₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,328,525 members, 8,436,133 topics. Date: Monday, 29 June 2026 at 07:14 PM

Toggle theme

Hope1986's Posts

Nairaland ForumHope1986's ProfileHope1986's Posts

1 (of 1 pages)

CrimeRe: Court Sends 15 Internet Fraudsters To Prison In Benin by Hope1986: 12:05am On Sep 16, 2023
izicooo:
A very useless country, yahoo boys don suffer pick money from whitey, govt go come collect the money from yahoo boys, govt is the main yahoo
. You are an idiot. You thought is only white the dupe.
CrimeRe: Court Sends 15 Internet Fraudsters To Prison In Benin by Hope1986: 12:03am On Sep 16, 2023
Better.
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Sao Tome And Principe AFCON Qualifier (6 - 0) On 10th September2023 by Hope1986: 5:31pm On Sep 10, 2023
Make una drop link please. I'm not at hope
RomanceRe: In A Dilemma Right Now, Please Advise by Hope1986: 9:15pm On Sep 08, 2023
Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you
. Better go for HIV, hepatitis B and C. How can you have a cheating partner ? Quit that lady immediately
FamilyRe: My Fiancee Doesn't Want To Court Marriage (registry) by Hope1986: 4:41pm On Sep 04, 2023
Ahmed0336:
No vex o, between the both of you, who get money/ assets pass? huh
good question
CrimeRe: Police Arrest “Yahoo Boys” For Burying New Born Baby In Rivers by Hope1986: 7:49am On Aug 25, 2023
4akomnehpetS:
Police should leave all these boy abeg, they just want a better life, all na still hussle...At least na small pikin dem bury, no be adult..
. You are very stupid.
CareerRe: I Failed Job Pre Medical Tests by Hope1986: 4:45pm On Jul 31, 2023
Nursepepeye:
They don't want to give you the Job, it can be treated and resume your job if they want to
Said by who? It is one of there criteria . Non of paramilitary can take you if you have hepatitis B or C. They are more careful about it than HIV . If it chronic , you can only manage it but cannot cure. Any organization can have it as there criteria
PoliticsRe: Traders Protest Against Enugu Government For Sealing Ogbete Market by Hope1986: 1:53pm On Jul 26, 2023
It seems my people are enjoying the sit at home.
FamilyRe: My To Be In-laws Are Frustrating Me by Hope1986: 5:42pm On Jul 25, 2023
Your so called wife to be don't love you. She is using the influence of her parents to end the marriage. Never dream of sending her outside otherwise you will loss the two- both your money and the marriage. Why begging them? Move on bro!

1 (of 1 pages)