Romance › Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by ilo04(m): 6:50pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
TheRainmaker1: For a man, being shy is like the anti-thesis to being good with women.
In case you're not familiar with the term anti-thesis, let me put it like this:
If being good with women was sweet as Red Velvet Cakes, or Domino's Pizza... 
... being shy would taste like YoYo Bitters or Chloroquine... and...a mouthful of razor blades 
It ain't good. The trouble with being shy is,the women in your life LOVE it. And they encourage you to be
MORE shy, as you get older: When you're little, the women in your life like your mother...your sisters... your friends, etc...
... They all think being shy is “cute" or "adorable."And when you're young, it is.
But this reinforcement forces you to act shy and quiet well into your 20's... 30's... 40's...50's..... Right up until the day you die.
And THAT, my friend is neither adorable... Nor...Good for you, if you want to meet women.
Here's the simple reason WHY:
Women like "bad boys." At least in theory. Even if most women wouldn't DATE bad boys...
... They can't deny they're TURNED ON by the confidence. The attitude. The rebellion. Women love men they can't CONTROL!
Because men are powerful. Women are beautiful. That's just the way the world works, my man. I wish it was different too. But you can't fight reality. And being a "shy" guy means she can control you. She can get you to do things.
And she can drive your life like a fucking life coach. Who's got the "best intentions"... yet... ... is NEVER gonna get naked for you. Or kiss you. Or date you. Or take you back, if she's your ex.
Them's just the facts: If you're a shy guy, women will NOT want to date you.
In fact, being shy isn't even the worst of it: Because being "shy" isn't a disease...... It's just a SYMPTOM OF SOMETHING GREATER!
For example: You ever meet a shy, CONFIDENT guy?
How about a shy, SUCCESSFUL guy? How about a shy, "SEXY" guy?
... Shy rockstar?
... Shy movie star?
... Shy media mogul?
... Shy porn star?
... Shy businessman?
... Shy character in a romance novel?
... The list goes on and on and on: The types of guys women want are NOT shy.
Even if they're quiet, intellectual types, most of the time. They open up when they're around women.
So what YOU gotta do, if you're a shy, quiet guy right now is this:
Ditch your shyness. Learn to be bold. Learn to be confident. Learn to upset people, break
the rules and live a little. You'll be happier, more confident and even more SUCCESSFUL not only with women... but also in other areas of your life as well.
(Ever heard the theory that confident guys get paid more not because they actually
DO more... but because...they know how to "work” their boss and "the system?"
And because I used to be shy, myself, I think I can help you out.
I've got a little system I'd like you to try, if you're ready to make a change.
Just let Me Know..................
(NOTE: This is not my original Idea. Its from my Friend Vin). Am a shy guy and intelligent |
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Fashion › Re: Checkout Governor Fashola's Casual Outfit To Lagos Countdown Event(photos) by ilo04(m): 7:02am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Very soon he will become former governor |
Fashion › Re: Checkout Governor Fashola's Casual Outfit To Lagos Countdown Event(photos) by ilo04(m): 7:00am On Jan 05, 2015 |
Lovely  Eko oni baje |
Celebrities › Re: PICTURED: Cossy Orjiakor Steps Out In Cleavage-concealing Outfit by ilo04(m): 3:04pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Hit like if u stroll down to look at d picture |
Christianity Etc › Re: Shocked! My Cousin Bro Died Of Motor Accident But His Spirit Is Disturbing by ilo04(m): 2:33pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
It happen like that, his soul wandering around because he die untimely death. Pray for his soul to rest in perfect peace  |
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Romance › Re: How Do I Collect Back The Money I Spent On My Gf?(advice Needed) by ilo04(m): 5:33pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
u beta run from dat girl, she want turn u into her atm machine.As for d 6k, forget am she will not refund but if u still love her u can call her mum and explain to her. girl and money sha |
Celebrities › Re: Photo: Senator Omisore’s Daughter In Hot Romance With Delta Billionaire’s Son by ilo04(m): 4:14pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
lalasticlala: Areomi is one of the daughters of PDP chieftain, Senator Iyiola Omisore. The 21-year-old pretty intelligent babe had her secondary education at Cheltenham Ladies’ College in Gloucestershire, England before proceeding to University of Warwick where she studied Law.
At Areomi‘s 21st birthday party which held in March 2014 at the prestigious 5-star Ritz Hotel in London, she stepped out with her boyfriend, Preston Timeyin Ideh who hails from the prominent Itsekiri family, Ideh. Preston attended Stonyhurst College before proceeding to London School of Economics and Political Science where he acquired Bachelor of Laws (LLB). Going by reports, Areomi and Peterson’s relationship may be altar-bound. Photo Credit: JJ Photography
Source: http://citypeoplegroup.org/i/photo-senator-iyiola-omisores-daughter-in-hot-romance-with-delta-billionaires-son/
Pix : Areomi and Preston on her 21st birthday who are they Are dey adversiting close up? because here in france we dont know them |
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Politics › Re: We Are Not Aware Of Jonathan’s N21Billion Donation - Nigeria Police by ilo04(m): 9:48am On Dec 25, 2014 |
even if u know, nah wetin u want do, oya as u don know now go and arrest bros jona smh. merry xmas to everyones |
Politics › Re: Igbos Top List Of Donors To Buhari – APC by ilo04(m): 7:08pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
change is what we want. Am also an igbo, i support Buhari to d fullest. |
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Politics › Re: Boko Haram Kills More than 50 Elderly People In Borno by ilo04(m): 12:42pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
jennylacute: New video shows other captives being slain
Michael Olugbode in Maiduguri with agency report
Villagers from Gwoza area in Borno State have said that people too old to flee are being rounded up and executed.
Islamic extremists in northeastern Nigeria are turning their guns on elderly people, killing more than 50 this week in a new tactic that has instilled more fear in areas the militants call an Islamic caliphate, reported the Associated Press (AP).
Residents from five villages say people too elderly to flee Gwoza Local Government Area were being rounded up and taken to two schools where the militants opened fire on them. The villages are about 130 kilometres southeast of Maiduguri, the Borno State capital.
“What they are doing now is to assemble the aged people — both men and women ... and then they just open fire on some of them,” said Muhammed Gava, a spokesman for civil defence groups in the area. More than 50 people had been killed at Government Day Secondary School in Gwoza, he said.
A villager who had fled said more elderly people were being gathered and shot at Uvaghe Central Primary School. The villager spoke on the condition of anonymity for fear of endangering his trapped parents.
Government officials did not immediately comment on the reports.
Nigeria’s military said soldiers are patrolling “in search of terrorists” and “to verify abductions” on Friday around the village of Gumburi, where witnesses say extremists kidnapped at least 185 people a week ago.
In another incident, a new video from Boko Haram extremists has shown gunmen mowing down civilians lying face down in a dorm, and a leader saying they were being killed because they are “infidels” or non-believers.
According to AP, there were so many corpses, that the gunmen had difficulty stepping to reach bodies still twitching with life. Most appeared to be adult men.
“We have made sure the floor of this hall is turned red with blood, and this is how it is going to be in all future attacks and arrests of infidels,” the group leader said in a message.
“From now, killing, slaughtering, destructions and bombing will be our religious duty anywhere we invade.”
The setting of the latest video appears to be a school, a long dormitory furnished with bunk beds which the leader said was in Bama, a town 60 kilometers (40 miles) north of Gwoza.
Students and schools are frequently targeted by Boko Haram, which means “Western education is sinful” in the Hausa language.
Previously, the militants had told residents of villages and towns that they would kill only enemies and wanted people to live peacefully in the area they had dubbed an Islamic caliphate, a large swath along Nigeria's northeastern border with Cameroun that they have controlled for more than three months.
In the video, the leader notes that the prophet Mohammed advised that prisoners should be held, not killed, but said, “We felt this is not the right time for us to keep prisoners; that is why we will continue to see that the grounds are crimsoned with the flowing blood of prisoners.”
He said some of those killed may call themselves Muslims, but were considered infidels by Boko Haram, a Sunni Jihadi group that imposes the strict Shariah law.
Thousands of people have been killed and about 1.6 million driven from their homes in the five-year insurgency that is spilling across borders into Cameroun, Chad and Niger.
http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/boko-haram-kills-more-than-50-elderly-people/197394/ following d footstep of their leader mohameed, islam is a religion of evil indeed |
Jokes Etc › Re: List Of Items Needed By A Runs Girl (Pic) by ilo04(m): 7:21pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
ur post heading is not corespond with what inside d post nah |
Politics › Re: Amaechi Spent N17bn On Failed Quest To Become Buhari’s Running Mate – PDP by ilo04(m): 10:00am On Dec 20, 2014 |
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Technology Market › Re: 8 Types Of People You Meet In Ikeja (computer Village ) by ilo04(m): 4:12pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
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Technology Market › Re: 8 Types Of People You Meet In Ikeja (computer Village ) by ilo04(m): 4:00pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
lekinz: I know you might have seen or come across these sets of people ... They are the "Badest Guy Ever Liveth " In Ikeja
1. THE " YOU WAN BUY , YOU WAN SELL CREW " :
These sets of people are those that have all the products you want; name it , they have it all, ranging from phones , charger , battery to ear piece .
You need food... ?? They also help with that, bread and akara , rice and beans.
Jack of all trades 
2. THE FUFU SELLER CREW :
When I mention fufu , you might be thinking its your locally made fufu or chow...
But its different,you walk up to them that you need a phone. You both agree on a price but at the end of the day, You get an inbuilt fufu phone ...They pass apple self.
I tell you sey I dey hungry ?? 
3. THE PAPER MONEY CREW
These sets of people are the "Badoo" ...
They show you their phone , you test the phone and confirm the perfection of the phone. After you might have paid , one badt guy will just walk up to you telling you and the seller that he has his own share in the phone money you just paid for ... "na em papa hand you buy am ... I wonder oooo".
Lo and behold, they( the seller and the badt guy) will start arguing and he will later tell you that he's not selling again and by this, refund your MONEY.. but he has changed the money... Paper don dey act like currency 
4. THE "PINK LIPS CREW"
These people have the darkest lips in Nigeria. You see them with their black lips like Therock5555 a*s. ( No Homo)  They will be the person telling you how good their cream is .. Imagine Davido selling tom tom for clearing throat ... Why im no use am..lol
5. "THE FLAT TOMMY AND HIPS ENLARGEMENT CREW"
I was having a walk that day when I heard this dude telling a pregnant woman to flatten her belly.
Wetin she wan flatten, the unborn child You be Midwife? 
6. THE "OGA NPE EEEH (BOSS DEY CALL YOU) CREW" :
These are made of 3 weird looking dudes , they walk up to you, call your attention and tell you their boss is calling you Their boss self go kon dey form ??... " Ain't u the person am calling ....Oya dey slap urself ..
At the end of the day.. YOU settle them just to let sleeping dogs lie ...
7. THE "REPAIR YOUR PHONE AND LAPTOP CREW" :
These people do all phones and laptops , just like the "You wan buy you wan sell crew ". They ain't specialized in a field.
They repair, format, install O.S , buy , sell , upgrade , downgrade , fix laptops and phones .
They are the talented Unskillful niggas in Ikeja 
8. THE" BROTHER I MISS ROAD CREW " :
Just like house of Ajebo joke , a man well dressed in suit, fitted tie , Italian shoe, will start telling you how he was going to a place , ran out of cash , he's a student of so so so.... school ... " Story for the gods " ... Na money im sha need .. New technique of begging ... You go still see am the second day ... doing the same thing ..
" Na everyday u dey travel ?? 
You can also add yours. d one dat will be following u around they tell u say' oga come my shop i get all wetin u want buy n even they ask u if u want sell ur phone' meanwhile u just dey waka pass |
Food › Re: Pictures Of 'Delicious' Insects Consumed By Nigerians by ilo04(m): 2:22pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Check Out List Of 2014's Most Watched YouTube Videos In Nigeria, Wizkid Missing by ilo04(m): 12:41pm On Dec 10, 2014 |
Keneking: Great..most kids can't access youtube.com for ur mind, nah only kids dey hear wizkid |
Properties › Re: To Let:- A Room Self Contain (very Decent) @ Onipanu, Lagos. [rent:- #130k P.a]. by ilo04(m): 2:14pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
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Sports › Re: Vincent Enyeama And Team Mates Relax In Jacuzzi [photo] by ilo04(m): 9:20pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
[quote author=Yustash001 post=28593888]Cool....Aye dunje juyalo.....[/quote Omo toba shise dede, oye kolasiko igbadun |
Sports › Re: Vincent Enyeama And Team Mates Relax In Jacuzzi [photo] by ilo04(m): 9:18pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
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Politics › Re: Scores Of Boko Haram Members Killed In Konduga by ilo04(m): 10:24pm On Dec 02, 2014 |
klodike: This boko haramites that Nigerian army has been killing since have not finished? Are they up to a million or what? Everyday we hear several haramites killed, the next day we hear of attacks. Honestly i don't know what to believe. Maybe their ghost dey resurrect back |
Christianity Etc › Re: Dreams Interpretation! Dreams Interpretation!! Dreams Interpretation!!! by ilo04(m): 5:03am On Oct 24, 2014 |
Good morning, pls I had this dream last night that me and my ex girlfriend were kissing suddenly she vomit her saliva in my mouth, d saliva was bitterly sour in my mouth dat I have to split it out then I woken up. |
Crime › Re: Not Again - Nigerian Airforce Pilot Reportedly Beheaded By Boko Haram by ilo04(m): 4:18pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
StealthyMe: A new video is reported to have been released to AP by Boko Haram men showing the beheading of a man said to be a military pilot who co-piloted the missing Naval air force jet.
The video also shows burnt out plane parts with Nigerian military markings. Two pilots and an Alpha jet have been missing since Sept. 11.
Below is the report from AP
A new video allegedly shows Boko Haram leader Abubakar Shekau disputing claims of his death, and the beheading of a man who identifies himself as the pilot of a missing Nigerian Air Force jet.It shows burnt out plane parts with Nigerian military markings, the first indication that Nigeria’s homegrown Islamic extremists have the capability to shoot down aircraft. The man beheaded with an axe identifies himself as a wing commander, saying he has not seen his second pilot since the jet was shot down.Before his beheading, the pilot reportedly gave his name, rank and date of birth, which is 1975 and also said“I’m a pilot of the Nigerian air-force.
On September 11th, I was assigned on a mission to Kawuri, Borno state. During the mission we were shot down and our aircraft crashed.To this day, I don’t know the whereabouts of my second pilot. I was taken into the care of (Boko Haram). At the time of the crash, I sustained cuts and broken hand and some other injuries to the head.After saying this, the pilot was forced to the ground and his head chopped off with a pick axe.
The pilot is said to have been a Wing Commander
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God Help Us!!! na wao, this boko evil don become ISIS |
Politics › Re: 10 Must-see Places In The World (pictures) by ilo04(m): 1:30am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Baddestguyp: wow, I'm amazed, Front page pls
p.s I didn't even check d post or pics are u a girl or boy |
TV/Movies › Re: Movies That Reminds You Of Your Chilhood.. by ilo04(m): 1:32am On Sep 23, 2014 |
Laitesmart: What are those movies you watched while growing up that when u flash through ur childhood now, you just wonder if u could get it again to watch.... I still remember IRU ESIN in yoruba and NAGINA in india.... There might be some we have watched in common.. Let's share the good memories... What are yours? irun resin, danger woman, bisola yoyo, apoti Eri, king Solomon |
Christianity Etc › Re: Dreams Interpretation! Dreams Interpretation!! Dreams Interpretation!!! by ilo04(m): 7:23pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
ebankole: ilo04 God will make a way,where there seems to be none. The exam is a symbol of an attempt and distraction and if out of no where you found yourslef back in the exam hall its an intervention and his grace to mend what's been made wrong. God will make a way,where there seems to be none. Be prayerful. Thanks so much, God bless u, I know that his grace is sufficient for me because out of no where I found myself in d exam hall |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Chelsea (1 - 1) On 21st September 2014 by ilo04(m): 6:11pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
chimerase2: Kai me knw say na chelsea win or draw but the way we drew dis match pain me  blame it on lampard |