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elantraceey:
Who's a biracial guy?

[color=#000030]a guy that comes from two different races. A guy with a white mom and black dad for example. [/color]

[color=#000030]Lol. The trick is finding one that'll love you for who you are. Most of those guys date african ladies cos of their big asses and nothing more. [/color]

[color=#000030]Love is enough. And I'll explain why.

There's a misguided meaning of love nowadays. Love can mean anything to anyone who decides to use that word to accomplish his gain or aim. Doesn't mean that is what love really means. A guy can say to a girl "I love you", she believes him, he sleeps with her, and abandons her. That wasn't love. That was just what she wanted to hear at that time, and he also knew those words would literally make her pants disappear from under her.

True love covers a whole lot of things. If you have really been in love that led to something meaningful, you'll understand what I'm saying. Real love for someone else doesn't grow over night. The person must have displayed qualities and attitudes that endeared them to you over time. You cannot love someone who isn't your bestfriend, nor someone who isn't loyal nor someone who isn't faithful and trustworthy and tolerant of you and your tendencies. These are qualities of a true friend. Add communication and respect into the mix and you have found someone you're ready to spend the rest of your life with.

Love is a compendium of understanding, trust, faithfulness, communication, loyalty, trustworthiness, tolerance, endurance, respect. When you open your mouth to say "I love you", you're saying so many things at once under the umbrella of love.

However, because of the prevalence of the misuse of that word, love, a lot of people have come to the conclusion that love isn't enough. And I do not blame them. . . I mean, how can you say you love someone and at the same time cheat on them? How can you say you love someone and your actions do not portray it?

If you know what love means, you won't say it just anyhow. People have to prove to you that they are worthy of your love. That is why I find it absurd when people say "I love you" to someone they've hardly known for 2 weeks. Such a time frame isn't enough for them to have proven that they are worthy of your love.

When someone says "I love you" when you know he or she hardly knows you, their motives should be questioned. Avoid falling for the cheapest trick of all time. . . Then again, you have to be mentally alert to know when someone is trying to use the word "love" unlock your panties, or, "eat" your money as the case may be. . .

The most important question then is, do you know what love really means? If you know what love really means, you'll come to the full realization and conviction that love, is actually enough and that just saying "I love you" without knowing what it means, is not enough. . .[/color]

dechandel:
Are you on your period

[color=#000030]That's for you. I can't answer. [/color]

dechandel:
Apply your imaginations and build the perfect bod

[color=#000030]Lol. Flat girls use those lines a lot. [/color]

2dice:
am cool and you?

[color=#000030]Never been better. [/color]

dechandel:
Make up your mind already

[color=#000030]I'm trying to ascertain where your body structure leans. Not clear from your profile pic. [/color]

[color=#000030]Congrats bro, first of all, for scoring a goal. And secondly your marriage in advance. Pls understand that on a public forum, opinions differ. Different calibre of people come to these parts. Some are mentally stable, some aren't. Some are frustrated and others are naturally sadists. Some may not understand how happy you are, and that your happiness moves you to share this info. Some are jealous. Some may be regretting an earlier decision. Do not blame some responses.

However, the onus lies on you to be able to sift positive responses from the negative ones. Respond to the positive, ignore the negative. . . Cheers bro. [/color]

2dice:
chaiii
see baddest G*
itroway salute ooh

[color=#000030]Hey man. . . Sup? [/color]

[color=#000030]I'm a Manchester United fan. But I also support Arsenal on days they play teams like liverpool and chelsea. . . Catch my drift? [/color]

[color=#000030]Hi guys. Looking for lala247. Anyone seen her? [/color]

immortalvoices:
you shouldn't have left bro.. This section is a pale shadow of it's former matured self
Blackett meets ikillz...

[color=#000030]Maybe I shouldn't have left. The situation then demanded it. You never miss what you have until it's taken away from you. [/color]

[color=#000030] A lot has really changed.[/color]

[color=#000030]Chelsea are invincibles [/color]

[color=#000030]Men cheats becauses of your grammars and englishs. [/color]

[color=#000030]What happened to remaining single? Hellooo? [/color]

[color=#000030]Medical condition? [/color]

[color=#000030]Did you check the meaning of dilemma before posting this, or did you just feel like wasting people's time? [/color]

AmberQueen:
Well,relax & think abt d million reasons u accepted to tie d knot wit him in d 1st place.

Ur love fire is simply burnin blue so chill..... U dn't need no stress/anger lines on ur face tmao nah...lol

[color=#000030]+100 [/color]

Freshtomato:
It means that she is lonely and wants to cheat on you

[color=#000030]^^^

OP nwanne, you sure this aint your gf? [/color]

[color=#000030]Yawns... [/color]

[color=#000030]Abeg, I'll rather remain single. [/color]

[color=#000030]oboy, see hustle. [/color]

[color=#000030]I don't know the one more foolish. . . The OP, or those taking him serious. [/color]

[color=#000030]Most of them don't know what they want. [/color]

Mondisweets:
papa ngozi how is the family?

[color=#000030]I never born. [/color]

Mondisweets:
na only you waka come?

[color=#000030]Nkechi Monday, how are you? [/color]

adebriana:
what if u truly gave d person ur all and the person just betrayed u...isn't that painful? I know It's not as painful as death anyway

[color=#000030]Someone betraying you isn't the end of the world. You won't die after a betrayal, you only become wiser. Take that positive out of the negative betrayal experience. [/color]

[color=#000030]I learnt a lot. . . Thanks OP. [/color]