₦airaland Forum

Well I'm 32,  Though I'm told I don't look older than 20. Don't feel much older either! Seriously!

Nigerian men:  loud n proud
                        Religious
                        Always smiling
                        Likes to dress the part
                        Flashy
                        Has a unique way of handling people (maybe the accent is to
                        blame)
                        Overly trusting of people

I hope they aren't to rare. Stimulate my mind first, then my body will follow! I'd rather have a less attractive guy with brains,  Then a blank minded stud in bed! If that's all he got,  Relationship wouldn't last long.

Nothing wrong with being submissive,  I'm the same. It's fine aslong as RESPECT is there. That's the key to everything in my opinion.

Well my dad wasn't there,  Just my mom and I. Also my mother turned to me and said "he's sweet on you" after we left. It was funny she thought he was well mannered towards her. And no wasn't complaining about anything,  Actually trying to get a feel of how a Nigerian man thinks. Mind you,  I'm not Nigerian or black. Hope I'm still welcome here.

I should of added he asked if it was ok to say I look good, He asked my mom this before he repeated it 3 times within 20 minutes to me. Why would he feel he need permission to compliment me?

The nephew of the Nigerian guy I spoke of a few days ago went to my mom and asked her if I had a boyfriend,  Then the next day when he saw me he made me blush while telling me how good I look! I mean c'mon,  Nigerian men accents whoa! Anyhow why would he ask my mom if I had a boyfriend?? Does that mean he's interested?  And I'm an adult by the way.

Sorry for the random questions!

I'd rather wait till after marriage,  I personally believe in or HOPE to find mr right and stay with him forever. I don't like the idea of being turned on and off like a light switch. I hope to be turned on once and forever stay that way(with the same person)

Just my two cents worth,  Lalala

What does it mean when a man, yoruba, From Nigeria uses the word darling alot towards you? I mean seriously, The accent is hot! "dar-ling".

Was just wondering because he prays in a christian manner, Is a pastor at a church, yet calls himself a Muslim. It's so confusing, But I love the way he uses his native lango in prayer.

Thanks for responding,

How can someone be a pastor and Muslim at the same time? He's Yoruba,  Nigerian but lives in the US. Anyone have an opinion? Hmmmm.