₦airaland Forum

anslem04:
Don't change the narrative, i dd not based my perception on "adoption" .. if they opt for donor nko ??

Dear ; bloated evening newspaper, stop feeling you know it all.

Nigeria keeps on imbedding and injecting toxic masculinity in male children! They feel being a man makes them on top of the world.

You really think marriage and being a sex tool should define the purpose of being a woman? This is why they run around and cry when they hear Feminism!

Norman4real:
Yes I stand by what I said. It's all a matter of culture and exposure. You may say that Nigeria and Africa as a whole is "homophobic" and unaccepting of gays but remember the majority of our modern culture, entertainment and influence comes from the west. So even in a society that doesn't promote homosexuality we still see a lot of it online and in our movies and music. So slowly and unconsciously it's being normalised to us. But that doesn't change the fact that it's a wrong practice and even if I can tolerate associating with people who engage in it, I will never find it acceptable. Call me a homophobe or hater, I've heard it all and I'm okay with it.

Why haven't u turned gay since you've been seeing gay scenes on Hollywood??

What's the meaning of "slowly and unconsciously" normalized to you?? Talk about alot of countries in Asia, does the West Influence it like Africa too? Is Same sex attractions not there too??

You think gays will pick daily persecution and intolerance over their feelings if they had a choice??

And for the record Mr, no one wants ur acceptance! You can chose to believe whatever you want

OZAOEKPE:
Get man way sabi fvck that is all you need

SEX doesn't define SEXUALITY!

Who will teach these hornnny olodos??

seanwilliam:
@op, if I fhuck you , you go forget all these homophobia omosexual rubbish ..you need better prick







And to hell with anyone on here supporting same sex..Hollywood and western culture don reconfigure your brain.. so you cant separate the rights from the wrongs..


Nonsensical nonsense


This is Africa, if you are a gay or lesbian, na burn we go burn u...



Some people are mad self.. how your prick go rise by sighting your fellow man hairy thighs? Iranu...



When Victoria cakes still dey alive?? Nah

Look at them dumb heteros! First thing they think about a lady is seeing her as a sex tool!

You think sex changes one's sexuality?

For you to still think homosexuality was imported from the West in the 21st century, if she needs prick, you need education!

ArchyDesmond:
if yu're homosexual.....and u make it obvious or u are caught in the act here in Nigeria..... U will be planked severely.
Whatever shitty gay stuff u wanna do...better dont get caught...cos if we catch u..!! it wount be funny.

Shut ur fuckin heterosexual mouth up!

After all the threats and mouth foaming, how many you don plank wen e dey happen everywhere for this country ?? The only thing to take pride of in Nigeria is homphobia? Seriously??

Norman4real:
My opinion is that ALL of us have a capacity of being Gay, it's a matter of social programming. That being said, we have to make a conscious decision to maintain our heterosexuality coz homosexuality is just wrong.
Even someone that claims to be a hardcore gay, if he'd grown up in a different environment where the idea of being in a same sex relationships did not exist at all then it would never cross his mind that he could be gay.

Stop typing rubbish!

Why didn't every gay person turn straight after years of homophobia and forcing heterosexual culture down our throats??

How come they're still gays in toxic and Homophobic climates like Nigeria??

chiemmanuel:
another sawdust brained individual

Someone who can't tell between sexuality and consent is talking about brains

Enchantaurl:
Men should learn to dress decently. Who knows what he was wearing. He must have seduced them. I'm not blaming him oh just saying he could have avoided the rape if he didn't dress indecently and entered a cab with three men alone.

Liked

Cos i understand what you mean

chiemmanuel:
How will a man have an erection for his fellow man to the extent of rape
I would rather die than have a man defile me

Speak on the rape and not the sexuality or shut the f*ck up!

RichieMichie:
Now I get the thing with you, you are demented. I remember you previously saying you've never done anything with same sex, now you've had 1?


Your homosexual urge are going away? Good, it means my prayers for you were heard . I am waiting to see your next thread of how you are totally free from homosexuality and now a lover of pussy. I will surely join hands with you and give praises to Satan, because certainly that's not God's work.

FuckTheWorld:
Every gay is a MENTALLY sick bastard that need electric shock treatment to their PREMATURE brains.

We hate gays in this country.
We mob gays
We lynch gays

14 years imprisonment awaits every gay bastard

So you literally inserted yourself in a gay thread to remind us that you're homphobic like we care?? You think you sound scary, funny or intimidating?

After all the noise and threats how far??

Someone who still thinks being gay is a western agenda in 2020 is talking about mental maturity?? what a coincidence!

E no touch me for body because even in ur next generation, gays will still exist, so ur tears is kinda delicious

FuckTheWorld:
Don't be a fool.
Who's talking about Satan here?

Y'all Heteros love confusing yourselves and we love to see it

Una don move from gay is demonic to gay is a mental disorder

I suggest you all hold a conference and decide on which argumentative defense to use cos you're not a good representative for them homphobes!

You're boring me out pls

[quote author=ehmmy11 post=90925133][/quote]Did i hit a personal spot sir??

RichieMichie:
He's probably getting his facts from medieval articles



And oh, this thread is full of (potential) kito scums

Gbam! U sabi! This thread reeks of them

HitSong:
Lol!

Leave that guy alone.
He is a fûcking gay.

Gay and proud! Anything else??

[quote author=FuckTheWorld post=90908504][/quote]But you'll run to those countries in an instant if given the chance

You won't remember they're serving Satan by being LGBT accommodating abi?

Now imagine how dumb you sound

FuckTheWorld:
Shut up!
Does your opinion count?

This was a gay thread! I'm gay so i have every right under the rainbow to be here!

Now remind me why you inserted your
hetero ass here again?

Durentt:
because i have been feeding it for a longtime and it becomes an addiction

How can you feed something you don't have? Make it make sense!

Keep on pleasing these heteros let em control your mind to do what they want you to be. I've gotten to this stage before so I'm not bothered about your lame defenses.

I just hope when you come to realization with yourself, you wouldn't have done something you can't forgive yourself for.

To the op! @Jamariwolff Sexuality is never a topic of discussion to Nairaland full of hypocritic and ignorant pea sized brains!

They all fantasize about Lesbianism and consume such porns on a normal but will be quick to condemn a gay person. Their Bible tells them that lesbianism is partially acceptable in Nigeria because women are only seen as sex objects to them!

People who can't tell between sex and sexuality in the 21st century is not worth sharing your struggles to! They can never give a reasonable opinion to something they never understood in the first place!

Being bisexual goes farther than wanting to copulate with both genders. Having sex or fantasizing for a fellow lady doesn't necessarily make you one. Are you emotionally and romantically involved with ladies the same way you do with men?( if you've had any)

If No, then there's something you're doing that's fueling these recent desires.

If Yes, then you're probably Bisexual and a greater percentage attracted to men than women(cos you're just noticing this)

If you're feeling confused and afraid then you're probably Bisexual, and the fear stems from the way the homophobic and religious Nigerian climate treats gay people making you scared of this Discovery!

You get?

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Durentt:
I lived an active homosexual life for 6 years age 14 - 20 (pornography, fantasy of relationship with same sex, masturbation thinking of same sex, and 1 sex experience with the same sex, 1 sex experience with the opposite sex). All these while suppressing my heterosexual aspects.

I thought i was born gay due To my childhood effeminacy (see the thread on my profile).

But then i decided To make lifestyle changes and stop watching those porn videos for weeks now and I started To imagine myself with the opposite sex. Together WITH PMO (porn,masturbation, orgasm) program support.

I am not totally free of homosexuality urges but it is going away, i believe with time i would be free.

Just like the op is wondering, If i can see a woman and admire her face or body even a little and look at her longer, then why can i have an active romantique and sexual relationship with her?
Some people are more inclined To act on homosexuality but it is definitely a choice even To these people.

I am not religious or whatever but i believe what made me gay was liking the idea of that lifestyle and gay pornography.

One more thing: people who love the homosexual lifestyle, see nothing wrong in it are susceptible To act on it.

HOMOSEXUALITY IS A CHOICE SO IS HETEROSEXUALITY

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Keep deceiving yourself. Next month you'll create another thread

Durentt:
homosexuality is a choice, i just realised. And i am leaving this lifestyle myself.

The screenshot photos are from a quora post that opened my eyes

Internalized homophobia is cute to see

You're in Stage 4 now

FuckTheWorld:
Your PREMATURE sexual organs are sick and needs urgent attention.

HOW CAN YOU CALL YOURSELF A LESBIAN, YET YOU USE DILD0?

OR A GAY AND YOU INSERT YOUR PENIS IN A SHITTY HOLE...

ARE YOU NOT SICK IN THE HEAD?

How you know all these things amazes me for a supposed straight male you said you are

FuckTheWorld:
Yes.
Homosexuals will call it a shitty country but we like it like that
We hate HOMOSEXUALITY here because IT IS MORALLY WRONG!

I am homophobic and I find homosexuals very repulsive.

No one asked! Being Homophobic doesn't erase gays from the world, so your opinion doesn't count

FuckTheWorld:
You need brain reset.

Too much of Hollywood and internet is confusing your brain.
HOMOSEXUALITY IS A PATHOLOGICAL/MEDICAL DISORDER OF THE BRAIN.
Gays, lesbians and bisexuals are sick people that need medical attention. But stubborn head won't allow them to accept that they're sick.

Who is this one?? Y'all have moved from Homosexuality being demonic to a mental illness??

C'mon homophobes! Y'all can do better

It takes a mad man to know one

Hypnotise:
I asked that to maybege can change his mind and how can you say fucking pssy has nothing to do with sexuality. What is sex?

That's not how it works man. Sex is just pleasure. Being gay is far from that. A straight guy may engage in anal sex with a guy but will never see a guy as a sexual or romantic companion or spouse or as a gay guy see another guy.

A gay guy may Bleep pssy but will never see a lady as a sexual or romantic companion/spouse, or the same light a straight guy sees a lady. Hope you get?

Ptolemy22:
I saw your post and the comments that came and I couldn't help but laugh and also feel sorry for you.

A question like this is not for Nairaland boys to answer.

If you're on Facebook, search for Kito Diaries, it is a page and lots of persons there will answer you better.

You can also visit sexuality section as I recall seeing a guy talking about his Homosexuality proudly over there.

Your years as an effeminate kid did nothing to you, you are as gay today, as the day you were born.

Porn did nothing to you and neither are you possessed, you're just too blessed in ways you don't understand yet.

Stay safe, strong and sane out there.

Their are lots of people who will want to make you feel bad about yourself, but you should never give in to that.

There is nothing wrong about being gay, and there is nothing wrong about questioning or doubting your sexuality too.

I pray you see the light real soon.

Thank you for this brother. This is not a conversation for Nairaland boys!

Hypnotise:
When last did you fukk pussy

Fucking pssy has nothing to do with sexuality. Use the internet oga

Ekemeze:
Mistake I made was even replying you at first, psycho. go for a therapy

Someone who Can't understand the concept of consent and sexuality in 2020 is talking about therapy. Isn't God great?

Ekemeze:
And I chose to believe to be that u are nut! The day u'll get the burnt is coming fagg*t! Now get off my mention self-servicer.

I told you before hetero...fagget is old and stale, stop boring me out!

Use Google for new synonyms. I don't entertain slow and medieval mentalities

RichieMichie:
The majority of us had internalize homophobia while growing up because of the toxic clime, but God forbid I did 1 tenth of the foolery Durentt has been displaying for more than 4 years now on Nairaland.

Yeah! You're absolutely right. We had internalized homophobia during our naive days cos of the toxic environment and these homophobes!

I pray he definitely come to realization and be at peace with himself