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It was a small, stark room, typical for a doctor’s office. Jars of cotton balls and Band-Aids sat on the counter. The faded blue and pink striped wallpaper was overpowered by the bright light. The doctor walked in and asked me if I was ready. I nodded as my whole body began to quiver with fear. He flipped a switch and the loud roar of a vacuum filled the room. It was over in a matter of minutes. The doctor threw his gloves away, brushed past me and quietly shut the door. I was left alone, in that glaring white room. I wanted to cry, but the tears just wouldn’t come. I didn’t know how I was supposed to feel. I had just killed my baby.
Losing My Innocence
When I went off to college, I was pretty naïve. I had never had a boyfriend; I’d never even been kissed.
One day, I ran into an old high school crush
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I couldn’t look her in the eye. “Yes, of course his mom will be there,” I said sarcastically. My mom questioned me like this all the time, and I deserved it. But I couldn’t let her know that. I was going to my boyfriend Kevin’s for dinner and a movie.

My Kevin. He played guitar in a band, he wrote poetry and he was incredibly sweet. He said he loved me, so I said I loved him too.

Mom drove me over to Kevin’s, just to make sure his mom was there. She was. But that didn’t really matter. I could make my own decisions. And I did …

What If?

Kevin drove me home that night. After he kissed me goodbye, I stepped inside and went upstairs. I looked at myself in the mirror, and I didn’t like to look into my own eyes. I went into my room, trying not to look at my bookshelf where the words “Teen Study Bible” glared back at me accusingly. I lay in bed for hours, and I couldn’t sleep.
All I could think was, What if? What if I get pregnant?

I cried as I wrote in my journal, mapping out a plan in case I did get pregnant. Who would I tell first? Would I try to have an abortion? Would I stay in school? How would I ever be able to face my parents and brother?

“Oh please, God,” I prayed, “just let me not be pregnant. I’ll stop doing this.”
I didn’t get pregnant. But I didn’t stop, either.

Feeling Betrayed

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Relationships can be very interesting, because the heart of man is very deep and it
is impossible to know what someone else is thinking. Many have fallen victims of
misinterpreted relationships and some others have cried of heartbreaks when there was no
real heart-to-heart involvement in the first place.
There was this story of a beautiful young lady who worked with a gentle and God-fearing
boss. He was so nice to her and would encourage her whenever she needed it. He was the
complimentary type; so, it didn’t cost him anything to pay her compliments when she did
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Temptation is where the devil, your flesh, or the world says, “Here’s a way you can sin.” Think of it as a doorway; the lights are flashing, arrows are pointing, the bait is laid out in front of you. But every single time there is a doorway to sin there is another doorway as well. This verse says, “God makes a way to escape.” God’s doorway to holiness and pure living is there as well. It’s not as flashy as the doorway to sin. Infact, God’s door is built out of the rough, rugged timbers of a cross but remember the way of the cross leads home. So when you are tempted, walk through the right door.

Beloved, You still yield to that temptation and fall into that sin again because you don’t know that there is a way out. So I’m announcing to you that there is a way out!

When that temptation comes again you now know that there is a way out…this is the word of God for you!

“…but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.”

“…but with the temptation He will [always] also provide the way out (the means of escape to a landing place), that you may be capable and strong and powerful to bear up under it patiently

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One day, I saw a beautiful girl beckoning on me to come closer in the middle of a big field, I was afraid initially but when she said to me “Ken come closer I love you”, I summoned courage, I assumed probably she knew me somewhere, and more so her beauty was irresistible, she had all what a guy wants in a lady. When I got to her we held hands and to show to her that I really love her, I kissed her lips and we were to continue in the romance game when someone called her name,

“Jezebel”
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One day, I ran into an old high school crush. We exchanged numbers and met one night at a friend’s house. Her parents were out of town, so it was just the three of us watching a movie. After my friend went to bed, my crush and I started kissing. I liked it. Finally, a guy was paying attention to me! I’d never really felt pretty before, but he made me feel that way. I enjoyed it so much, I invited him into the bedroom.

I didn’t want to do anything but kiss; I was a virgin, and wanted to stay that way. But he had a different idea. I told him I didn’t want to have sex, and I begged him to stop. He just told me to “relax and enjoy it.” I was too embarrassed to call out to my friend. So I gave in.

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Sisters how long does it take you to give a reply when a brother asks you out??
Answers
a. A week or two
b. If I don’t have any conviction from God before the brother comes, I don’tthink I can predict the time to answer him. Simply put, until God gives me a go ahead… And sometimes when you have more than one proposal, it creates confusion, thus take longer period of time...
c. It is not about a specific time; it is when you have the conviction to go ahead, we need to put God first
d. I can't really predict the time
e. Maybe maximum of 6months because it is not only the proposal she'll be praying about
f. Left for me the duration does not mean anything
g. Hmm I feel sometimes one can tell on spot (especially if the answer is no). But if the answer is yes, we prefer to be sure of what we’re going into, thus the reason for the delay (Response from a sister -- Correct dear! there're truly some you give straight NO, when they show up)
h. Once you are a child of God and you hear from your Father. One month is ok. God is not deaf and dump (Response from a brother --- true talk)
Over to you brothers - How long does it take a sister to reply?
a. I think a month at maximum is OK and good for a sister to scrutinize the brother in the Spirit and physically before saying yes/No to him. It all depends on her level of relationship and fellowship with the Holy Spirit, and her ability to pick signal in the Spirit realm, hearing what God is saying. I used the Word Physically because marriage is both Spiritual and Physical.God cannot lead you to someone you don't love.
(Response from a sister --- Hmmm...at times...when there's confusion sir, it takes more than a month)
(Response from Bro A --- does that means the Brother have to wait for 3years before the sister receives confirmation from God? I guess the brother is in soup o…)
b. I believe this is where the gift of discernment comes in; If your relationship with HIM is smooth, your spiritual senses would have been sharpened.. You don't need to wait for two weeks, a month or even six months (except if you want to do small ako) before you say yes... Once he comes, you know the way God speaks to you, channel that portal... (Response --- Hmmm. True)
(Comment from a sister)Most times, sisters do delay due to confusion setting in.. Brothers it's not easy like you think, especially if she doesn't just want to go for just anyone except who God has in mind for her. It is only possible within a month if the sister had already prayed and God had already showed her the brother even before the brother comes. (Response from a brother --- Hmm Good). So she'll just pray more to further confirm. But if she doesn't know beforehand, it can take time just because of confusion. (Response from a brother --- strong point)
(Comment from a brother --- And how sure are you that a brother will wait for 6 months)
(Response from a sister --- Well, if that brother truly heard from God he will wait. It’s only those brothers that are doing trial and error that won't wait).
(Question from a brother)
In a situation where by the sister already know, and she gives the brother answer immediately…s a brother what will you do?? Will the sister not be take for granted?
(Response from a brother) Despite the fact that they know, sisters would not want to do that now... Even If God has shown them everything about the guy (Instagram handle, Facebook username, I.D Card Number....) She will still do small shakara!!!
(Response from a sister) Hmnn this is thoughtful. The brother might be forced to think she's easy.
(Comment from a brother) I think the moderator should rather tell our sisters on this platform to give us their own personal experiences of the number of months or years they have used to give brothers that have approached them over time reply; because some sisters can use 2.5years!!!
(Comment from brothers) So,brothers have to sweat… well from what I was told, it’s called the Woman Nature.

(Comment from a sister) There are brothers who say, no problem, takeyour time. Whatever God says is yours, so why panic?I like the ideas used in the olden days, there are few
(Comment from a sister) Brothers of this time are no longer patient. Jacob waited 14 years to receive Rachel (Response from a brother--- Hmnn sister. How do you know Jacob was not led now? 14 years?? Can a brother wait for that today) (Response from a sister --- That’s true... But I think it was up to 14 years because there was initially a mistake. Jacob didn't get the person he wanted. Rebecca's father also contributed to the time issue....I guess he told Jacob to serve him for 7yrs. Iyenpodiie o!!
(Comment from brothers) I have had people that gave instant reply and today they are married The problem I have with sisters is that from the day you proposed they already know their answer is NO, yet, they will now waste your time and tell you NO after six months.... (Response from a sister --- Habanot always true; (Laughs) those are dishonest sisters that want plan B, C and at times D)
(Comment from a sister --- Brother! are you sure God is leading you to her or you just feel she passes your dream wife taste...spiritual, beautiful etc...) (Response from a brother --- Hmm, true talk)
(Comment from brothers)Sisters please let's say the truth, the day a brother approaches you to propose... You already know your answer because you will instantly check his dressing, spoken English and spirituality.... I sabi sisters well well...Like those who don't understand how to speak fluently;Plus Baggy shirts and trousers??
There was even a time a time, before I ever moved to approach a sister, she called me and said even if I will propose to her it is NO....
(Response from a brother --- I think sisters have three different cards when it comes to marital issue...RED, YELLOW and GREEN. When and how to use the card is their challenge. Even after they might have prayed, they still have to think of many things. Some will even download the brothers dp or pics on FB and send it to her friend to confirm if they are COMPATIBLE. And some will set traps (with the help of her friends) for the beloved brother to know if he truly meant what he said).

We need laws for order in a kingdom; law is the whole system of rules that everybody must follow; we need laws in the Kingdom so as to bring us into alignment with God to His Will being expressed here on Earth; for order and tranquility.
As for the Laws of the Kingdom, these were already given through Moses, but there has been a problem of interpretation and application.
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*My Talk To Ladies* *(series 3)*

Few days ago we were able to look at what I titled *FIVE THINGS A WOMAN SHOULD CONSIDER IN A MAN*

Pls, if you miss any series, you can request for it at any point in time, as we send it to you.

All what I have been dishing out to all my sisters is as result of my deep findings, research, deep meditation and Inspiration From different messages. I spoke to myself it time to take responsibility in the kingdom to provide answers to difficult Questions instead of dodging them by digging deep to provide practical answers to many Questions In the heart of young people. I have seen and watch many sisters who have been praying to God about relationship from age 20 up till 30 and yet not married, I ask myself Question: Is God so Wicked like this that he won't answer his daughter ? or is this Ancestral Curse or a Character defect ?

Later, I begin to see From God's light this might not necessary be ancestral curse, but some sisters did not even know what they really want from God which makes them to be confused about decision making to say yes.

This leads me to the *third point* for today:

3. *He must Have a Passion For You*

Sister, a brother that truly need you in his life must have a deep passion for you that is irreplaceable. Let me take you into the life of Christ.
The Church is the Bride of the ⛪ Christ, the passion Christ exhausted for the Church was so much that he was willing to die for her. He cleanses her daily by the Word so as to present her to himself a glorious church without wrinkles or spot. (Read Ephesians 5: 25-27)

When last has the Brother take his time to cleans you by the the Word of His mouth?

One of the way to know if man is passionate is to look at what really takes his time. Does he takes his time to call you he cares even when busy ?

Does he take his to invest into your life spiritually,mentally, socially and financially, knowing you are going to be his best reward as a wife.
Does he knows those period of pains & fears in your life, and always there to encourage you ?

See sister, the point that the brother doesn't care to even call you for a whole month is a pure signal that he is not passionate. Don't force yourself to work things out in a relationship where someone is not passionate, otherwise this will continue in marriage.
It's painful when I hear a Sister saying am always calling him and buying things for him but he has never did not even text message, I speak to myself, is that the same way you will spend the rest of your life in marriage. This brother that cannot call you even once in a month but can call his mother is only giving you a signal.
Sister, pls don't force yourself on a man who is not ready to be responsible, and also likewise to the brother.

Finally my sister, I can bet with you
*A Brother who doesn't have a passion for you will actually be UNFAITHFUL*
Also, work upon yourself, be a woman every man will be passionate about. Be a blessing a man can vest for not a burden.

Think on these things and Christ shall give you light.

Your Friend,
Emmanuel Idowu.
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*My Talk To Ladies*

Yesterday, we were able to to look at what I call *Five things* to consider in a man. I was able to talk about the first Factor, which is the "Fear Of God" a young lady must above other things. Pls dear Sister, it is better to wait and and marry a Man with the fear of God than living you life with many years of pains and agony. This is because it will affect everything in your home. A man with the fear of God will treat you in accordance with Word of God, He cannot withstand one day of tears in your eyes even when your body is wrinkling and sex is no more a pleasure to your husband at that age, a time will come in a woman's life that her beauty is no more attractive to her husband, what will remain is the "Fear of God" that keeps giving him passion for her woman.

This is what many of our parents have neglected to consider in their early days, bringing them a big time of regrets and Pains. May we never repeat the same mistake in Jesus Name. Amen.

Now, let's go to the another Factor to consider in a man's life.

2. He Must Be Submitted to a Spiritual Authority:

Does He has a respected Spiritual Figure in His Life who he can give accountability ? This I can call a Mentor, Discipler, Pastor or an Elderly figure, show me one person he respected in his life?

No matter how bad a man is, he must have someone In his life he respected so much.

It's a pity many of our sisters sold themselves In a rush cheaply to say "yes" to a man without even any reference and check from your Mentor or From His mentor. Many sister avoided their pastor/Mentor in their decision making, only to come back to inform their Mentor/Pastor after they lost their virginity,time and being turn to a punching bag.

If the person you say yes to In a relationship doesn't have any Authority in his life, pls am not talking about Parent here, there are Many Parents who have no value or Authority in their children lives, what so ever. They are not close to their children, but a Mentor will give a full account about this person.
You say "Yes" to guy in a relationship only after a year, he started misbehaving and contradicting his value and you have no one to report to. My sister, you have sold yourself cheaply.
Who is your Mentor who can give a thorough check about the Man you want to marry?

Don't tell me you say yes to a guy without your Mentor thorough & critical counsel and Wisdom. You will save your a life time of sorrow by respecting a figure in your life.

Meditate on these Things and Christ shall give you light.

*To be continued*

Your Friend ,
*Emmanuel Idowu*

Read short conversation between two young lovers and what their definition about love is all about
“Joy, I really love you”

“I love you too, John”

“No, I mean I really love you, Joy, more than I have loved anyone”

“I know what you mean. I feel that way too”
“Then we should celebrate”

“Celebrate? What do you mean John?”
“You know the way most people celebrate when they are deeply in love”

“Are you talking about sex?”

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One day, I ran into an old high school crush. We exchanged numbers and met one night at a friend’s house. Her parents were out of town, so it was just the three of us watching a movie. After my friend went to bed, my crush and I started kissing. I liked it. Finally, a guy was paying attention to me! I’d never really felt pretty before, but he made me feel that way. I enjoyed it so much, I invited him into the bedroom.
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Time is an invention of love. Time also allows all lesser forms of love to fail, because only agape is immortal. All that is partial is mortal and is subject to decay and death.

The point in which God moves from Old Covenant expectations to New Covenant promises is also the point where He moves from “anger” to “love.” When men fail to fulfill their vows, God expresses “anger,” and when He moves to fulfill His own vow, He expresses “love.”
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I couldn’t look her in the eye. “Yes, of course his mom will be there,” I said sarcastically. My mom questioned me like this all the time, and I deserved it. But I couldn’t let her know that. I was going to my boyfriend Kevin’s for dinner and a movie.

My Kevin. He played guitar in a band, he wrote poetry and he was incredibly sweet. He said he loved me, so I said I loved him too.

Mom drove me over to Kevin’s, just to make sure his mom was there. She was. But that didn’t really matter. I could make my own decisions. And I did …

What If?

Kevin drove me home that night. After he kissed me goodbye, I stepped inside and went upstairs. I looked at myself in the mirror, and I didn’t like to look into my own eyes. I went into my room, trying not to look at my bookshelf where the words “Teen Study Bible” glared back at me accusingly. I lay in bed for hours, and I couldn’t sleep.
All I could think was, What if? What if I get pregnant?

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A young lady needs your godly counsel, What can she do to get over this mess.


I first met Jack* at a BBQ dinner during my college's Freshman Orientation. He was cracking jokes and making everyone laugh. He seemed like such a fun guy. He was also a Christian—the perfect package.
Within a month we were dating. I was flattered that Jack wanted to pursue me and excited about the way he showered me with affection. He would send me flowers. He'd also buy me cards and write Scripture mixed with professions of his love for me. I wanted to believe he was really sincere. So I blinded myself to how he was slowly changing.
When we first started dating he loved everything about me—the way I dressed, my laugh, my relationship with God, the way I interacted with my girlfriends. But it wasn't long before he started to pick on small things. One day he decided he didn't like my roommate. So I distanced myself from her. One night he didn't like the outfit I was wearing—so I changed. Another night he claimed I was wearing too much make-up. So I went to the bathroom and washed it off.
We'd go out to eat and Jack would smile at other girls. If I confronted him about it, he blew me off. Not only that, he would tell me what he liked about them, and how I lacked in comparison.
I remember one incident in particular. We were in a restaurant waiting to be seated. A woman was sitting at a table nearby with her legs crossed. Jack commented on how long her legs were, then he looked at mine and didn't say a word. But the point was clear. My legs didn't measure up. How could he say my legs weren't good enough? How could I change them? At that point I realized I couldn't take it anymore. I had tried to change everything about myself to please him, and now with something I couldn't change, insecurity overwhelmed me.
After five long months, I decided to end our relationship. Jack was angry over my decision. He felt God had told him we were to be married. I wanted to go to my girlfriends for support, but I had given them up months ago to please Jack. I suddenly felt very alone.
A few weeks later Jack called and invited me out for dinner—as friends, he said. Our time in the restaurant was awful. He was loud and obnoxious to the waiters and to me. When he asked to drive me back to my dorm after dinner, I didn't object. I was more than ready for the evening to end. Unfortunately he didn't intend to drive me home. He took me to a deserted parking lot and raped me.
I remember very few things about the actual rape—the car windshield covered with fog, the struggle, and the moment I felt too overpowered to resist any longer. In that instant I realized there was nothing I could do to stop what was happening. He was simply too strong.
When it was over, Jack took me back to my dorm, told me he would give me a call, and simply left. I was in shock. All I remember about those following hours is standing in the shower with all my clothes on, sobbing uncontrollably, desperately wanting the water to wash away the evening's events.

Welcome to KINGDOM YOUTH INTERNATIONAL .
We truly believed you have been Blessed by our various posts and we truly believed the blessings shall be permanent.
Last month we started on a Topic titled
‘MAXIMIZING YOUR CAMPUS LIFE’’ and we want to appreciate all our Readers and campus students who have been taking their time to go through the article and informing us they are waiting for the other part, which is ready now to be digested. If you miss the previous post (part 1), you can always check our previous post to feed your mind.
Like i said in the previous post, ‘ University is another Universe, your life on campus or what you do on campus can affect the next ten years of your life.. what you are forming into your life as a student will actually tell us what you will become at you nearest destiny’ ’
Now, the question is how can i maximize my days on campus as a Student ?
You can maximize your days on campus by;
1. JOINING A CAMPUS FELLOWSHIP
The first thing a newly admitted student can ever do is to find a body of Christ on campus in which he/she can be identified with. Joining a campus student fellowship can be one of the greatest thing and advantage you can ever do for yourself on campus. Campus fellowship is like a breeding place where God ha provided for young people to be tutored, mentored and discipled. A fellowship is a platform where God has provided on campus for your spiritual,emotional and academic welfare and protection during your stay on campus… It is the place where you are nourished, where you receive love and Encouragement when you are discouraged. It is another family.
A campus fellowship is where you can build trusted relationship with new believers you meet,it is a platform, where you discover the gifts and Potentials GOD embedded in you and given the opportunity to make good effective use of it. A Christ centered Fellowship brings out the best out of you to the conformity of the image of Christ through Bible study, discipleship, conferences and different programs. Your life is shaped spiritually, mentally,emotionally,academically,maritally in the fellowship.
That is why the Scriptures tell us; ‘Do not neglect the Gathering of Believers’’
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2. Live a Disciplined and Ordered LIFE
Discipline is the key to destiny fulfillment. While you are in campus you must work on yourself to be discipline and live an ordered life. You must know what to do per time. You must take note each time your lectures falls so you can prepare to get to class early. You must structure your life based on the time you spend on things. You need a structure time for Reading, tutorials and revisions. Living a disorder life on campus will only make you a mediocre and failure. You must structure the right time for cooking, visiting friends, cleaning your hostel and attending fellowship.
Being a student doesn’t mean your room should be dirty, that shouldn’t make your plates and under wears to be dirty, smelling and rotten. Learn to be neat and organized. Dont play away your time.
Your spending of time should be purpose driven.
When you cultivate this habit, it will make you distinct and unique. Dont just be an ordinary Graduate with indiscipline and disorganized lifestyle. Learn to be excellent in all things not only in your academics but also in your character.
3. Discovery of Purpose
University is not only the place to get degree but a place where men discover Purpose and their Gifts. Your purpose is your identity. Your purpose is your value. That is why the
scriptures says clearly; ‘ the Gifts of a Man maketh room for Him’ ’
You will attract favor to your life by understanding why you are living on Earth so you will not be stranded after your Graduation. Certificate is losing value, the world is looking for men who have the depth understanding of who they are. I am not encouraging to be failure in your academics,NO, i celebrate Excellence in all areas because am a man of Excellence, but what am trying to communicate to you is to make use of your time on campus to discover who you are now,what God has sent you to do and what you have passion doing without people paying.
As an Example, am an Am an Animal scientist by profession, but i have a strong passion for Writing, speaking,building and communicating GODS words to young people and inspiring people into GREATNESS. That is why am living, That is what i can die for. I discover this on campus and i build myself by reading books and attending conferences that will stir up my journey on destiny. You also can do that by buying Relevant materials that will bring you into the revelation of your purpose. Do not be among those Graduates who will leave school without a a purpose. Without a purpose you will only become liability. Let people know what you are living for. How many Graduates are leaving our university yearly, how many of them are employable, how many discover their Purpose?
Your job will pay you salary, but purpose gives you fulfillment .
4. Build Relationships
Why you are in school, i beg you not to joke with relationship. Relationship are ladder to the gateway of destiny. Build relationship with people in direction to your Purpose in life. You will meet different kind of people in your life, but not every body is worthy to be in your life. Investing in relationship is very vital to fulfilment of your destiny.
There are three kinds of RELATIONSHIP you should Consider important in your life.
Relationship with someone you admire who have Gone farther than you in your area of your personal discovery ( i call these people Mentors or confidant). You work on this by yourself not your mentor.
Relationship With People of the same Minid
I call these people friends. Moving with a friend who have a foresight of their destination in life will help you on your journey during your academic years in school. This kind of relationship involve praying together and sharing of vision, Goals and burdens together to encourage, challenge and building each other to the realm of destiny.
You can have a destiny Friend like David and Jonathan in the scriptures. This kind of relationship helps to build Trust in each other. Never consider a friendship that is never adding value to your life but always draining you.
Relationship with people Under YOU
Bringing and investing into young people into knowledge of what you have know so far brings greater rewards and fulfillment. If you are in your final year in school and you have never build people into Christ and destiny, i consider it a failure. Help younger people to discover themselves, help them solve problems and help them know Christ the more, this makes you bring glory to GOD and also brings fulfillment to your heart, by not just leaving school but leaving a positive legacy behind in the school for the next generation.
5. Acquire a Skill while you are in school
Why you are in school, it is very important learn a skill that will enhance your destiny based on where you are going, acquire a skill that brings you fulfillment, not only because you want to make money but you want to make an impact. Many graduate are found wanted and stranded after school because they failed to acquire a skill that can keep them going on in life. Let your learning of skill be driven by the depth of understanding of your purpose.
This can be done during your semester breaks to enhance your destiny in life. It can be tailoring,barbing, art or writing or any thing that bring an advantage to your life and destiny
6. Build a Personal Library
While you are in school, please buy books to educate yourself about the realities you will encounter after schools. The scriptures says
‘my people are destroyed because of lack of knowledge’’ Dont be ignorant and helpless in life beacause of lack of knowledge and informations. There are realities you will encounter in life that school that will never teach you, but with knowledge, you will be fully armed to dominate every challenges and hardship of life. Knowledge of the mysteries of the kingdom will enhance you a superior escape from every fierceness. Brother and sisters, you need to be fully armed.
I will encourage you to buy books;
Purpose and destiny.
Finances
Spritual Growth
Entrepreneurship
Marriage and relationship.
All these will be a great beneficial to you, while you are in campus, and above all, DEVELOP A STRONG RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD
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Without solid reasons for saying no to premarital sex, our young ones are vulnerable in times of temptation, doubt and questioning from their friends and peers.
Love is not primarily a feeling. If love were a feeling, God could not command it because you can’t make someone feel something. For example, you can tell your child to eat rice and he is going to like it. You may be able to get your child to eat rice, but that doesn’t mean you can get him or her to eat it. You can command someone to love another person which is an act of will but you can’t make him or her to like that person because you cannot force an emotion. The biblical picture of love is one of giving without expecting anything in return. Accepting another person without condition.
In 1 corinthian13, Paul gave us what a good description what love is. Therefore, love makes the security, happiness and welfare of another as important to us as our own. But the pressure line is many teen reduced love to ‘’ if you love me, you will have sex with me’’ sex is never the test of love. The true nature of love is seen in how we treat people (see 1corinthians13:4-7) true love is giving and trusting, secure, safe and being loyal to one another. And because its priority is to protect and provide for the loved one.
Lets be honest: sex feels good whether participants are married or just of hormone – driven young adolescents. God designed sex to be enjoyed within the context of marriage. Sex is an expression of RESPECT and HONOUR from one person to another in the ‘’MARRIAGE COVENANT’’. It has been said that when a purpose of a thing is not known, ABUSE is inevitable.
Today, young people are looking for sex without love, love without marriage and marriage without responsibility. The world’s idea of sex is shallow. The world says “Make love” God says “Love” we have confused sex with love. It’s one thing to know how to make love to someone. Making love is merely technical experience. Whereas love is a spiritual act. If truly sex actually produced love, no one will feel love more than “Prostitutes”. As a general rule, many teenagers have reduced love to
(1) A warm feelings or emotional reaction
(2) A positive response to a relationship that makes them feel good which are self-directed and against God standard.
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It is impossible to have fellowship with someone that we don’t know anything about. This is why knowing the Holy Spirit and how he desires to minister in us and through us is critical to know before we can understand fellowship with the Holy Spirit. Now let us look into the biblical mandate for fellowship with the Holy Spirit and how to cultivate this fellowship in our daily lives.
What is Fellowship with the Holy Spirit?
The New Testament Greek word ‘ koinonia’ basically means ‘sharing in common.’ We get our English word ‘coin’ from here. J.H. Thayer points out that it is ‘fellowship, association, community, communion, joint participation, intercourse.’ Christians are partakers in common of the same mind as God, Christ and the Holy Spirit and of the blessings arising there from. It is also commonly used of the intimate bond of fellowship which binds believers together in Christ.
1 John 1:3 NKJV “that which we have seen and heard we declare to you, that you also may have fellowship with us; and truly our fellowship is with the Father and with His Son Jesus Christ.”
1 Corinthians 1:9 “God is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of His Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.”
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2 Cor. 13:14 “The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you all. Amen.”
What does Fellowship with the Holy Spirit involve?
Fellowship with the Holy Spirit involves sharing our lives in common with him. It means opening up the deepest parts of our personality to the influence and direction of God’s Spirit. Our thoughts, motives, feelings, attitudes, decisions must be laid bare in his presence. He must have a say in our future plans, fears, hopes, passions, visions and choices. We should seek his counsel and wisdom in all things and submit to his promptings, urges and nudges. We share with him the choice of a marriage partner, of career and profession, the details of our relationships and intimate friendships, and you name it.
Fellowship with the Holy Spirit means taking pains to find out and do what pleases him. (Acts 15:28) It means avoiding the sins against the Spirit and majoring in the character traits that reflect the fruit of the Spirit. (Gal. 5:22, 23) We cultivate intimacy with the Spirit of God on a daily basis when we invite him to help us in our day-to-day decision-making.
Here is a list of the sins against the Holy Spirit we must watch and avoid as we seek to fellowship with him:
i. Grieving the Spirit (Eph. 4:30)-making him sad by behavior contrary to the fruit of the Spirit-anger, hatred, bitterness, unforgiveness, etc.
ii. Quenching the Spirit (1 Thess. 5:19)-putting out the fire of the Spirit by refusal to pray and be on fire for the gifts and anointing of the Spirit to work through you.
iii. Insulting the Spirit (Heb. 10:29)-Living a life of continual deliberate sinning after receiving the knowledge of truth.
iv. Resisting the Spirit (Acts 7:51)-Going in the opposite direction to the definite guidance of the Spirit.
v. Vexing the Spirit-(Is. 63:10)-Living in deliberate rebellion against the leadership of the Spirit
vi. Lying to the Spirit (Acts 5:3)-Telling intentional untruths and half-truths to anointed men/women of God with the intention of deceiving God’s people.
vii. Tempting/Testing the Spirit (Acts 5:9)-Teaming up to provoke God’s Spirit to do things he would not normally want to do.
viii. Blaspheming the Spirit (Matt. 12:31, 32)-Attributing the works and words of God’s Spirit to Satan and demons when you have a clear witness within yourself.
ix. Striving with the Spirit (Gen. 6:3)-Walking in the flesh continually against the promptings of the Spirit.
x. Rebelling against the Spirit (Ps. 106:33)-Refusal to do what God’s Spirit expressly commands.
Why is it important to cultivate fellowship with the Holy Spirit?
The Christian life is a supernatural life. Fallen man is indwelt by a sinful nature which fights him even after he is born again. (Gal. 5:16; Rom. 7:14-22) Therefore the new creation in Christ Jesus must constantly be empowered from within and above to be able to live and walk worthy of his calling as a child of God. This is what the fellowship with the Holy Spirit does for us.
He is our teacher
Jesus explained that the Holy Spirit will teach us all things and bring to our remembrance all he has taught us. God’s Spirit knows the past (Jn. 14:26), the present (1 Cor. 2:10,11) and the future (Jn. 16:13). Every teacher works best with attentive students eager to learn, who have time for him and ask the right questions for better understanding of the subject. If we do not spend time to cultivate fellowship with the Spirit, we cannot understand his symbols and teaching methods, or grasp the deeper meanings of the lessons he desires to teach us. We frustrate him by our dumbness.
He is our Guide.
Our Lord explained that the Spirit will guide us into all truth and give us ability to cope with life and its stresses. We need to cultivate a lifestyle of keeping our eyes on our guide in order to avoid the doctrinal pitfalls and wiles of the enemy. Our invisible adversary the devil is going about as a roaring lion seeking whom to devour and we must keep pace with the Paraclete to outwit him. (1 Pet. 5:8; Jn.16:12-13)
He is our Helper
The Holy Spirit helps us with our weakness in prayer (Rom. 8:26-27); he pours the love of God into our hearts when we need it most (Rom. 5:5); we put to death the deeds of the flesh through his empowering (Rom. 8:13); he gives us the counsel we need to succeed; he conforms us to the image of Christ from one degree of glory to another. (2 Cor. 3:18)
How do we cultivate daily fellowship with the Holy Spirit?
Our hunger for growing intimacy with the Holy Spirit can be best seen when we commit ourselves to building a life of daily fellowship with him. Give yourself plenty of room to fail and make mistakes. Just as the marriage relationship becomes more rewarding as you work on knowing and understanding one another more intimately, so it is with the Holy Spirit.
1. Develop sensitivity to the Holy Spirit. The dove from heaven is so gentle and sensitive he will never force himself on you. Moses’ face shone and he did not know it (Ex. 34:29); the Lord left Samson and he did not know it, Judges. 16:20. In the same way, the Spirit comes as a dove to rest upon us and we need to spend time in his presence to detect what grieves or pleases him. He soothes, he comforts, calls by name and can even give you a pet name. Daily times of devotion, silence and solitude are indispensable, Ps. 46:10. Practice living in God’s presence moment by moment.
2. Cultivate fellowship with the Spirit through conversation. Greet the Holy Spirit each morning. Ask him questions. Invite him to help you constantly as you face your challenges. Freely share your joys and sorrows with him. Build a habit of referring decisions to him. At first it may look awkward as you seem to hear no reply. Understandably, it will be slower for you to make decisions, but it is just because you have not yet learnt to identify his language and symbols. He communicates all the same, and you grow gradually into understanding what he is saying.
3. Grow in daily fellowship with the Spirit as you read and react to the scriptures. Invite him to open your understanding whenever you turn to the scripture. (Eph. 1:17) Discipline yourself to have a daily quiet time of meditating on the scriptures. Satan blinds our understanding. (2 Cor. 4:4) The Holy Spirit opens it. He gives deeper insight and conviction. Invite him to empower you to obey the scriptures.
4. Build intimacy with the Holy Spirit through prayer. Invite him to help your weakness during times of prayer. He knows and prays according to the will of God. Ask for his anointing to make two-way praying possible. He helps to intensify your prayer. Pray in the Spirit. (Jude 20, 1 Cor. 14:2, 13-15)
5. Increase your friendship with the Holy Spirit through passion for him. Love God’s Spirit for himself. Be more interested in the Spirit than in his gifts and what you can get out of him. Tell him you love him. Sing songs to him as you would to a friend. Enjoy his company. Get interested in his interests and avoid grieving and quenching him. Commit yourself to cultivating the fruit of the Spirit. Do not love the world.
6. Partner with the Holy Spirit in ministry. Invite him to minister with you as you preach, teach, witness, or lead the people of God. Ask for his anointing and words taught by the Spirit. (1 Cor. 2:3-5, 13) Co-operate with him concerning your fields of ministry. (Acts 16:6, 7; 8:29) Invite him to chair your meetings. (Acts 15:28) Spend time in the company of those filled with the Spirit. Let spiritual songs be around you and in your heart.
Cultivating daily fellowship with the Holy Spirit is an exciting adventure that takes time and effort but it really worth it
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Lie #1: Sex is no big deal.
Wrong! Sex is a huge deal. It ties two people together forever (Genesis 2:24), even if they never speak to each other again. You can't escape the memories of sharing the most intimate act of all. That's why God wants us to save sex for the person we commit our lives to—the person we marry.
Lie #2: You can be a "technical" virgin.
In God's eyes, staying a virgin means more than just not having sex (Matthew 5:27-28). It means keeping your mind, body, and spirit sexually pure. Messing around, touching each other in private places and doing "everything but" just don't fit into that picture.
Lie #3: Sex equals love.
It's true, at least for many, that sex equals an emotional tie of some sort—one that might seem like love. But here's a news flash: many treat sex as more of a physical thing than an emotional one. Sex is meant to be the ultimate expression of the ultimate commitment, marriage. Love comes first, marriage second, sex third.
Lie #4: Having sex is just like any other sin.
God definitely forgives sexual sin the same way he forgives all sin. But the reason the Bible pays close attention to sexual sin is that sex affects people like no other sin does (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Most sins involve mainly your actions, but premarital sex involves your heart, mind, and body as well. That kind of internal damage is very hard to get beyond.
Lie #5: Everybody's doing it.
So not true. In every school, every town, every state there are plenty of cool, happy people who have chosen to follow God's plan and save sex for marriage. And they're also saving themselves all kinds of heartache. So not only are they cool; they're very, very smart.
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“Look, the virgin boy is coming” says Frank and everyone burst into laughter, “what’s up guys” I greeted my friends who were chatting under a tree in the school compound. “we are cool” they replied sarcastically. Frank continued with his story
about what happened between him and his girlfriend the previous night, how they were both having a fling with each other and were almost caught by his dad, everyone laughed. John also narrated how he got into the sexual act at the age of 14 through their baby sitter who introduced him into sex when ever his parents were not around, everyone in the group took turn to narrate their sexual experiences and sharing their fantasies and at the same time discussing about the girls in their class, mentioning those they had slept with and those they perceived were still virgins and those they were still working on to get down.
I got home that day with several imaginations going on in my mind, I was wondering why I had never had sex with any girl at the age of 16. Soon I started satisfying my sexual fantasies and sexual drive by watching porn secretly at home when my parents were not at home and started downloading naked pictures of girls and videos on my mobile phone to watch alone in the night when others were sleeping or when I was in the bathroom, I began to masturbate and the urge to have sex became so strong on me, and soon I began to crave for opportunities to engage in premarital sex contrary to my good moral upbringing and all the messages from my youth church and numerous singles summit I had attended.
I began to lose concentration in school and the word of God was not having effect any longer on me, the girls in my street were not helping matters as they were fond of appearing in all manners of seductive looks and dressing to my admiration. Soon I got introduced to Jennifer by my friends and we started dating, we would talk all through the night (mid-night calls, and chat), soon we started engaging in phone intimacy and other sexual fantasies, to cut the long story short, when the opportunity came, we had sex, after the first encounter I felt very bad about it, I was down with guilt and shame, but soon summoned courage after discussing the experience with my friends. I was no longer taking part in Sunday school activities anymore and gradually I backslided unknown to my parents and even leaders in the church even though I still attend services, I became a pretender.
My friends were happy about my new experience and way of life; gradually I was introduced to smoking and started getting involved in several other evil activities. In no time I started going to brothels to have sex with prostitutes and became addicted to the red lights districts in town.
One day, I saw a beautiful girl beckoning on me to come closer in the middle of a big field, I was afraid initially but when she said to me “Ken come closer I love you”, I summoned courage, I assumed probably she knew me somewhere, and more so her beauty was irresistible, she had all what a guy wants in a lady. When I got to her we held hands and to show to her that I really love her, I kissed her lips and we were to continue in the romance game when someone called her name,
“Jezebel”! We quickly stopped and she told me she would get back to me shortly. I was there fantasizing about the strange encounter when she suddenly appeared in company of other girls with knives and arrows in their hands coming to get me, I took to my heels and was running so fast, but Jezebel caught up with me and was about to stab me with the knife when I suddenly and luckily woke up. “Oh thank God it was a dream” I said, I just waved it off as one of those nightmares and slept off again, it was later I understood the meaning of the dream.
Couple of days after, I accompanied my friends to a night party in the company of their girlfriends, a fight broke out between some rival cult guys at the party, there was a shootout, I and my friends managed to escaped from the venue but had a fatal accident on our way home, Jennifer died in the accident but I managed to survive but had my right leg amputated as a result of severe damage to the leg. My amputated leg and Jenifer’s death served as a great lesson for me, each time I remembered my parents and pastor’s admonitions about the consequences of living a bad life as a youth and the need to abstain from sexual immoralities and the dream God used to warn me to desist from chasing after girls for immoralities, I broke down in tears and today I have joined the campaign against all forms of social vices committed by young people especially the fight against sexual immorality
Premarital sex is a killer, it disconnects you from God’s plan for your life, it makes you vulnerable to satanic attacks, the bible says he that is joined with a harlot is one body with her (1 Cor. 6:15) when you have sex with a girl, you have united your soul with that girl and must be ready to share any curse on her.
Some guys go to have sex with prostitutes secretly and think no one is aware, you are only killing yourself and destroying your destiny, like we read above, her room is the way to hell, descending to the chambers of death and this is true for every girl you have sex with.
Premarital sex also distract you from the purpose of God for your life, look at the length of time you invest in planning how to get a girl, all the mid-night calls, long hours of immoral thoughts and lack of concentration about your career, studies, and life generally. The thoughts of her and how to have her in bed make you sick everyday like
Amnon in the bible (read 2 Sam. 13: 1- 32).
Are you in a sex trap? Are you addicted to sex? Do you always masturbate? And fill your imaginations with all sorts of sexual fantasies? Are you addicted to pornography (blue film), you can’t do without seeing girls unclothedness, your phone is filled with all kinds of sexually explicit materials (pictures and sex video), you can’t control your emotions anytime you see anything in skirt and blouse, even in the church, the sight of beautiful girls sets you on fire of lust, sometimes you peep through bathroom key hole to watch girls taking their bath including your own blood related sisters! You are fond of sexually abusing little girls when no one is watching, you have raped girls to fulfill your sexual desires, and sometime take part in gang rape and all sort of sexual abuse against girls. And when you are in class your eyes keep wandering to see if you can get the sight of girls who are probably sitting carelessly so you can see their underwear! Jesus said “But I say unto you, that whosoever looks on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart” (Mathew 5:28)
Maybe yours is smoking, drinking alcohol, you belong to a cult group, stealing, fighting, and other evil things that characterizes the life of so many youths. No matter what your sin may be, I want to announce to you that the plaster is wider than the wound ; you can be cleansed and become a child of God.
You can be made whole If only you can just tell God you are sorry, ask Him to forgive you and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. He will cleanse you and make you pure; He will heal you of any sickness or disease you have contracted. He will make you a brand new person. Today you can become born again, you can start a new life, the bible says “if any man be in Christ, He is a new creature, old things are passed away (including all your past immoral life) behold, all things have become NEW!!!
Say this simple prayer “Lord Jesus, I have seen myself as a sinner, Forgive me all my sins, cleanse me with your blood. I confess and accept Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. Let all the works of darkness be destroyed in my life. Thank you Lord for accepting me as your child, let my name be written in the book of life. Thank you Jesus, in Jesus name I pray (amen)
If you have prayed this prayer whole heartedly, I want to happily welcome you to God’s sweet family. As you have received forgiveness, you must forgive all those that have despitefully used and hurt you. The bible says forgive and you shall be forgiven!
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University is another Universe, Everyone on campus knows that the atmosphere of your School and campus differs from the atmosphere in your home or family.
At home, You can decide when to wake up any point in time from sleep. But in campus your Waking is as early as 5:00am for lectures you may have at school. That’s why Students in their first year in school find campus to be very demanding of their time and adjustment,and some find it difficult to align, while other also find it easy depending on the home each person came from.
When you are under your parents, your parents monitors your movements, dressing and associations. Your parents exercise some level of monitoring and checking to either restrict your movement or permit your movement. You were under control and monitoring,but on getting to campus you begin to see what freedom to live your life is all about especially if you are living outside campus, you will develop a sense of responsibility of living on your own, cook on your own and do things on your own. But, it a pity that many students jeopardize the opportunity of a freedom instead of maximizing the advantage of Freedom.
Many students use this period of time to explore what they are not enjoying at home. Some begins to experiment with sex, smoking, drug, cultism and pornography and different kind of addiction.
When I was on campus, I have seen a Situation when a young lady with a young Guy at pre-degree level dedicated a whole week to explore themselves on the corridor of sex without going to lectures just at the mere meeting at registration point.
Many freshers on campus are the major destructive target of the devil especially young ladies. When you are under your parents, you dress decently and covered the sacred part of your body but on getting to school, you begin to come under some forces and influence you cannot explain. You begin to see how the dressing of other ladies on campus somehow differ from your own and you want to explore or do the same. A month after your admission into school, you started revealing your Breast and to complete the destructive agenda the devil has for you, Your associations are not also helping you.
There are many students whose parents suffered and sacrifice their income to see them get to school,but without being informed their lovely daughter is now a Jezebel on campus and their lovely boy became an expert in Cultism.
University is a place where you will encounter different kinds of influence or Forces, if God does not help you by supplying Grace, you might see yourself doing what you have never plan to do.
As a young boy who just spent six years in secondary school full of boys alone, I have the urge inside me to explore and have the carnal knowledge of different ladies, which I tried some immediately after high school, but on getting to campus, it was just a privilege to do anything I want with any female students who are my colleagues but MERCY says “NO” the love of God found me, I became powerless to carry out my own will and agenda. It can actually happen to you today also, a divine Encounter with Jesus.
As I use to say, your life on campus or what you do on Campus can affect the next ten years of your life. Everything you can see me doing today for God and the Kingdom can always be traceable to my life on campus.
After your secondary school, Your University days is like a foundational breeding Factor of what you will become in the future. It is a place when you begin to form certain thoughts about life, destiny and the kind of family you want to build in the nearest future, and once you miss it at this junction, it might affect and infect the next ten years of your life, until you go back and learn what you should have learn. Life has no respect for anyone, as you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. If you don’t learn to live an ordered and organized life on campus while you are a student, life will teach you a serious lesson after Graduation G.
You might not understand what am saying now until you graduate from school or ask your Senior ones who are already Graduates.
What you are forming into your life as a student on campus will actually tell us what you will become at your nearest destiny.
As I use to tell my sons and daughters on campus, don’t only take your study serious but take your destiny serious, and be brutal about it. Don’t be among those students who begin to learn when they got to their final years, that there is no more womb again,because they have wasted their womb with their Lecturers and colleagues by the instrumentality of several abortions and drugs on the altar of sexual intercourse. Some even realize they have wasted time, opportunities and resources and relationships. They realized they graduated from school empty handed, they can’t laugh at the point their colleagues were smiling because of wasted time and destiny.
University is not a playing ground or where men enjoyed sexual intercourse but it is a place where men discover destinies. Early Risers in life discovered their destiny earlier.
Now Emmanuel, you have spoken a lot.
“How can I maximize My Days on Campus”
Now let’s go straight to the talk. To maximize your Years on campus you need to:
“to be continued…..”