₦airaland Forum

Few days ago, My high school best friend who I haven't seen for few years now recently started ptofessing her love to me last night

She talked about how she had always loved me when we were in school but according to her I've been blind and of course she couldn't summon the courage to ask me out because she was scared I might turn her down and all

We were best friends and of course I can't deny ever harbouring a thought of dating her cox I was always staring at her lips whenever she was talking back then, She had the best pink lips anyone can ever imagine I must confess

The thing now is I'm in a serious relationship and I love my girl so much who happened to be a virgin so we allowed no sex in the relationship, just kisses and all

Now, I was open to her about my girlfriend so she's aware I'm in a relationship and she confessed she is too but just wants us to be together and all

Please dear nairalanders... What should I do?

Paulpaulpaul:
Hahahaha, just talk less, most espeially when you deal with people that drink or smoke. If he says mad people drink a particular drink, smile; if another one says a drinks is fake, still smile. With time they will just realise you smile than talk.

Wow.. Thanks bro.. I smile alot actually... I really appreciate this, will definitely accept this bro

goodmorning40:
It is called mouthed demon
Some of us are in it together

I think mine is just pure savagery and of course I don't insult them.. I'm just the type that feel down whenever people keep malice in their heart

Help nairalanders, I'm a very cool guy and I don't like offending anyon but over time I've come to realise that people tend to find fault in my speech, Just few days ago someone came to our shop where we sells drink
Me: How can I help you sir?
Him: Who are those mad people still drinking this drink(devana, a gin)
Me :It's for sane people like you
Just with that the dude blew up and found it very offensive hereby uttering all kinds of words at me and even cursing... I just kept my cool and apologized yet dude find it so difficult in his mind to let it pass

Just this night zz I attended to a customer and after buying the products dude tasted it and claimed it's fake... Then I simply replied him it can never be fake but je suddenly flew up and started spewing some stuffs I don't understand... I just kept mute and didn't utter a word.. I later apologized as usual and he went his way

I had a moodswing instantly and I felt my utterances is bad even tho I always try not to offend anyone

Please what can I do?

sonofLuci:
I guess you don't know how it feels to be depressed.. . Trust me I have been there, committing suicide is easy as pie when one is severely depressed.

Yes, At one point in time we find ourself in difficult situations but what could one be thinking about to the extent of taking ones life? I just can't phantom this

Depression is the worst thing that can happen to a human being, but taking your life?... Nah, I don't support that.. Life got no duplicate

Emmyphey:
Go Recheck Ur Mail If U Havent Seen It I Just Printed Mine

White and Black copy or coloured.... Mine is white and black.. Any problem?

Muslims converting to Islam, Okay o

CannyZionist:
Yes, if you get a medical mail, it means your file has been reviewed and found to be okay before final decision is taken as to grant a visa or not. But in your case, I assume you didn't get medical mail. If you were sent a mail, you would definitely see it in your email box if you didn't link your application (that is if you applied via paper).

Remain hopeful, maybe your case is different. All the best as you collect your parcel at vfs

Okay thanks

Is the medical call ONLY via my email or what because I'm so confused right now, don't know the interpretation of what I saw on that website

CannyZionist:
If you didn't get a medical call, it could mean a refusal, and if you did get a medical call, be hopeful it could be approval or refusal. Don't be scared, but rather prepare for the best

I've been checking my email all these while thinking there was no reply only decided to track the application online on this website ''https://www.vfsvisaonline.com/Global-PassportTracking/'' input the tracking number sent to my email when I submitted and that was what I saw, Yet nothing in my email

I tracked my application online and this was what I saw ''Your processed passport has been dispatched from the Canada Visa Office ACCRA , on 29/12/2016 to the Canada Visa Application Centre.To know more, please call VAC helpline number or visit VAC website '' Please what does this mean? I'm scared .... Austinpee4

Leakingbasket:
Any october applicant on here and yet to hear from cic?.
My school resumed already and I am yet to hear from them.
It shall end in praise.

I'm a November 14 applicant, No news yet...Pls be more patient as many I've been seeing are October Applicants some approved and some denied, Ours shall end in praise IJN, Shalom!

I've seen a number of people who indulge in blood money by killing innocent souls and using them for money.. All these yahoo boys too do charms to put their white victims under control via the Internet and extort money from them.. How are these possible if metaphysical powers don't exist?

Pls help, someone is currently disturbing me since, I wanna block her from calling me

HQuadreal:
Wipe it and reinstall all app.

I ain't the only one with this problem almost all W3 users... whatsapp only works on wi-fi..I've uninstall and installed a number of times and its still not working

Pls what should i do? i have subscription on my phone and all apps are working except WhatsApp

Hi everyone,This is my life story and i really need your advice because I'm really confused and don't know what to do right now, I grew up in a family of 5 me being the first born, about 13 years ago dad was working as a transporter and mum a trader, I was in primary school then life was rosy tho we ain't rich but our family was the envy of others as we lived fine, in short we had a happy home...Then suddenly the meek, caring man stopped coming home unlike before though he sometimes go a week not coming home due to the nature of his work... I could remember vividly mum had call for days asking when he'd come home but he'd keep posting is and giving excuses... Not long after that needs reached us that he has married a second wife... what?... His attitude changed and so everything life was difficult, being the first born I had little idea of everything that was happening, was 6 then...Mum left her trading business as it's proceed wasn't enough for her to feed 3mouths, we dropped out of the private school we was to a government school, I cried, I never wanted to attend a government school.. oh not now, I latest finished my primary school and soon gained admission into a sec school... Then I started loving with my uncle, It wasnt easy but I had no choice.... finished secondary school and seeking for admission.... all these years dad didn't care not even put a call through...He resides at Lagos and would only come home once a year whenever a particular festival like that is in town then he'd come to a shop where I help to sell to say "Hi"..Then leave till the next year of the festival.... Life was tough... Mum re-married 2 years ago... God knows I was mad as I knew nothing about the whole plan she only came home to check on me when I saw her with the pregnancy... did I tell you she relocated withy my other siblings ?.. Obviously, I understand, she had to...I always get emotional and jealous whenever I see my friends with their dad, the way they do, the way they talk a bout whatever new stuff he buy for them... Then I proceeded to getting his number from someone.... I'll call him ask about his work and all, you won't believe that dude ego boosted be sue of that and he'd call my mum and lash out vulgar word at her on phone... finally mum realized I do call and she barred me from doing so changed my SIM and all....I know the family is broken forever as both parties are married to different partners now.... Recently, I was informed by a bro that my dad claimed he's now a changed man and wants to settle the long term dispute bla bla bla which I ain't ready for right now... while he was away life has been fair on us and very soon I'm planning to travel out only waiting for my TRV to be approved by the embassy... we were happy without him really... I'm confused cox I've made up my mind not to forgive him until I become really successful to make him realize he made a huge mistake leaving us....

Mod please help move this to the permanent site cox I really need peoples advice... Forgive the typos I'm just a O'level holder

So I forfeited my admission to a Nigerian university because of my Canadian dream, I've recently been admitted into a University in Canada and submitted my documents at the Canada Visa Office
Below are the documents I submitted

Admission letter from the Canadian University
WASSCE result
Letter of sponsorship from dad
Dad's bank statement,About 7m
A co-sponsor being a uncle with about 5m bank statement
Dad's landed properties


What's my chance of being given the Study Permit Visa?

So I forfeited my admission to a Nigerian university because of my Canadian dream, I've recently been admitted into a University in Canada and submitted my documents at the Canada Visa Office
Below are the documents I submitted

Admission letter from the Canadian University
WASSCE result
Letter of sponsorship from dad
Dad's bank statement,About 7m
A co-sponsor being a uncle with about 5m bank statement
Dad's landed properties


What's my chance of being given the Study Permit Visa?

For ye are not defiled by what you eat or drink but by the words that proceed out of thy mouth

McBrooklyn:
Bruh, it may be because one of your clients go report you on Facebook and you'll need to verify your account now using an ID

I don't collect I.D, I'm a naive at using it, I only open accounts with less that 200 friends and I no dey even include am for form sef, Work dull these days

Facebook dey disable any account wey I open for work, What should I do?..Any G boy in the house should please help a brother

Estharfabian:
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surgery!

That's weird, Hitting the gym will it work?

I have come to realise that my walking posture is very very bad, Over the years I have tried to change like standing tall and erect but my brother na lie o. People been always complaining that my back is bent and that I walk like a hunch back Please what should I do

Estharfabian:
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if Armpits ain't in that list...then, it's flawed.

Jesu! Armpit ke...You're so weird

Make I just tap that yansh one time ;

Oh Michael, Everyone love the black Michael, Korede bello handsome o