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Durentt:
In this thread we keep religion out of the whole thing. I am a convinced atheist and I believe most men struggling with homosexuality and wondering why God remains indifferent about their addiction have also questioned their faith.

Even if there was a God, leaving the homosexuality lifestylr is not something only christians and muslims can accomplish since religious faith is not a prerequisite to pursue change.

Ok, so to begin, a lifestory

One unusual afternoon after I had watched homosexual pornography of two men (satisfying?) themselves and I ejaculated sensually on my bed, I went out To get some air and voilà I saw the male lizard running after the female with all his will power - I broke down right there and the journey to heal my abnormal lust began.

Note
This thread is not about me, I just shared this story of mine as a sort of entrée, I will be giving advice, tips, articles, books that have helped me start my journey out of homosexuality. And lets do this Together.

If you were a straight man truly, homo porn should have disgusted you sir!

Journey out of homosexuality next month now... he's back to hot ebony gay bleeped hard on pornbub

Palehair, RichiMichie, augustab comman carry your brother from here oo

Durentt:
Welcome everyone, this thread is for homosexual men who refuse to succumb to "the born this way" notion and give themselves a better lifestyle.

As at 2020 no gay gene has yet been linked To homosexuality, so it is definitely not innate. And also taking an objective look at it shows that homosexuality is as a result of the way someone decides to live his life, it might look like a small aspect but affects nearly everything, from career choices to hobby, family, children, relationship with both sexes.

Before I continue I want To make it clear that there is nothing wrong with being a homosexual, I mean look at Marc Jacobs (Louis Vuitton guy), Tim Cooks, Late Gianni Versace, late Karl Lagerfeld, Tom Ford, Peter Thiel (Paypal guy),Anderson Cooper, Neil Patrick Harris, Christian Dior, Dolce & Gabbana guys, Giorgio Armani and many more. We wear them, use their phones, get entertained by them etc
But you have To accept it is a lifestyle choice that is perfectly Ok, but continue reading if you want To change To heterosexuality,

After trying To understand my homosexuality I came up with 3 conclusions (and consulting Google and other recovering homosexuals).
1. Male Homosexuality is caused by fear of women. Yes, you heard me right. Scared of rejection, approaching women, scared of something we want so bad but couldnt get (the attention men give To women). We loved feminity, adored it, adorned it but refused To be sexually attracted To it.

2. Male homosexuals are hooked on homosexual pornography. Argue with yourself, stop watching gay pornography and you get back to your normal self.

3. To overcome homosexuality, a complete lifestyle overhaul is required. No crying, therapy, prayers would do anything until you decide to change the trajectory of your life BY TAKING THAT FIRST STEP.

And that is what this thread is for, to overcome this fear of women, addiction To homosexual pornography etc.

be ready To be slightly uncomfortable for a better life.

Next update soon

Hey Mr Durrent, if you truly feel you're now heterosexual, I'm perfectly fine with it....but what I'll never entertain is misinformation about my sexuality!

1. I dunno if you had a problem approaching females don't connect it with ur supposed Ex sexuality. There are straight guys here who have difficulty in approaching ladies but that hasn't made then resort to chasing men has it?? Infact it'll never cross their minds!

What's the meaning of "we love and adore feminity but refused to be attracted to it?" How do u refuse something you love? Are you not countering your first point then? Read that and see if it makes any sense to you sir. Infact gay men make perfect friends for women, Misogyny is a common among some straight males, it's a toxic masculine exhibition. Do you even know what the fear and hatred for women is called??

2. Every gay male started out with straight porn, we liked boys even before the advent of gay porn. Why do straight males find it disgusting but you did not?? You think sexuality is solely about sexual intercourse or porn changes one sexuality?? I watch heterosexual porn alot of times but it's just what it is... "PLEASURE"

Sex is just pleasure, nothing else, being homosexual is a sexuality like being heterosexual and bi. That is why most gay men and women can still have heterosexual sex and still be GAY!

I'll never have any emotional attachment or feel how a straight man feels for a lady!

3. If you wanna blend in and have nothing to do with your sexuality maybe cos of the society or fear of rejection... it's fine with me. But it doesn't change what u feel and that's it.

My candid advice, you're having a serious pornographic addiction and it's messing u up! Never try this miseducation nonsense again!

To every gay man reading this, YOU NEVER MADE A CHOICE TO BE GAY, YOU'RE YOU AND YOU'RE NOT ALONE, YOU'RE LOVED!

don't let this internalized homophobia ranting get to you.

SenorFax:
Thinking about the first point there, gays go plenty for Nairaland, cos 70% of guys there dey fear women.

In fact, they hate women. Fools.

Shut ur ignorant ass up negha.

Misogyny has nothing to do with being gay. Get yourself a fuckin book or use the internet! It's 2020!

SenecaTheYonger:
Are people impressed that he copied someone else's quote? I don't understand the comments I'm seeing. He didn't address anything, just quoted a vauge thought that even a kid today knows.

Me too...I didn't see anything he addressed there

fati2001:
he looked like gay....... gayisssh

How does someone look gay?? Your insecurities are showing

Norman4real:
so by your logic, someone who was straight and turned gay was secretly gay their whole life... Why not apply that same logic to someone who was gay and decided to go straight.

I hope you know "Bisexuality" exists??

I'm typing in context of what you said that "gay is a behavior that can be changed" you said you've seen people who were gay and later turned straight and vice versa right?

New discoveres esp involving sex is outrightly addictive. If a straight man has same sex intercourse and later desires a romantic and emotional relationship with the same sex...he wasn't "fully" straight...check i said it in the previous reply. He was either gay or Bisexual....

In a hetero dominated world, a Bisexual guy can never start relations with a man, it will always be a WOMAN and they're tons of reasons why...even gays started with alot of straight things before discovering ourselves! So there is no way of applying the logic there too. Even if he started out with guys and later he had an emotional or romantic attachment to women...he wasn't "fully" gay.

You're only confused because you think being gay solely has to do with desiring anal sex or being straight solely has to do with desiring p*ssy..

Y'all don't even know what makes you straight!

Raeheemwayne:
I should defend myself with facts? Lol, Nigga you should be the one defending your pathetic self here. If I may ask, in what way have your stupid rants since yesterday impacted anyone here apart from consoling your Dumb Gay Cohorts.
You think I'll stoop so low and argue with a wretched irredeemable gay about what he thinks is right or wrong? Nah, You'll never have that pleasure.
This is a public faceless forum, so I won't have no stvpid gayass MOFO tell Me where and when to react to any thread if I so choose to. stop it this very moment, you can manipulate your dumb gay ass cohorts but not Me.
You can as well Cry Me a river, I'll give you a tissue.
Ebot.

Now Mr Man, how did your comment help with the post?? Imagine if i came to an hetero romance thread and start talking about homosexuality, shebi y'all will start menstruating thru the mouth??

I've been ranting and will keep on ranting cos I'm GAY and i don't entertain ignoramuses who come to spill trash about a sexuality they know nothing about!

Defend yourself with facts rather than typing "gay" three thousand times thinking it'll affect me inna bit

Btw, I thought you said you'll not reply again? Admit it! My replies are turning you on like never before

freshboi88:
Nonsense, in this part of the world it is a crime and that law hasn't been repealed and wouldn't be repealed any time soon

Acceptance from an unenlightened and largely uneducated multi-fanatic society like Nigeria is not even needed by me personally I'm even glad they're tons of problems going on now, so y'all won't say Nigeria accepting LGBTQ brought it...cos na so una dey think.

If only y'all can channel this energy and lecture the citizens on alot of issues(LGBTQ excluded) I'll be so glad.

Oh by the way, it wasn't accepted at first in some parts of the world but look where we are now....so we'll see about that not that ur acceptance means anything to me

Norman4real:
Only thing you lacked was proper guidance. But hey you do your thing. None of us is 100% sure of how this all works. Coz I've seen people that have been gay but later turn around and quit that behaviour, and people that have been straight for most of their lives suddenly switch to being gay much later in their lives.

Proper guidance?? what other guidance do i need when i grew up in the most religious, heterosexual and intolerant society ever??

You think being gay is a behavior that can go away?? Fem people can maybe turn masc but that doesn't stop them from being gay! You're either bluffing or the so called person you said you have encountered is lying to you!

You think he turned straight because he started liking p*say??

Anyone who was straight and turned gay was never fully straight to begin with! Yes he may engage in same sex intercourse but that doesn't make him gay bruh.

Only gay people will understand 100% how it works, that's why i don't entertain some comments like yours here cos they only keep spreading ignorance

By the way i smell internalized homophobia from ur replies

Raeheemwayne:
Are you for real; did you just asked this question on a cyberspace?
No wonder you're gay; you reason through your Anus.
Keep living in fools Paradise.
Yanshman, this is my last reply to your loose pathetic ass.

What do you know about homosexuality?? ARE U GAY?? Being on a cyberspace doesn't mean you have to comment on everything especially when you wanna display daftness! How did your stupid ass comment help the case uh? Answer me?

Defend yourself with facts, spitting homphobic gibberish thinking it'll get to me will only make u look more stupid than u are right now

Like I said before, keep crying

Palehair:
Statistics have shown that the most masculine men are gay. Google is free.
Mannerisms have nothing to do with sexuality. I know a lot of straight men who are feminine and gay men who are even masculine than you

This is so true.

I've met more masculine gay people more than fem ones, me for example. Sometimes i doubt my gaydar when i recognize them.
these ignorant heterosexuals don't know what is going on

Raeheemwayne:
Just shut up already. You should be ashamed of yourself.
FYI, this is no gay thread; the op asked for clarifications, but you lots brought your bad energies here just to justify your fetish fantasies. Disgusting set of losers, I spit on your kind.
Yanshman don't mention me again, I detest you.

Yanshman?? Seriously?? the ignorance!!

A simple question...why did you insert yourself in a thread you know absolutely nothing about to comment nonsense??

Are you gay? What do you know about homosexuality?? Do you know what a festish is or you just redirected here from pornhub?

The way y'all think your acceptance and homophobia means something to every gay person is so very hilarious

Keep crying...ur tears turns me on

RichieMichie:
Ikr, I am gay today because I grew up surrounded by gays. Most of my family and friends are gay.

How they think makes me pity them

seanwilliam:
who the hell is this GOD Forsaken dumbass.. I can see you are a hurtson and u need some federal pussy..anyway the OP will help you with that.. nonsense human being

Guy shut up! I have heterosexual sex at times, and that doesn't stop me from being gay! I can have no emotional or romantic attachment to a lady!

If u think fuckin p*say makes u straight then you need google.

Palehair:
These homophobic bozos never do their research before commenting like the retards they are. Try to help them understand a concept, e.g the born this way trope, they'd rather cite the same imaginary book brought in by the west to enslave their souls.
They have no idea that homosexuality was present in Africa before the advent of the west. Yet again, it's ok to be homophobic, just shut up if you're not going to back it up with facts

Like if they're gonna be homophobic just shut up and do your thing if you can't bring facts!!! That's what annoys me the most! Being Homophobic and an illiterate!

anslem04:
For every invention/creation there is a purpose relative to its functions .... God's only reason for creating a woman was solely cos of a man, then he place it in the heart of men to define a woman's purpose beyond utility ... most wives are established by there husband, most female children are graduate today because a man sponsored it.
without marriage, been a sex tool & a mother ...a woman's life contravenes utility, then imagine a product without utility ... been a man gives a sense of responsibility to lead therefore men have to be in charge, the world is spherical n we all are on top of it as a matter of fact.

Here we go again! Religious fanatism mixed with toxic masculinity and inflated ego!

So u think a man really defines a lady, she can't be anything without a man

I'm not surprised, you're Nigerian

Goodbloke:
All manner of Stark raving crazy guys pretending to be ladies are here.

I don't understand how someone go jus decide to act like a woman . It's crazy.

When did you decide to act like a man??

A guy being effeminate doesn't define his sexuality! There are masculine guy you claim to like that are GAY too....

Raeheemwayne:
This thread is just giving Me headache.
Gays have infested this thread with their pathetic sexuality choices.

No one invited you to this gay thread...

What did you come here to do?? Fetishize on lesbianism??

Norman4real:
Because like I said, we make conscious decisions to maintain our heterosexuality. But I can't deny the fact that if I'd grown up surrounded by gay people I probably would be one myself.

Lmao...so me that grew up around straight people and culture...I made a conscious decision to be gay so i can flourish from homophobia, religious backlash and daily persecutions??

You have no argument abeg!

1Sharon:
OK but as I said, the guy said he was constantly trying to suppress his heterosexual urge, now will a gay man need to do that?

By heterosexual urge I mean urges to form opposite sex relationships and attractions.

He's just lying. That's this month's narrative.

Like i said earlier, click on his profile and view his threads. You'll get a better understanding of what I'm saying

1Sharon:
That's what I'm saying. He was never gay to begin with.

This dude's gay! Everyone knows his story here, check his threads.

He is just in denial because he wants to follow up with the crowd

1Sharon:
He's not. He said he suppressed his heterosexual urge. A gay person doesn't have a heterosexual urge.

When you mean hetero urge, i hope you don't mean sex cos that'll make you wrong!

Urge for sex doesn't mean a person is gay or straight