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humilitypays:
I love honest and sensible people like you.


Everything you said is true.



That's why I advised people on one thread that if you are not earning up to 250,000naira monthly as a single person or 450,000naira monthly as a married person, then if you see opportunity to migrate to a developed country where you can have a better chance of living a good life, then do it.



But if you are single and earning above 250,000naira monthly, or married and earning over 450,000naira monthly in Nigeria, you don't need to abandon Nigeria and travel out, it will be a big mistake

If I may ask, why do you think it will be a mistake for someone earning more than 450k to relocate?

Have you thought about the possibility that high paying job comes with high risk of job loss? Are you saying such person should wait until they lose the high paying job before contemplating relocation ( why which time it may be too late to gather the needed resources)?

Does earning above that income threshold immune you from insecurity in the country? With 500k monthly, can any wise person do to rent apartment in a gated estate in Lekki?

Can his 3kids attend a decent school paying 200k per term?

Again, I ask, why do you think someone earning about half a million or more ( with the attendant lack of jo. security due to the unstable social/security, political and economic situation in Nigeria) should stay put in Nigeria?

I am a bit surprised by the comments on here. I noticed the OP attempted to explain the context in which the sermon was preached and I think it is reasonable enough. He advised the lady in question to be patient and prayerful but the lady took matters into her hand and ended up in jail, is a cheating man worth all that trouble? If you do not accept cheating as a weakness on the part of a man, if you do not pray for your cheating husband as advised, so how do you intend to deal with a cheating husband without destroying your home? Divorce him? Fight him? Go and pour acid on the alleged girlfriend? The funny thing is , this is how some women put up with stuffs in their own home in order to keep it and advise others otherwise. Cheating is wrong, but when you are married to a cheating husband, you are going to need more than fighting and staying in shape to keep the man and your home. It is better to treat the man like the sick person that he is and take him to God in prayers while you calmly and wisely protect yourself from the stings of his malady and look for a remedy. Fighting and confrontations can't do it, trust me, when a man who is fully aware of consequences of his action goes ahead to do it to his detriment, that is more than selfishness, it has got to be some kinda demonic possession, cheating destroys the man too, he loves his children and he does want to make his marriage work.