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KashyBaby:
juz walked by...

to where?

Compliments Nlanders,
I must say its been nice talking with those who called, I appreciate you time. Unfortunately I'm begining to be skeptic about finding a serious choice on this forum as a result of questions raised on my mind. I've tried to study attitudes from various conversations had, and all I have deduced is lack of maturity and unseriousness which makes relying on forums become a mere joking matter! Its sad to note that an average Nigerian lady is bereft of initiating an intelligent conversation.They lack the ability to see and share with you important issues of life that need to be talked about, they rather see mere recharge cards and their personal selfish needs as foremost matters that must be talked about, and that is all they begin to ask from you. These ladies are not unemployed. they have good jobs in corporate organizations and claim to be responsible, but it becomes disheartening when their unreasonable and selfish demands contradict their so-called image and reputations they claim. Personally I'm not a fan of invisible friendship. I wonder why any form of monetary transactions should be made between people who have not had any physical meeting, in the cyber world that is full of fakers fraudsters
It is not bad for a man to meet genuine need of a lady at the beginning, but when this become their regular stock-in-trade, then I simply put it that some Nigerian ladies gullible and are not fit to make good wives. Its high time our ladies change this awkward mentality and learn to be serious. They should learn from civilized countries about the rudiments of making a relationship to work, and the apportioning of responsibilities between both parties, and affectionate tendencies that prove they are human.
I believe there are still genuine and serious minded ladies, and that is who I want. Or please nairalanders, is this the only way to find a genuine Nigerian girl? please I need an answer.

nice post. please keep up the good work brother, let these small minds who already see themselves as failures in life realize that they can still carve a niche. its not too late.

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I've been out of relationship for years and in my 30s. I decided to be alone because I don't want to be heart broken, but time and age are factors making me to have a second thought about relationship. I need a better part of me to rejuvenate my life, I need a mature lady for a lifetime relationship. I have a flair for down-to-earth and pretty lady, mature, graduate, working class, intelligent and responsible lady, and mostly, she should be sexually attractive. I don't discriminate tribe so any tribe is welcome. I presently reside in lagos. If you are the right lady, please reply with your number on this thread, I will delete it off the thread once taken, to ensure your privacy. you can also add me on bbm:5618c8f6.
Please and please, I don't want gamers and heart breakers, scammers please keep off.
Thank you.