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Romance / Exposed: “why Girls Play Hard To Get & How To Make Sure They Don’t Do It Around by imampope(m): 8:20pm On Apr 07
Hey bro…

You are special, you know it. You are a blessing to women, and you know it.

So how dare a girl reject you? How dare her say she doesn’t feel anything for you?

Now, stay with me.

The biggest problem most Nigerian guys face in their love life is when they walk up to a girl, tell the girl how they feel about her and the girl out rightly rejects him. It is painful.

As in, the girl looks you in the face and tells you that she can’t date you. That she doesn’t feel anything for you. Sometimes the polite ones would lie to you that they have a boyfriend, just to put you off.

The wicked ones will give you hope then allow you to spend on her and her friends before calling you up one day to tell you she can’t continue with you.

In Fact; there is one sentence a girl uses when she wants to play hard to get and that sentence is: “I will think about it”. When a girl gives you that line, her hard to get mode is on.

You tell her how you like her and how you would want to date her and, bam, she tells you she will think about it. Then the next thing she does is to start avoiding you.

If you’ve experienced this in the past or is going through it now, I’m about to show you, right away, what causes a girl to play hard to get and how you can avoid it and make sure a girl finds you irrestible.

Let’s take it one by one:

THE MAJOR REASON WHY A GIRL WILL PLAY HARD TO GET

See, I want you to really really understand what I’m about to show you. So I will show you an illustration. Just to make it clear to you.

Stay with me, this is important.

Now, imagine you are interested in buying a land from a man.

So you walk up to the man and say: “Hey, I like that land your are selling. You are selling it for 2 million naira. I have 3 million naira for the land but I will try and get you to sell it to me for 1.5 million naira”

What do you think would happen? Think about it.

Very simple, you will never get that land at 1.5 million naira. In Fact; the man would probably increase the price.

Why?

Because he already knows what you are thinking.

Now. Case two; Let us assume it happens the other way round, you walk up to the same man and you don’t tell him how much you have; you just start negotiating the price to beat it down to 1.5 million naira

Consider the two cases and you will agree with me that the chances of getting that land at the price you want is higher in the second case

HOW DOES THIS APPLY TO THAT GIRL WHO IS PLAYING HARD TO GET FOR YOU?

If you are smart then you already get it. But I will explain.

Stay with me.

When you meet a girl, she doesn’t know zip about you. She doesn’t know you, she doesn’t feel anything for you. Somehow, some really “jonsing” guys feel that the best way to get the girl to like them is to just tell them how they feel and ask them to date him. Hoping that, somehow somehow, the girl will feel the same way…

…Just because he told her how he feels about her.

Just think about it, does it make sense?

It is like showing the games and cards you have to an opponent when playing Whot (bridge). It is dangerous to the outcome of your game.

Why?

Because girls are trained to play hard to get, they are trained to never give in to a guy easily. If they give in easily to you they will feel cheap. So when she knows you are interested in her, she will shut down and lock up her feelings for you – it is a natural reaction. Then the shakara will start. Then she tells you she will “think about it”, so you can put more effort.

When this shakara starts, the natural reaction is for the guy to start chasing the girl. To try to get the girl to like him by all means…

And that is where the mistake starts;

Yo start trying hard to impress the girl. I mean, that is the same thing you see in the movies, right. Movies seem to paint that girls fall for guys who worship them and go crazy about them.

So you go crazy about her, you show her how bad you love her by Buying her things, calling her up regularly, always telling her you love her (even though she never says she likes you, talk more of loving you), you keep asking her weather she loves you, you keep asking her why she doesn’t love you, you almost beg her to return the feeling you have for her.

I WILL GIVE YOU ONE SECRET:

All these things will kill every single chance you have with that girl. Just think back to everybody who has ever tried hard to impress you, as in, really hard to impress you – chances are that, although you liked the attention, you never took that person as an equal.

A girl you do all those things to will never take you as an equal. You have to approach a girl like she is your equal and not a goddess to be worshipped.

A girl will never feel attracted to a guy she has absolute control over. A girl wants a man. Someone who is in charge of the relationship. A girl doesn’t want a worshipper – she wants a real man and not a guy who allows her take charge of the relationship

I will also tell you another secret; telling a girl that you like her before she feels anything for you RARELY works. It is the main reason most girls have been turning you down. You are showing her what you think before she gets to think the same thing.

I know what you are thinking.

You are wondering how you can get a girl to like you when you don’t make your intention known to her, right?

THE RIGHT WAY TO WOO A GIRL

The right way to woo a girl, funny enough, always stare right at us when we watch American movies. A guy and a girl meet, they get to know themselves – they kiss, then before the “I love you” talk.

Understand the process.

The correct step is; meet a girl, make her fall for you first before you show her that you are interested in her. A girl will find it harder to reject a guy she already likes than a girl she doesn’t like already. if you show her you are interested first before making her fall for you then you are making a big mistake.

So how can you get a girl to fall for you, how can you get her to feel some form of interest in you?; it is super easy (trust me) – you can achieve this by reading all my articles here on this website and using the strategies in them – I exposed some powerful secrets in most of them.

If you want more advanced secrets that you can use to get a girl crazy about you, I compiled and packed them all in my eBook, The Bang Rule. In it I explained the easy to use effective secrets that most players you know use to effortlessly get the girls they like to like them back. For details on how to get the eBook; Dm 08145371017

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Romance / The Right Way To Chat With A Girl That Will Make Her Find You Attractive by imampope(m): 7:31pm On Mar 24
Some days ago I saw this girl at the mall; very pretty girl. She was holding her phone close to her eyes & the smile on her face was something else – as in, the smile was so broad I was scared her face was going to tear.

At a point in time, she threw back her head and laughed so loud then texted something on her phone and waited.
She laughed again, after she got a reply, and this time it was louder than the previous one. She kept laughing in this way, on and on and on. It was really sweet. And I was damn sure she was getting those texts from a guy.

Now here is the thing.

Girls chat all the time. Infact, they love it. And over the years it has increasingly become a shortcut to many girl’s heart.

But there are two types of guys – the guys that CAN make a girl laugh like this through texts (chats) and the ones that CAN’T

I will show you how to be the guy that uses texts(chats) to make a girl laugh. This tips I will show you will make a girl find you more appealing and interesting than other guys.

Come with me…

You see, getting a girl interested in you using chats can be super duper easy. Only if you know how.

The Number one cardinal rule of interesting chats is this; Never ever ask her strings of questions. It’s boring, very boring:

For instance; never do this –

GUY: How was your day.

GIRL: Fine.

GUY: Did you go out today.

GIRL: Yes

GUY: Where did you go today?

Never ever chat this way…it is making her see you as a nuisance. And you are too special to be seen that way. Keep on chatting this way with a girl and she start will start avoiding both you and your text.

So what is the best way to chat “interestingly?”

ONE STRATEGY THAT ALWAYS WORKS IS THIS: Be Funny, fun and witty as crazy.

See eh, the right way to chat with a girl is to bring fun into it. And how do you do this. There are three ways you can use to appear funnier during chats. What I’m about to show you is the almighty formula of being funny both during chats and in real life.

Here they are

– 1. Making possessive jokes

– 2. Turning what she says and PLAYFULLY making it look like she is wooing you..

I will take each of them and give you examples; come with me….

#1: TURNING WHAT SHE SAYS AND PLAYFULLY MAKING IT LOOK LIKE SHE IS WOOING YOU:

The heading is self explanatory, right?

But just in case you’ve not gotten it yet, here are practical examples on how to do it.

Let’s assume a girl puts up a profile picture on Bbm, you could send her something like:

YOU: “I dodge it joor, that picture will not work on me. I refuse to fall in love with you”.

HER: “Lol. What do you mean (or something else like that).”

YOU: “Now she is sending me love letters *tongue out* I’m married joor. Don’t destroy my marriage.”

You get the gist abi, turn the table around and make it look like she is chasing you.

Here are more examples

HER: “What do you do for a living?”

YOU: “Okay na, she wants to find out if I’m a boyfriend material. Sha, I work in a professional boyfriend company. *smiley face* You?”

Another example:

HER: “Hi.”

YOU: “*smiling icon* I won’t reply your messages now. I need to play hard to get. Send me another message in the next 20 years.”

Hope you are getting it?

This style of chatting makes you appear incredibly interesting. The reason why it works so well is that MOST guys don’t chat this way and when a girl meets a guy who does, she finds him DIFFERENT. Plus chatting this way is not boring and that releases all the chemicals in a girl’s brain that makes her view you as someone who has an attractive personality.

This is just plain elementary psychology.

Now, let’s check out strategy 2.

#2. MAKING POSSESIVE JOKES:

This strategy involves chatting with a girl like she is your wife. As in chatting with her like you two already have something going on between you two.

Very quickly, let me give you some examples of possessive jokes.

1. “Hey baby, how is our baby. Hope you are taking care of her. make sure you breastfeed her enough, I don’t want story.”

2. “I’m thinking of you having either 14 sons or 16 sons for me. How many can you handle?”

3. “Mehn, I want a divorce. You are not being a good wife again.”

4. “Leave that boy and come and date me while the offer lasts. After two days I will change my mind.”

5. “I heard Blackberry Passport is out. I want that for valentine, don’t go and buy me singlet and boxers”

You get it, right?
Occasionally drop husband jokes on her and let the jokes be possessive in a playfully way.

Here are more examples:

You could send her a night gown picture you downloaded online then say something like>

“I want to see you on that when I return. If you wear something else I will start cheating on you”

Now, think up yours…

WARNING

Don’t overdo these two strategies. The way to use it is to drop it from time to time and then reverse to having a normal conversation (I explained how to have a normal flowing conversation with girls in The he Bang Rule).

If you overdo it you will start appearing like a clown and that’s not good. (You wouldn’t want that, trust me). And while you are using these strategies, be relaxed. Use it like you are having fun.

Don’t try hard to be funny or fun. It will show and it will make the girl you are communicating with to see you as someone who needs her attention so bad.

INFACT, don’t just go and start using the chatting strategies I explained in this article. Before you start using it, you need to learn THE BASICS of creating interests in girls.

And that is where my Ebook comes in it. In it, I explained what to do and what not to do when it comes to making a girl interested in you.

To order for the ebook today; send a dm to 08145371017

Romance / One “mentality” That Will Make You Have Flowing Conversations With Girls. by imampope(m): 11:44am On Mar 23
ONE “MENTALITY” THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAVE FLOWING CONVERSATIONS WITH GIRLS.

Brace yourself because I’m about to show you a really powerful secret.

If you’ve already read my eBook “THE BANG RULE”, or you’ve been following my articles, then by now you already how easy it is to start up conversations with girls who are complete strangers (If you haven’t read the ebook yet call 08145371017 and ask my sales manager, to send you details on how to buy the ebook today).

You see, starting up a conversation is one thing and having a conversation flow well is a different thing all together.

I’m sure you already know what I’m talking about if you’ve been in a situation where you are talking with this girl and all of a sudden, bam, you go blank…

It happens and it can be very very very embarrassing. Sometimes the silence is so awkward that you feel like hiding your face.

Don’t worry, I’m here to show you how to put a stop to it.

Here is the thing; there is one way to keep a conversation flowing. Infact, this solution I’m about to give you would sound so simple that you might end up feeling “it’s too simple to work”

But the thing is; it works – trust me.

Here it is.

FIX YOUR MENTALITY.

Now come with me:

THE MENTALITY THAT WILL SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM.

This is very very important. No matter the tips I give you right here, if you don’t have this mentality I’m about to show you now then you will never have flowing conversation with girls.

So what mentality is it?

Here it is; How a conversation turns out doesn’t matter.

What do I mean.

Here is what I mean. Don’t worry too much about having a flowing conversation. Because you are worried about having a flowing conversation is the reason why you are not having a flowing conversation.

Don’t you get it?

I mean, think about it. When you are with your male friends, you are funny, you joke around them – the conversation flows. They love you. But when it comes to a girl, bam, you start getting tongue tied.

Why is this?

This is because, with your male friends – you don’t worry about having a flowing conversation and, as a result, you are relaxed. But when it comes to girls, because you are worried about what to say and what not to say, your brain shuts down.

So here is the thing; bro – talk to her like you talk to “your guys”.

Stop thinking of the next things to say. Focus on her, let what she says lead you to what next you will say.

When you start getting tongue tied, pause and ask yourself: “How I dey take talk to my guys”. Then when you get the picture, talk to her in that way.

It won’t chase her away, no fear. It will make her so attracted to you that you will get freaked out at how well it works.

I really want you to get this, if you really really get what I’m trying to tell you then you will never ever get tongue tied with a lady again.

Think about it; when you are with your men – you yab them when they do things you don’t like. You talk to them without fear of repercussion, you are more into enjoying the conversation than in trying to impress the girl. You joke, you jonse them, you ENJOY THE CONVERSATION.

You are not worried about having a flowing conversation. You just talk and enjoy yourself.

See, if a girl is always giving you one line – bone am, she is not worth your time. If you are with such a girl who is always giving you one lines when you are talking with her, leave her. It’s not your fault she is so boring. Tell her how boring she is and move on.

Here is the bottom line; if you can talk and behave the same way you behave around your friends with girls they would so so love hanging around you. Yes, it would be hard at first but with time you will become good at it.

When you are with a girl, the formular is to ask yourself: “How do I talk to my best friends”. When you bring the picture up in your head, start behaving and talking to her in that way…it’s that simple.

For more advanced tricks to use in communicating with girls so you can flow freely when talking with them and make them really love you; then you have to get my ebook today. In it I exposed some pretty cool secrets you can use right away to get the girl of your dreams interested in you. For more details about the ebook; click this link – /bang-rule.

PS: Here is what I want you to do, if there is something else about this particular topic that you want me to expand on, drop it in the comment box below and I might create my next blog post based on your question.



PSS: If you want to learn extremely powerful ways of talking to girls that will make them like you like crazy, get my eBook and read pages 55 to 61. For more on what you will learn in the ebook and how to get it send a dm to 08145371017

Romance / Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by imampope(m): 12:59pm On Mar 22
Hair salons are very dangerous. As in, female hair salons. they are one of the most dangerous places a guy can ever enter.

Why?

Because what girls say in hair saloons can kill a guy’s confidence gan.

How?

In hair salons, after hearing single girls analyses guys who are asking them out, you will come out covering your face on behalf of most single men
out there.

First, the conversation will start with a general discussion about guys…

…then they will narrow it down to the horribly annoying things guys do, gradually they will tear guys up and spit out how foolish and desperate for love some guys are. As she talks about the “mumu-ness” of the guy who is asking him out, all her friends will throw back their heads and laugh.

It is an ugly experience if you watch girls talk about a guy in this way, some babes get bad mouth die abeg…and my mission is to make sure no babe ever takes a guy i come in contact with for granted.

Here is the hard truth.

IT IS POSSIBLE THAT A GIRL YOU ARE ASKING OUT, NOW OR IN THE PAST, HAVE LAUGHED AT YOU WITH HER FRIENDS.

But chill, what i am about to show you right now will make sure that a girl never laughs at you behind your back when you show interest in her.

My hope is that after learning this, you will use it and change how you interact with girls.

Now, let’s begin…

1. FOR GIRLS, FRIENDSHIP AND ROMANCE ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.

Most dudes don’t get this.

Baba, because she is opening teeth for you and throwing you 360 degrees hugs every time does not mean she is attracted to you in a romantic way.

For girls a friend is different from a boyfriend. and when a girl starts seeing you as a friend IT WILL BE RARE for her to see you as a boyfriend – ever again (Go and ask any girl).

Some days back i read an article where some dude was advising guys that the best way to make a girl like you is to go to her and become her friend and with time she will start liking you…

I read the article and laughed, as in, threw back my head and laughed.

In might work in hollywood but try it in real life and you MIGHT end up in friend zone quarters till you grow white bear-bear. You need to do something else – something else that always works all the time.

You see, girls classify guys into two when they meet them; it is either they place you as someone they can date or they place you as someone they can never date.

If she places you as someone she can not date, when you ask out let me show you what will happen…

– First she will be shocked that you’ve even asked asked out in the first place (You that she saw as a “brother”wink
– Then she will beg you that you two should just remain friends
– Then she will start ignoring you.

In that order.

Now, you might be asking yourself the following questions…

One; How or why does a girl decide to date one guy and decides not to date another guy?
Two; why is it difficult for girls to date a guy they have been just friends with for a long time?
Three; How do i make sure that a girl sees me as someone she wants to date?
You see, what makes a girl decide that a guy is “date-able” is the way that guy makes her FEEL.

For a girl to see you as a boyfriend material you have to give her two major feelings:

– An emotional feeling
and
– A Physical feeling.

Let me explain the two.

First; The emotional feeling: You see, when a girl likes a guy she looks forward to his calls, she looks forward to his visits and whenever she sees him with another girl jealousy go won kill am. But if she is not interested in you, she won’t give a damn.

On the other hand, a girl would have physical feelings for that same guy. As in, she would think about kissing him and in some other cases she will even go as far as thinking about having intimacies with this guy.

But for “Just A friend”, girls find it hard to EVEN IMAGINE kissing him (Ask any girl). But as a guy, if a female friend who is a just a friend pulls her clothes and hugs you – you go hug am back; straight.

Lets look at the other way round – If a guy pulls his clothes and moves towards a female friend who has no physical feeling for him; she go take off.

Now. Pause.

Let’s take this gradually now. I want you to really really get this.

Most Guys think it takes just luck to make a girl have an emotional and physical feelings for you. In fact, i used to think so too. I used to think that it is either a girl likes you or she doesn’t – and that there was nothing you can do about it.

Until i learnt it is actually possible to deliberately make a girl’s heart beat fast whenever she sets eyes on you. It is very possible to make a girl UNCONTROLLABLY fall for you against her own will (LOL, i know most people will try to argue this with me. Before you attack it, Just chill first till i’m done).

I’m sure you’ve seen a guy who is so good with girls that girls themselves fear him. he is able to date two friends at the same time, take other people’s girlfriend, make girls fight for him and yet you look at him and you wonder what the heck girls see in him.

You’ve seen such guys abi?

They call them “players”. The reason why they are that good with girls is because they know SOME THINGS about girls that MOST guys will never know all their life. And those things they (the players) know is what i packaged in my ebook THE BANG RULE. Learn these secrets and you too can get the same result this dudes get with girls. To get the ebook send me a DM on 08145371017.

Business / Your Problem Is APC. by imampope(m): 8:28pm On Mar 21
Your problem in this life is APC.

You are trying to make money, you are not making the kind of money you want it is because of APC.

You have a business and your business is not doing well it is because of APC.

If you have a need in your life right now and you don't know how to meet it or your bank balance Na APC be your problem.

What do I mean by APC.

A stands for Audience knowledge.

P stands for product knowledge.

C stands for communication language.

You need to know your audience.

You need to know the product you are selling.

You need to develop the right communication language to the audience about the product.

When this Three things align you will blow

Sam
Romance / If You Want Women To Find You Irresistible, Here Is The Type Of Man You Need To by imampope(m): 9:38am On Mar 21
Right here in this post, I am going to take you by the hand and show you what you need to do to become a guy that attracts women like magnet. If you follow this instructions I am about to show you, women will fall over you and practically go crazy about you.

Now come with me.

You see; there is one big deadly mistake guys make with women. When a guy likes a girl, what he does is to turn into a puppy.

You know what a puppy does? When a puppy sees it’s master that puppy starts to wiggle it’s tail. The puppy jumps up. The puppy barks. The puppy jumps over things.



AND WHY DOES THE PUPPY DO ALL THIS?

…just to impress the master.

And that is exactly the same thing most guys do when they meet a woman they really like. A girl asks them for money; zoom – they rush to the bank and donate it to her. when they want to ask a girl out; they beg her. They call her everyday. They try to impress, they try not to offend her.

Just like a damn puppy (as in, when I see a guy acting like this – I feel the urge to throw him a loud slap)



DUDE, WHEN YOU ACT LIKE A PUPPY – IT NEVER WORKS

Yes, brother.

It doesn’t. Simple. When you try too hard to impress a girl she will sense it, and when she senses you are trying too hard to impress her it won’t make her like you. in Fact, it would make her hate you.

It would make her hate real bad. She doesn’t do this consciously. It is the way their brains are wired.

This is why all those girls you’ve ever worshiped treated you like trash. By acting like a puppy, you showed her that she can control you. and girls never ever ever feel a STRONG ATTRACTION for guys they can control. When they come across a guy they can control, what they start thinking is – “How can I take advantage of this guy?”. That is how guys turn “maga”.

Be rich, be famous – it might get women to notice you. But when they come closer and find out you are just a rich puppy; they will either take money from you and give another dude they feel REAL attraction to. Or they will just dump your ass and move on.

To make women find you irrepressible; you need to be the opposite of a puppy



AND WHAT IS THE OPPOSITE OF A PUPPY

Women don’t fall for puppies. They fall for a different kind of man. In fact, I have a name for that kind of man; I call it “THE FUNNY BOSS”



WHAT DOES A FUNNY BOSS DO?

One thing women find attractive in a man is control. They will love you if you are in control. And what does it mean to be a man in control?

It means a man that doesn’t lose his head when he goes after a woman. A man that doesn’t chase after a woman like his life depends on it. Brother; it means a man that does not beg for a woman’s love. A man that doesn’t try too hard to impress a woman just to get her attention.

And while he is doing this; he is still funny.

Let me explain more by giving you the ten commandments of a funny boss.



THE TWELVE COMMANDMENTS OF A FUNNY BOSS

#1. Never beg a woman to date you. If you do, she will hate you and take you less seriously. Think about it; if a girl walks up to you and start begging you to notice her – you will never take her seriously. It is the same thing that happens when you beg a woman to date you

#2. Never try too hard to please a girl. Make her to try and please you (I explained how to do this in my ebook; The Bang Rule)

#3. Always tease a girl. it makes her see you as someone fun to be with, and it also gets them attracted. The best way to tease a girl is by using the JHS method (I Explained what JHS method is in my ebook)

#4. Never let a girl be sure about how you feel about her if you’ve not made her interested in you first (In my ebook, I explained why in one of the pages plus all the things to do that will get a girl’s interest)

#5. Never beg a girl for friendship, by any means.

#6. If a girl doesn’t like you, don’t worry yourself about it. She doesn’t have good tastes. That is the mindset you should have.

#7. If you ask a girl to see you at a certain place and she agrees but doesn’t show up or calls to inform you she is not showing up, call her up and warn her not to try it again. Your time is too valuable to be wasted that way.

#8. Never try hard to impress a lady, you are the boss – she should be the one to impress you.

#9. Don’t beg a girl for sex, ever – she is not doing you a favour.

#10. Never ever tell a girl directly that you love her. It is better to show love by doing surprise lovely things for her. For example, you could surprise her with a gift out of the blues and tell her it is because she has been a good girl. Or you could call her up late in the night, tell her you’ve been thinking about her and then switch off the phone (But only do this after you are sure she is already crazy about you, not before)

#11. Never beg a girl to visit you. If she is not showing taking you s serious as you want, don’t ask her why – don’t even whine about it. Just look for another girl and gradually take your mind off her. You shouldn’t take a girl who doesn’t take you seriously seriously.

#12. NEVER ever tell a girl or show a girl how you feel about her until she is very crazy about you. You will know she is crazy about you when she starts sending you love texts, calling you often and telling you how she feels about you. a boss plays hard to get, sometimes if a girl tries to kiss you – you should not just give in to her, do small shakara – hard to get is not reserved for just girls.



ONE MORE THING

While you are doing all this you should be doing two things;

Number one; you should be avoiding mistakes most other guys make. These mistakes are the reason why girls are not returning your feelings. And I can bet my last kobo that you are making those mistakes right now. In my ebook I exposed all those mistakes. By knowing these mistakes you will not do them. And by not doing them, girls will find you more attractive, and you will get more “yes” from the girls you ask out.

Number two; by knowing what and what to do to make a girl interested in you. I explained all that in my ebook; the Bang Rule.

If you haven’t gotten the ebook yet. You want to get it, send message to 08145371017.

Romance / How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by imampope(m): 7:34pm On Mar 20
After reading this, you will learn a “dangerously” effective way that you can use to make a girl visit you, even when she suspects you are “up to something” *winks*
But before we dive into that, let me make something clear. All the tips I’m about to show you will not work if you’ve not made a girl interested in you, at least, a bit.

But don’t worry, right here on my website, in my other articles I have explained how to make girls interested in you.

If you’ve been following my articles then continue reading. But if you’ve not, make sure you check out my other write ups after reading this.

In my other articles you will learn some secrets you can use to make a girl interested in you

Now, let’s start…

Shall we?

Getting a girl to visit you is super easy. The problem is that most guys don’t find it so.

You ask a girl to come over and visit you and she turns you down, giving some flimsy excuses. Sometimes she agrees to come over and then turns around to disappoint you.

I’ve been there before, till i learnt how to “trick” my way out of it.

Here is why girls are avoiding your house…

It’s because you are scaring them away.

Don’t worry. Let me explain further.

Firstly, a girl will never visit you if she finds you boring (read my article on “how to talk to girls” to put a stop to being boring).

Secondly, a girl will avoid your house if she notices you are desperate for her visit. Never ever beg a girl to visit you. Never give her the impression that she is doing you a favour by visiting you.

You dey get the gist abi?

As in, Never ever ever make a girl feel you are badly in need for her visit. It scares them like crazy. It gives her this impression that: “he wants sex, that is why he has been begging me to visit”.

The best approach is to make it seem you are inviting her over for something. As in, you have to give her this idea that she is coming over for a reason.

Let me give you an example. Here is one trick that is damn effective

You could call a girl up today, after making her interested in you using all the tips in my eBook, then go like:

“Hey, I want to cook ogbono soup. I need directions abeg. Shebi you can cook it”

Of course she go know. Ask her to give you directions, then make a show of acting as if you are writing the directions down.

She will find this funny and you both will have a good laugh as she gives you the direction over the phone.

After she is done with the directions, thank her and hang up

Then give her like 30 minutes and call her again. Then say something like:

YOU: “Haba na. You give me fake directions na”.

HER: “Lol. How”

YOU: “I just finished cooking the soup, it doesn’t draw. you give me direction for non-drawing ogbono soup? Plus the soup looks funny. It’s red here and brown there”.

If you do this well, it will make her laugh. Go ahead and PLAYFULLY tease her: “Haba, we are beefing o. you for tell you can’t cook ogbono na”. Bla bla bla bla. (If you’ve read my Ebook then you already know how to tease a girl)

When you two are done laughing over the whole thing. Tell her you will call her back and end the call.

Two days later, contact her, tell her you feel like eating ogbono soup the next day. And you wouldn’t want to take a risk again, and that you really need to learn how to cook the soup.

Then invite her over to TEACH YOU. Not to cook it for you (you never can tell if she is a feminist who doesn’t like cooking for guys. Lol). Use the word teach, it’s safer

If you’ve been using the strategies in my eBook on her, she will come.

Hope you got the whole strategy?

Here is the point, directly asking a girl to come and visit you raises the red flag in her head and makes her wonder what you are up to.

When you give her a reason, it makes her relaxed. Also, girls don’t like to feel as if they gave in to a guy’s “temptation”. It makes them feel cheap.

But when you structure your invitation like it’s not a temptation, you make it easier for her to come – even though she knows it might still be a temptation.

Some other “reasons” you can give a girl to come over are:.

– “There is this new action movie I got, come over let’s watch it together. Bring pop corns. I will bring the drinks”

– “Can you play cheese? Come over let me teach you. Make sure you come with note books for note taking”.

Are you getting the pattern here?

One; You are inviting her over with a reason

Two; you are making her see you are not desperate for her visit by playfully giving her conditions for her visit (eg: bring pop corns)

Three; You are sounding as if she will agree to the invitation. As in, you went ahead to ask her to bring pop corns without waiting for her to give an answer if she will come or not.

DISCLAIMER: only use this strategy on a girl you suspect will turn you down if you directly invite her over. If you are sure she won’t turn you down, just directly ask her to come and visit you (no need for the hassle in that case).

But there is something you need to do first before you even invite a girl to your house. if you don’t do this one thing then, no matter how hard you try, the girls you desire will always keep giving you flimsy excuse just to avoid not showing up. So what is this one thing?

simple – you need to know what and what to do that will make a girl take interest in you. If a girl is not interested in you, why would she visit you. i explained in details how to create massive interest in girls and make them want you. to get the ebook today send a dm show interest in the comment section.

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Sports / Understanding & Overcoming Gambling Addition by imampope(m): 12:16pm On Sep 11, 2022
Hello dear.

Do you want to quit gambling addiction.

It's a beautiful day,I urge you not to listen to that spirit luring you to try your luck to gamble.

Have you for once thought!?what if you were never introduced to betting.

Have you ever imagined how much you have loss and still losing to the system.

Hello,can you block your mind from going to that betting shop,why don't you go out for a flex.

Have you ever imagined how your financial status would have changed for good, if you have been saving those funds.

Are you tired of giving them your monthly salary
I can hear the spirit telling you to gamble today, please don't!go out and have fun with your friends.

Don't go & waste that money again,you can do better thing's with it.

Remember gambling cannot make your financial dream come true.

Remember A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush ie. the money/time you already have are more valuable than things you might get.Think about it.

YES,we'll know that it's a new season,a new season to quit your gambling habit.


Are you tired of wasting your resources to something that’s isn’t working for you, but you keep chasing it, give it a deep thought.

Are you tired of feeling guilty & self pitying yourself of the habit.

Are you tired of incurring debt?

Hello dear, gambling would not give you what you want, don't waste your money.

Are you tired of been having health issues caused by this habit.

Are you tired of losing your funds everyday & weekly to gambling.

It's weekend again, exclude yourself from throwing away those money to gambling.

Don't be tempted to go & gamble with that money,it would end well.

You have been gambling for years & it has cost soo much harm on you,it's never to late to STOP..

Spend that money to eat good food & be satisfied.


Are you tired of disappointing yourself & close ones
Are you tired of people calling you a loser
Are you been frustrated with the habit.

Are you tired of wasting your time & energy.

Make that decision & take the step to stop that habit now.

Tell yourself you can overcome this, gambling won't ruin you.

Remember the system/machine is always against your wish & desire .

Stop being an all time loser to gambling,it's not working for you, just quit.


Are you tired of giving the system your hard earned money.

Are you tired of losing relationship’s.

Are you tired of been broke.

Have you lost focus because of this habit.

Don't gamble away your time & money.

Are you tired of telling lies on how you spent that money, which was meant to be used for something profitable for yourself.

Do you want to STOP the habit, if YES…

I believe you can do it .

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Business / From $0 To $38,000 In 24 Months by imampope(m): 8:49am On Aug 30, 2022
1. If you don't have any money, get a job (you need to feed & live).

2. Learn a high-income skill while on the job (you'll need it to make your first $1000).

3. Google advertising is a high-earning skill.

4. Now that you've learned a high-earning skill, start an Instagram page and grow it, then make videos and photos showing people how to use Google to grow their businesses.

Offer to run their Google ad for $100 to $1,000. Clients will come as your audience expands.

5. If you charge $100 for this service, ten customers will give you $1000. Every penny should be saved. Make a living off of your employment. This money will be used to help you in the future.

6. Keep the job and continue to sell the skill once you've saved up $1000. Now invest the $1,000 in a company.

7. Reinvest after selling the products you bought....rinse and repeat. Life is becoming easier at this point. Money comes in from employment, your skill, and your business; if you don't substantially change your lifestyle, you'll be able to handle a lot of bills right now.

8. Apply the 50/30/20 rule to your situation. You may either pay yourself a salary and save the remainder, or you can spend 50% of your income on your necessities (rent, food, etc). Spend 30% on desires (charity, dates, cold stone) and save 20%. It's worth noting that you can do this in reverse, with 30% for savings and 20% for needs.

Don't be rash; instead, be cautious.

If you maintain reinvesting in your business and saving properly, you will quickly reach your $10,000 savings goal.

Once you have $10,000, invest it in a business that will offer you passive income and will be managed by someone else.

For example, a gym, Keke, or a car wash

The game is about daily income, no matter how small...if your firm earns $5,000 per day, you'll have $150,000 in a month. You'll make $1.5 million per month if you have ten cashflow businesses that do this on a monthly basis.

This equates to 18 million dollars every year. This is worth $38,000.

Now...you're in a position where you can focus on making one big move that will make you wealthy; money isn't an issue, so you can be more aggressive with your crypto savings and still have funds to pursue chances.

It will not be simple; if it were, everyone would do it. It is to be expected that there will be bumps along the way. But have faith in the process; if you stick to the plan, you'll be OK.

Share this if you think someone you care about might benefit from it.
Business / Re: What My Relationship With Igbo Girls Can Teach You About Success by imampope(m): 9:03am On Jul 16, 2022
Business / What My Relationship With Igbo Girls Can Teach You About Success by imampope(m): 10:22pm On Jul 14, 2022
You see, a few years ago, I was 100% sure I was going to marry an Igbo woman

That is because Igbo women are unusually beautiful

And...I kinda like very beautiful women

Actually, I thought I was going to marry an Igbo woman because I was so into them and they were into me

But my last short-lived relationship with an Igbo woman changed all that.

That is a story for another day

You see, when I was into Igbo women, it was like this entire Lagos was filled with beautiful women

Anywhere I turned to, there was Chioma, Amaka, Chichi, Ada, Isioma...Lilian

They attended to me in banks

If I had to go to the supermarket, the person that attended to me was usually an Igbo woman

And I vividly remember that all the female Pharmacists I met in pharmacies at that time were all young Igbo women

I was reading a book from Brian tracy today where he was talking about how when you REALLY DESIRE something, it tends to show up everywhere you go

The key phrase here is REALLY DESIRE

Not WISH for something

Wishing is what a lot of people do

Wishing is weak

It shows you haven't made a deep decision and commitment about something

What Brian Tracy said also reminds me of when I wanted to buy a red Jeep wrangler some years back

All of a sudden, it was as if red Jeep wranglers suddenly started filling Lagos roads

The lesson here is this:

When you DEEPLY DESIRE success or prosperity...when you are really into it...

What happens is that ideas...materials...people that bring prosperity just begin to show up everywhere you go

It is just like how it looked like the entire Lagos was filled Igbo women when I was really into them

The same thing happens with scarcity based thoughts

Unfortunately, this is the default settings for most people

This isn't motivational jargon

This is the truth

Someone with a prosperity based mindset ATTRACTS prosperity all day long

Even the Bible confirms it in Proverbs 23:7 (As a man thinks in his heart, so is he)

Many people keep struggling with their income and business because of a mindset that is filled with scarcity based thoughts

A scarcity based mindset can only attract scarcity and poverty

It can never attract prosperity

To attract prosperity and success, you have to be VERY INTENTIONAL about it.

You have to make developing a prosperity mindset your goal.

Fill your life and environment with people, thoughts, actions and things that make it easy for you to develop a prosperity mindset

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I hope this was helpful

May God help us all

PS: By the way, I am still into Igbo girls but not like I was years ago.

I am indifferent these days

Maybe I will still marry one though. Who knows?

Health / How Eliminating Body And Belly Fat, Without Taking Any Dose by imampope(m): 8:05am On Aug 02, 2019
If you are within the age range of 25 to 50, married or in a relationship, and you have this disgusting fats around your hand, lapse or bell.y

there is 50% possibility that your man will be cheating on you, and even if he is not doing so now, he his already peeping through the window looking at someone outside

you might not believe this but see the reason below
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In 2001/2002, 4 great psycologist embark on a research to know the reason why the average men in this generation cheat

they throwed a survey to the public and one of the most common answer from people was that, it because of "the lack of the fear of God"
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Which i know that's what you will be thinking as well

But there answer wasn't true
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why ?

see the result and the conclusion of the 4 psycologist
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They came out with one of the most shocking and unbelivable result....

it was made to know that psycologically, every man is wired to love and appreciate good things, a good woman with a good fitted body shape and a good and peaceful home

And that's the reason why you see most men look like a thief about to hand pick peoples good

whenever they see ladies with a good slim down shape and beauty(it is phsycology, in essence they are made like that)
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