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Family / Re: The Truth About Nigerian Men And Their Foreign Wives by ilovemynigerian: 7:23pm On Oct 23, 2014
Why do u guys say such rude comments to this lady? I am of euro Arab decent and have similar questions about my nigerian man. Only he wants me to get pregnant. I feel maybe so I do not leave him. He is so kind and loving. Just a very gentle man. I feel if I do fall pregnant it will only solidify his words that I'm not leaving him ever. He says it's the last stop for me. He is very jealous like Arab man. But coming from similar culture it doesn't bother me. Only thing I fear is if we have a baby, if things don't work out, I gather he will take the child away like Arab. He wants to get married and have a baby. Great. He also has 4 children. And the 3 in nigeria live with his mother and the one here lives with him. He said they don't play when it comes to the children. The men take the baby. So just because this woman if African American doesn't make her questions criminal or invalid. She's a woman and has a right to ask questions! Oh and my man is Igbo as well. And he doesn't say he prefers an Igbo woman. Being who I am, I would make a better wife than 3 Igbo women together.
Romance / Re: Sleeping With Two Sister Helppppppppppppp by ilovemynigerian: 10:49am On Oct 20, 2014
she2mas2:
Am dating a girl for a year now
any time she send her sister to my place i end up bleeping her
and it has been going on for some time
the sister loves it and kept coming back
i want to pull out b4 her sis find out
house help me i dont know how to go about it undecided
Of all the vagina u could cheat on her with you choose her sister? Wow cray cray. You should leave them both alone. How can u marry a woman after sleeping with her sister and have a family with the girl u cheated on? And her sister needs to be smacked.
Romance / Re: Are Nigerian Man Possessive? by ilovemynigerian: 10:45am On Oct 20, 2014
MMM2:
maybe yes
that's not true of all Arab men.
Celebrities / Re: Bikini Pictures Of Nigerian Female Celebrities by ilovemynigerian: 9:22pm On Oct 18, 2014
Here in America we call hoes that look like this ratchet lol whoa someone pls give most of these broads some clothes. Please. Gosh if this is what the "models" look like what on earth do regular girls look like?

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Celebrities / Re: Bikini Pictures Of Nigerian Female Celebrities by ilovemynigerian: 9:19pm On Oct 18, 2014
I think most of these ladies look straight ran thru except 2. The actress with light skin I think she's not very pretty maybe she's famous for being light.
Romance / Re: Single Ladies, Why Are You Stil Single? Who To Be Bleme, God Or Men? by ilovemynigerian: 7:53pm On Oct 18, 2014
Hi I am in a relationship with a nigerian man. He is so awesome. I just have a couple of questions for nigerian ladies and guys. I'm mixed euro and Arab, I've never dated a man of color. It seems nigerian culture has many similarities with Arab culture. My question is of the control thing I keep hearing of these men. He tells me that he wants to get married, he has 4 children from previous relationships. I do NOT want any child from anyone. I have a son with my ex. He says when we are married I will not be able to do things I'm used to. He says that skirts should be to the knee, as not to show his property. He says that I have to be a wife of virtue and obedience. I ask him many questions to find out where he's at. He says that he will not leave me to go out without knowing where I am at all times. I told him would he mind if I take a vacation alone to get a break. He says in marriage there's no break. A wife is supposed to be with her family. It's not a good look for husband to be home with the kids while wife is traveling. I love him. I want to make him happy and I would like to know how I can adopt this mindset? I heard nigerian men are very possessive and controlling. He is so kind. I just love him. I just don't know if I should marry him because I'm used to so much freedom. If I want this I would marry an Arab man. But he's so sweet and just a gentle person. He says he would never dream of hitting me (why I detest marrying Arab). But what should happen if I decide I want my freedom? Please help me with the cultural questions I have. Thank u.

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