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@nwaotu10

Same scenario no difference

Mine always happen when i masturbate. Exactly the same kind of dream seeing myself in secondary school

It has stopped since I stopped masturbation

Masturbation is dangerous please let no one encourage it.

There's no difference between drug addict and someone addicted to pornography

slickycee:
Before you can overcome an Addiction , you'll need to resolve unhealed truama, boredom, loneliness, self hatred etc.

Addiction is just a coping mechanism !!

You're not the first to be sexually compulsive and you won't be the last.

From your write up I can deduce you have issues with self love and self image.


Do you know why it's the most degrading women you go for
Because you don't think you deserve the best , there's an overwhelming Shame around you.

Bro, only you with God can help you.
Not friends or family..

Work on yourself, resolve all you unhealed truama

You need to start shadow work.
Were you always humiliated as a child
Were you molested as a child
Were you constantly embarrassed Everytime you expressed anger
Were you always given the worst part of anything



Bro it's time to get to know yourself intimately .

All those past shames you've buried in your mind

All those lies you've acceoted as truth, you need to revisit them


I hope you find yourself !!!
I hope you don't hate yourself
I hope that the next time you're angry , you express it by going to the gym or kneeling to pray about your suffering.


I hope one day you wake up and realize you actually have a choice

Just because things have been a certain way in the past doesn't mean they can't change.

Above all, love yourself and always go for the best !!!
Even if you want to waste money on brothel, waste it on the best , because you're a person deserving of love and the best.


If you want to understand your problem better.
Go and read outside shadows by PhD Dr Patrick Carnes


You would cry reading the book, but it would eventually set you free.
All the best.


And never isolate yourself, that's how the devil cut your access from help.
If possible make friends with the ladies you sleep with.
You can also call someone on your contacts everyday just to check up on them.

Just call one person daily.

If possible publicly talk about your addiction to your friends, the good ones.


They would help and encourage you.
All the best

Deep bro