ceede2:
A dog that's a about to lost will never listing to the witsle of hunter. I thought you have a good intentions but with this statement



I rest my case.

Chai. Alili

Impecca:

Gone are their days. We're in contemporary times

I been think say na advice u dey find, you for tell me say na debate u come do

Impecca:

Exactly my thoughts earlier but she has not shown any form of Insubordination or arrogance with me.

what do u understand when I said it's after marriage her real colours will come out? She's dishonest. However it's ur live bro.

Impecca:

Its true I do troll her, but nowadays I caution myself from using derogatory words on her, eventhough it was to sit her up, but I noticed that it kills her spirit each time I remind her of her level of education.

Imagine I asked her if she would like to give birth abroad, and alas she doesn't know why people travel to give birth abroad. She doesn't know about CITIZENSHIP BY BIRTH in d UK and US

And with all your exposure, you didn't know that CITIZENSHIP BY BIRTH stopped in the UK in the early 1980's.

Bruh dey there dey carry graduate like u matter for head like gala, wetin i fit talk be say shey suffer no dey taya u BTW who her state governor name epp? Bruh, your work na to configure her to your taste if indeed u "loved" her. Dem no dey tell pesin finish. Enuff said.

Use ur tongue to count ur teeths. . .

Jeremani:

I been think say na advice u dey find, you for tell me say na debate u come do

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Impecca:

We can only hope and pray she grows academically at 32 going to 33. What will she teach my kids? Is it BODMAS. who will do their assignments??

Selfish you! Hey, in most stable marriages, check carefully, there is always only one brainy partner (the wife or the husband). What even stops you from assisting your kids with their assignments?
Let me tell you, two equally brilliant people can hardly stay in marriage peacefully. Research what I just told you.

She needs a little brushing. Leave academic papers aside. You should be her tutor. Since she loves you, she will learn things quickly from you. Stop trying to force her back to some school. That's where you will hit a brick wall. Marriage and family take more than school degrees.

Love, patience, tolerance and submission are not taught in the four walls of any school.

Jeremani:

I been think say na advice u dey find, you for tell me say na debate u come do

Lol. Thanks for the advise bro. The way u guys shifted attention from the fact that she she LIED about her age to me and that educability reduces with increase in age

mastermaestro:


Selfish you! Hey, in most stable marriages, check carefully, there is always only one brainy partner (the wife or the husband). What even stops you from assisting your kids with their assignments?
Let me tell you, two equally brilliant people can hardly stay in marriage peacefully. Research what I just told you.

She needs a little brushing. Leave academic papers aside. You should be her tutor. Since she loves you, she will learn things quickly from you. Stop trying to force her back to some school. That's where you will hit a brick wall. Marriage and family take more than school degrees.

Love, patience, tolerance and submission are not taught in the four walls of any school.

I wish I read this three days earlier. She has spent almost #200k in enrolling at one school of health to get a Diploma degree, I guess she's doing it for me but to me, that money is important for sth else. Her head may not carry what they are teaching her

God bless you. Thanks alot

Teripaul:
Use ur tongue to count ur teeths. . .

I don't want to sseek advise from my family cos I don't want my siblings to disrespect her in future incase we got married

shaybebaby:

And with all your exposure, you didn't know that CITIZENSHIP BY BIRTH stopped in the UK in the early 1980's.

Birth CERTIFICATE nko?
Thanks alot sha

Impecca:

So if am to contest for a governor, would you like to have an illiterate as your First lady?

She's docile, easy kowtowed, not firm. She can easily be duped and vindictive

I will proudly have her as my First lady. U may be educated but u sound immature. She may not be an educated person but she is a learned person.

Impecca:

Birth CERTIFICATE nko?
Thanks alot sha

Lmao! Look at you exposing your lack of exposure after castigating someone else.

That do you mean by " BIRTH CERTIFICATE nko"?
What about it?

Impecca:

I wish I read this three days earlier. She has spent almost #200k in enrolling at one school of health to get a Diploma degree, I guess she's doing it for me but to me, that money is important for sth else. Her head may not carry what they are teaching her

God bless you. Thanks alot

And you too! You are welcome.

Truvelisback:
I will proudly have her as my First lady. U may be educated but u sound immature. She may not be an educated person but she is a learned person.

Hmmmm ok o

I have a degree and a master. I'm currently running CITN. I work and earn a bit above decent pay. I am comfortable in my little way. Please send me her number. All I need from her is a little connection and vibe and we would be married before Christmas.

You see eh, you will never know what you have until you have achieved your goals and cant find anyone who genuinely love you beside you. I am not bad looking and I get all the attention I can desire but deep in my heart I know non of the people who say love truly mean love. I was also once reckless like you and I lost someone who was there for me even when I had no job.

If that girl had all the education and came in perfect shape, you would be useless to her. Her illiteracy is an opportunity you should take advantage of and fix if it is such a huge problem for you. Take her places and let her learn from you and those experiences. Receive brain bro.

Impecca:

My headache is that in d next 6years she would be clocking around 40

Age shouldn't be a problem if she doesn't look it

Those with caps don't have heads and those with heads don't have caps

TEMP12345:
I have a degree and a master. I'm currently running CITN. I work and earn a bit above decent pay. I am comfortable in my little way. Please send me her number. All I need from her is a little connection and vibe and we would be married before Christmas.

You see eh, you will never know what you have until you have achieved your goals and cant find anyone who genuinely love you beside you. I am not bad looking and I get all the attention I can desire but deep in my heart I know non of the people who say love truly mean love. I was also once reckless like you and I lost someone who was there for me even when I had no job.

If that girl had all the education and came in perfect shape, you would be useless to her. Her illiteracy is an opportunity you should take advantage of and fix if it is such a huge problem for you. Take her places and let her learn from you and those experiences. Receive brain bro.

God bless you bro

You're the illiterate here bruh. Calling someone who can read and write "illiterate"

flakkybakky:
Age shouldn't be a problem if she doesn't look it

People that have 'spiritual' eyes say she looks it. Infact one doctor advised me to go for Fertility Test like Pelvic Scan due to Fibroids growth dat hinders fertility

Someodds:
You're the illiterate here bruh. Calling someone who can read and write "illiterate"

Illiterate is not just about reading and writing. If we're seeing an American movie together, she barely hear them

nzeobi:
Exposure is better than some paper qualifications.
Education is meant to reform but the mentality of some so called graduates in Nigeria shows that paper qualifications should never be a deciding factor in certain issues

Truer words and to think Nigerians go school pass yet no positive impact on society.

Impecca:

People that have 'spiritual' eyes say she looks it. Infact one doctor advised me to go for Fertility Test like Pelvic Scan due to Fibroids growth dat hinders fertility

then i am speechless,guess u know all u want nd need in a life partner but nature dey always give US a big blow so U CAN'T HAVE IT ALL

Impecca:

Lol. Thanks for the advise bro. The way u guys shifted attention from the fact that she she LIED about her age to me and that educability reduces with increase in age

You are not a straight person to start with.You are negative but you re not sure of letting go for fear of losing all her benefits. Kindly leave the poor woman alone for somebody that values her.

Be there deceiving yourself that "she can easily be cowed" . Try say " I do" so she can show you her true colors.....boys of nowadays over-believing their self, Na you be the wife just know first.

Impecca:
Good day all, am a young man, a graduate who's scared of poverty, marrying liability and not been able to carter for my unborn kids. Am deeply confused on wether to go ahead with my plans of getting married to this lady late next year, I have known her since December 2020. My year of birth is 1991 and she told me she's also '91. Tho she gave me gap of 4months+. But we were both cool and getting along. Until I discover she LIED

She's not a graduate but hardworking. She Sees plenty money due to her job as a cashier at a popular market for marketers and it gave her the leverage. She has helped me financially.. in securing my first car, borrowed me my current phone n several other financial assistances. She owns 6plots of land from the proceeds she get at her workplace. I own just one plot as a public servant of 3years.

The only problem about her is that she is an illiterate and has low self-esteem and a can easily be cowed. OH YES kinda girl. No sense of objectivity and criticism. Who doesn't even know the name of her state governor.

So just last weekend, when I advised her to enroll in one school of health since she has a WAEC result she bought with money and because I know she can't make it through the university even when offered free admission. I discovered her real year of birth is 1989 against the 1991 she told me at d onset. You can't really guess her age though, cos of her moderate body size and yellow skin. Lol

Please I need advise, she has apologized but I am deeply confused if I should let her know my stand towards her. I felt disappointed ND the urge to unrope myself from whatever unwritten understanding I had with her during the time she has helped me.
Please I need your advice

NB: Her two immediate younger siblings are married and could be the reason for her desperation and d love she has shown to me financially.

Impecca:

Illiterate is not just about reading and writing. If we're seeing an American movie together, she barely hear them

Man you can groom her to be a better woma. You'll be surprised.

shaybebaby:

Because she hasn't been exposed to it. On side note, what have you done with your "exposure"?

I tire oh, she just needs to change her circle and that's it. Also make up her mind and desire a change in knowledge and speaking. Change of environment can also help.

School can even be a waste of time if she is studying what never intends to use, a cashier like her should just probably go into something related to accounting professionally and not a BSC, because that's where she would get the nitty gritty of the work and learn from real life professionals, not to be cramming Frank Wood's Accounting book for exams upandan.

truthsayer009:


I tire oh, she just needs to change her circle and that's it. Also make up her mind and desire a change in knowledge and speaking. Change of environment can also help.

School can even be a waste of time if she is studying what never intends to use, a cashier like her should just probably go into something related to accounting professionally and not a BSC, because that's where she would get the nitty gritty of the work and learn from real life professionals, not be cramming Frank Wood's Accounting book for exams.

Absolutely. She has good business acumen. Further learning can only enhance her interest talent and help her build skills.

She sounds like she has a lot of potential. More than the op that is belittling her.

TEMP12345:
I have a degree and a master. I'm currently running CITN. I work and earn a bit above decent pay. I am comfortable in my little way. Please send me her number. All I need from her is a little connection and vibe and we would be married before Christmas.

You see eh, you will never know what you have until you have achieved your goals and cant find anyone who genuinely love you beside you. I am not bad looking and I get all the attention I can desire but deep in my heart I know non of the people who say love truly mean love. I was also once reckless like you and I lost someone who was there for me even when I had no job.

If that girl had all the education and came in perfect shape, you would be useless to her. Her illiteracy is an opportunity you should take advantage of and fix if it is such a huge problem for you. Take her places and let her learn from you and those experiences. Receive brain bro.

Lmaooo, this is funny because it's so true. People usually think others are mumu or they can't see better men in front of them. Omo if she was speaking queens English or graduated from a proper school, this poster wouldn't even be able to say "Hello". She no go even answer.

Impecca:

What will become of my children with that kind of woman. Who can't use English bfir a straight 30mins and can't construct a plain one without using Erhm Erhm erhn, Asin as in as in.

Many parents who didn't even go to school have graduates today as children so perish that archaic thinking. Many of us here and maybe even including you have or had parents or a parent who didn't go to school but many of us here are intellectuals.
Many traders for example can barely construct good English sentences but have managed to build businesses and train their children in school. Go to the South East and see many of them as importers and retailers.
If you don't want to marry her then it is your choice but don't look for ridiculous reasons like this.