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RomanceRe: I Find It Hard To Keep Dating Girls Who R Boring In Chatting... by iKillzz: 7:06am On Oct 29, 2014
No girl is a boring chatter.

The same girl you just called boring, go and check her whatsapp contacts and her BBM contacts and you'll be shocked. Go check her twitter and see how active she is. There's always a guy that a girl can chat 24 hrs non-stop with. Always. If they have found a guy to spice up their day, the rest will take a back seat until she finds one more interesting than the one she spends all day on chat with.

The problem is YOU. YOU are boring, as a person. That is why you find yourself in the back seat with all the ladies you initiate a chat with. Time for you to take the driver's seat. Improve yourself and gather knowledge on the things a lady finds interesting.
RomanceRe: When Should A Guy Move On After A Girl Repeatedly Says NO? by iKillzz: 6:54am On Oct 29, 2014
Immediately the first NO is sounded, you should take a walk. A lady always chooses her man. Within 5 seconds of seeing a guy for the first time, a lady already knows if she wants him or not. If she wants him, and the guy asks her out, she says yes without much ado. But if she says no, her no is no. If she says, "let's be friends" there is a possibility, but it's not sure.

In your friend's case, the girl kept him as a last option. You cannot tell me that she didn't know he was from ondo and a white garment boy since 100 level. She knew all these, but kept looking out for a better guy, before she jumps ship. And when she found the better guy, did she not say yes to him?

The problem with most guys is their inability to understand a lady. If you do not naturally know how to read a person's intention, you're on a long thing. Why do you think that ladies most times go back to the guy they earlier said no to? A guy they told no, and he ignored her completely? That's because his value in their eyes, increased. If you pester them too much after they earlier said no, they'll count that against you as well.

Ladies are not complicated. They are interesting.
RomanceRe: After Breaking Up With Him, She Still Wants Him Back... Please Advice. by iKillzz: 4:41pm On Oct 28, 2014
She's lonely. It's not as if she wants him back. It only looks as if she wants him back cos there's no other guy in her life. Once another guy comes in, a guy she deems better than her ex, she'll dump him again.

He should mind his current gf. People become an "ex" for a reason.
RomanceRe: Married Woman Having Feeling For Married Man by iKillzz: 4:27pm On Oct 28, 2014
Resign, and tell your family why you had to resign. You will gain your husband's trust and respect even more. From the little you said, I don't really believe you don't have feelings for your husband anymore. If you had no feelings for him, you wouldn't give a second thought before cheating on him. Deep down inside you, you love your husband, and would rather resign than cheat on him.

It really comes down to what you feel is more important to you. Your boss, or your family. It's not an easy decision to make. There are consequences for any action you decide to take. You'll lose the trust and respect of friends and family after cheating, and you'll lose financial stability if you do not resign. But remember that there are more important things to life than how much you make every month.

Resign and then work on your relationship with your husband. Remember the things that drew you closer to him to the extent of loving him and agreeing to spend the rest of your life with him.
RomanceRe: What Was The Worst Heartbreak You've Ever Had ? by iKillzz: 4:18pm On Oct 28, 2014
If you dwell on, and keep dwelling on a heartbreak you suffered, your emotions are slave to the one who inflicted them in the first place, and you can never heal. . . No one falls to the ground and refuses to get up. Dust yourself up, and move on. You are living a life and not a movie script. Things happen. Get over them as quickly as you can, and move on.

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