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Yesterday, I talked about fox trap strategy, right.


Then I told you that if you don’t want a girl to play hard to get around you then you shouldn’t woo her at the onset. You should just approach as just a friend.

If you’ve been following my write ups then you know all that already, don’t you?

Now time to go into what you don’t know.

I told you that, today, I will show you how to go about becoming a friend she would want to date. And not just a guy she would just go ahead and friendzone.

There are steps you need to follow in getting a girl.

I properly broke them down in my new Book, Advanced Bang Rule (which will be released in a few days). But I will give you a general, tip of the iceberg view of those steps here in this free course.

Here are the GENERAL steps

Approach
Work on her
Take whatever you want from her.


Lets break them down. One by one. Let’s take the Approach first.


Everything starts with that first approach.


Based on “The Fox Trap strategy”, there are two ways you can use in approaching a girl you like and want to have. As in, two main styles of walking up to a girl.


The first is this: ask a guy who knows the girl to introduce you two.

Then the second is this; approaching the girl yourself

LET’S TAKE THEM ONE BY ONE


When you want to get any girl, the first type of approach up there is usually easier.

Here is how it works. Assuming there is a girl you see, and you like her. But you don’t want to directly approach her then what you do is to simply ask a guy that knows her to introduce you two.


(If that confused you, Read it again, so you will really understand it)


But here is the trick. The girl shouldn’t know that you asked that guy to introduce you two. Once she knows, she will know you like her and she will start playing hard to get.


The guy just has to arrange the meeting like something that wasn’t planned. Lets assume they would be in a restaurant by 4 pm, you could just show up. See the guy, wave and walk to their table. Like it was just a coincidence.


Chill, I will give you a more detailed example soon.


Another way to go about this is this. Lets say that the girl hangs out with a particular guy who is just her friend; become friends with that guy. Then one day, when the girl is with the guy just walk up to the guy and go like.



“Hey, what's up. Longest time”


Note this wasn’t arranged. The guy shouldn’t even know you planned it.


Then have a conversation with the guy for a while. And, this is very important. While talking to the guy; ignore the girl.

As in, while you are talking to the guy act like you didn’t notice the girl one bit. Like you didn’t see her at all. And do this for ten minutes straight.

Then suddenly turn and look at her like you just saw her, tap the guy and be like…”Guy, you have bad manners. Introduce me to her na”


Then he would introduce you two.


Now this is where the next strategy lies. Once the guy introduces you to the girl. tease her – right there on the spot. Straight.


I will give you an example.


As the guy introduces you two, bring out your hand like you want to shake her. then shake your head and say: “No, I won’t shake you. It’s rude to shake girls”.


Then spread your arms and then add; “I will hug you”. Then hug her.


Because she has seen that you know the guy she is with, she will smile and hug you. The reason for this hug is to break her defense on that very spot


After the hug, comes the next step.


Look at her nose, then say. “Jeez, I like your nose. When I grow up I want my daughter to have that kind of nose”


When you say this, she would smile or laugh. That laughter or smile is very important. Once you make a girl smile or laugh, she automatically feels comfortable around you. and once a girl has laughed at whatever you’ve said, she would give you her number when you ask for it.

After she had laughed or smiled. Take up the tease up a notch by laughing and then say: “The nose moves in a funny way when you smile(laugh). Laugh again let me see”


Then start looking at her nose like you are waiting for her to smile


If you say this well, by now you would have her smiling or laughing real hard. Plus you will make her terribly self conscious. Which is cool. A girl you’ve made self-conscious is in your palms. You can control her to do what you want. And that becomes helpful when it is time to get her number.


After that laugh, turn to your friend and say: “Mehn, I have to be going now. I like this girl’s nose. Permit me to take her number, I want to always make her laugh so this her nose will twist in that funny way”


The dude would say something. But he would agree (guy code things). Just get out your phone, look at the girl. smile and give her your phone. She would type in her number right there. Trust me.


As easy as that.



Way easier than walking up to her and telling her that you like her and that you would want her number. In fact, if you tell her you like her and then ask for her number she won’t give it to you.


That is the way girls are wired.


if you like them, they play hard to get. But when you joke about the nose, you are not exactly saying that you like her. You are just making her feel silly, so she will break down her defense and give you her number.


By making her feel silly, you assume the role of the person in control. And women always respect a man in control.

After she had laughed or smiled. Take up the tease up a notch by laughing and then say: “The nose moves in a funny way when you smile(laugh). Laugh again let me see”


Then start looking at her nose like you are waiting for her to smile


If you say this well, by now you would have her smiling or laughing real hard. Plus you will make her terribly self conscious. Which is cool. A girl you’ve made self-conscious is in your palms. You can control her to do what you want. And that becomes helpful when it is time to get her number.


After that laugh, turn to your friend and say: “Mehn, I have to be going now. I like this girl’s nose. Permit me to take her number, I want to always make her laugh so this her nose will twist in that funny way”


The dude would say something. But he would agree (guy code things). Just get out your phone, look at the girl. smile and give her your phone. She would type in her number right there. Trust me.

As easy as that.


Way easier than walking up to her and telling her that you like her and that you would want her number. In fact, if you tell her you like her and then ask for her number she won’t give it to you.


That is the way girls are wired.


if you like them, they play hard to get. But when you joke about the nose, you are not exactly saying that you like her. You are just making her feel silly, so she will break down her defense and give you her number.

By making her feel silly, you assume the role of the person in control. And women always respect a man in control.

And, this strategy, usually always work when it comes to becoming a girl’s friend and getting her number. It usually works. And it can be used, obviously, in a case where you know a guy that know the girl you have an interest in.


But then, there are some cases where it won’t be possible to use this type of approach. lets assume you don’t know the girl at all and don’t know someone who knows her. Then you have to approach her and get her number yourself, without getting introduced by another guy.

We will cover how to do that tomorrow.


So check back tomorrow. By 7 Pm for the continuation of this.


Hoping to speak with you tomorrow. See you, bro.


PS: Just decided to share this. Lol. There is this new girl I’m seeing. She is really a distraction, she likes sex quite a lot and all. so I asked her not to show up to my house till after like three days when I’m done with writing and sending these emails (her wahala too much abeg).


Turns out it was a bad move. Because last night, I wrote this email and at the same time I was cooking. Was so into writing and forgot I was cooking. I nearly burnt down the whole kitchen.

I’m telling you this, Just so you will know what happened to me if I don’t manage to post tomorrow. Maybe I finally burnt down the house with me inside.

Don’t mind me sha, had to share that story. I’m making a joke out of it but it was really a serious thing yesterday. You need to see the kitchen.


PSS: Anyhow, we would still continue tomorrow from where we stopped today. Burnt kitchen or no burnt kitchen.


See you

If you want more advanced secrets that you can use to get a girl crazy about you, I compiled and packed them all in my eBook, The Bang Rule. In it I explained the easy to use effective secrets that most players you know use to effortlessly get the girls they like to like them back. For details on how to get the eBook; Dm 08145371017

Hey bro.


Yesterday I promised to show you what you need to do first with any girl you are interested in.

And I also told you that that thing you need to do first will make sure she doesn’t play hard to get around you anywhere down the line.


In Fact; I have a name for this stuff I want to show you right now.


I call it…


…THE FOX TRAP STRATEGY


To make you understand this, I will tell you a story. A real story about how the red indians catch foxes.

Stay with me.

This is really important.

At the end you will understand why I’m telling you this story.



You see, when a red indian wants to catch a fox this is what they do. First, they take a sharp knife. Then they splash goat blood on the knife. As in, they soak the knife real well with the blood of a goat.



Then they bury that knife in the snow, making sure that the sharp pointed part is faced upwards.

After that they cover the tip of the knife with snow.

Then they take that same goat blood and pour over the spot the knife was buried.



THIS IS WHERE IT GETS VERY INTERESTING



From a long distance, a fox perceives the smell of that goat blood.

And guess what it does next?

Yes, you guessed right. The fox starts tracing smell of blood to that spot. Till it finds it. Then swiftly, the fox starts licking the blood.



Till it licks up the whole snow. And exposes the tip of the knife.



But it doesn’t stop.



Remember, the knife was splashed with blood too. In Fact, The smell of the blood from the knife is even stronger than the one the red indians had poured over the snow.



So the fox starts licking the blood on the knife. Moving down the knife, down and down. Till the tip of the knife starts piercing through the fox’s throat and the fox starts bleeding like crazy.



But, due to the cold water, the fox doesn’t know it is bleeding because the cold has numbed the pain. All the fox notices is that the more it licks the knife, the more blood that comes up again.


WITHOUT KNOWING IT IS IT’S OWN BLOOD



So the fox continues licking till it bleeds to death and drops dead. And the red indians walks up and carries their meat.



As simple as that. No stress.



SO WHY DID I TELL YOU THIS STORY



Because that story represents the basic principles behind getting any girl you want, to fall crazily in love with you and literalily chase you. That story covers how players are able to effortlessly, easily and without stress get a girl they just met to have sex with them two days after their first date.



Don’t worry. I will explain.



You see, when you meet a girl you like, most times, she doesn’t feel a single thing for you. As in, she feels nothing. No interest, no love – nothing.



And you want to date her, right?



But here is the problem. A girl can’t date someone she doesn’t have any feelings for. I mean, it’s simple logic.



She doesn’t like you so she won’t date you – simple.



The very first thing you need to do, obviously, is to get that girl to like you FIRST before any other thing. Because that is the ony way she would agree to date you, or kiss you, or have sex with you. or even marry you (assuming you are that serious about her),

The question now is – HOW?

How can you get a girl you like to like you back. Although she doesn’t feel what you feel for her yet.



This is where most guys face a big stumbling block. They wonder. “How can I tell a girl that I like her so she will fall for me?”



That problem is what I will help you solve.



In Fact; here is the solution.



Don’t tell her.



She shouldn’t know that you like her.



Once you tell her, she will start playing hard to get and you will never ever get her. Trust me. As in, she will so play hard to get and you will so chase her and yet she would still have no freaking atom of feelings for you.


I know what you are thinking. You are wondering “How Then Can She Like me if I don’t Tell her That I like her”.


What should I do instead?


Here is your answer…


…BECOME A KNIFE SPLASHED WITH BLOOD

LOL. Don’t freak out.

This what I mean.



Remember that fox story I told you about.

If you want to get any girl, then you need to become like that knife in the story.



How can you do that in real life.



This is it. When you want to approach a girl, then you have to approach her casually and “normally”. So she wouldn’t see you as someone who wants a romantic relationship.



But while she is seeing you as someone who doesn’t want a romantic relationship with her, you are working on her head using the tricks you will learn from “Advanced Bang Rule”.



And before she knows it; she has fallen for you. Just like the fox. No time to play hard to get because before she knows what you are doing you’ve already messed with her head real bad and she is already tripping for you.



Here is my point:

You have to first approach as a friend. As a normal person. If you want to make sure that she never ever plays hard to get, then that very first time you say hi or start talking to her THEN you have to do it like you don’t want to date her.


She should think that you just want to be friends and that’s all.


BUT THIS IS DANGEROUS…



…at the initial stage, if you become friends with a girl THE WRONG WAY she would friend-zone you. And if a girl sees you as JUST A FRIEND there is NO WAY in this lifetime she would ever date you.


So, there is a particular way to become friends with a girl at that initial stage. This particular way will ensure that when the time comes, she will still see you as a boyfriend material and she would want to straddle you and kiss the life out of you.


I don’t want to pour too many information at you at once; that particular way to become friends with a girl is what I will be talking about in the email I will send you tomorrow. We need to take this real slow and gradually


So Tomorrow,check for the continuation.


PS: The fox trap strategy alone that you’ve just learnt now, will drastically reduce, by a whooping half, any chances of a girl ever playing hard to get with you ever again.

PSS: And from tomorrow I will expand more on it so you would be able to do “massive damage” with this strategy .


If you have been following this training; Check by 4 pm tomorrow; 15TH August; for the continuation and part 3. Part is more practical with some examples. See you later.

If you want more advanced secrets that you can use to get a girl crazy about you, I compiled and packed them all in my eBook, The Bang Rule. In it I explained the easy to use effective secrets that most players you know use to effortlessly get the girls they like to like them back. For details on how to get the eBook; Dm 08145371017

So i decided to post this training going on right now here on my blog, for those who were not seen the post yet. Here goes

*Phew*



Let’s begin.



What’s up; bro.




I want to congratulate you for successfully signing up for my very exclusive training course: “How To Finally Get Any Girl You Like” . This training is to prepare you for the detailed step by step secrets you will learn from my newest book; Advanced Bang Rule



Now;


I will very quickly make a quick introduction of myself



….in case, somehow, you’ve forgotten my name or who I am or why this email course will help you. (It happens, people forget things). So; here goes.



My name is Charles Nneji, The number one dating guru for men in Africa. So you can imagine the sort of powerful results you will get from this email course. Even though it is free.



A lot of people have bought my first ebook; The Bang Rule. And not just guys from Nigeria alone. I have had people buy from The Uk, America, Ghana, Uganda, Kenya. And guess what?



I get thousands of emails every single single day and what they tell me usually have one thing in common

…That The strategies I teach has worked for all of them


Irrespective of the country. Irrespective of the continent the ladies they are applying my tricks on are. Heck; you can even attest to this yourself. You might have bought my First ebook The Bang Rule and have gotten results, first hand, from what you learnt in it.



And even if you haven’t bought it (You’ve been missing though) you must have been reading my free articles, and you’ve applied them and you’ve see that they really really work.



NOW BRACE YOURSELF



Because by signing up to this course, I am about to take your hands and slowly take you down the path of becoming a guru when it comes to getting any girl you want. And I mean; any girl. Weather she is older than you or pretty as hell or richer than you or whatever.



In the coming few days I will show you some little tiny secrets that I use to get girls myself. And you too can use it to get your own dream girl to practically run down your phone with calls and love texts.



These tips I would drop on your laps in the next four days or so would just be a tip of the iceberg. That will prepare you for the more detailed, more advanced, more example-filled stuffs you will see in my newest eBook The Advanced Bang Rule. Which would be out soon.

So get ready, bro. Tomorrow at exactly 7 am we would start the lessons. In those lessons I will show you the steps to take if you want to convert a complete stranger to a girlfriend or to a lover with no string attached.

The secrets I will be showing you, starting from Tomorrow, will ensure that you would completely and without much stress walk up a girl, get her number and make her like you, before she knows what hit her.



With what you would learn; you could do anything you want with the girl. Weather to make her your girlfriend or just become friends with benefit with her.



Heck, with what I will be showing you in this free email course and the more advanced stuff in my upcoming ebook you would be able to make a girl a side chic and she wouldn’t complain. Even though she knows she is your side chic. Trust me.



So Tomorrow; I will show you – Specifically…



…what you need to do first when you meet a girl you want to date or have sex with or anything, that will make sure she doesn’t play hard to get anywhere down the line.



So we start tomorrow.



Don’t forget to check back tomorrow.



Till then…



Later.

If you want more advanced secrets that you can use to get a girl crazy about you, I compiled and packed them all in my eBook, The Bang Rule. In it I explained the easy to use effective secrets that most players you know use to effortlessly get the girls they like to like them back. For details on how to get the eBook; Dm 08145371017

How about if you were given a step by step instruction manual on how to get very pretty girls to fall in love with you in thirty days (or less if you are a fast learner).

You would want such a manual, right?
Just imagine it. Let’s assume that in that manual every single thing was explained. Starting from what you need to do to easily walk up to a girl, talk to her, get her number and have sex with her or make her your girlfriend the next week. Effortlessly.
You would want such a manual, right?
Guess what? That is exactly what you will get from The Advanced Bang Rule. First, I dissected how to walk up to a girl without fear. How to make her like you on the spot.

Then slowly, in the pages of the book, I explained what to do when you call her for the first time. Then I revealed what you need to do after that call that will make her pick massive interest in you.
Then how to double her interest in you 7 days or less – it works like a charm, trust me. And you know this is not hype, you’ve used some of my tricks and they are working for you.
I will also show how to turn that interest she has for you into an obsession.
Then how to get that first kiss from her.

Then how to make her to commit to you.

Step by step instructions with example. That is what you get in
The Advanced Bang Rule. No Book on relationship has ever, and I mean, Ever been written this way. Go and check.
The only thing is, you must have to practice the tricks I exposed in this book, if not the book will be a total waste to you. You have to have a willingness to really practice what I revealed in the eBook.
If You can’t do that, then don’t bother buying the Advanced Bang Rule because you will be wasting your money (i will have to tell you the truth).
But if you are an action taker, and you want a simple effective trick that works – Advanced Bang Rule is for you.
And not just that; just for buying Advanced Bang Rule – I will give you 3 other eBooks for free.
Here are their title:
– Complete List of what to say to a woman you are approaching for the first time.
– How to kiss a woman like she has never been kissed before
– Every F*ck up a woman can ever give you and how to handle them like a real pro.

You will get these three ebooks – free. Together with Advanced Bang Rule.

If you want more advanced secrets that you can use to get a girl crazy about you, I compiled and packed them all in my eBook, The Bang Rule. In it I explained the easy to use effective secrets that most players you know use to effortlessly get the girls they like to like them back. For details on how to get the eBook; Dm 08145371017

MY TWO FRIENDS

I have two friends who are almost alike. As in, they resemble themselves for many angles.

I will call them James and John (Not their real names)

Both of them are average income earners. In Fact, they earn almost the same amounts. Both of them are average looking guys, both of them are about 26 years old, both of them are generous, they both live in a flat and both of them drive the same type of cars.

Here is the only difference between them…

Girls flock around James like flies. They love him, they throw themselves at him, and about a couple of girls had even fought over him in the past. Some of the girls even go as far as buying things for him and trying to tie him down by getting pregnant for him.

As in, he is a real player who effortlessly gets girls interested in him.

But John’s isn’t that lucky…

Getting a girl is a big wahala for him. And for the ones he MANAGES to get; the way they play him is very touching.

He buys them things, tells them how much he loves them, shows them that he really cares for them. And these girls hang around for a while then either dumps him, tell him they don’t love him or out rightly cheats on him.

Some hang around him for a while, allow him to spend on them and then they send him an IV to their wedding with some other dude.

So what is the difference between the two?

Why are they so alike, and yet, have different results with love?
What is James’s secret?

That is what I will show you…infact he uses ONE main trick.

THE TRICK is this: He becomes emotionally superior to the babe

BECOMING EMOTIONALLY SUPERIOR TO A BABE:

Girls love to be chased. They love to play hard to get – it’s their nature.

Sometimes their shakara is quite normal.

But some other times; they do the shakara for you because you irritate them and they don’t want you around. They do it so they can put you off.

If a girl ignores your calls,

Ignores your chats,

Doesn’t want to go out on a date with you,

Never agrees to visit you,

Cheats on you,

Acts cold on the phone with you,

Talks to you in a harsh tone when you talk to her,

Doesn’t agree to give you her number after you have asked her twice for it…

She is not playing hard to get this time, bro, she actually finds you irritating. That is the hard plain painful truth. She finds you so irritating that the only thing she wants to do is to give you those attitudes so you can just free her.

If you get this same behavior from MOST girls you approach, then you are like my friend John

But don’t worry – I am about to show you what will put a stop to it forever (Yes, I said it. forever).

So what can you do to put a stop to it?

By becoming emotionally superior to her.

How do you become emotionally superior?

Here is the trick; To get a girl interested in you you have to do the opposite of what other guys do around her.

Other Guys praise her.
Other Guys try never to offend her.
Other Guys say only nice things to her.
Guys call her to ask her why she doesn’t reply their calls.
Other guys beg her to love them…

The trick is never do any of these things other guys do but rather, do the direct opposite.

Why?

Because the old method of praising girls, telling them how you feel about them and buying things for them don’t work anymore – it might have worked when you were a teenager but guy, babes don wise up – as they grow older they become more akpo.

If the old method of always trying to impress girls work then the girls you’ve chased in the past for dey trip for you die

For instance, instead of praising a girl – tease her.

Don’t say: “You are beautiful” (It’s a dry praise she hears all the time. In Fact she has heard it so much that it just boosts her ego without making her feel anything for who said it)

Turn it around and make it more sexy by saying something more manly:

Take for instance:

On a date you can say something like: “on a scale of 1- 10. For your face, I will give you 5 points. I will need to see some qualities in you before I give you the other 5 points”

Now, if you keep face like mess and say this to a girl she will think you are an arrogant . The trick is to say it playfully – smile, relax and say it.
Most times when you say this to a girl she would go like: “For your mind. What are the qualities sha?”.
And you’ve hooked her…

You could throw in more teasing to turn up the tension by saying “Quality number one: give me 6 twins at a go for 2 points”.

So why does this works so well to set you apart from other guys?

It is simple plain psychology – human beings only LOVE interacting with people who are their level or above their level.
Trying to impress a girl you are chasing is like walking into her room crawling, with your hands stretched out as you beg for attention.
It makes a girl see you as someone below her.

Also, this method makes a girl go like WTF. Why is he so different from other guys, there must be something special about him – that’s just why he would behave this way.

MORE EXAMPLES FOR PROJECTING EMOTIONAL SUPERIORITY

# Never ask a girl how she feels about you. Never ever ever do it. My wahala is that even after reading this some guys will go out and still do it. when you ask a girl how she feels about you it makes her see you as someone who she has under her control. and when a girl feels she has you under her control, it kills every interest she has in you.

Women like men that are in control.

–#1. Never tell a girl how you feel about her TOO EARLY. I will keep saying this. Before you tell a girl how you feel about her you have to be sure she feels two times the same way for you. In eBook, The bang rule, i explained 3 steps you have to take before you let a girl know how you feel about her. follow those 3 steps in the exact way i explained them in the eBook and she would never think of friend zoning you.
– #2 Stop Seeking Her Approval. Even if you did not get any other thing from this article – just get this. I don’t preach disrespecting ladies, but still, guy – you are the man, not she. When you take your whole power as a guy and give it over to her, you are shooting yourself in the leg.

Some of the way most guys make this particular mistake is:

– They call a girl up and beg her to see them. Like, they beg.
– They beg a girl to call them. I overhead a guy saying something like this to a girl on phone one day: “Call me now, you never call me. Call me now”

Haba na. When you BEG a girl for anything you are handing your power to her and girls Never date a guy who is “weak”

In the book I went into details on how to be emotionally superior on Pages 59 – 66. The tips in those pages would ensure that the girls you like would always select you over other guys, These secrets are the same powerful leverage that “players” use to get girls who are dating rich men to cheat on those rich men for them.

To get the ebook sent to you today; Click: SHOW ME DETAILS.

In my ebook, The Bang Rule, I also revealed the following

– Two things you need to do within the first five minutes of walking up to a girl that would make her instantly like you…. Page 52

– One trick MOST GUYS DON’T KNOW that you can use to make a woman want to come over to your house to pay you a visit, even when she knows you have the intention of having sex with her… Page 25.

– How to make a girl take massive interest in you even to the extent of chasing you shamelessly…page 45

– One way to start a conversation with a girl you just met that will cripple all her defenses and make her polite with you. This ONE WAY will ensure that girls never embarrass you when you walk up to them to woo them… pages 55-56

– What to do that will make a girl always coming back to you, even if you treat her badly. This is the same secret players use to make a girl rush back to them after every quarrel…pages 66 – 67

– One thing you need to do around a girl you are asking out that will make her feel lucky that you are asking her out…. page 69

Plus many many more.

To get the ebook today, send a Whatsapp message on 08145371017

In this post I am going to be revealing 3 major mistakes guys make that is ruining their chances of getting the girl they like to like them back.

As a matter of fact; the problem with these mistakes is that most guys make them and still don’t know it is the major reason why girls they like don’t take them seriously. Infact, they think it is romantic to make these mistakes

I received a lot of messages this week from guys who have been having the problem of “not been taken seriously by a girl they like”

That is not a nice feeling, trust me. To like a girl and not been liked in return can be very frustrating.

As a matter of fact, if a girl initially likes you and you behave in these 3 ways I am about to reveal right now – it will turn her off in an instant.

The messages I got were over a hundred plus…and guess what?

Every single one of them were doing all these 3 mistakes…all of them.

And so I decided to write about it, at least, to save them and some other guys out there from falling into the same pit.

Are you ready?

The three mistakes are these:

1. Chewing Guming.
2. Surrendering

Don’t mind those names; I know they sound silly *smiles* just Stay with me, I will explain them one by one.

– CHEWING GUMING.

Find any girl and ask her right now – like, get any girl in here now and ask her how she regards guys who behaves in these following ways.

One; If a girl doesn’t reply your messages and you start sending her messages like:
– “talk to me now”,
– “why are you treating me this way”.
– “Hey, hey. I just sent you a message. Reply now”

AUTOMATICALLY – she regards you as a pest – and when a girl starts seeing you this way there is no way she is going to EVER date you.

Why?

Because behaving this way makes her see you as someone who doesn’t have self worth. She sees you as a beggar of love and attention and girls hate guys who beg for attention. It’s just not manly, it makes you appear like a boy – like a kid.

Two; If you call a girl too much: initially she might like this but when you keep doing it over and over again, she starts to loose regard for you.

You need to make her miss you sometimes, bro. Most guys are guilty of this. They call a girl up and spend 20 minutes boring the poor girl to death – they even do it four times a week. Some call a girl twice every single day, Some even make it a duty to call up a girl every single day to ask her if she has eaten and how her day went.

Guy, it’s boring jare. Even if na you sef. Do you like a girl who is always bugging you and showing how crazy she is about you? Of course not, you keep her aside and go for other girls who are more of a challenge. That’s the same way girls view you when you do this, as somebody to be kept aside for Better guys to come in.

No matter how interesting your conversations are, you need to make your calls sparse. If she is just a friend; fine – you can call her everytime you want. But if she is someone you intend to date then you need to make her miss you sometime, make her look forward to your calls.

That is how you appear like a boyfriend material. Keep showing up all the time and she will start feeling like the only thing you do with your life is to chase her, next thing she would tell her friends you don’t have a life.

Three; Asking a girl if she likes you. This one is another frequent kind of chewing gumming that most guys do.

This question makes a girl uncomfortable, big time – especially if she is not yet into you.

The other day this new girl I was seeing showed me one particular text she got from a “chyker”: “Why don’t you love me”. The text read. “What should I do so you will like me?”

The babe laughed at the text with her hands around me while calling the guy a childish baby. Now, that pained me. My fellow guy been insulted by a girl is one thing I don’t like seeing.

When you ask a girl questions like:
– “do you like me?”.
– “why are you treating me this way”
– “I’m I your type?”
– etc etc…

It kills every chances of her ever been interested in you – EVER

The other day a guy showed up and was on his knee begging my cousin to date her…the way she laughed at him when he left was heartbreaking…

Actions like this puts a girl off and makes her look down on you. And trust me; a girl never dates a guy she looks down on. Unless you are rich and she wants to turn you into her maga (even at that, she will still treat you like trash and channel your money to another guy she likes)

NUMBER #2 MISTAKE: SURRENDERING.

This is one major mistake most guys make when it comes to the girls they like and you know what? This one mistake is the main reason why most girls turn them down.

If you keep making this mistake girls will either keep looking down on you or would prefer to be just friends with you instead of dating you.

Let me make this clearer:

Every girl loves a man; a real man. Someone who is in control and not someone they can control.

A girl will not see you as a man who is in control if you keep struggling and trying to impress her all the time.

It’s cool to try and make an impression on a girl, be caring on her and all BUT this doesn’t mean you should become and act like her slave.

Alright; let me give you an example.

Some guys get offended by a girl they like, get tongue lashed by the girl and still beg her for forgiveness (even though they were wronged) – this is not romantic, it’s foolish. And when you act this way, girls will never feel butterflies with you. Even if they date you, it would be out of pity – and bro; that relationship won’t work

That’s just one.

I have seen cases where a guy always tried to please a girl, giving in to her every request, basically worshipping her…

…And still he got dumped.

When you surrender your manliness to a woman and becomes her slave; it will put her off. Yes, she might like you as a friend but not as a boyfriend – no woman dates her slave.

You have to project value.

– If a girl makes you angry, tell her – don’t just smile and act like you like what she did.

Be a man. Be in control. Don’t go around begging her for love; because you see guys doing it in movies doesn’t mean it works in real life.

Every girl will tell you they want a guy who worships them but still, worship them and see how it goes – worship them and they will tell you that they like you as a friend but can’t date you.

Look for any pretty girl who has a boyfriend she is in love with, you will notice that she is the one always trying to impress the guy and not the other way round.

Girls love a man who is in control.

There are more mistakes and i can bet all the naira in my bank account that you are making these same mistakes with the girls you like, In fact, you don’t even know that they are mistakes (that is why it’s even dangerous). You are making these mistakes and you are thinking it’s romantic but the fact is that it’s chasing the girls you like away.

To discover this mistake, completely eliminate it and start getting the girls you really like to stop playing hard to get with you then you need to get my ebook, The Bang Rule, sent to you today. If you want more advanced secrets that you can use to get a girl crazy about you, I compiled and packed them all in my eBook, The Bang Rule. In it I explained the easy to use effective secrets that most players you know use to effortlessly get the girls they like to like them back. For details on how to get the eBook; Dm 08145371017

After reading this, you will learn a “dangerously” effective way that you can use to make a girl visit you, even when she suspects you are “up to something” *winks*
But before we dive into that, let me make something clear. All the tips I’m about to show you will not work if you’ve not made a girl interested in you, at least, a bit.

But don’t worry, right here on my website, in my other articles I have explained how to make girls interested in you.

If you’ve been following my articles then continue reading. But if you’ve not, make sure you check out my other write ups after reading this.

In my other articles you will learn some secrets you can use to make a girl interested in you

Now, let’s start…

Shall we?

Getting a girl to visit you is super easy. The problem is that most guys don’t find it so.

You ask a girl to come over and visit you and she turns you down, giving some flimsy excuses. Sometimes she agrees to come over and then turns around to disappoint you.

I’ve been there before, till i learnt how to “trick” my way out of it.

Here is why girls are avoiding your house…

It’s because you are scaring them away.

Don’t worry. Let me explain further.

Firstly, a girl will never visit you if she finds you boring (read my article on “how to talk to girls” to put a stop to being boring).

Secondly, a girl will avoid your house if she notices you are desperate for her visit. Never ever beg a girl to visit you. Never give her the impression that she is doing you a favour by visiting you.

You dey get the gist abi?

As in, Never ever ever make a girl feel you are badly in need for her visit. It scares them like crazy. It gives her this impression that: “he wants sex, that is why he has been begging me to visit”.

The best approach is to make it seem you are inviting her over for something. As in, you have to give her this idea that she is coming over for a reason.

Let me give you an example. Here is one trick that is damn effective.

You could call a girl up today, after making her interested in you using all the tips in my eBook, then go like:

“Hey, I want to cook ogbono soup. I need directions abeg. Shebi you can cook it”

Of course she go know. Ask her to give you directions, then make a show of acting as if you are writing the directions down.

She will find this funny and you both will have a good laugh as she gives you the direction over the phone.

After she is done with the directions, thank her and hang up

Then give her like 30 minutes and call her again. Then say something like:

YOU: “Haba na. You give me fake directions na”.

HER: “Lol. How”

YOU: “I just finished cooking the soup, it doesn’t draw. you give me direction for non-drawing ogbono soup? Plus the soup looks funny. It’s red here and brown there”.

If you do this well, it will make her laugh. Go ahead and PLAYFULLY tease her: “Haba, we are beefing o. you for tell you can’t cook ogbono na”. Bla bla bla bla. (If you’ve read my Ebook then you already know how to tease a girl)

When you two are done laughing over the whole thing. Tell her you will call her back and end the call.

Two days later, contact her, tell her you feel like eating ogbono soup the next day. And you wouldn’t want to take a risk again, and that you really need to learn how to cook the soup.

Then invite her over to TEACH YOU. Not to cook it for you (you never can tell if she is a feminist who doesn’t like cooking for guys. Lol). Use the word teach, it’s safer

If you’ve been using the strategies in my eBook on her, she will come.

Hope you got the whole strategy?

Here is the point, directly asking a girl to come and visit you raises the red flag in her head and makes her wonder what you are up to.

When you give her a reason, it makes her relaxed. Also, girls don’t like to feel as if they gave in to a guy’s “temptation”. It makes them feel cheap.

But when you structure your invitation like it’s not a temptation, you make it easier for her to come – even though she knows it might still be a temptation.

Some other “reasons” you can give a girl to come over are:.

– “There is this new action movie I got, come over let’s watch it together. Bring pop corns. I will bring the drinks”

– “Can you play cheese? Come over let me teach you. Make sure you come with note books for note taking”.

Are you getting the pattern here?

One; You are inviting her over with a reason

Two; you are making her see you are not desperate for her visit by playfully giving her conditions for her visit (eg: bring pop corns)

Three; You are sounding as if she will agree to the invitation. As in, you went ahead to ask her to bring pop corns without waiting for her to give an answer if she will come or not.

DISCLAIMER: only use this strategy on a girl you suspect will turn you down if you directly invite her over. If you are sure she won’t turn you down, just directly ask her to come and visit you (no need for the hassle in that case).

But there is something you need to do first before you even invite a girl to your house. if you don’t do this one thing then, no matter how hard you try, the girls you desire will always keep giving you flimsy excuse just to avoid not showing up. So what is this one thing?

simple – you need to know what and what to do that will make a girl take interest in you. If a girl is not interested in you, why would she visit you. i explained in details how to create massive interest in girls and make them want you.

If you want more advanced secrets that you can use to get a girl crazy about you, I compiled and packed them all in my eBook, The Bang Rule. In it I explained the easy to use effective secrets that most players you know use to effortlessly get the girls they like to like them back. For details on how to get the eBook; Dm 08145371017

Hey bro…

You are special, you know it. You are a blessing to women, and you know it.

So how dare a girl reject you? How dare her say she doesn’t feel anything for you?

Now, stay with me.

The biggest problem most Nigerian guys face in their love life is when they walk up to a girl, tell the girl how they feel about her and the girl out rightly rejects him. It is painful.

As in, the girl looks you in the face and tells you that she can’t date you. That she doesn’t feel anything for you. Sometimes the polite ones would lie to you that they have a boyfriend, just to put you off.

The wicked ones will give you hope then allow you to spend on her and her friends before calling you up one day to tell you she can’t continue with you.

In Fact; there is one sentence a girl uses when she wants to play hard to get and that sentence is: “I will think about it”. When a girl gives you that line, her hard to get mode is on.

You tell her how you like her and how you would want to date her and, bam, she tells you she will think about it. Then the next thing she does is to start avoiding you.

If you’ve experienced this in the past or is going through it now, I’m about to show you, right away, what causes a girl to play hard to get and how you can avoid it and make sure a girl finds you irrestible.

Let’s take it one by one:

THE MAJOR REASON WHY A GIRL WILL PLAY HARD TO GET

See, I want you to really really understand what I’m about to show you. So I will show you an illustration. Just to make it clear to you.

Stay with me, this is important.

Now, imagine you are interested in buying a land from a man.

So you walk up to the man and say: “Hey, I like that land your are selling. You are selling it for 2 million naira. I have 3 million naira for the land but I will try and get you to sell it to me for 1.5 million naira”

What do you think would happen? Think about it.

Very simple, you will never get that land at 1.5 million naira. In Fact; the man would probably increase the price.

Why?

Because he already knows what you are thinking.

Now. Case two; Let us assume it happens the other way round, you walk up to the same man and you don’t tell him how much you have; you just start negotiating the price to beat it down to 1.5 million naira

Consider the two cases and you will agree with me that the chances of getting that land at the price you want is higher in the second case

HOW DOES THIS APPLY TO THAT GIRL WHO IS PLAYING HARD TO GET FOR YOU?

If you are smart then you already get it. But I will explain.

Stay with me.

When you meet a girl, she doesn’t know zip about you. She doesn’t know you, she doesn’t feel anything for you. Somehow, some really “jonsing” guys feel that the best way to get the girl to like them is to just tell them how they feel and ask them to date him. Hoping that, somehow somehow, the girl will feel the same way…

…Just because he told her how he feels about her.

Just think about it, does it make sense?

It is like showing the games and cards you have to an opponent when playing Whot (bridge). It is dangerous to the outcome of your game.

Why?

Because girls are trained to play hard to get, they are trained to never give in to a guy easily. If they give in easily to you they will feel cheap. So when she knows you are interested in her, she will shut down and lock up her feelings for you – it is a natural reaction. Then the shakara will start. Then she tells you she will “think about it”, so you can put more effort.

When this shakara starts, the natural reaction is for the guy to start chasing the girl. To try to get the girl to like him by all means…

And that is where the mistake starts;

Yo start trying hard to impress the girl. I mean, that is the same thing you see in the movies, right. Movies seem to paint that girls fall for guys who worship them and go crazy about them.

So you go crazy about her, you show her how bad you love her by Buying her things, calling her up regularly, always telling her you love her (even though she never says she likes you, talk more of loving you), you keep asking her weather she loves you, you keep asking her why she doesn’t love you, you almost beg her to return the feeling you have for her.

I WILL GIVE YOU ONE SECRET:

All these things will kill every single chance you have with that girl. Just think back to everybody who has ever tried hard to impress you, as in, really hard to impress you – chances are that, although you liked the attention, you never took that person as an equal.

A girl you do all those things to will never take you as an equal. You have to approach a girl like she is your equal and not a goddess to be worshipped.

A girl will never feel attracted to a guy she has absolute control over. A girl wants a man. Someone who is in charge of the relationship. A girl doesn’t want a worshipper – she wants a real man and not a guy who allows her take charge of the relationship

I will also tell you another secret; telling a girl that you like her before she feels anything for you RARELY works. It is the main reason most girls have been turning you down. You are showing her what you think before she gets to think the same thing.

I know what you are thinking.

You are wondering how you can get a girl to like you when you don’t make your intention known to her, right?

THE RIGHT WAY TO WOO A GIRL

The right way to woo a girl, funny enough, always stare right at us when we watch American movies. A guy and a girl meet, they get to know themselves – they kiss, then before the “I love you” talk.

Understand the process.

The correct step is; meet a girl, make her fall for you first before you show her that you are interested in her. A girl will find it harder to reject a guy she already likes than a girl she doesn’t like already. if you show her you are interested first before making her fall for you then you are making a big mistake.

So how can you get a girl to fall for you, how can you get her to feel some form of interest in you?; it is super easy (trust me) – you can achieve this by reading all my articles here on this website and using the strategies in them – I exposed some powerful secrets in most of them.

If you want more advanced secrets that you can use to get a girl crazy about you, I compiled and packed them all in my eBook, The Bang Rule. In it I explained the easy to use effective secrets that most players you know use to effortlessly get the girls they like to like them back. For details on how to get the eBook; Dm 08145371017

Some days ago I saw this girl at the mall; very pretty girl. She was holding her phone close to her eyes & the smile on her face was something else – as in, the smile was so broad I was scared her face was going to tear.

At a point in time, she threw back her head and laughed so loud then texted something on her phone and waited.
She laughed again, after she got a reply, and this time it was louder than the previous one. She kept laughing in this way, on and on and on. It was really sweet. And I was damn sure she was getting those texts from a guy.

Now here is the thing.

Girls chat all the time. Infact, they love it. And over the years it has increasingly become a shortcut to many girl’s heart.

But there are two types of guys – the guys that CAN make a girl laugh like this through texts (chats) and the ones that CAN’T

I will show you how to be the guy that uses texts(chats) to make a girl laugh. This tips I will show you will make a girl find you more appealing and interesting than other guys.

Come with me…

You see, getting a girl interested in you using chats can be super duper easy. Only if you know how.

The Number one cardinal rule of interesting chats is this; Never ever ask her strings of questions. It’s boring, very boring:

For instance; never do this –

GUY: How was your day.

GIRL: Fine.

GUY: Did you go out today.

GIRL: Yes

GUY: Where did you go today?

Never ever chat this way…it is making her see you as a nuisance. And you are too special to be seen that way. Keep on chatting this way with a girl and she start will start avoiding both you and your text.

So what is the best way to chat “interestingly?”

ONE STRATEGY THAT ALWAYS WORKS IS THIS: Be Funny, fun and witty as crazy.

See eh, the right way to chat with a girl is to bring fun into it. And how do you do this. There are three ways you can use to appear funnier during chats. What I’m about to show you is the almighty formula of being funny both during chats and in real life.

Here they are

– 1. Making possessive jokes

– 2. Turning what she says and PLAYFULLY making it look like she is wooing you..

I will take each of them and give you examples; come with me….

#1: TURNING WHAT SHE SAYS AND PLAYFULLY MAKING IT LOOK LIKE SHE IS WOOING YOU:

The heading is self explanatory, right?

But just in case you’ve not gotten it yet, here are practical examples on how to do it.

Let’s assume a girl puts up a profile picture on Bbm, you could send her something like:

YOU: “I dodge it joor, that picture will not work on me. I refuse to fall in love with you”.

HER: “Lol. What do you mean (or something else like that).”

YOU: “Now she is sending me love letters *tongue out* I’m married joor. Don’t destroy my marriage.”

You get the gist abi, turn the table around and make it look like she is chasing you.

Here are more examples

HER: “What do you do for a living?”

YOU: “Okay na, she wants to find out if I’m a boyfriend material. Sha, I work in a professional boyfriend company. *smiley face* You?”

Another example:

HER: “Hi.”

YOU: “*smiling icon* I won’t reply your messages now. I need to play hard to get. Send me another message in the next 20 years.”

Hope you are getting it?

This style of chatting makes you appear incredibly interesting. The reason why it works so well is that MOST guys don’t chat this way and when a girl meets a guy who does, she finds him DIFFERENT. Plus chatting this way is not boring and that releases all the chemicals in a girl’s brain that makes her view you as someone who has an attractive personality.

This is just plain elementary psychology.

Now, let’s check out strategy 2.

#2. MAKING POSSESIVE JOKES:

This strategy involves chatting with a girl like she is your wife. As in chatting with her like you two already have something going on between you two.

Very quickly, let me give you some examples of possessive jokes.

1. “Hey baby, how is our baby. Hope you are taking care of her. make sure you breastfeed her enough, I don’t want story.”

2. “I’m thinking of you having either 14 sons or 16 sons for me. How many can you handle?”

3. “Mehn, I want a divorce. You are not being a good wife again.”

4. “Leave that boy and come and date me while the offer lasts. After two days I will change my mind.”

5. “I heard Blackberry Passport is out. I want that for valentine, don’t go and buy me singlet and boxers”

You get it, right?
Occasionally drop husband jokes on her and let the jokes be possessive in a playfully way.

Here are more examples:

You could send her a night gown picture you downloaded online then say something like>

“I want to see you on that when I return. If you wear something else I will start cheating on you”

Now, think up yours…

WARNING

Don’t overdo these two strategies. The way to use it is to drop it from time to time and then reverse to having a normal conversation (I explained how to have a normal flowing conversation with girls in The he Bang Rule).

If you overdo it you will start appearing like a clown and that’s not good. (You wouldn’t want that, trust me). And while you are using these strategies, be relaxed. Use it like you are having fun.

Don’t try hard to be funny or fun. It will show and it will make the girl you are communicating with to see you as someone who needs her attention so bad.

INFACT, don’t just go and start using the chatting strategies I explained in this article. Before you start using it, you need to learn THE BASICS of creating interests in girls.

And that is where my Ebook comes in it. In it, I explained what to do and what not to do when it comes to making a girl interested in you.

To order for the ebook today; send a dm to 08145371017

ONE “MENTALITY” THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAVE FLOWING CONVERSATIONS WITH GIRLS.

Brace yourself because I’m about to show you a really powerful secret.

If you’ve already read my eBook “THE BANG RULE”, or you’ve been following my articles, then by now you already how easy it is to start up conversations with girls who are complete strangers (If you haven’t read the ebook yet call 08145371017 and ask my sales manager, to send you details on how to buy the ebook today).

You see, starting up a conversation is one thing and having a conversation flow well is a different thing all together.

I’m sure you already know what I’m talking about if you’ve been in a situation where you are talking with this girl and all of a sudden, bam, you go blank…

It happens and it can be very very very embarrassing. Sometimes the silence is so awkward that you feel like hiding your face.

Don’t worry, I’m here to show you how to put a stop to it.

Here is the thing; there is one way to keep a conversation flowing. Infact, this solution I’m about to give you would sound so simple that you might end up feeling “it’s too simple to work”

But the thing is; it works – trust me.

Here it is.

FIX YOUR MENTALITY.

Now come with me:

THE MENTALITY THAT WILL SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM.

This is very very important. No matter the tips I give you right here, if you don’t have this mentality I’m about to show you now then you will never have flowing conversation with girls.

So what mentality is it?

Here it is; How a conversation turns out doesn’t matter.

What do I mean.

Here is what I mean. Don’t worry too much about having a flowing conversation. Because you are worried about having a flowing conversation is the reason why you are not having a flowing conversation.

Don’t you get it?

I mean, think about it. When you are with your male friends, you are funny, you joke around them – the conversation flows. They love you. But when it comes to a girl, bam, you start getting tongue tied.

Why is this?

This is because, with your male friends – you don’t worry about having a flowing conversation and, as a result, you are relaxed. But when it comes to girls, because you are worried about what to say and what not to say, your brain shuts down.

So here is the thing; bro – talk to her like you talk to “your guys”.

Stop thinking of the next things to say. Focus on her, let what she says lead you to what next you will say.

When you start getting tongue tied, pause and ask yourself: “How I dey take talk to my guys”. Then when you get the picture, talk to her in that way.

It won’t chase her away, no fear. It will make her so attracted to you that you will get freaked out at how well it works.

I really want you to get this, if you really really get what I’m trying to tell you then you will never ever get tongue tied with a lady again.

Think about it; when you are with your men – you yab them when they do things you don’t like. You talk to them without fear of repercussion, you are more into enjoying the conversation than in trying to impress the girl. You joke, you jonse them, you ENJOY THE CONVERSATION.

You are not worried about having a flowing conversation. You just talk and enjoy yourself.

See, if a girl is always giving you one line – bone am, she is not worth your time. If you are with such a girl who is always giving you one lines when you are talking with her, leave her. It’s not your fault she is so boring. Tell her how boring she is and move on.

Here is the bottom line; if you can talk and behave the same way you behave around your friends with girls they would so so love hanging around you. Yes, it would be hard at first but with time you will become good at it.

When you are with a girl, the formular is to ask yourself: “How do I talk to my best friends”. When you bring the picture up in your head, start behaving and talking to her in that way…it’s that simple.

For more advanced tricks to use in communicating with girls so you can flow freely when talking with them and make them really love you; then you have to get my ebook today. In it I exposed some pretty cool secrets you can use right away to get the girl of your dreams interested in you. For more details about the ebook; click this link – /bang-rule.

PS: Here is what I want you to do, if there is something else about this particular topic that you want me to expand on, drop it in the comment box below and I might create my next blog post based on your question.



PSS: If you want to learn extremely powerful ways of talking to girls that will make them like you like crazy, get my eBook and read pages 55 to 61. For more on what you will learn in the ebook and how to get it send a dm to 08145371017

Hair salons are very dangerous. As in, female hair salons. they are one of the most dangerous places a guy can ever enter.

Why?

Because what girls say in hair saloons can kill a guy’s confidence gan.

How?

In hair salons, after hearing single girls analyses guys who are asking them out, you will come out covering your face on behalf of most single men
out there.

First, the conversation will start with a general discussion about guys…

…then they will narrow it down to the horribly annoying things guys do, gradually they will tear guys up and spit out how foolish and desperate for love some guys are. As she talks about the “mumu-ness” of the guy who is asking him out, all her friends will throw back their heads and laugh.

It is an ugly experience if you watch girls talk about a guy in this way, some babes get bad mouth die abeg…and my mission is to make sure no babe ever takes a guy i come in contact with for granted.

Here is the hard truth.

IT IS POSSIBLE THAT A GIRL YOU ARE ASKING OUT, NOW OR IN THE PAST, HAVE LAUGHED AT YOU WITH HER FRIENDS.

But chill, what i am about to show you right now will make sure that a girl never laughs at you behind your back when you show interest in her.

My hope is that after learning this, you will use it and change how you interact with girls.

Now, let’s begin…

1. FOR GIRLS, FRIENDSHIP AND ROMANCE ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.

Most dudes don’t get this.

Baba, because she is opening teeth for you and throwing you 360 degrees hugs every time does not mean she is attracted to you in a romantic way.

For girls a friend is different from a boyfriend. and when a girl starts seeing you as a friend IT WILL BE RARE for her to see you as a boyfriend – ever again (Go and ask any girl).

Some days back i read an article where some dude was advising guys that the best way to make a girl like you is to go to her and become her friend and with time she will start liking you…

I read the article and laughed, as in, threw back my head and laughed.

In might work in hollywood but try it in real life and you MIGHT end up in friend zone quarters till you grow white bear-bear. You need to do something else – something else that always works all the time.

You see, girls classify guys into two when they meet them; it is either they place you as someone they can date or they place you as someone they can never date.

If she places you as someone she can not date, when you ask out let me show you what will happen…

– First she will be shocked that you’ve even asked asked out in the first place (You that she saw as a “brother”wink
– Then she will beg you that you two should just remain friends
– Then she will start ignoring you.

In that order.

Now, you might be asking yourself the following questions…

One; How or why does a girl decide to date one guy and decides not to date another guy?
Two; why is it difficult for girls to date a guy they have been just friends with for a long time?
Three; How do i make sure that a girl sees me as someone she wants to date?
You see, what makes a girl decide that a guy is “date-able” is the way that guy makes her FEEL.

For a girl to see you as a boyfriend material you have to give her two major feelings:

– An emotional feeling
and
– A Physical feeling.

Let me explain the two.

First; The emotional feeling: You see, when a girl likes a guy she looks forward to his calls, she looks forward to his visits and whenever she sees him with another girl jealousy go won kill am. But if she is not interested in you, she won’t give a damn.

On the other hand, a girl would have physical feelings for that same guy. As in, she would think about kissing him and in some other cases she will even go as far as thinking about having intimacies with this guy.

But for “Just A friend”, girls find it hard to EVEN IMAGINE kissing him (Ask any girl). But as a guy, if a female friend who is a just a friend pulls her clothes and hugs you – you go hug am back; straight.

Lets look at the other way round – If a guy pulls his clothes and moves towards a female friend who has no physical feeling for him; she go take off.

Now. Pause.

Let’s take this gradually now. I want you to really really get this.

Most Guys think it takes just luck to make a girl have an emotional and physical feelings for you. In fact, i used to think so too. I used to think that it is either a girl likes you or she doesn’t – and that there was nothing you can do about it.

Until i learnt it is actually possible to deliberately make a girl’s heart beat fast whenever she sets eyes on you. It is very possible to make a girl UNCONTROLLABLY fall for you against her own will (LOL, i know most people will try to argue this with me. Before you attack it, Just chill first till i’m done).

I’m sure you’ve seen a guy who is so good with girls that girls themselves fear him. he is able to date two friends at the same time, take other people’s girlfriend, make girls fight for him and yet you look at him and you wonder what the heck girls see in him.

You’ve seen such guys abi?

They call them “players”. The reason why they are that good with girls is because they know SOME THINGS about girls that MOST guys will never know all their life. And those things they (the players) know is what i packaged in my ebook THE BANG RULE. Learn these secrets and you too can get the same result this dudes get with girls. To get the ebook send me a DM on 08145371017.

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You have a business and your business is not doing well it is because of APC.

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A stands for Audience knowledge.

P stands for product knowledge.

C stands for communication language.

You need to know your audience.

You need to know the product you are selling.

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When this Three things align you will blow

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Right here in this post, I am going to take you by the hand and show you what you need to do to become a guy that attracts women like magnet. If you follow this instructions I am about to show you, women will fall over you and practically go crazy about you.

Now come with me.

You see; there is one big deadly mistake guys make with women. When a guy likes a girl, what he does is to turn into a puppy.

You know what a puppy does? When a puppy sees it’s master that puppy starts to wiggle it’s tail. The puppy jumps up. The puppy barks. The puppy jumps over things.



AND WHY DOES THE PUPPY DO ALL THIS?

…just to impress the master.

And that is exactly the same thing most guys do when they meet a woman they really like. A girl asks them for money; zoom – they rush to the bank and donate it to her. when they want to ask a girl out; they beg her. They call her everyday. They try to impress, they try not to offend her.

Just like a damn puppy (as in, when I see a guy acting like this – I feel the urge to throw him a loud slap)



DUDE, WHEN YOU ACT LIKE A PUPPY – IT NEVER WORKS

Yes, brother.

It doesn’t. Simple. When you try too hard to impress a girl she will sense it, and when she senses you are trying too hard to impress her it won’t make her like you. in Fact, it would make her hate you.

It would make her hate real bad. She doesn’t do this consciously. It is the way their brains are wired.

This is why all those girls you’ve ever worshiped treated you like trash. By acting like a puppy, you showed her that she can control you. and girls never ever ever feel a STRONG ATTRACTION for guys they can control. When they come across a guy they can control, what they start thinking is – “How can I take advantage of this guy?”. That is how guys turn “maga”.

Be rich, be famous – it might get women to notice you. But when they come closer and find out you are just a rich puppy; they will either take money from you and give another dude they feel REAL attraction to. Or they will just dump your ass and move on.

To make women find you irrepressible; you need to be the opposite of a puppy



AND WHAT IS THE OPPOSITE OF A PUPPY

Women don’t fall for puppies. They fall for a different kind of man. In fact, I have a name for that kind of man; I call it “THE FUNNY BOSS”



WHAT DOES A FUNNY BOSS DO?

One thing women find attractive in a man is control. They will love you if you are in control. And what does it mean to be a man in control?

It means a man that doesn’t lose his head when he goes after a woman. A man that doesn’t chase after a woman like his life depends on it. Brother; it means a man that does not beg for a woman’s love. A man that doesn’t try too hard to impress a woman just to get her attention.

And while he is doing this; he is still funny.

Let me explain more by giving you the ten commandments of a funny boss.



THE TWELVE COMMANDMENTS OF A FUNNY BOSS

#1. Never beg a woman to date you. If you do, she will hate you and take you less seriously. Think about it; if a girl walks up to you and start begging you to notice her – you will never take her seriously. It is the same thing that happens when you beg a woman to date you

#2. Never try too hard to please a girl. Make her to try and please you (I explained how to do this in my ebook; The Bang Rule)

#3. Always tease a girl. it makes her see you as someone fun to be with, and it also gets them attracted. The best way to tease a girl is by using the JHS method (I Explained what JHS method is in my ebook)

#4. Never let a girl be sure about how you feel about her if you’ve not made her interested in you first (In my ebook, I explained why in one of the pages plus all the things to do that will get a girl’s interest)

#5. Never beg a girl for friendship, by any means.

#6. If a girl doesn’t like you, don’t worry yourself about it. She doesn’t have good tastes. That is the mindset you should have.

#7. If you ask a girl to see you at a certain place and she agrees but doesn’t show up or calls to inform you she is not showing up, call her up and warn her not to try it again. Your time is too valuable to be wasted that way.

#8. Never try hard to impress a lady, you are the boss – she should be the one to impress you.

#9. Don’t beg a girl for sex, ever – she is not doing you a favour.

#10. Never ever tell a girl directly that you love her. It is better to show love by doing surprise lovely things for her. For example, you could surprise her with a gift out of the blues and tell her it is because she has been a good girl. Or you could call her up late in the night, tell her you’ve been thinking about her and then switch off the phone (But only do this after you are sure she is already crazy about you, not before)

#11. Never beg a girl to visit you. If she is not showing taking you s serious as you want, don’t ask her why – don’t even whine about it. Just look for another girl and gradually take your mind off her. You shouldn’t take a girl who doesn’t take you seriously seriously.

#12. NEVER ever tell a girl or show a girl how you feel about her until she is very crazy about you. You will know she is crazy about you when she starts sending you love texts, calling you often and telling you how she feels about you. a boss plays hard to get, sometimes if a girl tries to kiss you – you should not just give in to her, do small shakara – hard to get is not reserved for just girls.



ONE MORE THING

While you are doing all this you should be doing two things;

Number one; you should be avoiding mistakes most other guys make. These mistakes are the reason why girls are not returning your feelings. And I can bet my last kobo that you are making those mistakes right now. In my ebook I exposed all those mistakes. By knowing these mistakes you will not do them. And by not doing them, girls will find you more attractive, and you will get more “yes” from the girls you ask out.

Number two; by knowing what and what to do to make a girl interested in you. I explained all that in my ebook; the Bang Rule.

If you haven’t gotten the ebook yet. You want to get it, send message to 08145371017.

After reading this, you will learn a “dangerously” effective way that you can use to make a girl visit you, even when she suspects you are “up to something” *winks*
But before we dive into that, let me make something clear. All the tips I’m about to show you will not work if you’ve not made a girl interested in you, at least, a bit.

But don’t worry, right here on my website, in my other articles I have explained how to make girls interested in you.

If you’ve been following my articles then continue reading. But if you’ve not, make sure you check out my other write ups after reading this.

In my other articles you will learn some secrets you can use to make a girl interested in you

Now, let’s start…

Shall we?

Getting a girl to visit you is super easy. The problem is that most guys don’t find it so.

You ask a girl to come over and visit you and she turns you down, giving some flimsy excuses. Sometimes she agrees to come over and then turns around to disappoint you.

I’ve been there before, till i learnt how to “trick” my way out of it.

Here is why girls are avoiding your house…

It’s because you are scaring them away.

Don’t worry. Let me explain further.

Firstly, a girl will never visit you if she finds you boring (read my article on “how to talk to girls” to put a stop to being boring).

Secondly, a girl will avoid your house if she notices you are desperate for her visit. Never ever beg a girl to visit you. Never give her the impression that she is doing you a favour by visiting you.

You dey get the gist abi?

As in, Never ever ever make a girl feel you are badly in need for her visit. It scares them like crazy. It gives her this impression that: “he wants sex, that is why he has been begging me to visit”.

The best approach is to make it seem you are inviting her over for something. As in, you have to give her this idea that she is coming over for a reason.

Let me give you an example. Here is one trick that is damn effective

You could call a girl up today, after making her interested in you using all the tips in my eBook, then go like:

“Hey, I want to cook ogbono soup. I need directions abeg. Shebi you can cook it”

Of course she go know. Ask her to give you directions, then make a show of acting as if you are writing the directions down.

She will find this funny and you both will have a good laugh as she gives you the direction over the phone.

After she is done with the directions, thank her and hang up

Then give her like 30 minutes and call her again. Then say something like:

YOU: “Haba na. You give me fake directions na”.

HER: “Lol. How”

YOU: “I just finished cooking the soup, it doesn’t draw. you give me direction for non-drawing ogbono soup? Plus the soup looks funny. It’s red here and brown there”.

If you do this well, it will make her laugh. Go ahead and PLAYFULLY tease her: “Haba, we are beefing o. you for tell you can’t cook ogbono na”. Bla bla bla bla. (If you’ve read my Ebook then you already know how to tease a girl)

When you two are done laughing over the whole thing. Tell her you will call her back and end the call.

Two days later, contact her, tell her you feel like eating ogbono soup the next day. And you wouldn’t want to take a risk again, and that you really need to learn how to cook the soup.

Then invite her over to TEACH YOU. Not to cook it for you (you never can tell if she is a feminist who doesn’t like cooking for guys. Lol). Use the word teach, it’s safer

If you’ve been using the strategies in my eBook on her, she will come.

Hope you got the whole strategy?

Here is the point, directly asking a girl to come and visit you raises the red flag in her head and makes her wonder what you are up to.

When you give her a reason, it makes her relaxed. Also, girls don’t like to feel as if they gave in to a guy’s “temptation”. It makes them feel cheap.

But when you structure your invitation like it’s not a temptation, you make it easier for her to come – even though she knows it might still be a temptation.

Some other “reasons” you can give a girl to come over are:.

– “There is this new action movie I got, come over let’s watch it together. Bring pop corns. I will bring the drinks”

– “Can you play cheese? Come over let me teach you. Make sure you come with note books for note taking”.

Are you getting the pattern here?

One; You are inviting her over with a reason

Two; you are making her see you are not desperate for her visit by playfully giving her conditions for her visit (eg: bring pop corns)

Three; You are sounding as if she will agree to the invitation. As in, you went ahead to ask her to bring pop corns without waiting for her to give an answer if she will come or not.

DISCLAIMER: only use this strategy on a girl you suspect will turn you down if you directly invite her over. If you are sure she won’t turn you down, just directly ask her to come and visit you (no need for the hassle in that case).

But there is something you need to do first before you even invite a girl to your house. if you don’t do this one thing then, no matter how hard you try, the girls you desire will always keep giving you flimsy excuse just to avoid not showing up. So what is this one thing?

simple – you need to know what and what to do that will make a girl take interest in you. If a girl is not interested in you, why would she visit you. i explained in details how to create massive interest in girls and make them want you. to get the ebook today send a dm show interest in the comment section.

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That is because Igbo women are unusually beautiful

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Actually, I thought I was going to marry an Igbo woman because I was so into them and they were into me

But my last short-lived relationship with an Igbo woman changed all that.

That is a story for another day

You see, when I was into Igbo women, it was like this entire Lagos was filled with beautiful women

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They attended to me in banks

If I had to go to the supermarket, the person that attended to me was usually an Igbo woman

And I vividly remember that all the female Pharmacists I met in pharmacies at that time were all young Igbo women

I was reading a book from Brian tracy today where he was talking about how when you REALLY DESIRE something, it tends to show up everywhere you go

The key phrase here is REALLY DESIRE

Not WISH for something

Wishing is what a lot of people do

Wishing is weak

It shows you haven't made a deep decision and commitment about something

What Brian Tracy said also reminds me of when I wanted to buy a red Jeep wrangler some years back

All of a sudden, it was as if red Jeep wranglers suddenly started filling Lagos roads

The lesson here is this:

When you DEEPLY DESIRE success or prosperity...when you are really into it...

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It is just like how it looked like the entire Lagos was filled Igbo women when I was really into them

The same thing happens with scarcity based thoughts

Unfortunately, this is the default settings for most people

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