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Someodds:
You're the illiterate here bruh. Calling someone who can read and write "illiterate"

Illiterate is not just about reading and writing. If we're seeing an American movie together, she barely hear them

flakkybakky:
Age shouldn't be a problem if she doesn't look it

People that have 'spiritual' eyes say she looks it. Infact one doctor advised me to go for Fertility Test like Pelvic Scan due to Fibroids growth dat hinders fertility

Truvelisback:
I will proudly have her as my First lady. U may be educated but u sound immature. She may not be an educated person but she is a learned person.

Hmmmm ok o

shaybebaby:
And with all your exposure, you didn't know that CITIZENSHIP BY BIRTH stopped in the UK in the early 1980's.

Birth CERTIFICATE nko?
Thanks alot sha

Teripaul:
Use ur tongue to count ur teeths. . .

I don't want to sseek advise from my family cos I don't want my siblings to disrespect her in future incase we got married

mastermaestro:
Selfish you! Hey, in most stable marriages, check carefully, there is always only one brainy partner (the wife or the husband). What even stops you from assisting your kids with their assignments?
Let me tell you, two equally brilliant people can hardly stay in marriage peacefully. Research what I just told you.

She needs a little brushing. Leave academic papers aside. You should be her tutor. Since she loves you, she will learn things quickly from you. Stop trying to force her back to some school. That's where you will hit a brick wall. Marriage and family take more than school degrees.

Love, patience, tolerance and submission are not taught in the four walls of any school.

I wish I read this three days earlier. She has spent almost #200k in enrolling at one school of health to get a Diploma degree, I guess she's doing it for me but to me, that money is important for sth else. Her head may not carry what they are teaching her

God bless you. Thanks alot

Jeremani:
I been think say na advice u dey find, you for tell me say na debate u come do

Lol. Thanks for the advise bro. The way u guys shifted attention from the fact that she she LIED about her age to me and that educability reduces with increase in age

ceede2:
A dog that's a about to lost will never listing to the witsle of hunter. I thought you have a good intentions but with this statement



I rest my case.

Chai. Alili

shaybebaby:
Because she hasn't been exposed to it. On side note, what have you done with your "exposure"?

Lol. Its a Scamproof against Fraudsters

Les:
that girl only likes u because of marriage, after marriage, her real color will come out. What if u didn't find out her real age? Is that how u will start ur married life based on deceit?

Exactly my thoughts earlier but she has not shown any form of Insubordination or arrogance with me.

when2:
Pls free her. From your write up, it shows that you don't love her. You are only attracted to her money. Discontinue the relationship and return all what she has given to you. Go and look for your fellow graduate and marry. So that she can meet the person that is meant for her. Your type will be insulting her in marriage, for being an illiterate whenever both of you have a misunderstanding. Pls free her, and save her the headache.

Its true I do troll her, but nowadays I caution myself from using derogatory words on her, eventhough it was to sit her up, but I noticed that it kills her spirit each time I remind her of her level of education.

Imagine I asked her if she would like to give birth abroad, and alas she doesn't know why people travel to give birth abroad. She doesn't know about CITIZENSHIP BY BIRTH in d UK and US

Truvelisback:
Forget abt the age difference. I wanna ask u, What does her educational qualification has to do with ur marriage with her?

So if am to contest for a governor, would you like to have an illiterate as your First lady?

She's docile, easy kowtowed, not firm. She can easily be duped and vindictive

airminem:
Dude you are greedy, Because people like you keep coming into her life, wasting her time and her resources. Kindly don't waste her time anymore if you can't be useful to her future. You don't even reason like a responsible man. 30years acting like 21 age ? What kindda men we have these days??

Lol. Am a responsible man. She LIED.
I felt she planned to coerce me into marrying her by reducing her age. I had told my mum she's 5months older and my mum wasn't really in support of that until she heard how supportive she has been to me when I was indebted, my mum kept mute since then.

silvoclaira:
Troll Aswear you be MUMU like MALAMI

I wish u are in my shoes to feel my pains. Nigeria is rugged and fear of hunger has caused alot of damages.

This is a girl that hid her real age from me for almost a year, why wouldn't I be disappointed in her

Jeremani:
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Bro leave all this plenty talk.
if u have money having a home teacher won't be a bad idea.

Moreover our parents didn't attend any School, but look at us today we are their pride.

If u don't love her refund her things and see her marrying a better man than u

Gone are their days. We're in contemporary times

Truvelisback:
So, what's ur take abt her? Do u have interest in her or not?

I have interest in her but I wish am older than her and she has a Diploma at least. I know I may get a slot to employe someone in future but she wouldn't be qualified. I have Msc but all she got is WAEC, which she didn't sit for herself

airminem:
You can imagine

Lol

Truvelisback:
Op, If u don't want her, give me number. Atleast, she is Dutiful, hardworking and intelligent. To crown it all, she is financially independent.This is my kind of lady. Op, send me her Number if u aren't interested in her.

Calm down bro
As a handsome guy, My fellas would be expecting to marry a slay queen. But some wud be disappointed to see she an average looking young girl, tho she has money cos her job gave her the leverage and it's sickening Monday-Saturday

endsarrrs:
BS
FVCK OFF. LEAVE THE GIRL SO A BETTER CAN HAVE HER. TIME WASTER

It could be she did those things she did for me cos she is damn desperate. FYI, HER TWO YOUNGER SISTERS ARE MARRIED

ceede2:
calculate that 125k X the No of years you date her, with the latest product of that same phone she gave you. Thats the interest

You smell food wey you no go chop make another man chop am.

Lol

Bigpapi:
Golddigger

I accept. Is that ur final advice?

shaybebaby:
I'm not sure the quality of education you received from your graduate studies is significantly better than hers with the badly written post you have up there.

I'd say she is more intelligent than you are because she has managed to do MORE than you with less opportunities.

So nah, she IS better than you, seems to brains and heart. From your OP, I'm hard pressed to find your use in her life. It seems one sided, from her to you. And now you have the guts to question whether she is good enough because she hasn't got a degree? GTFOH!

Direct her to this post let me talk some sense to her.

She doesn't know what a Forum or Blog is eventho she has an Android phone. I just taught her how to shortcut to screenshot with it recently

Prayfortheworld:
Help her grow academically and otherwise, she will be grateful to you forever.

When she dy help you with money to clear debt and buy car you no know say she be illiterate oh, e don reach marriage matter you don dy contemplate

You don chop her money na so na do or die affair now

I swear, I don't want to marry her out of pity

airminem:
A whole cashier in a popular market with finances and properties..wow
That hardworking girl is achieving more than you guy and she will be supportive.
Imagine her 5years from now!

You are even adding to her LOW SELF ESTEEM.
Work with that girl. Blend her to what you want her to be jarey.

You want a partner that brings something to the table, you come get one girl and now you say she be illiterate, she no know anything!

BTW, a cashier no fit be illiterate na, at least she attended basics.

I can't post her on Facebook cos she lacks swags and her face depicts 'illiteracy' somewhat

Jeremani:
Bro there's nothing wrong with u for thinking like This, is normal. Amidst all this marriage wahala.

But y not look at other quality asiide education.
If she can read there's nothing bad there.

Is kinda romantic when u sit her down to tutor her in area u think she is lacking.

All I will I will say is, if u love her y not wife her.

You're right

ceede2:
when a man get to this conclusion battle line has been drawn.

I want to enjoy my youthful wife and also post us on social media proudly

Jeremani:
Bro there's nothing wrong with u for thinking like This, is normal. Amidst all this marriage wahala.

But y not look at other quality asiide education.
If she can read there's nothing bad there.

Is kinda romantic when u sit her down to tutor her in area u think she is lacking.

All I will I will say is, if u love her y not wife her.

What will become of my children with that kind of woman. Who can't use English bfir a straight 30mins and can't construct a plain one without using Erhm Erhm erhn, Asin as in as in.

Reminderz:
hmm I can see where you're coming from. people can now judge that you're now the problem. if it was a woman that was attracted to you because of this, people like you will tag her a gold digger or ashawo..

Yes am not hiding d fact that she's hardworking and can build a home. She got another one plot all in Karu close to Abuja. But they ain't in my name rather.

The point is that is 2years older, I turned 30 in August and she's heading to 33 in March, 2022. And academically, she's a docile

ceede2:
she support you to where you are right now bro, never bit a finger that fed you.

Put your self in her shoe and be honest to yourself.

That's why I felt like refunding her 125k balance and the phone she gave me to be using when I lost mine, the time I discovered she's 2years older than me instead of d presumed 5months. March- mine is August

airminem:
A whole cashier in a popular market with finances and properties..wow
That hardworking girl is achieving more than you guy and will be supportive.
Imagine her 5years from now!

You are even adding to her LOW SELF ESTEEM.
Work with that girl. Blend her to what you want her to be jarey.

You want a partner that brings something to the table, you come get one girl and now you say she be illiterate, she no know anything!

BTW, a cashier no fit be illiterate na, at least she attended basics.

She not an illiterate when it comes with money o. counts atlesst 800k daily as cash.

She Owns 6plots of land too early dis year. That was d discovery that attracted me to her

Prayfortheworld:
Help her grow academically and otherwise, she will be grateful to you forever.

When she dy help you with money to clear debt and buy car you no know say she be illiterate oh, e don reach marriage matter you don dy contemplate

You don chop her money na so na do or die affair now

We can only hope and pray she grows academically at 32 going to 33. What will she teach my kids? Is it BODMAS. who will do their assignments??

ceede2:
If you dare leave that girl with your stupidity, when she was supporting financially you didn't c that, you getting on your fit now the next thing is to discover her loopholes. If you could turn back the hand of time.

My headache is that in d next 6years she would be clocking around 40