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FamilyRe: Conflict Resolution And Peaceful Co-existence In The Home by ibubee(f): 11:51am On Mar 23, 2010
Nice write up!
I m inviting you to participate in a couples' progrm on sunday 2nd of May, @ Anthony by 2pm. Theme: U & I - Living with our differences.
BusinessRe: Coconut For Sale by ibubee(f): 2:49pm On Mar 18, 2010
BusinessCrude Palm Oil Available by ibubee(op): 2:23pm On Mar 18, 2010
Crude palm oil is available for sale at a cheaper rate and in very large quantity.
Contact me for immediate supply.
BusinessUrea 46% Fertilizer by ibubee(op): 2:10pm On Mar 18, 2010
cantact me for very good grade Urea 46% fertilizer and any type of NPK fertilizer.
Thanks
BusinessRe: Black Pepper And Plam Oil Needed by ibubee(f): 2:51pm On Mar 12, 2010
Call me on 08034344704 for very good grade palm oil at affordable price
Business To BusinessRe: 89 Mack Ms200 Flat Bed Truck For Sale by ibubee(f): 2:33pm On Mar 12, 2010
is the truck still available?
What capacity- 15 or 30tons?
Im interested but the Price is too high.
BusinessRe: In Need Of A Place To Buy Bulk Sms With The Software Inclusive by ibubee(f): 2:25pm On Mar 12, 2010
Call 07062374090
BusinessRe: Please what is caustic soda? by ibubee(f): 2:20pm On Mar 12, 2010
It is sodium hydroxide
BusinessRe: Fruit Juice Maker/company by ibubee(f): 12:32pm On Mar 12, 2010
What quantity of cashew can u supply per time?
AdvertsRe: 5 Tons And 10 Tons Truck For Hire by ibubee(f): 1:00pm On Mar 10, 2010
can we get 15 or 30tons truck?
pls let's have ur charges
Music/RadioRe: Upcoming Artistes. . . .discuss Here by ibubee(f): 12:53pm On Mar 10, 2010
Need a good producer and well equiped studio? contact 07062374090
Music/RadioKola Ogunkoya (gbedu Master) New Album by ibubee(op): 12:46pm On Mar 10, 2010
Need a copy of the new album, call 08034344704.
Music/RadioI Need Tosin Martins, Ayan Jesu Contacts by ibubee(op): 12:43pm On Mar 10, 2010
Good day all.
Pls can any1 link me up with any of these people: Tosin Martins, Ayan Jesu group and Omo Jesu (comedian)?
I will be glad to have your assistance.
Have a great day
FamilyTosin Martins, Ayan Jesu And Omo Jesu (comedian) Contacts by ibubee(op): 10:36am On Mar 08, 2010
Good day all.
Pls can any1 link me up with any of these people: Tosin Martins, Ayan Jesu group and Omo Jesu (comedian)?
I will be glad to have ur assistance.
Have agreat day
FamilyRe: Did You Marry The Wrong Person? by ibubee(f): 1:15pm On Mar 04, 2010
I will suggest u read the book 'Hope for the seperated' by Gary Chapam, It will help a lot.


Can You Love an Unfaithful Spouse?
by Dr. Gary Chapman


Can you really love a spouse who has been unfaithful to you? One lady who was reading my book: Hope for the Separated, told me that when she came to the chapter on "long distance love" that she threw the book on the floor and said to herself, "I'll never love him again after all he's done to me."

"A few days later", she said, " I picked up the book and continued reading. I discovered that Jesus said that we were to 'love our enemies'. Well my husband certainly qualified. It took a few weeks, but I remember the day I baked him a pie and took it to his apartment. It was the beginning of our process of reconciliation."

Yes, with the help of God we can love those who hurt us deeply.

Some people find it strange when I suggest that the greatest thing you can do for an estranged spouse is to love him or to love her. Yet, this is exactly what Jesus taught. We are to love even our enemies and we are to return good for evil. One of the ways in which you express love to a spouse who has walked out on you is by being patient.

The scriptures say, "love is patient". Your marriage did not fall apart overnight and it will not be rebuilt today. Don't set time limits for yourself or your spouse. Be patient with your spouse's ambivalence.

During separation people are often pulled in two directions: On the one hand is the desire for reconciliation, on the other, there is the pain and hurt that says, 'give up'.

Patience is the first step toward love.
FamilyRe: Did You Marry The Wrong Person? by ibubee(f): 12:44pm On Mar 04, 2010
I agree with spiderman's comment. The truth is, it certainly crosses every one's mind xpecially when there is any misunderstanding cos we are humans. It can never be 100% perfect since we have our differences and that is why we have to complement each other and not compete with each other.

The fact that such thought crosses our minds on ocassions does not mean our spouses are wrong partners, our minds are battle grounds for wrong and right thoughts. it now depends on how we handle such thoughts. Remeber, u can not stop a bird from flying over u, but u can stop it from building a next on ur head! It is best to discard any thought that is not profitable to the health of ur relationship than ruminating over it.

Some are actually the wrong partners and not their spouses. But which ever, wrong partner or wrong individual, U can still make the relationship work. Some1 has got to change his attitude. U can take the lead to love unconditionally, and see the miracle it will perform on ur partner. When u know there is a problem, then the issue is half solved. I challenge those that think they are married to the wrong person to try this out, and pls feed us with the testimonies.

For me, I married the right person, no matter the challenges cos they are meant to strengthen the bonds of our love if well handled!
FamilyRe: Decent Hall 4 Couples' Seminar by ibubee(op): 12:04pm On Mar 04, 2010
yes, in lagos
HealthRe: Hiv Status Check by ibubee(op): 10:59am On Mar 03, 2010
Thanks for the contribution.
We are giving gifts (face caps, exercise books, pen, HIV-AIDS educative materials) and refreshments to all participants. Abstinence (ZIP UP) is the major talk. we are aware that this students are very active, our major concern is how to help these young minds out of such mess which would definitely truncate their beautiful dreams.
Pls we need supports, no contribution is useless
FamilyRe: Hiv Status Check by ibubee(op): 10:23am On Mar 03, 2010
This is a programme that will address the issues of illicit sex and acts, and the implications. also HIV-Aids and need to have their stautus checked.
After which they would be advice to visit the stand where their status would be checked and the necessary counsel given to them.It is base of the interest of the individual student, it is not compulsory.

A letter stating the details of the programme would have been sent to the schools earlier and which we expect the heads the schools to inform the parents prior to the day so that the kids could be released for the programme.

I will appreciate contacts of professionals or standard bodies that can assist with the status check, HIV talk and educative materials.

Thanks
HealthHiv Status Check by ibubee(op): 5:01pm On Mar 02, 2010
Hello all,
I need contact of a group that can help to handle HIV status check and provide souvenirs for secondary sch. students' programme in May.
I will appreciate ur contributions.
FamilyHiv Status Check by ibubee(op): 4:56pm On Mar 02, 2010
Hello all,
I need contact of a group that can help to handle HIV status check and provide souvenirs for secondary sch. students' programme in May.
I will appreciate ur contributions.
FamilyRe: Good School In Ibadan by ibubee(f): 4:19pm On Mar 02, 2010
U can also try Olubi Johnson's school (he is the founder of scripture pastures, Ibadan), cant remember the name of the school now.
FamilyRe: I'm Having A Baby! Any Yoruba Name Suggestions? by ibubee(f): 3:56pm On Mar 02, 2010
how about 'nairaland', lol
FamilyDecent Hall 4 Couples' Seminar by ibubee(op): 3:34pm On Mar 02, 2010
Hello all.
Pls can any one suggest a very good hall (not too expensive though) that can be used for an evening seminar to host couples on relationship matters? A hall in good a location is preferred.
Thanks
PoliticsRe: Federal Pardon by ibubee(f): 3:16pm On Feb 19, 2010
;d
PoliticsRe: Turai finally exposed by American: Yaradua Suffers Massive Stroke by ibubee(f): 3:08pm On Feb 19, 2010
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