Please be very careful with this matter, am happy with your level of maturity. You did say who is older here, you, your cooool cuz or ur sister. Does your cuz know It might help if he know; that way he could help your sister. Am sure he will know what to do if he is also as matured as you are. However, this could backfire if he is not that matured to handle such information. The guy fit begin die for your sister too, especially if he is like you sister that has not really mixed with the opposite sex. In all I believe that with you around the situation will not get out of hands. Goodluck!!

@Romeo
Thank you jare! For me , let us not burn too much energy try to have Xmas or not. It is a personal thing. There are other issues like LOVE et al. I think it is even a grand plan to bring up this issue to kina distract us all. Be careful

Do what comes from your heart, please don’t get carried away! The intension is what matters! It is a good thing you are seeking for suggestions, look at them and make up your mind.