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[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=371671.msg5185831#msg5185831 date=1261787812]and where did u crawl out from? [size=5pt]merry xmas[/size][/quote] the very place i have been. merry christmas to you too

ancel:
@ijebubabe: Pele, omo iya mi. Hey, I'm a night-crawler, so if you wanna chat I'm here!

o ma seun. lol. how come you are online if you are a night crawler

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naija movie? lol. that will only drive me nuts. you lucky, u have male friend to even gist me. am all alone here.
i agree. xmas should NEVER be spent alone

[quote author=iyapo_ny link=topic=371671.msg5185683#msg5185683 date=1261785080]@ ijebubabe

i feel your pain sister. this year is the first year that i have spent christmas away from home, and not only do i feel lonely, but i hate this cold weather in new york. normally my roomate is here and i have someone to socialize with, but he left last week to spend his holidays with his family. however, i have friends who invited me to a christmas party and i am planning on going in about an hour. i would have went earlier, but someone told me it was rude to go to a christmas party without bringing something, so i had to rush and find someone who can make me a tray of jollof rice to bring. the very sweet lady who is making it is only charging me a small amount, and it will be ready soon.

please cheer up and if you cannot find someone to spend the day with, try to find a good movie and make the best out of it. merry christmas. [/quote] that is one of the most cheering post i have read so far on this thread. thank you.
lucky you. i would do almost anything to hang out tonight. lol. i intend going to the cinemas tomorrow to watch a movie. but the thought of going to a cinema all alone sounds very weird

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we do feel lonely too. lol

ijeoma2619:
@splint what is that picture on your profile? abeg leave her alone. run ijebubabe lol

yes. lol. that his profile picture is scary.

ijeoma2619:
and i dont think the uk weather helps the situation either, i heard its always rainy, gloomy and melancholy especially at this time

yes. very gloomy weather.

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okay. i will keep that in mind.

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are you sure that is ijebu?

ijeoma2619:
but ijebubabe dont u have any girlfriends that invited you, some people dont have families here but they have gettogether amongst themselves ane each person would bring their own dish, u get what i mean? and try not to cancel too many invitations because like you said people would stop inviting you, i used to be like that but i have changed and i dont regret it

i have few female friends but they are all with their boyfriends or spending time with their family. i will start accepting invitations now.

ijeoma2619:
you will be okay dear, just make the next christmas a better one

thank you my dear. sure, i will. God forbid i go through such next year.

[quote author=becomrich; link=topic=371635.msg5185181#msg5185181 date=1261777193]ijebubabe , the way out is benin republic. Ti wa ba le gba towa yin, e ni poor more[/quote]hmmm. okay. but please explain the benin republic part.

i like your google maps. keep up the good work. they reveal so much information. maps can never lie

upload ijebu towns let me see. my mum is from ijebu-esure. my dad is from ijebu waterside. i will like to compare it with the villages in the north.

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i will change. for sure. thx

skfa1:
Dont too worry ok, next week is coming soon. Make sure u attend church to get to meet people. You can also try naija house party or clubbing with friends.

You are Naija cute chick now, sure a good guy will come your way   

How I wish I can help out situation 

thank you. i will try to mix with more with church members. Just that i am the 'mind-your-business'' kind of person. I do not dig the idea of over-familiarity especially in places of worship. I believe in going to church, i pray to my God, say grace and come back at home. That was my style back in naija. Anyway, i will try and change.

clubbing and house parties . . . i will do more of that next year. I am always fond of refusing invitations or cancelling at the last minute, so peeps dont bother inviting me again. All that will change. I was not missing much back then since i was either with my ex or on the phone with him for long hours. So now that its over, it seems am now in a world of my own Anyway, i will change. 

[quote author=becomrich; link=topic=371635.msg5184721#msg5184721 date=1261768108]There is no road like that in yorubaland in Nigeria. Pothole ke. Never.

You , we have yorubas in the republic of Benin and Nigeria. While the Yorubas in Nigeria live poor and what they do is become struggler and go an struggle use clothes from Benin republic. Have you ever seen a Yorubaman from benin republic come to Nigeria to struggle used clothes.  NEVER. Satellie pictures shows thier are doing better.

The only people doing well in Nigeria are northerners. Their houses are new and good road network. Oil reserve tank all over the north.[/quote]wow. i have never thought about it from this angle. you are so right.
i am from one of the ijebu towns. the last time i went to visit my relatives, i was disappointed. the roads are terrible.

so you mean there are oil tanks everywhere in the north   while ijebu has none??
that is so unfair. it is cheating. yet awujale and other ijebu illustrous sons and daughters are doing nothing about this?

what do you think is the way out, becomerich? i think i will raise this issue in the next ''ijebu parapo'' meeting holding in peckham.

meatball:
^^^^
a genuine friend /companion is okay

''soul mate''. . . . that is a deep word o

i agree a companion is okay

skfa1:
Ehya sorry poster, i feel you.
I think MK is far to manchester, i would have drive down to pick you to the club 2nite.

Sorry ehn,ehya, sorry

thanks.
yes, manchester is far.

skfa1:
You need to get a BF

i agree. the loneliness and boredom is just killing. and to think this is what i will face till next week tuesday when i resume back at work

yeswecan:
Sheffield . .

yes thats far from where i am

[quote author=becomrich; link=topic=371635.msg5184693#msg5184693 date=1261767750]Look there is a 600 km  expressway road  in Benin republic, There is not even a 200 km expressway in yorubaland in nigeria[/quote]yes, i know that road. and it is very smooth and no potholes on it.
is there any road like that in yorubaland? as benin=ore road been fixed?

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i wish you the best too

[quote author=jcob. link=topic=355477.msg5184664#msg5184664 date=1261767191]take it easy.na your leg u take waka go yonder.[/quote]shut up. if you have nothing to say

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that one go hard oh. all the guys i know are all in relationships 

are you in nigeria? if yes, how come you do not have any boyfriend
when i was in naija, i had men drooling all over me 
i lost count of how many dates i had to cancel.

but this UK has just dampened my social life. . . . . thanks to my location, work, etc 
besides, i was in a steady relationship before it ended

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was just checking the journey planner. lol

what part of south yorkshire. am seeing different addresses

yeswecan:
Read a book . it worked for me

tried that earlier. ended up with a headache.

firedancer:
i'd say get a boyfriend, simple

easier said. i had one few months back but we parted ways
anyway, do you have any recommendations?

i am still confused. kindly shed more light. especially on the correlation with the yorubas and benin republic,

Kunbee:
Pele tie

dupe tie

skylo:
seriously bored tooo, u can imagine,my boy friend is not here yet, 

lucky you. at least you are expecting him and you are sure he will come over.

what will you say about ''boyfriendless'' babe like me 

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okay.

am not in birmingham right now. stuck in milton keynes  

this is really enlightening. please explain in more details.

i am soooooooooooo bored 

i really wished i had bought a ticket earlier and travelled to nigeria and returned back in january

this is the most boring and the loneliest christmas i have ever had 

i am soooooooooooo bored 

i really wished i had bought a ticket earlier and travelled to nigeria and returned back in january

this is my most boring and the loneliest christmas i have ever had 

debest1:
hi poster, u know u only need to give me a call, a[b]nd all your boredom will become a thing of the past.[/b] I'm based in the London area,

how do you intend do that?

[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=355477.msg4974051#msg4974051 date=1258865783]hy am based in London[/quote]What do you do?
Are you a student?