God bless everyone. Honestly I am glad putting this up here because after reading all the advices, I feel good and know that I am important too. I really appreciate 🙏

I'm new here and edd is July 29. Good evening beautiful mamas

dawnomike:
Quite unfortunate that your family is like that... Make peace for the sake of your dad's health but keep your distance as much as possible afterwards.

Your brother and his so called wife will understand life sooner or later

Sir it is not like I can't make peace but begging them will bring more insult to me and they will always remind me how I begged them in the past. Those are kids I'm 6yrs older than.

Why are my parents making me feel less of human? Why are they letting me know female child is not important in igbo land? I placed them on salary and have been trying my best to see them happy. Honestly I'm heartbroken 😭😭😭

macbede:


NNE, the writing is on the wall. Leave your brother for now to face his life. Be firm if need be, involve appropriate authorities if need be.

Its all for his n your own good

Modified

You have a responsibility to your unborn child n children as a good mother. Other than career development and your personal relationship with God, trust me, nothing else matters.

Las las, you won't even remember or meet yourselves in heaven, if heavenly gains are part of the reasons restraining you.

Udo.

Thanks for your advice sir

budaatum:


If you agree with the above, please call your brother and fall on your knees when you beg him and his wife for a abusing you. But if you don't agree, then kindly tell your parents to go beg their son who insulted them.

You are worthy of more respect and regard than you are being shown by your brother and his wife and your parents, and standing for your rightful respect and regard is the only thing that will teach them to respect and regard you.

As for How "Do I End All The Relationship Between Myself, Parents And Only Brother?" Be strong and just stop pandering to their silly demands.

Thank you sir 🥺

I am gradually falling into depression and I am 5months pregnant.

I have a brother I love so much. We are just 2 and I am older than him. Honestly this boy has taken advantage of being the only son to be extremely misbehaving. With the little money I am making from my business, I have tried several times to set up a business for this boy. My daddy has sold all his land just to see this boy grow but he always end up squandering everything on drug. He has been to psychiatric hospital on 2 different occasions and I was the one that paid for every dime spent there. He has a girlfriend that is just like him, very rude, mannerless and nasty. She has unapologetically insulted everyone including my parents. My brother is 32years and has lived with me several times before getting an apartment.

So recently a prophet told my dad to get him a wife and he will never misbehave again and can also start giving birth. My brother insisted on marrying his girlfriend which everyone was against but my dad just have to do it. My poor dad spent his hard earned money on the marriage rite and paying for their apartment, the girl got pregnant. I promised to buy all the baby things they will be needing. For the past 6 months, my 75yrs old father has not been working and feeling well. I have been the one taking care of all his responsibilities both feeding and medicals. My dad will always call to report my brother wife to me that the girl is always asking him money in very rude manner. At a time, I told my dad to stop picking her calls. Last year Nov, my brother asked me for 200k which I told him I don't have because the 1m I gave him before was wasted.

So I invited my dad to lagos so I can take him to a good hospital and my brother and his wife came to visit him. After much talk, I told her to never call my dad and ask him money again because the man is no longer working and sick. She said she has not been asking my daddy money.
I asked her if she's calling my daddy a liar and she said yes my daddy is a bloody liar and I am so stupid to believe what my daddy told me. I told her to leave my house and she started screaming and abusing me. My brother stood there and also joined her abusing me telling me that if I can't accept his wife then I should forget about him. The wife refuse to go, she told me to do my worst. Thank God for neighbours that intervene before she left.

It's been 3 months I ended every relationship between me and my brother. Now my parents is calling me that I should make peace with my brother. My mother has been supporting my brother and show it clear to me that he's more important than me despite everything I am doing for her. She has been the one pushing my dad to tell me to call my brother and make peace with him. I told my father I can never do it and both me and my kids will never have anything to do with his son and his family again. I love my father so much and I have noticed he don't pick my calls again like before. Honestly I wish I have the mind to block all of them and just concentrate on my life and kids. But I can't just forget my father like that and I can never beg my junior brother too. I don't just know what to do

They are telling me he's a man and I shouldn't expect him to beg rather I should be the one to beg him