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nikkyshyne: Moi

LOL! That pic of urs is soooo funny!

fluid26: My dear, all men are flirts. The best u can do is make urself *available as much as u can...

See this kid! Na so u dey take style toast? Her boobs dey confuse you?

Who is fighting?

bittyend: You still don't get it, do you? You're talking about a scenario where the man 'agreed' that he actually raped the woman. How about if he denies it (which is what most people would do by the way), how can it be proven in a court of law?



How can you r.ape something that's 'rightfully' yours? It's a very difficult thing to prove..

Marriage is the UNION of a man and woman, to become ONE.. They became one in unison, the day they got married. Just as you can't be prosecuted for stealing something what rightfully belongs to you, without a proof that you actually stole it. Marital r.ape is also something that's very difficult to prove, period.. If you think your husband is molesting you, get out of the damn marriage, period..

I get what you are saying and I agree. It's hard to prove this in court. My point is, it's still r[b]a[/b]pe and it's wrong. Haven't you heard of cases where husbands kidnapped their own children during divorce cases? Weren't the kids theirs too? Were the husbands right? Or people 'stealing' their own property just for insurance claims?
All I'm saying is it starts with the individual. The moment they realise that forcefully having s[i]e[/i]x is not the way to a happy marriage then all the better because the end result it not good.

bittyend: Can it be proven in a court of law?



Moral is subjective, but you can't deny a man his right.

Men whose rights have been denied and then took actions into their own hands have not be praised, even in courts. There may be pleasure/satisfaction in street justice but not when its in the home and especially abuse.

bittyend: You're contradicting yourself again. If we can't leave everything to the court of law, then why should marital ra.pe be a crime?

Personal values and principles are both relative albeit subjective as well, but you should have put that into consideration before giving the same guy the right to have sex with out whenever he feels like it.

That's more reason why marriage needs to be re-defined. I'm not a big fan of marriage, and the rights it gives to both parties involved. That's why I don't think I'll ever get married.

I cannot speak for those who went into marriage with the sort of man that would be a perpetual burden to them, but what I am saying is rape is rape regardless of marital status and the reason its not treated as a crime is because the laws still have a long way to go in dealing with the nature and confines of marriage. A man who rapes his wife will not do it once but it will definitely repeat itself leading to violent abuse in the future (the courts don't mention this why? because its psychology but a fact). Which will then be the proof the woman needs to make an official complaint against the husband.
People who indulge in this should not use the pretext of law as an approval to their behaviour cos they are one more rape into becoming criminals. And over what?

bittyend: How can you prove she wasn't in the mood in a court of law?

Argue against that, and stop posting innuendos.

The endless rigmarole.

It may not be recognised in the court but a man who cannot make the difference between consentual sex and rape is deluded.
The law is made up of humans and is a work in progress but that is no excuse to throw morals and common sense out the window. If we left everything up to the law with no personal values and principles then you're lost.

bittyend: And since sex is legally, religiously, and spiritually(lol) allowed in marriage; and ra.pe means the crime, committed by a man, of forcing another person to have sexual intercourse with him, esp. by the threat or use of violence. This topic is inconclusive!

If you don't like sex, go for a sexless marriage, or get a divorce.

Just because a woman is not in the mood it now means she doesn't like s[i]e[/i]x??
Eg: She says no and the husband tries coaxing her and she still refuses, then he becomes upset and agressive which in turn makes her angry. A heated exchange of words ensues with the huusband threatening her that he will get his way tonight whether she likes it or not and then does it. Pinning her down and muffling her protests and screams. Is that not rape??
I am aware sex is a given in a marriage but that does not mean a woman does not have the right to say NO.

lefulefu: na wah ooooo.97 percent of naija babes are so desperate to date and marry doctors.for naija if u be doctor na big boy u be and u go see endless queue of naija babes running after u tellin u dat they love u and want to marry u.just saying hello to a naija babe and if she just know say u be doctor na camp she go start to dey camp for ur house.ehen naija babes this days dey fight tooth and nail to get married to doctors.omo why e be like dis?
abegi make we discuss de matter jor.

Lmao!

Chimezie198: Lol u wan spoil me abi?

Hw was ur weekend? Hope u had fun.

Between us both who spoil pass

Was trying out all those styles you mentioned. Still trying to figure out 'hunters'

Chimp!

^^ Jeremiah, what the fcck is your problem?
Answer all the questions asked and stop all this!

A husband who rap[i]e[/i]s his wife is wicked and should be punished (unfortunately that's not the case).
If a woman is not in the mood for s[i]e[/i]x, the husband should respect her and let it go. Are the husbands so incapable of control that they have to resort to rap[i]e[/i], someone you claim you love?
The topic is not talking about a woman who continuosly denies her husband s[i]e[/i]x because that is a separate issue that the couple should address to sort out their differences. Some women withold s[i]e[/i]x to punish their husband which I do not approve of but still not a good enough reason to rap[i]e[/i] her. So what happens after the act is done, does the husband feel happy? SMH.
A rap[i]i[/i]st is a rap[i]i[/i]st regardless of his/her marital status.

Who says the weekend is over?

Dude can't spell his own name. Calls his neighbours kids to help him.

Reuben2012: After a week she sent call me back but i did not call her dat day so i call are the following day may be she had realize her mistake but she did not pick my call but when she finally pick my call i sense in her speech that she is not ready to accept the blame to the extent of telling me that she will never come to my place again.may be she want me to beg her but i will never do such a time cos i knw dat am right.

It's plain immaturity. Get yourself a real woman!

Lol! (dunno why i find everything funny today!)
Uses her long saggy bo.obs to soap her back while bathing

Goldieluks: [color=#550000]Odd choices i must say...

Odd choice for a Nigerian woman or something else?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]They were mine before Ije came in the picture. [/quote]Hehehehehe! He's hurting

Fulaman198: Yes dear omw

Chimezie198: Bad gurl

Lol!
Sucks cows' nips, turns him on

lefulefu: na who be dis kelvin wey una dey talk about sef?

You no fit check dating section. Ur head dey swell abi

cindyrella: Yes He gave me ice cream and gala, wit small groundnut

He couldn't add common malt to wash them down! You sef, why you come cheap like this

Went thru a sex change to be a man, only to get married to another man

Fulaman198: Umm sure

Stop stalling. I'm ready!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Just be your self my love. . . This is a democratic love!

Is that a yes? [/color]

That simple?!
I need ID's official blessing first, you know she's ur mom. Also that of a neutral person. Ayobase? mykejones?