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tuzle:
Imaging being at the top when the fire started. I have always thought of this. The people above have no hope of survival sha. People that know about skycrappers, what medium do they put in place for people above? Like what safety measures are there in a case of extreme fire outbreak like this?

There is a helipad for these type of incidents

DontBullshitMe:
5 X 10 equals 50. That's her exact body count.

No woman will reveal her exact body count. None. When you ask them, they usually divide the correct answer by 10.

If the opportunity arises, she will gladly have intimate relations with all of those men.


Get a Divorce. Virginity is a deal-breaker for you. It's not something to be ashamed of.

Thank you, but I'll stick to her for now and see if she wouldn't cheat with one of her exes like what I've been reading concerning non virgins here

NoToPile:
Your bolded makes me laugh, to what end? Think of it you kept yourself till you married only to get married and start adultery? Something you didn't do when single and why?
Because you assumed your wife was a virgin and you found out she's not.


Also thinking of divorce beacause of the matter? Nope there was no deception, you assumed.

If that information mattered greatly to you, you would have asked some questions, never ever assume anything.

Anyway all that is on the past and you are married, you love her as you said right continue as it had been before that information, don't let this cause a big friction between you guys, your marriage is still young.


Wish you the best. Happy married life.

Thank you for your wishes

mployer:
men don't loose virginity, it doesn't apply to men, they don't have hymen.

I conquered the women territory at age 19.

I dealt with the bulshit you are dealing with now that early in life. You are just a slow pathetic looser.

Well, congratulations on getting your trophy of conquering territories

goodamerican:
OP, I can understand your disappointment. You wanted to marry a virgin like yourself and wanted your first time to happen with each other. I get it. You should've asked before marriage, especially when you were getting serious, but I understand you didn't because you had assumed she was one since she's a pastors daughter. Anyways, if she has all the other qualities you want in a woman, continue the marriage. Don't make this an issue. Happy married life.



I believe it's feasible for some men and he should be proud of himself. There are men who remain virgins up until their late 20s and even 30s, the same way there are some women who are still virgins. We exist - there's nothing unfeasible or impossible about it.

Thank you for your kind words.

mployer:
Virgin at 29, you are looser, you deserve what you get.

I still don't believe your story.

So, being a virgin at 29 is a sign of one being a looser? Are you jealous you lost yours very early or what?

Abduljohn:
My Brother, you will surely get over this, I know how you feel but this is your wife not your girlfriend. Just as you were able to love her at first sight love her again with her fault. Get prepared for more surprises to unfold but know this is marriage and it is for better for worse. It is not easy but I believe you can do it. God bless your marriage

Amen, thank you

nifemi25:
Bro to be sincere with you that is your own cross . You just have to carry it and move on. Even Jesus carry his own personally and no one assisted him.... every marriages has his own obstacles... no perfect relationship... am sure you will be happy if she had lied to you about her sex life... for her to tell you the truth, that means she is really sincere to you... I can assure you if you loose her simply because of her past you will definitely fall for someone that her past is worst than your current wife ... move on life continues

Thank you for this. I'll have to apologize to her for my changed attitude the past week when I get home.

IamDietiesGod:
I feel your emotions brother. But you guys Court or date now, didn't you?. You should have known this fact during courtship.

I never pried into such details as I consider it sinful to discuss such things.

Righteousness2:
See her for what she is Presently. She is your newly wedded wife . She is now your own.

I will pray over it so that I can forget whatever she told me that day

Totilopussylick:
Is how you feel.

But in a short period of time, you'll get over it.

I pray so

mployer:
I don't believe your story anyway.

A virgin man at 29 is not that feasible and not even something to be proud of.

No woman is ever excited to talk about her body count.

You losing your virginity at an early age, doesn't mean others don't keep theirs. You just need to control your urge.

In my case, I've always avoided relationship with women and so, my wife is my first love

Totilopussylick:
Carry your cross on your shoulders and move on with your marriage

How can I move on when I don't feel an affection for her like I use to?

Righteousness2:
My Friend, Marriage is not a 2 week affair or where you enter and jump out anyhow u want.
It's a lifetime commitment.

Also being a pastor, Prophetborb bishop's son or daughter does not make one a saint.

As long as you have said I do, you have to blank your mind from all that talk and feelings and love your wife.

How can I love her back like the way I used to?

Good evening everyone, I had to create an account and put this out in order to get this out of my chest.

I got married to my pastor's daughter last 2 weeks ago and right now, all I think of is to divorce her as I can't lie to myself that I'll continue with the marriage.

Here's the issue:

All through my life, I've always been a virgin due to the fact that I'm a very religious person.

I finally got to wed the love of my life 2 weeks ago. We had met at a friend's wedding and it was like love at first sight for the both of us.

She is the perfect woman and has all the qualities I had always imagined In a woman.

After our wedding 2 weeks ago, I got to have our first time 4days after the wedding.

Even though it was my first time, it just didn't feel right to me (I've had people discuss about virgins having tight virgina, and the hymen being broken, etc.).

And so, I jokingly asked my wife who her first was (I wish I never did).

She got a little bit excited and told how she started having sex at 13 while she was in SS1 with one of her senior in SS3.

She also told me how she had 3 boyfriends in the university and also about her ex in her former place of work.

In all, she had 5 body counts. she asked me about my sexual experience too and which I told her that I'm a virgin, and she was my first.

She got silent and the environment was a bit quite. Well, we were like that until sleep drifted us both to sleep.

Ever since then, my love for her has dwindled.

I have always have respect for this girl and right now, I feel cheated.

Agreed, I never discussed anything about her being a virgin or not. I just assumed she was since she's my pastor's daughter.

Right now, I can't divorce her because I feel like it will seem like I'm disrespecting her dad, who is my pastor.

And also, I feel like I should cheat outside my marriage and have fun just like she did in her youthful years so that we can be even.

I am 29 while my wife in question will be 26 next month.

I'm I being childish? Or will I get over it?

Anytime I look at her, I always look at her with some disgusted look on my face.

I wish I never asked her about her past in the first place and I wish I could just erase the memory of her past in my head.