Politics › Re: Hardship: Many Nigerian Soldiers Resign To Join British, Ukraine Armies (Pix) by id4sho(m): 6:11pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
Run for your life |
Politics › Re: Governor Buni Stays Put In Abuja Mansion, Fails To Visit Yobe After Massacre by id4sho(m): 5:59pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Soldiers Kill 5 Bandits In Katsina, Recover AK-47, Motorcycles (Photos) by id4sho(m): 5:33pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
EmekaBlue: This Jibia road have been a menace right from Buhari government until now.
Watching the video... You will know they all got gunned down head shot at the spot on the road. Caught alive on bikes and shot in public Why stones there, I think civilians caught them and jungle justice ensued. |
Politics › Re: Soldiers Kill 5 Bandits In Katsina, Recover AK-47, Motorcycles (Photos) by id4sho(m): 5:31pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Putin Mockingly Endorses Kamala Harris For US President (Photos) by id4sho(m): 4:43pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
Team trump , sorry for Ukraine |
Politics › Re: We’ve Supplied 30m Barrels Of Crude To Dangote Refinery –NNPCL by id4sho(m): 4:35pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
Bunch of cunny men  |
Crime › Re: Ayomide Adeleye Handed Over To Police By The Army In Lagos (Photo) by id4sho(m): 4:08pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: FG Raises Inmate Feeding Allowance By 50% by id4sho(m): 3:58pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
[quote author= post=131868696]Dey Play.... Some people don dey reason am now now sef  [/quote]Finally you've gotten data 🌚 |
Politics › Re: FG Raises Inmate Feeding Allowance By 50% by id4sho(m): 3:57pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
N750 was allocated per day for each prisoner, while N800 was spent daily on feeding each of the 900 dogs  |
Politics › Re: Federal Government Discloses Plan To Impose Zero-Rated Tax On Food by id4sho(m): 3:53pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
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Food › Re: My Boss Sent Me To Buy This Food by id4sho(m): 3:44pm On Sep 05, 2024*. Modified: 4:34pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
I go branch under tree chop the food back to back  Me: OGA OGA OGA (panting) Boss: what is the problem Me: emmmmm(panting) Boss: Talk to me, hope all is well Me: am sorry sir, but the food poured along the way Boss: is that why you are panting, no problem. Just go Boss: OGA, thank you sir, thank you sir. See the pure water here
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Health › Re: Ogun: Passenger Slumps, Dies In Commercial Bus by id4sho(m): 3:20pm On Sep 05, 2024 |
Hunger , not again  |
Politics › Re: Nigerians Are Silent With Petrol At 897 by id4sho(m): 9:52am On Sep 05, 2024 |
delkuf: I don't know what else to say. Nigeria is beyond redemption. So we would just keep quiet and allow this evil govt drow this at us. We would shout online as usual and do nothing. God should just help us. At this rate by next year, we would be buying petrol at 2000 It's the bad men that are in power now. Starting from 2015 |
Politics › Re: Petrol Scarcity: NNPCL Bars Independent Marketers Amid Surging Prices by id4sho(m): 7:55am On Sep 05, 2024 |
EpicDude123: Massive Protest looming come 1st october, and this time, heads will roll including politicians. This i have seen🤔 Their mind go touch ground |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Man Gets Arrested By FBI As He Lands In US For Millions Of Dollar Fraud by id4sho(m): 7:14am On Sep 05, 2024 |
lexy2014: It shows that he was not as smart as he thought He thought they must have forgotten about it  , finished man  |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Man Gets Arrested By FBI As He Lands In US For Millions Of Dollar Fraud by id4sho(m): 7:13am On Sep 05, 2024 |
descarado: Ask him where the money is. All gone loving a larvish lifestyle. Aaaahhhhhh GUCCI, PRADA. WOOOO BALENCIAGA. MOET, AZUL  |
Politics › Re: Anambra Woman, Kids Arrested For Beating 75-Year Old Husband Over Firewood by id4sho(m): 7:07am On Sep 05, 2024 |
Juliearth: What bewitched these people? Talking back at one's parents was almost unheard of some decades ago. Looks like the dynamics has changed and even worsened. Losing cultures and values |
Politics › Re: Anambra Woman, Kids Arrested For Beating 75-Year Old Husband Over Firewood by id4sho(m): 7:06am On Sep 05, 2024 |
I've got a stepmother who made that careless statement. I was patiently waiting for her to try beating my father, I for so panel beat her that she will beg for her life  . I know of a woman that was detained in police cell for one week for beating her husband |
Travel › Re: Fuel: Lagos Residents Decry Transport Fare Hike by id4sho(m): 6:38am On Sep 05, 2024 |
Ronu  What is my consider 
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Business › Re: N1,625.88/$1: Naira Weakens Against Dollar, Worst In Six Months by id4sho(m): 10:54pm On Sep 04, 2024 |
Founder of Lagos 😩 |
Crime › Re: Ondo Man Arrested For Shooting Rival In Concubine's Home by id4sho(m): 6:20pm On Sep 04, 2024 |
Candidlady: went to his concubine’s house n met a co concubine
Can't stop laughing
Which one is co-concunbine again 
Men are so emotional Am ashamed of my Gender |
Health › Re: Why Nigeria Receives More Funds From Our Foundation — Bill Gates by id4sho(m): 3:26pm On Sep 04, 2024 |
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Health › Re: I Have Just Infected 2 Girls With Herpes by id4sho(m): 12:06pm On Sep 04, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: My Refinery Was Tinubu’s Dream 18 Years Ago – Aliko Dangote by id4sho(m): 5:39pm On Sep 03, 2024 |
LadyExcellency: Your refinery was only made possible by Godwin Emefiele. No other CBN Governor will be this heartless to suffer all Nigerians by denying us foreign exchange for 8 years for Dangote to achieve this dream. It's easier now getting dollars. You get money  |
Business › Re: Dangote Refinery Will Crash Dollars by id4sho(m): 5:05pm On Sep 03, 2024 |
Iffa hear, he needs dollars and Euro to pay up the loans and bonds 
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Family › Re: I'm Contemplating Divorce After Two Years by id4sho(m): 4:27pm On Sep 03, 2024 |
Successtube: I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.
Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.
“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.
But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.
My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.
I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.
The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.
I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.
Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush! My brother, don't lose your sleep and happiness. Do what gives you joy |
Politics › Re: No Rift Between Tinubu, Shettima, VP Not Sidelined - Stanley Nkwocha by id4sho(m): 5:40am On Sep 03, 2024 |
Tinubu had three deputy as Governor. Pim and Shetima will be impeached |
Politics › Re: Senator Ishaku Abbo Denies Sex Video by id4sho(m): 5:24am On Sep 03, 2024 |
Shinjawestern: Na U gv m hiv na No bi everything be cruise here. Nigeria Navy denied him enlistment around+-2003 because of his status. The senator is sexually reckless |
Politics › Re: Senator Ishaku Abbo Denies Sex Video by id4sho(m): 5:21am On Sep 03, 2024 |
BitterTruth0001: This same guy again ?
Isn’t he the HIV positive senator that infected and killed his wife with AIDS ?
Or is that a different guy It's him |
Politics › Re: NNPC To Become Sole Buyer As Dangote Refinery Begins Production by id4sho(m): 5:18am On Sep 03, 2024 |
We are heading the venuzeula way  |
Properties › Re: FG Begins Construction Of 500 Housing Units In Kano by id4sho(m): 8:15pm On Sep 02, 2024 |
No votes for you oOoOO  |
Romance › Re: Lady Laments As Boyfriend Posts Engagement Photos 2 Days After Breakup by id4sho(m): 2:51pm On Sep 02, 2024 |
LilMissFavvy: The guy did it just to hurt her. He has hurried into marital journey with just another lady available, and such a marriage will not work out. Let her watch and see. End time prophetess |