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Racoon:
France is the likely favourite to win this world cup.

Paraguay will beat France, mark my words

brain54:
This your post dey contradict o...


After saying what you want to say. You come congratute them again.



Anyways, I know a lot of people married to esan women. And they are very happily married. I even have close in-laws married to esan women and they are happy together.


I know men that were discouraged from esan women... close people... one at a point I felt the pressure myself even though I wasn't the one getting married to her and if I was the one directly faced with such pressure I'm sure I might have buckled at a point. But he went ahead to marry her and till today no regrets.


I actually like the esan women I have met character wise and I don't see anything particularly wrong with them.



Most times it is esan people themselves that try to discourage esan women marriage or paint them in a way.


I won't be surprised if you are esan. Maybe, easans don't like themselves or I don't know the reasons for that.




I once stayed in a compound were an esan recently rented at the time and just moved into his apartment. I told him the landlord of the next compound we shared a fence with was esan, thinking I was doing him a favor introducing him to his brother. His demeanor changed immediately and started saying negative and insultive things about someone he had never met.


Till this man later moved out from the compound years later he never spoke with that neighbor and would spit each time he saw him drive past.


I don't really understand why they are like that to each other.


But I know personally the esan women I have met are not bad in anyway i can think of. I even dated some in the past. And I like their women for being caring and loving. I was particularly close to one but long distance later cut short the relationship because she was in "xenophobia" republic.


Stereotyping people is a somehow something!

The one that is good is extremely good and the one that is evil is extremely evil. There is no middle ground with them.

Hezmatosky210:
Nigeria!!! Although, because we are big that's why all these things are happening. But am still calling on the government to dish out money, employ and pay workers. If only Nigeria can carryout the highest employment in the world. RECRUIT-ATHON.
Nigeria government employ people, irrespective of age, gender and tribe. We have the money naw, abi?

are we larger than China, let's call a spade a farm tool, it is because of successive bad leaders with no atom of patriotism to the land, that has led us to what we have now.

SlavaUkraini:
https://dailypost.ng/2026/06/04/2027-jonathan-too-smart-to-risk-his-legacy-for-another-presidency-ex-minister/

if Trump can do it, then Jonathan too can do it.

This is the only thing I like about Oshiomhole, he fears no body, he does what he has to do. Just like Tinubu, the only difference is that Tinubu does not seek advice from those more knowledgeable than him and has a God complex. Oshiomhole would have made a fine president, just a shame he is from the minority.

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escortafrik:
I’m a lady in my mid-30s and life was going very well for me except for one thing everybody except me seemed obsessed with - marriage.

I have a good career, I’m financially stable, respected in my field, and I genuinely loved the life I built for myself. But every family gathering, every wedding, every phone call from relatives somehow turned into:

“So when are you getting married?” You’re not getting younger oo

Eventually, I met someone through mutual friends.

He was unemployed at the time, but that did not bother me much because he was intelligent, kind, calm, and surprisingly very knowledgeable in the same profession as me.

We connected deeply and for the first time in a long while, I felt like I had found the ‘one’

As our relationship became serious, I started helping him professionally too. I helped him restructure his CV, prepared him for interviews, connected him to opportunities, and eventually introduced him to my organisation when there was an opening.

Thankfully, he got the job.

I was genuinely happy for him because I knew how difficult things had been for him financially before then. And after he got the job, things became even sweeter between us.

And some month after he proposed to me ! my joy became complete! My family was overjoyed.

Then, just as our wedding plans were moving forward smoothly, the company we worked introduced a new policy stating that married couples could no longer work in the organisation together. Once two employees got married, one person would have to resign.

That was when the real problem started.

I assumed we would sit down and discuss it logically.

I have spent years building my career there.
I’m more senior.
I currently earn more.
And if we’re being realistic, my position is more stable at the moment.

But my fiancé shocked me.

He told me I should be the one to resign because:

“I’m the man.”

Initially I didn’t take him seriously but as the wedding date drew closer, he kept pressuring me to resign !

I then reminded him that I was already established before he came into the company. I was the one who helped him get the opportunity in the first place. If anyone should logically stay, shouldn’t it be the person whose career was already firmly built there?

But he said it would be embarrassing for him as a man if he was the one leaving while his wife continued working there, that I could do something else like supermarket business.

Imagine !

Since then, everything has changed.

Wedding plans have paused.
We now fight everyday
Even his family are supporting him, telling me to resign !
my heart is broken.

Not just because of the job itself, but because I genuinely believed I was building a life with someone who saw me as an equal partner.

Well I have concluded that I won’t resign and I will also make sure he is sacked. No one should call me wicked because he is very wicked for wanting to do this to me.



https://community.escortafrik.com/d/198-i-helped-my-fiance-get-a-job-in-my-company-now-he-wants-me-to-resign

Even if you are going to leave, make sure its after the wedding. Before then start submitting your CV. There I'd always a better place, it's just that we are too tied to our present place.

Your voice is really bad, the beginning almost gave me a heart attack, try dey use auto tune small. No offense.

There comes a time in a man's life were you will have to find your path and live your life. The fact that he helped him does not mean that he should become a yes sir to him.

Lithiumite:
I knew this guy was going to win the primaries,has oredo on lock down and a thorn i. Obaseki's flesh during the last elections.....but why oshiomole noh wan settle ize iyamu,the man don try nah.

Ize iyamu has been settled since. His wife is the new CMD of UBTH for almost a year now

OLAADEGBU:
Joni Lamb, president and co-founder of Daystar Television Network, has died, the network announced Thursday. She was 65.

The prophesy was never fake, look at the first few sentences again. It was her time, the ways of God cannot be questioned, only the will of God is supreme.

samuelson06:
There's no sweet 35-40 yo woman anywhere.

to 60 something year old man there is. It has to do with age difference.

Next up marry sweet 35 to 40year old start new life no time. Women should respect their husband, we don't need love just respect. Men love your wife. This is what the Bible admonished.

Fountainofyouth:
Is she not from Edo state? Same woman that said she will never contest for any political seat, lmao talk is truly cheap 🤣

Honestly the indigenous people of Abuja are very tolerant just like Yorubas, Edo indigenes will never allow strangers to contest for council seat, talk more senate, they are just like igbos, smh.

Etsako is different from the rest of Edo State, we have roots in the north and often internally with them so see no reason it won't work.

I highly commend this, this is what is to be expected from all head of military and paramilitary agencies, when a citizen dies as a result of extra judicial killing, you treat it as if a whole state was executed, it does not matter if the person was a criminal, that should be left for the court to decide.

I have said it before and am saying it again this agent stuff need to be cancelled and prohibited.

Lovelink1991:
This your advice harsh ooooo, make she run leave her marriage

Even if man na playboy for outside when it comes to his wife he is protective. If he can bottle up his anger, the day he will explode, that day dead body go surplus. When a person takes abuse whether male or female, a day will come were they can hold their emotions no longer when that day comes as I said nai dead body take dey surplus.

Better run oh, except he is into men or something. He will kill you one day.

Axis313:
Cross was a tool used by the Romans to torture criminals, the same cross is now seen as the religion symbol of some people.

yes it is a tool of death and of destruction of sin/criminals. That is why when you look onto the cross, all your sins are forgiven and you become a new man as Jesus being the son of God came down and though sinless, was nailed to the same cross for atonement of our sins and as an ultimate sacrifice for mankind.

COMPAQ:
It doesn't even mean we still cant borrow, but let the borrowing be tied to very specific capital projects.

This is exactly the point. The borrowing is not tied to anything, just reckless borrowing.

Broveens42:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1EdYpSFwkg/

This initiative was first started in Edo, the best legacy Gov. Obaseki left behind, and also thank the new government for continuing it. Just like Edo State, I hope this skill up will be available to all Nigerians and not just the people of Imo state. The Imo state government can also go further to also do this foe informal trades such as tailoring, welding, bricklaying and so on in other to rapidly skill up the youths.

Na money and connection dem take dey see tight push nowadays.

This is our cultural dance style, I don't understand what you people are yapping about.

Cherrybae:
VDM is the National leader of all youths in Nigeria.

On VDM we stand. Anywhere he goes, anything he does, we will support him.

God bless VDM
The Ogbuagu 1 of Ndigbo

Is you he is leading not me.

The very peak of every hardworking is to achieve what others have never achieved. Congratulations Ma.

ravensckar:
Pastor, you don make mistake. Na that other gender dey marry for money, not us. Even if money is involved, if enjoyment no follow, we won't reason the matter.

This lady fit no see any suitor. The way men dey reason different from that other gender.

Wetin I wan use house and financial support do? Make I come dey with woman wey fit bite me? Shuo!

Abeg, I'm trying not to laugh jare.

Best of luck to her!

She will have, but will the husband treat her well and not cheat on her after marriage is another thing.

immortalcrown:
Her father is or was in Iran enforcing Sharia dress code while she was in another country doing the opposite.

She also went to school while her father was probably stopping other girls from going to school in Iran.

Talk about double standard, this is also exactly what is happening in the northern part of this country.

Mrslarissa98:
Hello everyone, I need your advice please.
I am half Nigerian. I am married and currently living in another African country with my husband and our two children. Our first child is 4 years old and the youngest is 9 months old.

I was born and raised in Nigeria to a Nigerian father. When I was 13 years old, my parents divorced. My mother took me, my younger brother, and my elder sister from her previous relationship back to her country. Since we left, I have not seen or spoken to my father.

Unfortunately, my mother passed away two years later when I was only 15. Life was very difficult for us because my mother’s family treated us badly, but that is not really what I am looking for advice about, so I will keep the story short.

I got married 5 years ago, and 3 years ago my husband and I relocated to a different African country. We are both involved in business. I run a hair salon while also taking care of my duties as a wife and mother.

When I started my business, my daughter was already 2 years old and attending school, so it was easier to manage both my business and my responsibilities at home. But when I became pregnant with my son, I knew it would not be easy anymore because I would need someone to help take care of him while I worked. I stayed home for about 3 months after he was born, and when I was preparing to return to work, I asked my pastor’s wife to help me find someone to assist me. She had helped other people find help before, and she introduced us to a 19-year-old girl who came to live with us.

At first, everything was going well. She took very good care of my baby. My daughter’s school was close to my shop, so I was the one dropping her off and picking her up. We had planned that the following year we would move her to a school closer to the house so the girl could help with picking her up.

Let me also add that while I was on maternity leave, my husband used to come home around 1 p.m. to eat lunch. But when I returned to work, I asked him not to come home during the day anymore and to start taking food to work instead, which he did.

When my baby was about 5 months old, we left for work as usual. Around 10 a.m., my phone rang. It was my husband saying he was at the hospital with the maid and the baby. I panicked and asked what happened and if my baby was okay. He said the baby was fine, but the maid was the one who was not well.

He told me that he was at work, but he suddenly felt very uneasy, like something was telling him to go home and check on the baby. When he got home, he heard the baby crying inside the room where the maid shared with our daughter. At first, he ignored it, thinking maybe she was changing the baby. But the crying became worse, and he heard a loud bump. He called the maid’s name, but there was no response. When he entered the room, he found her lying on the floor naked, and the baby was next to her crying. He picked up the baby and called the neighbors, who helped cover her and put her in his car. One male neighbor followed them to help with the baby while they went to the hospital.

The girl was unconscious at first, but later she recovered. After she was discharged, I was wondering what could have happened. I asked her if she had any history of seizures or something similar, but she said no. She explained that she could not clearly remember what happened that day. She said that after putting the baby to sleep, she rushed to take a bath, and after coming out of the bathroom she could not remember anything else until she woke up in the hospital.

During the following days, I allowed her to rest as much as possible, and I started taking my baby with me to my shop. It was not easy, but I wanted her to recover.

One day, I came back home and found the house empty. She was nowhere to be found. I panicked and called her number, but it was switched off. I called our pastor’s wife, but she said she had not seen her. She was already aware of what had happened at the hospital. We were all worried and tried to reach her without success. Our pastor’s wife even sent someone to her aunt’s house to check if she was there, but she was not.
After a few days, we found out that she was staying with her elder sister in another town. We felt some relief knowing she was at least with family. We tried to contact her to ask why she left suddenly, but she would not pick up our calls


Now I feel like taking my children and going back to my home country. I cry every day and feel very depressed. I really need advice, please help me.

. I would have said leave but seeing that your mum was also divorced, it may be a generational thing, look at the rest of your family both immediate and others to see how they are fairing in their marriages. Pray about it, real fasting and prayer, create an alter in your home and go for counselling. Well after sometime if symptom persist leave and start afresh. Live is too short to be taking unnecessary burdens.

dawnomike:
What am interesting reason...

interesting indeed, I don't know what girls are feeling like, so she believes her kpe....kus is worth 800, 000 naira. Ha

LarryMurphy:
And where is the father? Why is the father not mentioned or also celebrated? Will you even be surprised that it was the father who always gave her the money to buy the boots?

Fear women o!!!

probably dead or very old na, no be everything them dey talk

Afolabimills:
F ...a ...k...e pastor causing problems in the society

He may not necessarily be fake the reason he may have survived the ordeal. He is just not enlightened.

ufotunang:
..he is just 36 years old

it's not by age only, he has a small frame than most contenders, the beating he has been receiving over the years has began showing.