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Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn,e be like say dem don show the op many ghana-pepper Well well...So tay he don even vow never to marry again....

But like seriously op,I think you haven't met the right one yet....Forget this mumu talk wey you dey talk......... Because when you jam the right woman, wether you see food chop or not, only her presence alone go dey make you dey fat.... Because the joy wey she go dey give you alone go be appetite on e own

Bro... This talk of the right one is just a major scam. See the marriage you see today that's doing well my brother, there are lot of shits the husband is enduring. Issues of his wife cheating and he forgives and lots more. There's no right one my brother. It's only if you just accept to be a Simp. And I won't lie. I can't. I can't cope at all.

With the shit women do out there. Honestly, I can't cope with it. I care about my mental health.
I can't put myself in that position of men whose wife are been bleeped by another man.

If I can get a baby mama. I'm good to go. I will run away from Manipulations and all.

In the way back, in the days of our mum, a woman's bragging right is she suffering with a man and building him up. Financially, Mentally and Socially.
But this Era, the women in this era's bragging right is to destroy a man. Bring in down, Financially, Mentally, Socially and Spiritually.

Honestly, I'm not ready for all this. I don't think I will be part of Marriage. I'm not sure. All this women of the days only want to get a big wedding and brag. After that, during the marriage, they go around and comb all dicks they meet on their way.

I'm sorry I can't cope. I've tried ordinary Relationship and I've seen hell. I can't do the marriage thing. It's not for everybody. Honestly.

Added: See the video i just watch on Twitter of the Twerker Janemena. Being f**cked by prince kpokpori.
Imagine a married woman.
So on and so forth. Bro, leave me. I'm not getting married.

dopedan:
This your situation at your fathers house is d same with me here i need to leave i just need something to be doing to pay my bills

Honestly, bro.. Run from them. I'm getting myself back now.

Who have a yummy as pet? How does it feels.

,father's rent ? in ,,. cost us anything others

Ever8090:
it's unfortunate anyway that life itself does not treat us equally to some extent the one that created us it feels like he does not treat us equally even..some people almost get choked from too much love from people around them while some, like yourself, wish to be shown just a little pitch of love but won't get.

One thing I realise in life is that no matter who loves us or who doesn't, we just have to create our happiness because no one can ever make you happy except you create that happiness yourself.

I have been a victim of both human and nature harsh treatment, nstance, I am on the verge of getting thrown out of my apartment by my landlord because I haven't paid after 2 months of expiration, but someone is owing me 1.167,00 while my rent is just 150k, after going to his place without any positive results and no eventual solution seems available urgently, I have decided to laugh and smile at myself just to make sure I don't harm my health.

So you should even be thankful that your parents are there to love you, I don't have one of them around to even talk to not to talk of getting love from them.

My brother life is like this because we humans are not ready to see the reason to allow others to smile even though it won't cost us anything more than we can afford.

What you need is just "an act" but see how you are not getting it from man, what about those who seek "both love and material help can't find"?

Just be happy and remain open to people as the humans are not and can never be the same, one day you will come across friends who will make you feel loved in the way and volume you so much desire...

Thank you so much. But I want to let you know. I never get any love even from my family.
Everyone is just in for what they can get from me. I lost my life. I've cried here on Nairaland for help. Bro, I was homeless. But I thank God, I'm smiling now apartment listening to Wizkid's Smile

Wizkid's songs have helped me heal from this situation alongside Bella create song titles are " Out there". Don't you stop Mr soldier Man? Bro, I might sound like someone to you but I know what I passed through. I nearly committed suicide. I lost my appetite and couldn't eat.

My bags were outside. I was left with the offer of going back t,o my father's house. But I told myself I can never go back to where I came from. My father owns a big compound and collects rents. But I don't see the joy in spending a night in my father's house because he will kill me with pressure. Fighting people around the neighbourhood. I might take up one midnight and drink poison.
Being homeless. They are still even placing bills on me. Family and Enemies, I swear I don't know who is who.,

For 4days I couldn't eat and even with food in my front. Now I just finished eating the second plate of rice and goat meat stew I prepared.

Bro, who die fuckup big time. Even if them shoot you gun, no die oh! Because you fit still survive !

I'm not even saying I want to wife a dog. I just want to stay away from humans and be friends with Dog. Till then I get back my mental balance about human. I'm so scared about human and going closer to have friends again. To top it all, I don't trust my family anymore.

Ever8090:
Ok...but hope you too have not fail another human as a human that you are?

No one is above mistakes. I hardly rely on people. That's me. No one and no family except for my parent that give birth to me can say they have showed me real love.

Lots of things I've experienced in my life. The good, the bad and the ugly times if I seem to be a thorough lesson to me and how I operate my life and soul now.

Moving forward, growing up, my Mama use to tell me "boy, beware of bad friends".
I've got lots of friends around me. And honestly, deep down my heart and soul, I love my family and friends. My prayer every day is to see us grow all. But I wasn't getting back the love.

One thing that kills me is, I never forgive women, but I always forgive the men. This is my weakness. I rate my fellow man above women. Even during offering help and grants, Gifts and every. But I'm not gay I was just Redpill.
Girls love to be around me but I don't give them the energy they want. Broken up with a lot of women just because I and my friends always have misunderstood because of them in Situations as she tells me "baby could you believe your friend is asking me out, baby your friend touched my ass, Baby your friend told me you're fvcking another girl". Are you dating me or your friends" kinda situation? Snitch! Snitching! Snitchery!
My bad, a lot of my friends and males ive helped over women. I always feel women don't need help and I'm always there for my friends.

Whatever I do, I try to involve them so we all benefit from it. That's just me. I'm always good at bringing new ideas that will bring money, bring money, bring money and bring sex. That's me.

They all love to be around me. I just found out that they are around me because of what they're benefitting from me.

I fell so many times. Stand up, fell again. Especially financially because of friends.

They're always on me bringing one problem or the other.

This time my fall was like falling from a Mango tree. Everything spoilt. And also got to the point of being homeless with sickness. What shocked me is, everyone Vanished. Both family and friends.

Everyone ran away, I picked up myself. But now I'm a Wise man. This is my plan honestly. I'm a person that will never stop giving to anyone close to me that's just me. Now I don't want this to happen again.

I thought of something, this might shock you. There was a year, I use to work in an eatery. That year, I use to bring home food for a dog in our area. For just a space of 3 weeks, I worked in that eatery that year. The food I do bring home even remained and crumbs of a different kind of food. But could you believe till that dog left died? He was always showing me love and always there for me in times of danger whenever someone want to attack me. The lovely welcome home shaking of tail he gives to me whenever he sees me going to work or coming back gives me the joy to want to do more for him but I was not working at an eatery where I get free food for him again. What I'm talking about is more than 10years now.

Now, I thought of buying a dog and giving the dog all that the dog deserves to live a good life than helping people close to me again. Be it, friends and family.

I don't want to give a Man more than what he deserves again because they still bite the hands that feed them.

I'm not saying I want to start showing women, love. When I say Man, I mean all human this time.

I don't care how society sees me. I don't care what people will say now. I can't kill myself. I nearly ran mad. But thank God for life. Thank God for Arizona which is don't smoke before but I started smoking because of thinking. I was a concrete anti-smoking ambassador. But I lost it when I had to hold into it than for me to commit suicide. I can still stop smoking when I want to but if I commit suicide there's no second chance. That's my feeling and thank God I was able to smoke responsibly.

For my family, the people I care more about in every angle of life. People I wished and pray God just give me my heart desires let me show this family who I am true. Let me spoil them with more love and support but they always dump me during hard times.

This is what I feel. Yes, this is what I feel. It's now obvious. Even the woman that gave birth to me that I called my mother.

Yes, this is what it is. I was dying in the hospital. My mum came and didn't even show remorse for seeing me the first time lying on a hospital bed. I couldn't even pay for my treatment. And she's doing business. And I always support her with the little I have. It's all fine.

Now I just want to show real love to dogs. Honestly. They can't pay me with bad. That's what I believe.

Please any dog owner in the house. Be it Pet or grown. Please speak up. How's the feeling and vibes between you and your dog?
Are you getting the love back?



Note: I want to give God all the glory for giving me Wizkid Made In Lagos. That music kept me going. I'm the only one that understands this. I'm the only one honestly. That album is spiritual to me. It's given me a picture of the things I've learnt and will soon achieve. Honestly. Songs like Reckless. " I no dey give a man more than what he deserves them still dey bite the hand's wey dey feed them.