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koladata:
Yes, you answered wrongly. If you find a lady who is willing to struggle with you, don’t let her down, but first make sure you truly love her before allowing her to go through that struggle with you. on the other hand, It’s still people like you who later come back with long complaints about how women only like self-made men. Many of those women once tried building with someone, only to be disappointed.

Even marriage itself is not expensive. I can advise two broke people to marry each other, but they should do everything possible to avoid having kids until their situation improves. The most successful couple among my friends is one that had a simple parlor wedding with just six people present, even we, their closest friends, didn’t know about it. Today, they own two houses in Ajah, three cars, and have recently relocated to Canada.

this is not a case of not earning enough

my rent got due last month, currently at the mercy of my Landlord.

I lost my job sometime this year and i have been struggling to get another job. Along the line i also lost my GF ( she left), i met this girl, first we became friends and then lovers. She has been very helpful in every way you can think of, but she is also struggling and schooling too.

She asked me this question and i quote "Babe if someone comes along and say he wants to marry me, should i go ahead and accept" I told her yes because right now, i cant give her the life she deserves. she started crying and refuse to speak to me. Did i answer her wrongly?