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How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by imampope(m): 7:34pm On Mar 20
After reading this, you will learn a “dangerously” effective way that you can use to make a girl visit you, even when she suspects you are “up to something” *winks*
But before we dive into that, let me make something clear. All the tips I’m about to show you will not work if you’ve not made a girl interested in you, at least, a bit.

But don’t worry, right here on my website, in my other articles I have explained how to make girls interested in you.

If you’ve been following my articles then continue reading. But if you’ve not, make sure you check out my other write ups after reading this.

In my other articles you will learn some secrets you can use to make a girl interested in you

Now, let’s start…

Shall we?

Getting a girl to visit you is super easy. The problem is that most guys don’t find it so.

You ask a girl to come over and visit you and she turns you down, giving some flimsy excuses. Sometimes she agrees to come over and then turns around to disappoint you.

I’ve been there before, till i learnt how to “trick” my way out of it.

Here is why girls are avoiding your house…

It’s because you are scaring them away.

Don’t worry. Let me explain further.

Firstly, a girl will never visit you if she finds you boring (read my article on “how to talk to girls” to put a stop to being boring).

Secondly, a girl will avoid your house if she notices you are desperate for her visit. Never ever beg a girl to visit you. Never give her the impression that she is doing you a favour by visiting you.

You dey get the gist abi?

As in, Never ever ever make a girl feel you are badly in need for her visit. It scares them like crazy. It gives her this impression that: “he wants sex, that is why he has been begging me to visit”.

The best approach is to make it seem you are inviting her over for something. As in, you have to give her this idea that she is coming over for a reason.

Let me give you an example. Here is one trick that is damn effective

You could call a girl up today, after making her interested in you using all the tips in my eBook, then go like:

“Hey, I want to cook ogbono soup. I need directions abeg. Shebi you can cook it”

Of course she go know. Ask her to give you directions, then make a show of acting as if you are writing the directions down.

She will find this funny and you both will have a good laugh as she gives you the direction over the phone.

After she is done with the directions, thank her and hang up

Then give her like 30 minutes and call her again. Then say something like:

YOU: “Haba na. You give me fake directions na”.

HER: “Lol. How”

YOU: “I just finished cooking the soup, it doesn’t draw. you give me direction for non-drawing ogbono soup? Plus the soup looks funny. It’s red here and brown there”.

If you do this well, it will make her laugh. Go ahead and PLAYFULLY tease her: “Haba, we are beefing o. you for tell you can’t cook ogbono na”. Bla bla bla bla. (If you’ve read my Ebook then you already know how to tease a girl)

When you two are done laughing over the whole thing. Tell her you will call her back and end the call.

Two days later, contact her, tell her you feel like eating ogbono soup the next day. And you wouldn’t want to take a risk again, and that you really need to learn how to cook the soup.

Then invite her over to TEACH YOU. Not to cook it for you (you never can tell if she is a feminist who doesn’t like cooking for guys. Lol). Use the word teach, it’s safer

If you’ve been using the strategies in my eBook on her, she will come.

Hope you got the whole strategy?

Here is the point, directly asking a girl to come and visit you raises the red flag in her head and makes her wonder what you are up to.

When you give her a reason, it makes her relaxed. Also, girls don’t like to feel as if they gave in to a guy’s “temptation”. It makes them feel cheap.

But when you structure your invitation like it’s not a temptation, you make it easier for her to come – even though she knows it might still be a temptation.

Some other “reasons” you can give a girl to come over are:.

– “There is this new action movie I got, come over let’s watch it together. Bring pop corns. I will bring the drinks”

– “Can you play cheese? Come over let me teach you. Make sure you come with note books for note taking”.

Are you getting the pattern here?

One; You are inviting her over with a reason

Two; you are making her see you are not desperate for her visit by playfully giving her conditions for her visit (eg: bring pop corns)

Three; You are sounding as if she will agree to the invitation. As in, you went ahead to ask her to bring pop corns without waiting for her to give an answer if she will come or not.

DISCLAIMER: only use this strategy on a girl you suspect will turn you down if you directly invite her over. If you are sure she won’t turn you down, just directly ask her to come and visit you (no need for the hassle in that case).

But there is something you need to do first before you even invite a girl to your house. if you don’t do this one thing then, no matter how hard you try, the girls you desire will always keep giving you flimsy excuse just to avoid not showing up. So what is this one thing?

simple – you need to know what and what to do that will make a girl take interest in you. If a girl is not interested in you, why would she visit you. i explained in details how to create massive interest in girls and make them want you. to get the ebook today send a dm show interest in the comment section.

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by IamAtAnger: 7:40pm On Mar 20
All these na stress and long story jaare... juz have money that's all

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by illicit(m): 7:55pm On Mar 20
Make nobody visit me abeg

I no sick


I dey well

🥴

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by tochez24(m): 8:12pm On Mar 20
illicit:
Make nobody visit me abeg


🥴


Lol 😂

So Op really meant that guys should go through all these for loose Nigerian girls😆😆

Make nobody visit anybody abeg my brother 😕

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by Ballzproblem2: 8:13pm On Mar 20
ain't reading shit

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by Panda7(m): 1:24am On Mar 21
Op is Childish, visit you for what exactly? maybe you really need unwanted pregnancy or infection or you are just obsessed with your indoors

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by SlqTV(m): 4:44am On Mar 21
Money could've save you this stress

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by Gadafii: 6:10am On Mar 21
All these ones na olden days tricks


If a girl knows you are doing well for yourself, living alone, house is furnished and equipped, you may not even need to invite her or play all this tricks to have her around


Money has made a lot of things easy, Infact almost everything. Make that money and it will do the rest of the work for you. Not that you are going to promise her money and all. But there is this aura and confidence that comes with money that attracts everyone to you. You believe nothing can go wrong and if anything goes wrong so be it, you take certain risk that you wouldn’t ordinarily take


Instead of spending four days to trick a girl just to visi, why not go straight to the point, “it’s been boring the past two days, done watching all the series I know and the food sef don tire me, come around in the evening or tomorrow let’s kill boredom together “

A broke guy can’t use that approach reason why you should escape brokenness first and leave girls matter alone..when you are out of that brokenness you will have several options of girls, if one decline, there are three more to invite 😜😜

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by dkidd: 6:50am On Mar 21
Another novice forming King Kong... U don't even need to ask a girl to visit ur house are u in secondary school? Look sharp always, feel good about urself, treat her nice, take her out and make her feel very special always.... Either she takes u home or follows u home. All these long secondary school games ur writing will fail in today's world.

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by Vintage9999: 7:10am On Mar 21
IamAtAnger:
All these na stress and long story jaare... juz have money that's all
this "just have money" that yall usually say irks me. There are some girls that still won't come to ur house despite the money you think u have, there are some that won't still Bleep you despite your so called money. Have game, so that you don't lead with money when it comes to matters of seduction.
Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by IamAtAnger: 7:26am On Mar 21
Story.... money gives u various options and choices oga. When u no get money u have limited or no option
Vintage9999:
this "just have money" that yall usually say irks me. There are some girls that still won't come to ur house despite the money you think u have, there are some that won't still Bleep you despite your so called money. Have game, so that you don't lead with money when it comes to matters of seduction.

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by KingEarnest(m): 8:40am On Mar 21
Vintage9999:
this "just have money" that yall usually say irks me. There are some girls that still won't come to ur house despite the money you think u have, there are some that won't still Bleep you despite your so called money. Have game, so that you don't lead with money when it comes to matters of seduction.
Not only you; it irritates me.
A girl refuses to visit you: Nigerian guys, "Make money!"

A girl doesn't like you: Nigerian guys, "Make money!"

You are not confident and have low self-esteem: Nigerian guys, "Make money!"

You don't have sense: Nigerian guys, "Make money!"

it is really irritating.

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by Nicepoker(m): 9:18am On Mar 21
You want to invite a hungry Nigerian girl to your house? grin
Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by TrustNone: 9:20am On Mar 21
Gadafii:
All these ones na olden days tricks


If a girl knows you are doing well for yourself, living alone, house is furnished and equipped, you may not even need to invite her or play all this tricks to have her around


Money has made a lot of things easy, Infact almost everything. Make that money and it will do the rest of the work for you. Not that you are going to promise her money and all. But there is this aura and confidence that comes with money that attracts everyone to you. You believe nothing can go wrong and if anything goes wrong so be it, you take certain risk that you wouldn’t ordinarily take


Instead of spending four days to trick a girl just to visi, why not go straight to the point, “it’s been boring the past two days, done watching all the series I know and the food sef don tire me, come around in the evening or tomorrow let’s kill boredom together “

A broke guy can’t use that approach reason why you should escape brokenness first and leave girls matter alone..when you are out of that brokenness you will have several options of girls, if one decline, there are three more to invite 😜😜
grin grin grin
Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by Vintage9999: 11:39am On Mar 21
KingEarnest:
Not only you; it irritates me.
A girl refuses to visit you: Nigerian guys, "Make money!"

A girl doesn't like you: Nigerian guys, "Make money!"

You are not confident and have low self-esteem: Nigerian guys, "Make money!"

You don't have sense: Nigerian guys, "Make money!"

it is really irritating.
I just tire bros. Thought it was just me

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by Vintage9999: 11:49am On Mar 21
IamAtAnger:
Story.... money gives u various options and choices oga. When u no get money u have limited or no option
I never said it doesn't. Just don't put it in the forefront of your interactions with women. Develop other aspects of yourself as well, so that you don't just depend solely on it to attract women.
Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by IamAtAnger: 12:11pm On Mar 21
And where did I mentioned u shud put money first wen interracting with woman?... my point is u shud juz have money, I'm not saying u must have millions in it account either.. u cant be broke to attract any woman not especially in this naija. So having money with u saves u from lots of unnecessary stress.
Vintage9999:
I never said it doesn't. Just don't put it in the forefront of your interactions with women. Develop other aspects of yourself as well, so that you don't just depend solely on it to attract women.
Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by Omoawoke: 1:11pm On Mar 21
IamAtAnger:
All these na stress and long story jaare... juz have money that's all

😂. The thing tire me…

There’s a stage u will get to, girls will be the one saying, this one you didn’t even remember me. Na wa o..

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