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Mkmoney:
People reach 1 million here

We go share an 1 naira each lmao

Stevyne:
Lol... I tire o

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Hello everyone.

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Im in my SQL stage now. Thank you sir

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Daviddson:
I wonder if Nairaland doesn't get ashamed of itself whenever it brings news of Facebook, Twitter, Instagram improvements and new features while itself remains the same for more than 14 years!

Why can't Nairaland have # and @ and the ability to block people from following you (at least to help that Michael who goes about opening new accounts every day to cancel people's posts, not to fully lose his sanity ).

Imagine using Naira symbol as part of the logo of Nairaland as if it's a currency trading site.

FATALITY!!

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Alfred74:
You will be fine, now you have a reason to hustle legitimately and make money. Focus on the things that matter, do not stop trying to keep in touch with your baby mama and her family, your life is yet to start you have a long road ahead best of luck

Thank You.

LyfeJennings:
Hard times
Bitter truth
U wan hear am?
I'd tell U what I think .
Iya ma je ori e gan
I mean U will suffer a lot
Everybody would ignore U. Aje!!!!
As in even Ur blood go leave U at the moment.
Unfortunately, your papa no get money (another round of suffer 4 U). I swear U and suffer Una go wear the same trouser. Lmao
Lool.
The good news is if U are focused, extra hardworking and extra prayerful. God fit open way 4 U. Mind U, U no get any choice. As in dem no born Ur mama well make U no do well. U HAVE TO DO WELL AT ALL COST. BY ANY LEGAL MEANS POSSIBLE INCLUDING YAHOO YAHOO IF U CAN. IF NOT AYE E TI BAJE FINALLY NI YEN.
U should not rely on Ur educational qualification again, Labour market don pass that level especially a poor man's child like U. Na God's special grace e go take.
Do not be depressed. Rather be motivated
on a parting note, I wish U the best of luck.
Bless U

Thanks brother. Na God go help boys

Evangkatsoulis:
Forget that child and move on. The baby is an error. At least the girl's family have made it easier for you to walk away.

Nah. the baby girl is not an error. ThNks. �

Good Day Sir.

Saw your post on the other thread. Thanks for supporting the people out there.

I have a software im currently building with my friend.. I'll love for you to key Into it also.

I await your reply sir.

jaszplus12:
Hehehehe don't worry bro, there's nothing negotiations and persuasion cannot achieve!
What's important is the desire to achieve great things in life with you wife and baby. See, what a lot of people don't see is that the future is better than today. If she or her parents think she can just walk into another man with your child and be better off, then let them think again.
You do your homework, however you convinced her to sleep with you...try again to convince her to marry you....no event no history! God bless you both

I really appreciate your kind words sir. Gracias!

baby124:
Why will Nigerian nurses tell this couple that abortion is dangerous? Should they not route them to a safe place where they could get it done? Why force people who are not ready for a child to have one? Yes, they have made the mistake of pregnancy. But appropriate counseling is key and guidance on their choice to either keep or get rid of the baby should be done too.

As for you OP, if that baby was truly yours, no family member in their right mind will decide to block you! Even if you are poor. Just focus on your final year and try to do very well. So that you can take care of your responsibility when it is called for. Also save money to do DNA test as soon as you can. I find it suspicious that the whole family is trying to run from you all of a sudden.

Goodluck on your final year. Don’t worry, everything will work out in it’s time.

Super thanks for the encouragement

Richy4:


The way you were petting the guy and making his irresponsibility look really nice is so heart warming.. u were even giving him a sermon of proofing his love for "the wife" but he deliberately omitted or totally forgot to tell you that he was only sowing a wild oats.. Indians call it tasting the cuisine. It got nothing to do with marriage.

I swear I like your type a lot. U will make a wonderful Y2K dad.. But if my kid should do something faddish like this, I will hit the roof first before calming..

I'm not irresponsible.

OlawaleBammie:
Av never had a prior experience tho... but i bliv it wil always b hard at d beginning, especially wen the situation is stil embryonic. u wil just kp try bro, do d one u re capable of doing, the one u can't do let dem no dat u dont hav d strnght in a more polite way and am sure u guys wil manoeuvre thins soon

its hard o. lol.. but God dey. Thanks.

theButterfly:
Now is not the time to be depressed. Man up, stay strong and take responsibility for your actions.

Yea thanks. I'm trying..

jaszplus12:
Young man, when I was in the university I fell into similar situation and fear the unknown and pride and foolishness and the thought that it's going to be a burden didn't allow me to sleep well....we couldn't go through with telling our parents! They will kill us! So we thought but really would they have
Unfortunately after 5th month she miscarried and though we were "relieved" we still think it was all the stress that made it happen.
Why am I saying this, chill out bro... gather your wits together and man up! That child is yours and please start now to plan to wed the mother. Dont ever think she's not wife material, Work together and don't let anger and frustrating situations ruin your future.
Whatever decision you make together now will make or mar your future.
Today after 26 years I'm married to that same girl and we have kids and peace of mind. Only regret is "we should not have allowed FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN to steal away our first child!
Good luck bro...
FEAR NOT....

Thank you very much sir!

When she was asked if she'd marry me, she said "No", even her mum said she can't allow her daughter to marry someone outside her Tribe.

ednut1:
when you were nacking what were u expecting Sell one kidney

OK sir.

Richy4:
I have no idea that people still make this kind of mistakes. This thing belongs to the '80's.

You should be happy it's just pregnancy..

abi

OlawaleBammie:
I tot as much, sorry for d loss.

Anyway, u just hav to brace up guy, try as much as u can to help out. Try to prove ur love to ur wife, tank goodness d lady's family are trying there best to help u guys.

I'm trying. even explained how things are to her aunt who's taking care of her. The girl is just 20.

elektra:
Has your family done anything to try and claim the child. Since they don’t have money, have they at least visited the girl? Have they been in contact with the girl’s family?

Dad not feeling to well to move far distance. Sisters don't even bother bou me. I've been going there alone.

She's supposed to give birth this week and I've been blocked since on Sunday.

iPrevail:
Why exactly are you depressed? You can't take responsibility for a baby you wanted to abort, and the people that can told you to stay away from the baby until you are ready to be a man.. That is what is making you depressed?

That baby ain't going anywhere. Go get your life sorted out.. You still got a chance with him. I think you should be grateful.

I'm just worried that they'd be thinking I'm not serious about it. And na money dey do Ojoro.

Thanks for the advice

blessedvisky:
On my own family part, Dad is a retiree(Hes got no money), and I'm the only son. Got two elder sisters. They abandoned me since they heard about everything.

So you knew this and you still went ahead to look for girl to administer your strength on. Chai, anyway I hope you realize now that Actions have real consequences you must face.

There's hope though. Rearrange yourself, make some good legitimate money and watch things go your way. It's a win-win situation for you, your baby mama and child

Thank you very much!

OlawaleBammie:
Inasmuch as i dont like d idea of mother taking all d glory away from father, but i cant overrule it dat in dis case...

UR MOTHER WOULD HAVE DONE SOMETHING NO MATTER WHAT!! provided she's til breathing cus u didn't mention her.

that is wat i trust our africa mums with, dey dont let us down wen all hope seems lost.

Mum is late. she'd have definitely done something if she was alive.

Good day Nairalanders ,

Happy Independence Day to everyone.


I'm a final year student in a university. In my early 20s, earlier this year I had sth with a girl and it turned into pregnancy.

When the pregnancy was two weeks, she told me about it and she opined we flush it.

We went to different Nurses and they all told us not to abort because it's dangerous.

She managed the pregnancy till the 5th month until her mother got to know about it (Her mum works at Eko, she only stays at home on Sunday's).

They called me, I went to them, they scolded me and did the normal things a normal parent would do.

On my own family part, Dad is a retiree(Hes got no money), and I'm the only son. Got two elder sisters. They abandoned me since they heard about everything.

Now, this is the week she's gonna deliver and I'm yet to provide anything for the girl and the baby.. The little money I get from. menial jobs, my school projects and final year wahala is taking it.

The problem here now is.. Her family told her to block me, they all did too. She sent me a msg that she won't allow me see the baby again until I do something.

I'm just depressed here and don't know what steps to take.

I plea on Nairalanders with similar experiences to advice me on what to do cos I'm losing it already.

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post=82107310:
Truer words have never been spoken.
But as usual some children of hate and perdition will disagree with these true words above and below.

he's been saying this for the past 4 years..
we need action bro.

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Celcius:
Which forex broker?

Rallytrade

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Hi everyone.

I'm a final year student In a university. last year October, I deposited 30k into a forex company account using their POS. I got debited and that was it.

My trading account was activated but I misplaced my phone then.

By April this year, I went to the forex company just to go withdraw the money deposited and they told me it didn't reflect in their account.

I contacted Access bank and they said they can't do anything to it again since its more than 3months!

Anyone with an advice on how I can get this money cos I need it to pay my school fees. Pls help.

I can't be the one to bear their mistake. they made the mistake of not transferring the money.

Hi Nairalanders,

last year October, I saved some money into someone's account using the POS and I got debited.

I kept the money there so as to use it by March To pay for my school fees but unfortunately as I asked the company for refund, they said they can't find the money in their account.

I tried reaching Access bank now, they told me its more than 120 days!

Pls what can I do because I really need this money. I've depended much on it. I need advise on what to do.