marriage at first, the man came to Nigeria was frolicking around, money don dey, the wife gave him some children over the years and decided to get serious with her life, the man did not agree, so decided to leave the man, when the company found out, they almost sacked him, till the man begged and the lady said 70 percent of salary should be coming to her, who would have known that the lady's talent was real estate, she said when the man's salary hit her account, nothing to do with it, so she was using it as down payment for any real estate she could find, till she paid it out, that is how this woman made the man a multimillionaire within a space of 15 years, the man later resigned from his job to enjoy life with the wife.

The best would have been making her trusted son or daughter a signatory to the account.

People are just wicked, this is not robbery, this is terrorism, with the price of phones and other gadgets now how will such a person recover. God forbid. Nothing less than 10million just went down like that. Imagine the person just borrowed money to stock the shop. The security personnel in the plaza should be investigated and charged to court.

The vigilantes should be sanctioned if no weapon is found on the thieves. Na on top bag of rice dem end three people lives so. We should take life more seriously in this country.

CrownOfClay724:
What point are you exactly trying to make?

that any position you are given, do good by that position, rather than not accepting it, because you think you are too good or too righteous.

Better fill the form, we are always saying we will make the country better, but when it's time we will not make ourselves available. When bad people come to take over the system we keep on complaining. Evil persist because good men do nothing. You never can tell were God will take you to and the position of influence were you can truly assist.

dettolgel:
Escaped or was at her boyfriend's place?

lolz, maybe e don first commot for hostel go see man.