officialwdhtv: If you’re a tailor and you employ additional hands, you can’t pay the person below 70,000. If you have a housemaid you cannot pay them below 70,000- Senate President, Godswill Akpabio speaks on how the new minimum wage applies to all.
MeghaneMorgane: I’m currently in a relationship where both my guy and I are very petty. If my guy does something I don’t like, I tell him the first time, if he does the same thing the second time, I don’t talk too much and I just give him the exact taste of the same medicine. It works every time and he adjusts immediately. Same for him when he tells me he doesn’t like something if I don’t adjust, he will give me the exact taste of my medicine. So far, it’s been working for both of us because we both adjust accordingly. My question is that I hope this petty behaviour from my guy and I is not a toxic one? If it is not toxic that’s good. But at what point does this behaviour become toxic? NB: So far, this petty behaviour has been working well for the both of us.
I’ll give an example of our petty behaviour. My boyfriend went to visit his mum. 24 hours after being at his mum’s place, he didn’t pick my call and he didn’t call me either, and he didn’t respond to the numerous messages I left on his phone. I was so worried, I had to call his mum and told his mum to give him the phone. His mum gave him the phone. His mum also confirmed to me that my boyfriend had arrived 24 hours before I called her so it wasn’t a case of him playing games with me. Obviously I was very angry and I asked him why he wasn’t picking my calls. His response was that he is busy. That he will call me when he is done with the job he was doing. I said ok. I didn’t call him again until he called me. He called me a day and half after speaking with him on his mum’s phone. All the while I was lamenting to his mum how her son has refused to call me or pick my calls. His mum kept consoling me that he will call me immediately he finished what was doing. Guess what?, when I went to visit my own parents, I did exactly the same thing to him. He was so angry. Since then he hasn’t tried that rubbish again. Then we had to promise each other to always pick each other’s call even if we are very busy. Since then we’ve been picking each other’s calls.
That's a very unhealthy relationship
If you guys are real friends (before being lovers) you'd have known exactly what kept him that busy
WannaHowzit: Nomcebo Zuma, the sassy 21-year-old daughter of former South African president Jacob Zuma was this week unveiled as King Mswati III’s liphovela (an official girlfriend) and made her first public appearance in eSwatini (formerly Swaziland) along with one of the monarch’s 15 wives.
Three independent sources confirmed to Sunday World that King Mswati is expected to pay 2 million rands (175 million naira) and 100 head of cattle aslobolo for Nomcebo, the daughter of Zuma and Nonkululeko Hloniphile Mhlongo, also known as MaMhlongo.
“MaMhlongo’s eyes are on the lobolo (bride price), which is reportedly to be six figures and about 100 cattle,” said a member of the Zuma family, who asked not to be named as he isn’t allowed to speak to the media on family matters.
Nomcebo will now warm the 56-year-old king’s bed even after her father, Zuma, stormed out of the lobolo negotiations two weeks ago.
After Zuma walked out, MaMhlongo, who has two children with the former president, apparently told everyone that the negotiations would go on with or without him.
She and Zuma couldn’t be reached for comment.
Nomcebo, dressed in red Swati regalia, made her first public appearance accompanied by the king’s 15th wife, Siphelele Mashwama, during the opening of a R50-million chicken project in Malkerns, eSwatini, on Monday.
Zuma abandoned lobolo negotiations when it turned out that the king, who had initially reportedly told him that he wanted his son, who is in his 30s, to marry the former president’s daughter, only to be told during the negotiations that the king wanted Nomcebo for himself.
Last week Sunday World reported that a livid Zuma walked out of the talks, telling a family member that he felt betrayed by the king, who had sent a delegation to the Nxamalala homestead in Nkandla, northern KwaZulu-Natal.
An insider told Sunday World: “I’ve never seen uNxamalala (Zuma) losing it like that. He tried to hide it, but you could tell he was angry. He just stood up and said seniyosala niqhubeka bafana bakithi (I won’t be a part of this, you will have to carry on without me, my brothers). He then left.”
Sunday World also reported that the king’s roving eye has also caused a stir among his wives, who had believed that there wouldn’t be any further additions to the family as his majesty was getting old and had not taken a new wife in recent years.
The king’s spokesperson, Percy Simelane, said he couldn’t comment on the king’s private life.
“It is our principle not to comment about the king’s private life in the media.”
Brendaniel: You stay in America while supporting bad governance and leaders for your fellow Africans even your tribesmen, it doesn't matter what they go through as long as it fuels the hatred you have for a certain tribe to make you feel good...
You stay in America to cause division and hatred among your fellow Africans and it doesn't occur to you that one day you will need to come back to the same Africa you are deliberately dividing and seeking to destroy...
You're wasting your time trying to talk either sense or morality to that dead useless dog.
Lagos is one huge, never-ending scam and every single one of those abominable fools knows it
Omoapena: I still dey with this man o, nah me dey fuel car and still moving him around, infact, we went to many places today and I never collect anything.
Is he testing my patience coz I don't even know how to ask him...
How are you gonna get out of that scenario? Because if you ask him for money now it might lead to fight...this is why I avoid getting too familiar with clients, strictly business & you pay me what you owe me and I scram. All these destiny-helper issue, more often than not it just lays a hustler open to scammers and other types of criminals
goslowgoslow: He presented you facts and even provided you with a link and you called that jargon. You should be ashamed of yourself for jumping into conclusions into what you know nothing about. You are truly a kid.
DUNDEEmoderatos: My problem with your silly ass is not because you said the guy did not act alone but your conclusion that it was Kamala that sent her. So don't change the narrative kid! So far FBI investigation says the guy acted alone but investigation still continues. But your dumb brain already concluded for FBI and place it on Kamala. People that doesn't follow news.. Read the link below it will help you low IQ a little and I won't respond to you again. You are a kid! https://www.fbi.gov/news/press-releases/update-on-the-fbi-investigation-of-the-attempted-assassination-of-former-president-donald-trump
What you need is a brain transplant dude, that hunk of goo inside your skull is not useful for anything, not to talk of thinking
DUNDEEmoderatos: Many of you just comment stupidly, no sense! The dude that tried to kill Trump was a Republican card carrying member, he even donated $15 to the Republican, you are here saying it was Kamala that sent him. Stupid shit!
You're the king of fools for even thinking for one minute that the guy acted alone. Of course he has be a 'republican card carrying member' to place enough distance between him and his employers.
ruggedtimi: the Benin empire is recorded to have started in 1400s...Fastforward to the Tokugawa Dynasty, twenty years before tokugawa became the shogun, the first recorded black samurai of African descent was Yasuke. He served as a retainer to Lord Oda Nobunaga. It was recorded that yasuke was a slave to an italian priest in Japan and Oda Nobunaga was very curious to see the blackman. Meaning there was rarely a blackman in sight at that time...Lord Nobunaga took in Yasuke..he made him a samurai and named him "Yasuke". And yasuke is believed to have originally come from Mozambique,unless benin people get branch for Mozambique
Yasuke was never a samurai, that story is a hoax that has been debunked already
chichriso: CAPACITY BUILDING: SPU Concludes Training Programme for Newly Mobilized and Old Personnel.
To have a well-positioned and respected Police Force that will respond to the dynamics of the security state in the country and further improve the proficiency of officers entrusted with the security of VIPs, the men of the NPF Special Protection Unit (SPU) from Base 7, Base 20 and Base 29 have successfully undergone and completed a 2 weeks training programme at the SPU Training Centre, Dei-Dei, Abuja.
The programme tagged “Training and Re-training of SPU Personnel” which commenced on the 15th of April 2024 till the 30th of April 2024 had its closing ceremony on the 2nd of May 2024 at the SPU Training Centre, Dei-Dei, Abuja. The ceremony featured several displays from the trainees such as the stripling and assembling of arms, operational stripling and assembling of arms, open-eyes stripling and assembling of arms, one stripling and assembling of arms, blind-fold stripling and assembling of arms and the self-defence and unarmed combat demonstration.
Representing the Inspector-General of Police, the Assistant Inspector-General of Police SPU, AIG Okon.O. Effiong psc(+),fdc expressed his happiness and pride in the trainees, stating his passion for the training and development of officers. He further urged the trained officers to utilise their newly acquired set of skills in the diligent execution of their lawful duties. He enjoined them to be courageous and good ambassadors of the Force, reflecting a dignified image of the Nigeria Police.
The AIG further disclosed an intended training programme for instructors of the training camp to promote and increase their skills and make them more efficient trainers. Speaking to the Commanding Officers of the Bases involved in the training, the AIG implored them to provide the trainees with befitting offices to enable them to properly exhibit all they have learned.
DSP Abimbola Shotayo,anipr,mipra SPU PR Liaison Officer For: Assistant Inspector General of Police, Special Protection Unit, Force Headquarters, Abuja.
AaronCaponigro: I'm having sexually suggestive ideas about my kids. And I really need some assistance. I frequently find myself taking planes to Mexico in an attempt to manage my addiction to small children. I've been drawn to small children ever since I was a young child. And even though I've grown into a man and begun a family of my own, that still exists. My only option for comfort was to travel to Mexico. and actually see some kids. I have so many mental health issues.
Kamala doesn't stand a chance against Trump so it's no wonder she tried to kill him
Trump better go beef up his security...sack the secret service and bring in private contractors if he wanna stay alive long enough to thrash Kamala at the polls
TechCapon: I've been meaning to write this for some time but keep procrastinating. But something happened recently that made me decide to write this today, I'll keep it short and straight to the point.
A friend of mine met this slim, tall, pretty girl and they've been getting along real good. But the girl is always very active in church, and I mean very active. She goes to church almost every day. After work, it's straight to the church whether there's service or not she must find an excuse to go.
Omo, it was a big red flag for me but I didn't say anything to my guy even though he's complaining about it to me. She practically neglect her own life. This church has like 4 services and she attends all 4 and still hang around afterwards, and also follow the pastor and his family back to their house to help with chores.
She entered one chance vehicle one night after her pastor kept her busy in the church until almost midnight and she got robbed of everything and flung out of the speeding car. She treated the injuries for over two months and she stayed without a phone until my guy eventually bought her a phone. Not a dime from the pastor
They'll be together and immediately she receives a call from pastor she gets up like a robot and leaves no matter what. Her excuse is that she's a worker in the church so she can't abandon her role (are you the only worker in that church??)
On her WhatsApp status, it's always pastor pastor pastor , never has she posted her guy's face on her status
She's always broke, not even a dime in her name and I'm pretty sure where all her salary is going... Church. She'll collect money from my guy to fulfill her pledge in church and goes back to being broke. It was so bad, I can keep going on and on.
Recently my guy jokingly told her about marriage and guess what she said, that he would follow her to her pastor, he's the one who will tell her if she should go ahead with the marriage or not. Omo e off me
She said because she doesn't want to make a mistake and marry wrong person and most people are in wrong marriage because they didn't consult their spiritual fathers blah blah blah
I laughed at my guy and told him point blank to dump her as$$ because even if pastor managed to approve, they'll give him conditions and still force him to join the church and the pastor will have a say in every aspect of the marriage. Her father is alive and she doesn't mention him at all, it's only pastor that makes all the decisions. It's a big turn off.
I've made up my mind that I'll scrutinize any girl I want to marry very well and see if she has this bad trait in her before I proceed.