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lol, @ Ify

People should leave Uju alone, she has shown that all dreams are possible,

Me, i am waiting for that Obama's first girl, i will giver her the next 10 years, at least she no go mind 40 something year old, rich bachelor.

If Uju can, Yes I Can

@ MMM, Why naa, u harsh o! I go don hold finish naa
@Iice, i think i will borrow your mindset
@Bhusayor, any good girl will do o! but bow -legged? Naa! total turn off!
@Freecocoa, Good! Lucky you!
@Longone, Bros, borrow me that CD,,

I won't go hating, i guess it is not meant to be, but i get my issue is that i get tired of people easily ( and i am not saying anything x-rated here), i tend to like great intellectual sparring and is usually absent. The girl that got it, got no game, the one with game is a bimbo: give me a smart beauty, and i am off to cartier in the morning!

"@Ilemima. Whether I contributed to the break-up? Most likely. It takes 2 to tango and It would be unfair if I made it seem that I had no fault whatsoever in this. However, honestly, I tried to make it work. Have you ever experienced a situation where you are basically working against the odds? That was my problem. You're supposed to marry your best friend. In this case, because of the pressure (trust me, it was a lot), I overlooked most of the things that I considered to be important and chose to accept someone based on Christianity period. My mistake. Of course you wouldn't want to marry someone who is unequally yoked to you by religion, but I should have considered someone that was more my equal intellectually, emotionally and spiritually. I'm not perfect and I make mistakes. However, I'm thankful this was an accident I could walk away from intact. Never again."


@ Serubawon, i made the comment because i believe that in life, we sometimes hold part- responsibility for our hurts, believe me, i can vividly relate to what you are saying , aorking against the odds that are so evidently before your very eyes. Like you, i am thankful that i could walk away, i have a friend that is about getting married, and he is screaming for someone to save him from the impending union, how naa?!

When i read about your relationship with your late wife, i said a quiet prayer; God please give me a home as beautiful as that. If one is to marry, it is beyond christianity or tongues, there must be a connection in all ramifications, Serubawon, why do i feel something good is on the way for you?, hear what the spirit is saying to the church

I was just looking over my life and i kept thinking about the relationship that never was,

The girl you wished you married that u did not
The guy you wished you dated that you never did

That girl that looked so scrawny but was so into you, whom you couldnt stand but is now a beauty, I could go on,


My story?

There was this girl years back, with buck teeth and not so good dress sense, but also perhaps one of the most intelligent, kind and committed person i have ever met. Well, though i liked her, i felt she was not "up to the standard" ( what ever that means now?). Fast forward 6 years later, i am still searching, she has had braces, now have a beautiful set of teeth, she is climbing fast on her career and, she is marrying one great dude in a few month. ( i have even bought aso-ebi self). Do i feel bad? Yes, no i feel like an idiot. If i could turn back the hand of the clock, i will marry her, without the braces or not, good dress sense? ( what are immage consultants for?).

The folly of youth!!

I totally like the post but i think it is misleading that grown single women have something wrong with them.
There are beautiful decent women in their 30s who are still single and have no sordid past behind them, what is their offence?

I believe marriage is a very beautiful union, but a lot of girls instead of focusing on building a future, run helter skelter just to get a ring on the finger.

There is a beautiful thing about life: choice. I believe if one live with integrity, whether 23 or 43, every desired good will come.

my 2 kobo

I am one of the ghost nairalanders, i come on this forum everyday for the past 3 years but never registered, just had to today so i can comment on this thread;

Every one should leave seru and pritti alone, they will get to it in their own time?
While i think Seru is an amazing dad, i was just wondering if he in some way contributed to the breakup of d last engagement? ( minus- the dishonesty issue)
I really wish you all the best and God's wisdom in the years ahead.