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[quote author=Larry-Sun]The guy's a player. Next month he's gonna jilt the new girl and move on to the next girl. Too bad she has a baby with that kind of guy. I'll only advice her to forget about him and pick herself up, and with time, someone's gonna love her...and her baby.
I'm sure she's wise now. She and the guy do not deserve each other, that's the fact.
Bless you, HBG.[/quote]with time she should go back to school Larry and thanks

Can I ask?

Well lemme just ask; If she was ur sister,blood sister wat would u tell her?

Flashaldrin: Ok, op, how is this your effing business? And why should i be bothered??

Iam bothered because I know the feeling dear just that in my situation the father would do anything for his child though he couldn't careless bwt me,I remember one time I was there to see my child and the girlfriend came,they did their thing in ma presence I felt like pulling ma hair because I didn't knew of the new girlfriend.

And I have no parents but I value ma family,they were all disappointed wen I fell pregnant but I know that if I stayed with that guy I was giving away my future,I apologised to them though it wasn't easy but they took me back.

Sometimes just put urself in someone else shoes just for a minute dear

plappville: Yes no salvation after death so why should the church bury an athiest body? The wife is not even a memeber of that church, she is not a serious believer
She doesn't go to church, but she will tell you she believe in God, case close ...

So you mean you will do cremation waohh...You know that when one is dead, he/she is no longer conscious of warm etc...
My worriness is, how does the scripture treats this subject?

then again I don't know where cremation comes from...and in the bible we hear a lot about the tombs that will give out the dead wen Jesus Christ comes back so ummmmm!

Changed ma mind I wanna be buried still ME.

Well to say the least on the woman's case,let's say I don't go to church nor any member of ma family.If one of us die,we just ask the near by church to do the burial ceremony for us but I have only seen it with zion church,catholics,anglican and dutch reformed churches...sorry for name callings its like that in ma country BUT I have neva seen a born again christian church agreeing to such

centje: lol...why not sooner...

I got money in the bank,still hustling @ school on how to put it on the table

Iam making a date with Nigeria in 10years time....

centje: i suggest she gives the guy some space. Maybe attempt making peace with the family that adopted her. If she has any legal aggrement with the dude then it should be use to compel him to provide for the baby and probably her.
You can still swallow pride and help her if you can.

will try

Praying for the died is not how we cristians go about it bevause there is no salvation after death but I guess since the wife attended the church they were doing it for her.

Iv been thinking too,since my body is going to rot in that whole I wanna be cremated too,I just can't bear the thought of being eaten by worms....

centje: if she hates you that much,then i think she wont buy these suggests when you present them to her.

her babydaddy's little sister is ma best friend so she won't hear them straight from ma mouth but from ma best friend

centje: Humble...can't you help her?

She hates me...she doesn't even know that I know all these.

When she arrived here she took me as her rival because her babydaddy 'favoured' me though he isn't really ma type so I stepped off to let her enjoy her man but she still hates me

coolkris: Am not married but i know lots of girls and we discuss about sexuality..most girls i know haf sex escapades and most claim that its thier boyfried who eats thier apple pie..the next minute they break up with the guy...so sad

very sad indeed

Are u married?

An0nimus: Yes ma'am...pm?

sure imma wait

While we r still @ it please

#Nigerians are starting to bore me with this thing of giving Mercy Johnson a plot to play a 16year old school girl.

Aint there young upcoming actors?

I love nigerian movies but thewy need to up their game

An0nimus: I've been up, down and around. How's you?

been around..tired but can't sleep,having flashback of sumthin not so good.M trying to keep maself busy

Would u mind doing the honors?

An0nimus: I'm in too

wr have u been?

Obinoscopy: I do have a crush. I've not told her buh I think she knows

I can't wait to find out

skydeep: Reminds me of a lady who keeps staring and winking at my hubby in a wedding ceremony despite he was sitting beside me. I was just looking at her in anger waiting for the ceremony to end so I would give her a pep-talk . The funny thing was that she was licking her lips while staring.

ROTFL

I can imagine wat was going on in her head

[quote author=uj_sizzle]She needs to swallow her pride and make peace with her family.[/quote]Noted

I got over ma first crush


M looking for a new crusheeee

Caracta: Hehehehehe
The game has ended o.
Ex-mistress.

that makes me da ex wife!

I give up

ijebabe: Lol! I don't think that was the intent

m still his lovely wedded wife so I need to know this things

ijebabe: ITBomb, stop sending me threats on PMs because it's plain immature and stupid.
I do not care how many people you have bleeped here on NL but if you want to share that info with everyone here that is up to you!
Mscheeew!

wat

He is feeding u info to blow da poor ladies off?

#Rumazz

chikeorji123: According to Op, the lady fought her uncle or relatives who adopted her..lf the guy's parent are around let the lady park her things and stay with them or are they going to reject their grandson?..

the guy's mother is still around and she likes the girl but the thing is...

She can't force her son to love her again

omega25red: poster

That woman made her bed now she has to lay in it. The first mistake she made was moving into this guys family home. Right there she lost everyone's respect. orphan or not i am sure she lived somewhere before she met the guy. Now she has a baby and she is being abused emotionally. If she would have been wise, all these years, she would have taken her as to school and figure out how not to be dependent on anyone(assuming she didn't)

She will eventually get kicked out with her child. Then what? does she work? does she have any marketable skills?

I honestly feel bad for her.

she dropped out in grade12 the worse part is the guy is a graduate,the guy's 2 younger sisters one being ma friend are in 3rd and 2nd year @ varsity but it didn't bother her.

Anyway solutions please

gwas: What about her uncles? Aunties? Can't she go to their place? Or does she fall from heaven?
Pls answer the afore-mentioned question first before i proceed.

nobody fell from above na...I don't know where she lived before she came from before cuming to stay with her aunty who chased her away.

She is not ma friend tho

Obinoscopy: My dear don't mind ijebabe and her tafia. She is d gossip expert here on nairaland. [s]Don't worry some day, someone will pay her back in her own gossip coin[/s] Just ignore my dear. Celebrities suffer far too much gossip and still survive.

She's lucky she cancelled my name in her gossip thread (Nairaland e-channel), if not, me and her would have been wearing one pant

My night in shining armour....

Thanks a mill darling.

I didn't get the whole thing but now I do so no stress m cool now...

She is the older version of me