Can You Marry Someone You're Not Sexually Attracted To?
Yes because it is not all bout sex. Sex is not total and complete. It is having such an intimacy with another individual body. So as a matter of fact knowing someone sexually is the best knowing. If I would marry someone I’m sexually attracted then I don’t actually know what I need, so don’t be surprised when I marry a prostitute in the name of sexual attraction.
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Ridiculous Excuses Men Give To Avoid Marriage
They are actually excuses but they disguise it in “reasons”
• Her ex till calls her (I know she loves another guy which I’m not aware of ) he has forgotten how many heart he has broken before now! How many love at first sight he ran headlong with.
• My parents might refuse us getting married
(when he was having fun and fulfilling his lust he actually knew his parents would not like it)
• My Elder brother has not married
(that shows settling down is not of priority so please run away!)
• We are just started dating though it is 6 years/ more now I need to know her more
(he has just got his b.sc in studying how to fake feelings and compose text and make love, he needs 2years m.sc to master you, and more years for philospophize you ph.D
• She is not from my tribe
(the question did he love her has not been answered)
• She does not how to cook very well
(seems he knows better why not cook for her)
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The most annoying things women do
• Is to seduce a man they never love and do not need
• Is to fall in love with the stories they are told than loving the man truly
• Is to double date because of the fear of disappointment
• Is to keep him waiting while they are not so sure
• Is to please him without considering their aftermath
• Is to put the cart before the horse having to put pleasure before pain
• Worst of all they dress to kill and bury the soul of a man in lust and he becomes their victims soon they become overpowered by their emotions.

what si your reaction to these true facts
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this is what a guy wrote on his wall post and received "12" likes from both guys and girls AND "35" comments
The making up of beauty
Even while she gazes at the mirror her looks are not appreciated till she cannot do without me
She forget that she is beautiful and goes with all her make-up kits
Beauty is beautiful and truthful
Make up is volatile, vulnerable and very vocal
Make up [/b]and the mirror never agrees because the mirror will tell you it is okay you only tell yourself I think are good to go.
[b]Make-up gives you every reason to believe you are not beautiful the way you are
Mirror can as well keep you in doubts
Every other plant and animal have not left their natural beauty but man has allow his to fade and exchange it for products
Every confused dressing is a style
Every confused style once it is accepted becomes a fashion
Will beauty allow fashion to speak or who speak for the other?
In the beginning fashion was nowhere but the beautiful ones were the ones we saw
Who invented fashion nobody but us!
Beauty is true it is sufficient it should be admired and God who has made until things beautiful should be praised!
Makeup has led a whole lot down the garden path
[b]Beauty [/b]is you and you are beautiful never allow make up to cunningly take it away from you
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the question Do guys like ladies that make up? I'm sure should be answered by your judgements not just based on this but on what you have come across before now!

A letter to my Sweet Heart
My sweet heart,
The other part of me is you. You make my beat complete every second, well I don’t how to tell you much I love u. Well while I don’t plan to repeat myself But I want every day should be seen as a new dawn of love and truth. I had love you before 14th February, even before the thought of February 14th take this letter from my entire soul my one and only heart. Many celebrate their love on Valentine’s day while we celebrate every moment shared, my friends wants to be seen around their lovers but you and I remain together as one. For you and always, I have promised to remain that part of you that cannot be lost. My sweet heart you were there with me through thick and thin it began right from the day I knew I had found you and knew you were mine in the most difficult period of life but not just on 14th February.
I love you irrespective of the day, moment or season. The gift I have for you is my love[i][/i] which I know would remain with you even after February 14th. I must stop here but it is not complete without telling you that you are mine.
From
Your Love
Don’t be confused this letter can be found in your soul very well written. Love is part of you so don’t think of falling into it. If truth can be planted love will grow no matter the harsh conditions
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A mother calling
****YOU MIGHT NOT ENJOY READING THIS PIECE STRAIGHT FROM THE HEART*****
A Mother Calling
where are the sons and daughters that would make her proud?
Where are the sons and daughter who would fulfill their life's purpose than let life loose it meaning??
I gave birth to my son and daughter in pains full of hopes that they would make the world a better place..
I can forget when I grown in pains to hear that you are my child
Have we so soon forgotten the mother that took us for nine month loved us with all hope when we were but a fetus?
that we now captioned what sex is not meant for by calling it safe sex..
No mother ever gave birth to the one that will change the world by safe sex
She was sure and ready to become a mother
I knew you were mine when you kicked my womb; you pushed with all the life you got! I loved you with all the pains with all the tears, loss of appetite, sleepless night because you were mine

Can we still have mothers again when they have cut off their wombs in the name of love for the pleasure of sex?
Can we still have mothers that their beauty is that care and love and not the fantasies and illusion?
Can we still have mothers who would not dump their babies in refuse dump?
Can we still have mothers?

NOW LOVE CALLING OUT!
Truth Speaking for itself!
Could there still be a heart that is ready to accept the truth
A heart that gives no place to lies
Will there be heart ready to believe in the reality of love
A heart that cannot be comprised, bought or sold for lies
The persistence of evils in love is meant to push to the reality of love
The prevalence of evil is not meant to keep us but meant to cause a desire for the truth
When you are stock by the truth you will be surrounded by reality
This Love calling
This is love speaking
If you agree that Love can be our reality and our identity simply: comment "YES"

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The Untold Reality of Valentine Day
Who made it a Valentine’s Day?[/b] Who coined it lovers day? Could it be February 14th I learnt that it was not even [b]Valentine himself. Then who must that be? Alright it is when the lover buys a gift and the other response by also giving a gift. I thought a gift does not demand an exchange.

Should we love once and live the rest of our lives trying to love?[/i] Love should be mark by life and not by a day, seasons or months. While we[b] mean to celebrate love[/b] we actually end up celebrating 14th February.

The Untold Reality of Valentine Day

It startles me when ideally love is meant to be an excellent way of life becomes tied to a day. [i]Every love [b][/b]that is determined by days and seasons will only change in the course of time. Were they lovers at first or they just became lovers on February 14th? Or could they have had no thought about love until sunrise of February 14th. Where have they been all this while?? I opened my only to see lovers and their gifts but I couldn’t see sacrifice. I saw lovers holding themselves so tight while we assume they are in love.

The Untold Reality of Valentine Day

We cannot deny the facts that many uncertainty arrive our minds on the eve of February 14th especially for those who give a good thought about it. I will ready speak than watch true love die in silence

Well, Valentine’s Day is the day when all the best love quotes; love sms are on sale when greeting cards seems to have arrived the market though without an idea of true essence. If you have ever been to Valentine’s Day you would see love been sold for a rape, when lust is traded for a piece of emotions, where lovers meet and both actually have nothing to give each other but buy from a third party?

The Untold Reality of Valentine Day

I look through the window and I see a brand new day the crock crew and while the lizard nodded its head saying another day is here. The cool morning breeze traveled from one part of the earth still making it sound I am breeze. The sun was the first to see the bright side of the day and the moon went to take a rest. Then I saw humans running from one part of the earth looking for who to love while another part are in search of whom to love them[/i]. Then I came out only to see that they were looking for each other still they missed each other. Those that found one did that only by[i] assumption because love was [/b]in their hand and far from their hearts. In their hands were heart shapes of various colours and sizes some were written.

[b]The Untold Reality of Valentine Day[i][/i]

The simple truth has it that; you can only love truly when you know the truth because truth always goes to the heart while lies/stories stays in the head.

Now can you sincerely answer this question: is your love tied to February 14th?

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there is a way to true love there is a truth in true love and there is life ib true love. so when you know the way to true love you would know the truth and get the life of love.

Weeping heart! Weeping heart!! Weeping heart !!
I weep to cry no more
My heart is broken for those who once fell in LOVE and are carrying the worst disease ever
My heart bleeds for those who mistook lust for LOVE
And having sex as the way of making
I can’t stop crying for those who lost all they had and the one they LOVE for pieces of LOVE
No amount of words can hold back my tears
“No sorry!” Would be enough to tell those who met the worst day of their life, in loving someone whom they fell in LOVE, with at first sight.
Where are the ones who sing about their baby and girlfriend and soon they had sold them to get fame and power.
Is my world confused about [url]LOVE?
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No! I won’t be because confusion is next to foolishness
I’ll rather be silent and wait for the truth...could I ever be patient with those who are ready to tell and hear the truth.
My pen would not stop writing till my world has got the true meaning.
Fame is behind me, popularity is a vapour but the truth lives on even at my grave side
What could be more true than LOVE however became deceitful when we lost it true meaning.

True Love is loving the truth

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No need for idle love
No time for[b] idle love[/b]
Less time for idle love
[quote][/quote]Time is life love is life
While[b] Ideal Love [/b]is here for you
What words cannot express freely
Ideal Love expresses you
Ideal Love is best for the soul

Where were you?
When Ideal love [/b]came in
Where were you?
When[b] Ideal Love has got more to share
Where were you when all of Life’s need is the Ideal Love?

What is on your mind?
Is not what is in my mind or what is your mind that matters when it comes to ideal love?
If not! Everyone would mind his/her business
But Ideal love is simply what you and I deserve

This is what love said;
Loves Speaks. If we could have love; speak freely for itself....
Then we would not need to engage in a[b] fight for love[/b]
We would not afford to fake it
This is what Ideal love said; looking for whom to love? Could be wrong in one way ...but looking for ideal love is right in all ways
Where was Ideal love?

Where was Ideal Love?

When I fell into what is not ideal love

Where was ideal love?

When I could not feel loved

Where was[b] Ideal love?[/b]

When I could not love freely

Where was ideal love?

When I moved from one heart break to another

Where was Ideal love?

When I thought he loved me?

Where was ideal love?[url][/url]http://www.facebook.com/ideallove2012

When she told me I would love you for the rest of my life.

Ideal love was right knocking at the door of my heart

But since I could not tell who was at the door I did not open....I opened my heart once and again I thought it was Philo knocking whom I was familiar with I immediately opened but never knowing that Eros was already in my Living room.

Now I want to ask;

Where was I?

When Ideal Love came knocking at my heart.

I was interested in what I felt than what I knew

I was driving fast at Philo’s avenue when I was overtaken by my own Eros

Now it is not where I was that matter but where I am now? That truly matters

So I said to myself

Now, I would open my heart for Ideal love

I would say; yes come in[b] [url]Ideal Love[[http://www.theideallove.com]/b]

So you could help me in having ideal relationship

Eros and Philo you both can stay and wait while I find[b] Ideal Love[/b] and have the[b] Ideal relationship[/b]
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A nice love story
There was once this guy who is very much in love with his girl.
This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper cranes as a gift to his girl.
Although, at that time he was just a small fry in his company, his future doesn't seem too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualize any future for the both of them, so they went their own ways there and then...
Heartbroken, the guy agreed. But when he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of himself.
Finally with all the hard work and the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company ...
You never fail until you stop trying. One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realize they were his girl's parents.
With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same any more; he had his own company, car, condo, etc. He made it! What he saw next confused him, the couple was walking towards a cemetery, and so he got out of his car and followed...and he saw his girl, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone and he saw his paper cranes right beside her...
Her parents saw him. He asked them why this had happened. They explained,she did not leave for France at all.She was ill with cancer. She had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want to be his obstacle... therefore she had chosen to leave him.
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. She had wanted
her parents to put his paper cranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her gain...he can take some of those back with him...
Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may escape but what's in your heart will remain forever. The guy just wept...The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside her knowing you can't have her, see her or be with her ever again.........hope you understand. log on to www.theideallove.com for more