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whitelexi:
The brain cant make the heart do what it cant handle. . .  But in this case, i'd expect some more resistance from the dude, he is too soft and has put his marriage in danger as a direct result. This woman will blackmail him if he tries to cut off her supply of supplementary comfort at this stage.

I suggest some extremely strict handling of this situation which is very delicately balanced, his actions can bring more tension and emotion to a situation that has too much of both already. . .  

1. Come clean, tell your wife what you've done and put your house in order first.
2. Spend all available time in your wife's company, if she's not available, spend it with your kids.
3. Stop all intermediate contact with this woman, physically, mentally, emotionally, socially and electronically. Change your mobile number and email if she already has those.
4. Gradually phase her out of your lives, without getting her overly upset with your actions as this can stir up deadly emotions.
5. Act now, and stop this reckless desire that is consuming u and your entire world!

Your friend has let men down and needs to correct his actions immediately. Adultery is a sin before God and man

[color=#9900ff]Gbam![/color]

whitelexi:
Dude cannot blame the woman in this case, he allowed it happen in the first place!

Does it mean his wife is not attractive enough to him? what was he looking for when he touched her boobs, why did he not touch his wife's own instead?

[color=#9900ff]On a roll today [/color]

canuck:
@ Poster

You are dealing with a very needy person in dire want of emotional and social validation. Assuming she's not diabolical (you cannot know that until it's too late), it is still an unhealthy relationship.

People like her will NEVER heed indirect communication - "Haba, are you my husband's second wife?" - Lai lai!

No be fight - Make sure your husband is home; maybe in the bedroom, then tell her you dislike being choked like that; list examples. Set the rules of engagement. Fellow church member ko, fellow saint ni!

One last thing - Never, ever, absolutely never leave your baby with her; not for a second! Needy people are not balanced.

[color=#9900ff]Gbam![/color]

[color=#9900ff][img]http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/lol-052.GIF[/img]
Sorry but the story is funny. People like him give men a bad name.  And i thought men were made of sturdier stuff _{I keep forgetting we are in another age}
Irresistible indeed. . .reached out and touched her and blah.  Completely forgetting the wife in the other room and the children in the other room.  Na so una dey traumatize children.  So little control. . .Like i always say, you get what you ask for

Let him tell his wife.[/color]

oredein:
@poster the movie is not bad, I watched it 2wks back.

[img]http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/lol-052.GIF[/img]
[color=#9900ff]People sef[/color]

Amigoz:
Chewing gum with mouth open

[color=#9900ff]Lool, like those that bite the spoon when they put it in their mouths. Cling-clang noises [/color]

FL Gators:
Really?

@MC
Love them dresses. . . .I need to get myself some dresses sef

[color=#9900ff]Yeah. . .looks comfy enough to sleep in [/color]

mohawkchic:
[size=13pt]~I was getting hopeful. . . . Been on a roll & all. . there might be an intsy bitsy part of you that wud not want to sleep w/ dresses on  [/size]

[color=#9900ff]LOOL Yeah i sleep in whatever jare
Hey i did buy a dress A red and white short itsy bitsy dress. . .my sis was praising me.  I have no idea when and if i would ever wear it.  I just liked the patterns on the dress and color and the style but i don't think i could wear it _{I'm too gra-gra for dresses}

Shoes are different luv. . .not that i would wear them either Hmmmm https://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/free-indifferent-smileys-722.gif[/color]

[color=#9900ff]I like the shoes on the woman with Mike Epps.  Though i'm not a fan of the bows but the shoes make her feet look dainty. . .not those humongous feet we see around

My sister tell me oo! I have no idea what Tocarra was thinking   I like the color of the dress but not the make.  Looks like something to sleep in Fawn is usually elegant-ish when she walks the red carpet.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Sleep[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Aww men, blackthought is Mos def is [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Na club them dey go?
The plaid shirt i love, i'd wear that on a regular day.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]You don miss road I don't fb [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I like the black one. I could sleep in that too [/color]

[color=#9900ff]64

Mukina is beyond your grasp. . . she's also 64 [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yes, now waka far [/color]

[color=#9900ff]See this woman, you want uncle to disown me? [/color]

dapsycool:
Not so fast, it's on till you are <=50, Iice can I meet you?  Iice I have to meet you?  

[color=#9900ff]<=50. . .you've defo missed the train [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Painful yeah? How the tears never come

But i'm giving it my best shot. . .for the sake of humanity

Or the race will die a sad death [/color]

mukina2:
naa you know i cant

yes naw maybe mama's house looks like a ding dong longing centre

you weep? you sure say the tear nor freeze half way?

[color=#9900ff]I dey try weep na

E just nor wan fall

[img]http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/lol-052.GIF[/img] Take your time ooo [/color]

dapsycool:
Evidence? where? what? This promo of meeting me won't last forever, hmmmm,  u will be missing something something  
Iice can I meet you?  

[color=#9900ff]Has it expired already? Thank goodness!
Sorry, not interested [/color]

[color=#9900ff]^^ LOL![/color]

[color=#9900ff]Mi amor

You won't 'die' me [img]http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/lol-052.GIF[/img]

The celly + nivea is standard

I weep for the species [/color]

[color=#9900ff]A trial will not convince me. The evidence is clear [/color]

[color=#9900ff]my loff

Ah ah, na minions na. . .battalions still dey

Mark Anthony nefa see yet rofl

I want strawberry own ooo [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Awww did the baby make a boo boo [/color]

dapsycool:
they are lovers, after all it's now legal to be , make I leave them alone

[color=#9900ff]Good luck [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Away from people [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I dey innocent na https://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/free-innocent-smileys-250.gif

https://www.pic4ever.com/images/127fs3780538.gif[/color]

https://www.pic4ever.com/images/desertsmile.gif

[color=#9900ff]Wow, this thread is still going on. . .

Keep the kraziness up [/color]

candylips:
yes i like poke nosing

[color=#9900ff]Keep representing the men [img]http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/lol-052.GIF[/img][/color]

mukina2:
wetin?

na lie not  inside mama's house

nothing the good ol spritex can take care of

[color=#9900ff]

Like i keep saying, thank goodness for the men in my life [/color]

dapsycool:
What did you drink tonight? season just started today.  
and why are the flies gathering, did anyone fart    

[color=#9900ff]Season ended 3 billion years ago
Ahhhh and there is the cinch

Laydee the flies ooo

Can see them from million miles away https://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/free-cool-smileys-855.gif
[/color]

dapsycool:
230 kilode?
I must be missing something. Iice can I meet you too?  

[color=#9900ff]Season has ended so no [/color]

candylips:
dude na chating thread for them gang

[color=#9900ff]And yet thou is here [/color]

mukina2:
my loff . .where you put that insecticide?

i don look everywhere i nor fit see am

e get some flies wey i wan spray

[color=#9900ff]Under the kitchen sink. . .

I feel a storm coming

Gathering of flies [/color]

mukina2:
my loff  

https://www.pic4ever.com/images/gun.gif

https://www.pic4ever.com/images/Ghelyon.gif

https://www.pic4ever.com/images/cowboypistol.gif

[color=#9900ff]Major L https://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/free-evil-grin-smileys-751.gif [/color]

Ebonyeyes:
Some people are living in kookoo land. All these Negros deluding themselves about their looks when infact they are semi-overweight with a face only Jesus would love.

[color=#9900ff]*dies* [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Once my mind is made up, it's made up. It's over and done. So no. [/color]