*My Talk to Ladies*

Due to a lot of complains and challenge from many of our sisters I write this out. It has come to a point that many of our sisters did not even know the next thing to do about their relationship, many are even confused about saying yes or no to a brother despite serious hours of prayer because of their past regret and pains of Men who have brutalize their emotions.

Many sisters visited Prophets who gave them prophecy that has even lead them into destructive relationship. They have forgotten the Holy Spirit who can guide and lead them into a glorious relationship.

Therefore I see it will be of a help if our sisters can consider these five factors which are very essential in a relationship , before saying "yes"

1. *IS HE GOD FEARING ?*



The first thing to look for in a man is not Car, not
Anointing or tongues, not height,or Handsomeness, not even being a Pastor, not shell or banker.

The First thing to look for is the *FEAR OF GOD*

Notice, I didn't say if he is going to deeper life or mountain of fire or Redeem or is he speaking in tongues or prayerful, I say is:

*does he Fear God*
You can be Born again and even prayer warrior and yet you don't have any respect for God in your Heart.
Having a fear of God means having a deep Respect and Reverence for God.

How can you know a man who fear God?

A man who fear God must have a total submission allegiance and respect for *Word of God* in all areas of His life, He value God above all things.
A man who fear God won't slap you because he is angry. A man who fear God won't say I want sex before relationship.
A man who fear won't say I want to touch your breast.

Most of the foolish act in our relationship is as a result of lack of reverence for God


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*To be continue*


*Emmanuel Idowu*